Part 4/4 of the 'Truth About Honesty' Q&A Series...

3 more men's questions on the role of honesty in their relationships with women. Today:

> Why it's always harder to speak your truth around the most beautiful women, and how to practice stepping into your power
> The role of 'banter', and why when many men and women seem to be playing games, maybe they're actually not
> How to show up in your masculine power and your full sexuality... without seeming like a creep (a few new perspectives as an introduction!)

Enjoy, and please post your comments on the show -
If you liked this, let me know... and I will do more!

Truth About Honesty Q&A Part 4

Here’s a question I think most dating coaches are keen to avoid:

"Jordan, do you have any insights on equating love of your mother with loving all women?"

I certainly do - check out today's Q&A to find out. Here's something different - I'm very curious to hear your response!


Equating Your Love For Women With Your Love For "Mother"(!)

Another great question from our mailbag:

"I strive for good and honest conversations. Often they have quite a heavy feeling to it because they are so deep.  I wish I could sometimes connect to people in a way that is both easygoing and refreshingly honest.  You know ways to do this?"

Of course! Check out today's episode and find out.


How To Be Honest With Women... Without Being Heavy And Serious

Today's Question:

"Since I am twenty or thirty years older than the women to whom I am attracted, ( I've heard Zan's interview on this), but I revise my words and don't state exactly what I want.

What do you do with women who try to act very childish and kind of bratty (turn offs), but you know they like you and are interested in you? Also, what do you do with women who act like they like you, but they really don’t?"

Listen in for my answers... plus a little treat at the end ;)

Dealing With Younger Women When You're An Older, More Powerful Man

Today's (vital, crucial) Question:

""Insecurity & dying of a relationship". I'd like to know some perspectives & tools on what to look for, for revival of two people & the relationship. I'm sort of familiar with Zane box analogy but I want to know more in depth."

I explain: 

> How to know if your relationship is dying from a "natural course" or a "human cause", and what to do to give intimacy one last try.

Insecurity & The Dying Of A Relationship

I describe how my journey from falling in love has gone from one of falling in love in private, out of connection...

... to one of noticing when I'm falling in love, and sharing it with her in the moment, as it happens.

The difference? All the magic in the world.

This level of presence and awareness can be trained. Link to the full version of this interview (with Knut Johannessen) will be placed inside the Way of the Amorati online course.

www.arsamorata.com/jordan

How To Fall In Love... And Catch It In The Moment

The Ars Amorata Podcast is Back!

It’s been a little while since the last one, but today we’ve released a new episode with 75 minutes of audio pleasure for you 😉

What’s in this episode?

Well this time, Knut interviews me about the incredible learning journey I’ve had over the past three years in the land of women.

In 2013 I spent many months sharing an apartment with Zan as he was putting together the last pieces of The Alabaster Girl. Naturally, at the time I absorbed as much knowledge about women, romance and seduction from him as I possibly could.

Imagine... we lived together, partied together, and discussed these things every day.

But the only thing I couldn’t seem to learn quickly during that time was how to hone my intuition. It was the final thing I couldn’t learn directly from Zan: how to tune into the all-important subtleties of the dance of seduction, not just theoretically but practically, in my own body. And I didn’t want to spend 20 years sat on the corner of the bar, slowly trying to build my intuition about women!

So I asked myself many questions: 

How do I develop powerful intuition? How can I learn how to *feel* seduction, as it unfolds in the moment - and not have it be so much of a guessing game? And how can I speed this whole process up?!

So my quest over the past three years has been all about learning to tap into my intuition, into the subtleties of the dance of seduction, and dare I say… being able to “see the invisible”.

It’s been about speeding up that journey from being the apprentice, to being a master.

>>> On This Episode <<<

> My first experiences of falling in love and learning to ‘catch it in the moment’ (as opposed to falling in love weeks later, all alone, and ‘out of connection’ with her).

> The nature of intimacy: seduction as a shared, slowed-down and in-the-moment experience that we can taste and savour like a fine wine.

> Why, even when you think you’re speaking your truth, it doesn’t land very powerfully with her!

> "Sex FM" - how to develop the 'radio antenna' within you that let’s you know when there’s sexual (and/or emotional) chemistry with her.

> The most dramatic shift that’s happened in my personal relationships over the last couple of years.

> Our new, much more powerful update on the concept, “beauty needs a witness”.

> On healing the energetic and emotional blocks - the traumas - which stop the flow of connection and intuition between men and women.

> Plus, what I think is the *one big thing* that multiplies the power of every concept in The Alabaster Girl by a multiple of 10!

Knut last interviewed me back in 2014, and it was funny for both of us to turn back the clock and talk about just how much our outlook of men and women has evolved over just a couple of years. 

I’d love to hear your comments and reflections about the show - write in the comments below, or at jordan@arsamorata.com. If anything doesn’t quite make sense and you want to understand it more, I’d be happy to follow up with you.

Towards the end of the episode we also talk about our live transformational training programmes. If you get a sense that this is something you want to do, get in touch with me.

Enjoy!

The Ars Amorata Podcast

Ars Amorata Podcast 013 - Intuition, Embodiment, And The Wine Connoisseurs Of Seduction

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