Casey Donatello is a married, non-monogamous author and podcast host who embraces the Hotwife lifestyle. She is passionate about supporting others on their journey to becoming more confident and unapologetic in their lives and their sexual choices. In today’s episode, she shares her process of recognizing and pursuing a relationship dynamic and sexual lifestyle that she finds most fulfilling. We also discuss how she found a partner who aligned with her vision for life and sex and how they deal with jealousy, communication, and rule-setting as they cultivate partner-sharing experiences. Casey also offers practical wisdom on entering the Hotwife lifestyle, pleasing your partner orally, and embracing all aspects of yourself through nudism, content creation, and fulfilling sexual encounters. Tune in to hear all this and more from today’s candid and sexually empowered guest! &nbsp; Key Points From This Episode: •&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;  An overview of Casey Donatello and her introduction to the Hotwife lifestyle. •&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;  Her relationship journey leading up to her current marriage. •&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;  Jealousy in the Hotwife lifestyle and how her dates are structured. •&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;  Rule-setting and the feedback process. •&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;  Tips for those looking to pursue a Hotwife lifestyle. •&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;  Why it’s essential to share your sexual aspirations with a potential partner. •&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;  Casey’s opinion on how to give your partner a good blow job! •&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;  Advice for finding the confidence to talk dirty. •&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;  Our guest weighs in on whether or not size matters. •&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;  Advice for . •&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;  Why Casey doesn’t edit any of her content. •&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;  How public nudism has supported Casey to find body confidence. •&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;  Tips for women who are hoping to squirt. •&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;  Casey’s complex journey into the lifestyle. •&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;  The story behind Casey’s four books. &nbsp; Quotes: “[Hotwifing] is completely different than a regular threesome. Sometimes, it’s hard for people to understand how three people isn’t always the same equation. But it really isn’t.” [0:05:50] &nbsp; “It’s like putting your relationship in a pressure cooker when you invite other people into your bed.” [0:08:26] &nbsp; “There’s no right or wrong to what you are interested in. It’s just that you and your partner [have to] agree on it.”&nbsp;[0:19:06] &nbsp; “A lot of times, people don’t want to talk about sex when they’re having sex, but that’s the best time.”&nbsp;[0:30:53] &nbsp; “If you absolutely hate something or it hurts you, speak up! Don’t let somebody hurt your body because you don’t want to hurt their feelings.” [0:31:22] &nbsp; Links Mentioned in Today’s Episode: Casey Donatello —   Casey Donatello on Instagram —  Casey Donatello on X —   In Bed Podcast&nbsp;—  In Bed with Strangers —  Scarlet Surrenders —&nbsp; Scarlet Swings Higher —  Bad Girls Bible Newsletter —  &nbsp; Other Episodes You Might Enjoy: #31 How To Fix A Sexless Marriage &amp; Reignite Fiery Passion with Laurie Watson  #34 The Secret To Reaching Orgasm During Sex with Laurie Mintz, Ph.D.  #29 Experience Squirting Orgasms with Female Orgasm Expert, Jason Julius

#49 Deep Throating Tips, Becoming A Hotwife & Being Confident Riding Your Man With Casey Donatello

Cuckolding is a controversial sexual practice that is totally misunderstood but it can actually be a really great addition to the right kind of relationship!&nbsp; Today on the podcast we are joined by cuckolding expert, Venus Cuckoldress to debunk cuckolding myths, hear about the realities of it, and get some tips for incorporating it into our own relationships. In this episode, you will hear all about how Venus was introduced to cuckolding, starting her cuckolding blog and podcast, the reality of cuckolding in a healthy relationship, how cucking can bring you closer to your partner, why it is a male-driven fantasy, and so much more! Venus then shares some advice and steps for anyone wanting to try cuckolding before explaining the challenges of finding a bull (third partner) and safety recommendations. We even discuss cuckqueaning, hotwifing, fantasies that don’t involve sexual intercourse, whether or not size matters, sexual denial, and the ‘vanilla’ sex life of a cuckolding couple. Finally, Venus tells us why cuckolding is a bad idea if you think it will "fix" your relationship. This episode is filled with some amazing insights into the wonders of cuckolding so be sure to tune in now! &nbsp; Key Points From This Episode: &nbsp; •&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;  How Venus discovered cuckolding. •&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;  Why she started a blog and podcast about cuckolding. •&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;  What cuckolding is in reality for people in healthy relationships. •&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;  Her first experience of ‘cucking’ her partner and how it deepened their connection. •&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;  Why cuckolding is not cheating and why men may enjoy being cuckolded by their partner. •&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;  What compersion is and how it ties into cuckolding. •&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;  Venus shares advice for any couples wanting to try cuckolding and the steps to starting. •&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;  The challenges of finding a third partner (a bull) for a cuckolding relationship. • &nbsp; &nbsp;Venus gives us some safety recommendations when trying out cuckolding. •&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;  Why creating too many rules that become hard to follow is problematic. •&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;  Cuckolding versus cuckqueaning and what hotwifing is. •&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;  How to fulfill your partner’s cuckolding fantasies without actually sleeping with another man. •&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;  The impact of making a comment about size during a cuckolding experience. •&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;  Venus tells us what her size preference is when it comes to sex. •&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;  Sexual denial in cuckolding and how most cuckold couples have a robust sex life together. •&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;  Why cuckolding is a recipe for disaster in a relationship already littered with problems. &nbsp; Quotes: &nbsp; “[Cuckolding] is not so much about just your partner watching you or listening [to] you sleeping with somebody else because that's what everybody thinks it is. It's actually really a kind of special loving relationship.”&nbsp;[0:05:20] &nbsp; “[Cuckolding] is like art, you can sculpt it exactly the way that you want, and it does not need to look like somebody else's piece of art.” [0:11:54] &nbsp; “The fun part about being the woman in a cuckolding situation is that you really do feel like you have the power and the ability to have this effect on someone that is profound.”&nbsp;[0:20:25] &nbsp; Longer Quotes: &nbsp; “If there are any new couples listening out there thinking of making this list of rules, it's okay to have them. But just keep in mind that it may not be realistic to have all of those rules. I think what's most important is that she's safe, and she's comfortable, and that she's enjoying herself. What that looks like should really be up to her.” [0:20:04] &nbsp; Links Mentioned in Today’s Episode: &nbsp; Venus —  Venus Linktree —  The Venus Cuckoldress Podcast —  Venus Connections —  Venus on X —  Venus on Instagram —  Dr. Justin...

#50 Cuckolding 101: How To Explore It & Why It Can Be Good For Your Relationship With Venus Cuckoldress

What does it really mean to be confident in the bedroom? On this episode, we are joined by Dr. Alison Ash, a trained, Trauma-Informed Intimacy Coach, Educator, and Founder of TurnON.love. Dr. Aly helped pioneer research into the orgasm gap and has written books and articles on topics ranging from pleasure in heterosexual dynamics to queer identities and experiences. Join us for an insightful conversation that touches on many different aspects of sexual relationships. From self-discovery and the co-creation process, to dealing with shame and distinguishing it from guilt, our conversation is a deep dive into the fundamental elements of healthy, fulfilling sexual experiences. Dr. Aly demystifies the complex world of intimacy and the factors that all too often stand in its way. Thanks for listening! &nbsp; Key Points From This Episode: &nbsp; •&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;  Introducing Dr. Alison Ash, Intimacy Coach, Educator, and Founder of the website, TurnON.love. •&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;  Her career journey which began in sociology before she found her true passion in education. •&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;  The constant process of self-inquiry and self-discovery necessary for fulfilling sexual experiences. •&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;  What it means to have the confidence to co-create your sexual experiences. •&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;  How shame can damage our relationship to sex and our bodies. •&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;  Empathy, reassurance, and normalization. •&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;  Differentiating between guilt and shame. •&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;  Three attributes of sex positivity. •&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;  Components that make up . •&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;  Defining boundaries according to capacity. •&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;  Tips for affirming a romantic partner. •&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;  The role of self-deprecation in preventing intimacy. •&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;  How communication can enhance emotional connection during sex. •&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;  Tips for creating safety to share with your partner. •&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;  What lies at the core of any . •&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;  Dr. Aly’s work and different options she offers for coaching and workshops.  Quotes: &nbsp; “Society at large is pretty bad at templating healthy intimacy skills, but it is a skill, like any skill, something we can get better at with proper instruction and practice.”&nbsp;[0:02:47] &nbsp; “One of the first things I tell folks is that sexual empowerment comes from knowing yourself.”&nbsp;[0:04:26] &nbsp; “Some of the best sex comes from having a mutual shared orientation towards exploring and not having to have all the answers.”&nbsp;[0:05:39] &nbsp; “So much of feeling confident and sexually liberated, and having fulfilling sex and relationships is about uncovering the things that we feel ashamed about and moving through it.” [0:08:46] &nbsp; “A lot of institutions try to teach through shame. I think it's way less effective and problematic as supposed to holding somebody with love and compassion, but still accountability for mistakes.” [0:13:59] &nbsp; “An affirmation is a compliment on steroids.” [0:21:10] &nbsp; Links Mentioned in Today’s Episode: TurnOn Love —  Dr. Alison Ash on LinkedIn —  Dr. Alison Ash on Facebook —  Dr. Alison Ash on Instagram —  Dr. Alison Ash on X —  Sexual and Emotional Intimacy Skills Mastercourse —  Sustainable Intimacy —  Bad Girls Bible Newsletter —

#54 Building Sexual Confidence and Enhancing Intimacy With Dr. Alison Ash

If you’ve been struggling to achieve a perfectly equitable marriage, you’re not alone. Research shows that even couples who prioritize equality often find themselves fighting about fairness in their relationship. That was the experience of today’s guests, Nate and Kaley Klemp, two high-achieving individuals, who started their marriage believing in a model of fairness, only to discover that, in reality, that balance was virtually impossible to achieve. It was out of this frustration that they developed what they call The 80/80 Marriage, a model rooted in radical generosity and shared success, which led to them co-authoring the New York Times bestselling book&nbsp;The 80/80 Marriage: A New Model for a Happier, Stronger Relationship. I talk with Nate and Kaley about the concept of the 80/80 marriage, why fixating on fairness doesn’t work, and how adopting a mindset of radical generosity can transform your relationship. Our conversation also gets into key aspects of their book, like being intentional about each person’s role, creating explicit values, and setting priorities and boundaries together. Join us for a fascinating conversation on equality, radical generosity, and how to strive for an 80/80 relationship! &nbsp; Key Points From This Episode: &nbsp; •&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;  Introducing today’s guests, Nate and Kaley Klemp. •&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;  The story of how they met and got married. •&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;  Why the first two years of their marriage were so challenging. •&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;  The many ways couples fight about fairness and why it causes resentment. •&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;  How they wrote the 80/80 Marriage together. •&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;  The concept of an 80/80 relationship, and how it differs from one that is 50/50. •&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;  Why it’s about striving for balance and radical generosity. •&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;  Steps to creating the right mindset for an 80/80 marriage. •&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;  How to create the structure for an 80/80 relationship. •&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;  Building a bridge between mindset and structure through values. •&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;  How to take a more intentional approach to your roles as a couple. •&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;  Setting priorities and boundaries as a couple (and why it can be so liberating). •&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;  Insights on what to do when you have an unwilling or reluctant partner. •&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;  How to approach your partner about entering an 80/80 relationship. •&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;  Nate’s new book Open: Living with an Expansive Mind in a Distracted World. &nbsp; Quotes: &nbsp; “We're really the first generation in all of human history, striving toward equal marriage.&nbsp;[0:05:39] &nbsp; “There's no such thing as 160% of anything. The whole idea is [that] it doesn't make sense, [so] strive. And then, [with] both parties striving for 80%, you land somewhere in the space of balance.” &nbsp;[0:11:18] &nbsp; “There are no good or bad, or right or wrong, values. There are known and implicit values. When you have known, or explicit, or agreed to, values, then you have a north star, where you can build the structure of your relationship. When you have implicit values, it's very challenging.” &nbsp;[0:23:54] &nbsp; “Most couples have never taken that step back and [have] never thought from an intentional place: ‘How could we redesign our roles, such that [it] really works for both of us?’”&nbsp;&nbsp;[0:28:05] &nbsp; “For many couples, when even just one person shifts to 80/80, it opens up a new space for the other person, who might be the undercontributor, to contribute more and to be generous in turn.” &nbsp;[0:37:11] &nbsp; Links Mentioned in Today’s Episode: &nbsp;           Bad Girls Bible Newsletter —

#55 How To Build A Rock Solid Marriage - Nate & Kaley Klemp

Our early experiences with primary caregivers can profoundly affect our relationships later in life — often in ways that are deeply unconscious — and it takes conscious work to change our patterns and facilitate healing. Psychotherapist, Jessica Baum, joins us today to guide us through the different attachment styles and unpack how our early experiences shape adult connections. Tuning in, you’ll learn about the differences between anxious and avoidant attachment styles, why these types tend to be drawn to one another, and how you can support your partner if they are either of these types. We discuss what secure attachment looks like, the benefits of it, and why it’s essential to have a sense of safety in your relationships. Our conversation also unpacks the importance of setting boundaries, the healing practices in Jessica’s book Anxiously Attached, and how parents can support secure attachment in their children. Tune in to learn all about relational patterns and how to embark on a journey toward healthier, more fulfilling relationships! Key Points From This Episode:  What led Jessica to the field of psychotherapy. How she came to specialize in co-dependency. Imago therapy: how it helps us heal original wounds through our relationships. What secure attachment looks like. Anxious attachment and the signs that you might have this attachment style. Steps you can take to start healing from anxious attachment. Healing practices in Jessica’s book, Anxiously Attached. Understanding how memories and original wounds are stored in the body. The importance of setting boundaries for healing to take place. Why setting boundaries requires support. Parenting styles that prevent anxious attachment in children. How parents can support a secure attachment in their child. Assessing what level of anxiety is normal (especially in our current society). The definition of avoidant attachment. Why anxious and avoidant individuals tend to be drawn to one another. How social media and dating apps could be contributing to anxious attachment. What you can do to support an anxious or avoidant partner.  Links Mentioned in Today’s Episode: Jessica Baum —&nbsp; Jessica Baum on LinkedIn —  Jessica Baum on Instagram —  Be Self-Full —  Relationship Institute of Palm Beach —   Anxiously Attached —  Imago Relationship Therapy —  Bad Girls Bible Newsletter —

#56 Understanding & Healing Anxious Attachment with Jessica Baum, LMHC, Psychotherapist

Have you ever been curious about what the  might be like? Today we sit down with Dan and Lacy from The Swing Nation Podcast to answer all your swinger-related questions. Tune in as we discuss everything, from figuring out whether the swinger lifestyle is right for you to the impact it could have on your relationship. Discover what drew Dan and Lacy to the lifestyle, their prior experiences with monogamy, and what they have learned from navigating this new world together. We discuss some of the best tips for exploring the swinger lifestyle, especially if you’re a beginner, before examining , and why honest communication is essential! You’ll also learn how to recognize signs that swinging might be right for you, along with red flags you need to know about. Tune in for a deep dive into the swinging community from experts Dan and Lacy! &nbsp; Key Points From This Episode: &nbsp;  Introducing Dan and Lacy from the Swing Nation Podcast. How Dan and Lacy found themselves involved in the swinger lifestyle together. Their experience with monogamous relationships and why they prefer the swinger lifestyle. Issues they encountered when they first started dating as swingers. Tips and advice on embarking on a journey of non-monogamy together. The benefits of taking it slow when you first start exploring the swinger lifestyle. How to recognize green flags that swinging might be right for you. Why insecurity and jealousy are normal and why good communication is essential. How swinging has benefited their relationship and communication. A breakdown of Dan and Lacy’s boundaries and how they set them. The value of having a list of rules when you’re starting out. Important red flags you should be aware of. Understanding compersion; the happiness you feel when your partner is intimate with others. How non-monogamy could change throughout your life and relationship. What led to them becoming prominent swinger influencers and educators. The type of events that Dan and Lacy host and how to join their Discord community.  &nbsp; Quotes: &nbsp; “I knew that I can be monogamous if I really wanted to. It's not natural for me. I enjoy the non-monogamous aspect much more. It was nice to find a community that we could do it safely and together in.” — Lacy&nbsp; [0:06:33] “If you want to take this journey into non-monogamy, it should be something that you're doing together to explore each other's fantasies, to improve your relationship, to improve your sex life.” — Dan [0:10:07] &nbsp; “The more you engulf yourself and experience things, I think the more you open up to new experiences.” — Dan [0:22:26] &nbsp; “The average person on OnlyFans makes $150 a month. It takes a lot of work. We have a team of people now that run mine. We have four OnlyFan pages. It's a labor of love. It's taken a lot of work. You have to be comfortable with your body and you have to set clear boundaries.” — Lacy&nbsp; [0:36:36] &nbsp; Links Mentioned in Today’s Episode: &nbsp; The Swing Nation —  Join the Swinger Society Discord Server! —  The Swing Nation Podcast on Swinger Red Flags —  The Swing Nation Podcast on Should I start a content subscription &nbsp;—  Bad Girls Bible Newsletter —

#57 How To Start Swinging, How It Improves Your Relationship & Red Flags You Must Know With Dan & Lacy From The Swing Nation

We are joined by Tyomi Morgan for a Masterclass on . Tyomi has been teaching her techniques for years and today she reveals more than 30 different methods you can use on your man tonight. We start the podcast talking about Tyomi’s background and talk a lot about . You’ll learn how to get into the right mindset so that you can enjoy giving oral sex and your partner can feel that enthusiasm. You’re also going to learn things you can do leading up to the blow job so that you’re teasing your man throughout the day, building tension, and having him crave you. Most importantly, Tyomi teaches her step-by-step techniques to use with your mouth, lips, and tongue, as well as your hands to give your partner the greatest blow job of his life. Join us today to hear all this and more!&nbsp; &nbsp; Key Points From This Episode: &nbsp;  Introducing Tyomi Morgan, her background, and how she became a sex educator and coach. Some reasons women typically don’t feel comfortable riding their man. Overcoming these reservations by connecting the body and the mind. A five-minute tutorial to find confidence and pleasure riding your man tonight. Determining whether or not oral sex is for you. Why you should never give a blow job out of obligation. Whether or not to engage your hands in the process. Having an ‘interview’ process to determine what your partner likes best. The role of teasing and how it can be a kink. Cleaning the penis and genital area. Massaging the penis and balls before giving a blow job. Making sure you have the right size of condom.&nbsp; Underrated erogenous zones: nipples and hands.&nbsp; Areas to consider when you start the blow job. Options for lubrication. Advice for anal and prostate play. How to approach  and how to take it a step further. Exercising the mouth and tongue for strength and stamina.&nbsp; Making the process more pleasurable for the giver. Approaching the end of the blow job.&nbsp;  &nbsp; Quotes: &nbsp; &nbsp; “The first thing is getting out of your head; there’s literally no one right way to do anything. It’s either pleasurable, or it’s not.”&nbsp;[0:10:13] &nbsp; “The only way we are going to bridge the orgasm gap is for women to take control of their own pleasure.”&nbsp;[0:12:55] &nbsp; “If it’s not a glide, it is not a ride.”&nbsp;[0:14:35] &nbsp; “If it feels obligatory, trust me when I tell you, the man can feel it.”&nbsp;[0:18:21] &nbsp; “Edging is definitely the ultimate tease.”&nbsp;[0:42:32] &nbsp; “What [edging] does is help a man relax into pleasure.” &nbsp;[0:48:20] &nbsp; Links Mentioned in Today’s Episode: Tyomi Morgan on Twitter — &nbsp; Tyomi Morgan on Instagram —  Tyomi Morgan on YouTube —  Tyomi Morgan Email —  Tyomi Morgan Calendly —  Blow Course —  Blow Him Away —  Bad Girls Bible Sex Positions Guide —   10 Incredible Oral Sex Positions for Wild Orgasms —  Bad Girls Bible Newsletter —

#58 31 Powerful Blow Job Tips & How To Ride Your Man Confidently With Tyomi Morgan

Performance anxiety and the inability to make a woman reach orgasm are just some of the many issues so many men struggle with in the bedroom. Today on The Bad Girls Bible, seasoned porn star and sex coach, Erik Everhard joins us to share his 10 Clit Commandments and his . Tuning in, you’ll hear all about how Erik got into porn, how to manage performance anxiety, some strategies to get erect and stay erect (including Erik’s CRUSH Protocol), how sex affects masculinity, and so much more! Erik even breaks down the 10 Clit Commandments as he shares how to perform mind-blowing oral sex and get a woman over the edge to achieve orgasm. Finally, he tells us all about his Everhard Academy and where we can learn more from him. Thanks for listening in! &nbsp; Key Points From This Episode: &nbsp;  Introducing today’s esteemed guest, Erik Everhard.&nbsp; Erik shares his journey and what led him to become a porn star.&nbsp; How to manage performance anxiety as a porn star.&nbsp; Erectile strategies someone with a penis can use to stay hard.&nbsp; The biggest mistakes guys make when trying to last longer.&nbsp; Erik shares his CRUSH Protocol for helping men stay erect.&nbsp; Why sexual prowess is ingrained in a male’s identity and masculinity.&nbsp; Erik breaks down his 10 Clit Commandments.&nbsp; How vibrators can be a man’s biggest teacher when it comes to oral sex. What the tongue compass is and how to listen to it.&nbsp; Primary cues to pay attention to when performing oral sex.&nbsp; Being effective not fancy, the danger of novelty, and why consistency is key.&nbsp; Common oral sex issues Erik sees with his clients.&nbsp;  &nbsp; Quotes: &nbsp; “Confidence is going to be a byproduct of competence.”&nbsp;[0:19:19] &nbsp; There’s no way that you can decouple your sense of masculinity from your performance in the bedroom.”&nbsp;[0:20:35] &nbsp; “Vibrators are the greatest teaching tool known to men and as men if we can look at what that vibrator is doing, we can extrapolate a lot of things from it that work on women.”&nbsp;[0:26:17] &nbsp; “Give the pussy what it needs!” &nbsp;[0:35:26] &nbsp; “It might be tough for you to get honest feedback from a woman that has an emotional connection with you.” &nbsp;[0:43:05] &nbsp; Links Mentioned in Today’s Episode: &nbsp; Erik Everhard —  Erik Everhard on LinkedIn — &nbsp; Erik Everhard on Facebook — &nbsp; Erik Everhard on Instagram — &nbsp; Erik Everhard on X — &nbsp; The Everhard Academy — &nbsp; Unleash Your Sexual Superpowers: A Porn Star’s Guide to Sexual Mastery — &nbsp; Bad Girls Bible Newsletter —

#59 Ex-Porn Star Teaches How to Get & Stay Rock Hard PLUS The 10 Clit Commandments for Men with Erik Everhard

Domination, bondage, discipline, and other sexual kinks are merely tools to aid in a story being told between sexual partners. In this episode of The Bad Girls Bible, real-life dominatrix of 13 years,&nbsp; Mistress Eva Oh joins us to discuss all things domination and share her tips for women and couples interested in these pleasures. Tuning in, you’ll hear all about how our guest became a dominatrix, how her career has helped her embrace her personality, what work is like day-to-day, and so much more! She shares (some unexpected) advice for women wanting to be more dominant sexually before telling us how couples can get into  and discipline. We even discuss the personal exploration involved in . From boundaries, to aftercare, to the traffic light and safe word system, this episode explores all things sexual domination from a realistic perspective so be sure to press play now! &nbsp; Key Points From This Episode: &nbsp;  Introducing today’s guest, real-life dominatrix, Mistress Eva Oh.&nbsp; Eva tells us about her background and how she became a dominatrix.&nbsp; What it’s like to be a dominatrix day-to-day when she started versus now.&nbsp; How being a dominatrix has helped her assert herself authentically.&nbsp; Why she doesn’t try to understand why her clients want to be dominated.&nbsp; Women wanting to be more dominant and how she suggests they achieve that.&nbsp; Eva’s advice for couples wanting to try bondage and discipline for the first time.&nbsp; How sadism is not only a sexual interaction but also a personal exploration.&nbsp; The importance of having a conversation about boundaries before trying BDSM.&nbsp; Eva explains the traffic light and  for a kinky sexual experience.&nbsp; The aftercare involved when a BDSM scene ends between sexual partners.&nbsp;  &nbsp; Links Mentioned in Today’s Episode: &nbsp; Mistress Eva Oh — &nbsp; Mistress Eva Oh on Instagram — &nbsp; Mistress Eva Oh on X — &nbsp; Mistress Eva Oh on TikTok — &nbsp; You Will Please Me — &nbsp; The Teakink Podcast — &nbsp; Bad Girls Bible Newsletter —

#60 Domination Tips from A Real-Life Dominatrix, Mistress Eva Oh

Struggling with your gag reflex during oral sex? You're not alone. Joining us today to explore the complexities of managing this reflex is Dr. Ianessa Humbert, an accomplished scientist, professor, and sought-after speaker specializing in swallowing and swallowing disorders. In this episode, Dr. Humbert breaks down the gag reflex and its triggers, before sharing her expert advice for . Join us as we unpack the various factors that can contribute to discomfort, from the sensory to the psychological, and explore practical methods for overcoming it, including calming self-talk and easily accessible relaxation techniques. We also discuss semen allergies (and aversions) and how to overcome them, before examining the physical strain involved in oral sex, , and some of the best ways to make oral sex more enjoyable for the giver. &nbsp; Key Points From This Episode: &nbsp;  Dr. Humbert’s background as a speech-language pathologist (SLP). Unpacking the gag reflex, its functions, and how it gets triggered. Practical tips for minimizing an overactive gag reflex. Using the gag reflex for pleasure during oral sex by creating natural lube. Psychological factors, and other elements, that can cause an overactive gag reflex. Using distractions, arousal, and self-talk to manage your gag reflex. How music and substances like weed can help you relax and reduce anxiety. The potential for semen allergies during oral sex (and how to overcome it). Strategies for deeper ejaculation to avoid taste buds. Avoiding numbing sprays to prevent long-term nerve damage. Tips for making oral sex more enjoyable for the giver. The importance of communication and consent in oral sex. An overview of the physical strain involved in performing oral sex. How cosmetic procedures like Botox can impact muscle function. Exploring the flexibility of the tongue in oral sex performance. Positions to reduce strain and the gag reflex during oral sex. How to get in touch with Dr. Ianessa Humbert.  Links Mentioned in Today’s Episode:  Dr. Ianessa Humbert —   Dr. Ianessa Humbert on LinkedIn —  Dr. Ianess Humbert on Instagram —  The Swallowing Wellness Center —  GULP Group YouTube — &nbsp; Bad Girls Bible Newsletter —

#61 How To Control Your Gag Reflex, Swallowing & Deep Throating With Dr. Ianessa Humbert

Hand jobs are often overlooked as an appetizer to sexual experiences when the truth is, they can lead to an incredible explosion of pleasure for anyone with a penis! In this episode of The Bad Girls Bible, sex expert Ashley Manta joins us to share her . Tuning in, you’ll gain insight into Ashley’s extensive experience working as a sexual violence counselor, a phone sex operator, and even at a Planned Parenthood clinic. You’ll find out how she became passionate about helping people improve their sex lives and how she found an amazing connection between sex and cannabis before discussing how to unlock your dirty talk voice. Ashley goes on to share some incredible hand job tips; from posture to , using two hands, why lube is essential, and much more, her tips will blow your mind! Hear all about the importance of consent and feedback, learn some amazing techniques like the “pepper grinder” and the “waterfall,” and find out how you can “bring it home" to help your partner achieve an explosive orgasm. You won’t want to miss this episode, so be sure to tune in now! &nbsp; Key Points From This Episode: &nbsp;  Ashely’s early career; from sexual violence counselor to Planned Parenthood.&nbsp; What it was like to work as a phone sex operator. How Ashley came to teach people about combining sex with cannabis.&nbsp; Advice for unlocking your dirty talk voice and gaining confidence in it.&nbsp; Why someone may opt to give their partner a hand job instead of a blow job.&nbsp; What inspired Ashley to perfect her hand job technique (and how she did it).&nbsp; How to prepare your hands for a hand job, plus some foreplay tips.&nbsp; The kinds of lube Ashley reaches for when she gives a hand job. Why a two-handed hand job is game-changing and what the “pepper grinder” is.&nbsp; The importance of feedback during a hand job and some great spots to focus on.&nbsp; Ashley describes her waterfall, bottle rocket, and lemon juicer techniques.&nbsp; Being dynamic and fluid when focusing on your partner’s sexual pleasure.&nbsp; Why Ashley doesn’t only focus on the penis during a hand job. Consent for perineum stimulation and preparing for anal stimulation. Some position and location suggestions to give your partner a mind-blowing hand job! How eye contact can enhance a hand job and how to bring it home.  &nbsp; Links Mentioned in Today’s Episode: &nbsp; Ashley Manta — &nbsp; Ashley Manta on Facebook — &nbsp; Ashley Manta on Instagram — &nbsp; Ashley Manta on X — &nbsp; Elevated Intimacy — &nbsp; Sex: How Cannabis, CBD, and Other Plant Allies Can Improve Your Everyday Life — &nbsp; Betty Martin: The Wheel of Consent — &nbsp; Bad Girls Bible Newsletter —

#62 27 Hand Job Tips to Make Him Explode with Ashley Manta

Oral sex is one of the most commonly performed sexual activities, but that doesn’t necessarily mean that it comes naturally to everyone! To talk about how to up your blow job game and teach you orgasmic techniques to make your man explode, we are joined by the incredible Samia Burton. Samia is a dynamic sexual educator with a proven track record of success backed up by tens of thousands of online followers.&nbsp;As the host of Not Just Another Sex Podcast and founder of Sexual Essentials, she takes an unconventional approach to sexual education by offering hands-on sex workshops, including her infamous MouthMasterclass, centered around building confidence and learning new techniques in a 100% judgment-free zone. In this episode, Samia shares some titillating tips for giving (and receiving) mind-blowing oral, from speaking openly about your preferences to creating a sensual atmosphere, getting into character, , and so much more. To get your PhD in sucking dick, be sure to tune in today! &nbsp; Key Points From This Episode: &nbsp;  Why Samia started Sexual Essentials and chose to take a hands-on approach. Tips for those who lack confidence or don’t enjoy . How to tease and  throughout the day. The importance of open, honest communication (and how it can be super hot!) Sensual suggestions to increase enjoyment for blow job givers and receivers. A full five senses guide to setting the mood for mind-blowing oral. Reasons to switch it up and try new techniques. Different kinds of blow jobs and the power of getting into character. Pleasure versus orgasm: how edging can improve your blow jobs. Advice for blow job givers to be more dominant or submissive. How proper personal hygiene is an extension of great sex. Saucy finishing moves that really add the “wow” factor! Why just being willing to try new things and improve is a major turn-on.  &nbsp; Links Mentioned in Today’s Episode: &nbsp; Sexual Essentials —  Sexual Essentials Masterclasses —  MouthMasterclass —  Not Just Another Sex Podcast —  Something Extraordinary Content House —  Samia Burton on YouTube —  Samia Burton on Instagram —  Samia Burton on TikTok — &nbsp; Samia Burton on X —  Samia Burton LinkTree — &nbsp; Charlie the Van on Instagram —  Bad Girls Bible Newsletter —

#63 19 Orgasmic Blow Job Techniques to Make Your Man Explode with Samia Burton

Welcome to the very first episode of the Bad Girls Bible podcast. In this episode, I interview Scot McKay from X&Y Communications and the Mountain Top Podcast. We talk about a range of issues to keep your relationship and sex life red hot and satisfying.

Show Highlights

3.45 Avoiding Netflix and chill

4.50 Why finding your best friend is more important than finding someone hot

6.35 the importance of communication

7.05 why relationships aren't hard work if you're with the right person

10.45 The mistake people make when they try to spice things up

12.25 We talk about the value of arguing the right way

14.05 Why Scot and Emily give each other space to be angry and frustrated.

17.25 One of the most important things about sex.

19.15 why sex shouldn't be so serious

21.00 how men can bring more masculine energy and women can bring more feminine energy to their relationship

27.45 We talk about how people carry negative experiences from previous relationships into their current relationship and why it's dangerous

30.50 We talk about the major reasons why relationships fall apart

35.45 Scot's tips on how to improve your sex life.

More about this podcast here:  http://badgirlsbible.com/episode-1-scott-mckay

You can learn more about Scot at http://deservewhatyouwant.com and http://mountaintoppodcast.com

You'll find my best sex tips in my email newsletter:
http://badgirlsbible.com/newsletter

The Bad Girl's Bible - Sex, Relationships, Dating, Love & Marriage Advice

#1: The Importance of Communication in your Relationship with Scot McKay

Today sex therapist Dr. Kat Van Kirk answers listeners sex questions on BDSM, pegging, jealously in relationships, the porn "problem" and many more. If you got questions you'd like answered anonymously by a sex expert in a future episode, please send your question to sean@badgirlsbible.com. 

Show Highlights 

2.35 - How to deal with a man that is "jealous" of your vibrator. 

6.25 - How to approach using a strapon with your man and why strapon sex is both healthy and fun. 

8.20 - What you need to know about anal lube. Why silcone based lube is best for anal. 

8.50 - The do's and don'ts of mixing alcohol and sex. 

9.40 - Why guys are afraid of pegging. 

14.05 - Dr. Kat talks about the problem with lower testosterone rates in men and why it's happening to so many guys. 

16.20 - We discuss how porn causes problems in relationships AND why porn can sometimes be a good thing in your relationship. 

23.10 - Practical tips on how to explore BDSM with your man. 

24.50 - Why the submissive is always in control. 

25.50 - Safe words and the traffic light system. 

27.10 - Why BDSM doesn't have to be "hardcore" but can be a little bit more subtle and light. 

32.50 - Practical tips for moving past infidelity. 

Show Notes

You can find Dr. Kat at 
http://drkat.com 

On social media: 
https://www.facebook.com/drkatvankirk
https://twitter.com/DrKatSexChat 
https://www.pinterest.com/drkatvk/ 
https://www.instagram.com/drkatvk/ 
http://drkatsexchat.tumblr.com/

You'll find my best sex tips in my email newsletter:
http://badgirlsbible.com/newsletter

#5: BDSM, Jealousy & Pegging: Sex Q&A With Dr. Kat Van Kirk

In today's episode, I talk to family and marriage therapist Dr. Corey Allen on the three dangerous mistakes that can affect your relationship. We dive deep and discuss how to prevent all three from becoming a major problem: money, sex and the in-laws/kids. 

Show Highlights 

5.00 - Why it's not money that causes problems, it's the meaning attached to money. 

6.28 - What to do when you and your partner view money in a very different way so it doesn't become a problem. 

10.30 - Why you don't have to agree with everything your partner says or does. 

12.40 - Why committed relationships are designed to help us grow up and how we need to grow through problems we face with our partner. 

17.55 - Possibly the most important question you can ask yourself before you get married or if you are already married: "Would you want to be married to you?" and then applying this question to specific aspects of your marriage. 

18.20 - What to do if you and your partner have different sex drives. 

21.20 - The mistake guys make who have a higher sex drive than their wife and how it turns her off. 

24.30 - Being honest with your partner and it's amazing benefits. 

28.25 - We talk about when making a compromise in your relationship is not really a compromise at all. 

31.30 - The issue with the in-laws. 

33.45 - Why having a great relationship only requires common sense, but the problem is that we attach emotion to relationship...which make things complicated. 

36.50 - Why recognizing that your emotions are going to cloud your judgement in your relationship. 

38.00 - The main issue to avoid with your in-laws. 

Show Notes 

You can find Corey at: 
http://simplemarriage.net 

And pick up a copy of Naked Marriage at: 
simplemarriage.net/naked-marriage 

You can also listen to his podcast at: 
https://itunes.apple.com/us/podcast/sexy-marriage-radio/id472302597?mt=2

You'll find my best sex tips in my email newsletter:
http://badgirlsbible.com/newsletter

#4: The 3 Dangerous Pitfalls That Will Test Your Relationship With Dr. Corey Allen

This is the oral sex episode subscribers have been begging me for. Today, I'm opening up my vault of secret blow job tips to give you my most powerful ways to please your man with your mouth. 

Yes, some of these fellatio tips are outrageous and possibly a little too "out there" for some, but if do you use them, you'll be VERY happy with the results.
 
Show Highlights 

2.00 Tip 1 - The importance of effective communication if you want to give your man a great blow job. 

3.20 Tip 2 - The "golden technique. This is the most important and most powerful blow job technique you can ever use. 

5.20 Tip 3 - How to build your confidence when going down on your man. 

8.35 Tip 4 - The right kind of foreplay to use to slowly build up the tension and excitement before you go down on him. This will drive him wild and have him begging you for oral sex. 

12.10 Tip 5 - How to smoothly build up to giving him a blow job. 

16.05 Tip 6 - Stimulating the most sensitive spot on his penis. This alone will make him orgasm very quickly. 

17.50 Tip 7 - A bunch of things you can do with your lips to increase his pleasure. 

19.25 Tip 8 - A powerful but simple way to tease him mid-blow job. 

21.00 Tip 9 - What you should be doing with your tongue. I teach you a number of different techniques and ways to lick your man's penis. I also include an advanced anal technique that drives some men wild. 

24.45 Tip 10 - Why "wetter is better." 

25.10 Tip 11 - 5 separate techniques to stimulate the top of his penis. 

Remember this is just part one of my 37 tips to give your man a perfect blow job. 

Part 2
https://soundcloud.com/bad-girls-bible/7-6-37-blow-job-tips

Part 3
https://soundcloud.com/bad-girls-bible/8-37-blow-job-tips-techniques

Find out more on how to give a great blow job here:
http://badgirlsbible.com/how-to-give-a-blowjob

You'll find my best sex tips in my email newsletter:
http://badgirlsbible.com/newsletter

#6: Foundation For Intense Blow Jobs - 11 Vital BJ Tips

This is part two of my three part series on how to give your man a perfect blow job. Throughout the series, you're going to learn a total of 37 blow tips, techniques and tactics that are so powerful, they will literally turn your man into your own personal stalker. 

If you haven't already listened to the first episode in the series (the first 11 techniques), then I'd advise you to go and download that right now from iTunes or the Bad Girl's Bible website.  

Show Highlights 

1.05 Blow Job Tip 12 - An easy-to-perform blow job technique that delivers a huge amount of pleasure. 

2.55 Tip 13 - Learn how to suck your man. That's right, I'm talking about how to suck him. Learn why so many women misunderstand this technique and how to do it right. 

4.00 Tip 14 - "Awesome Sauce" - Discover how to change the texture of your blow job so that it feels completely new to your man and tastes great. It's an effortless way of changing up your blow job routine. 

8.10 Tip 15 - Why you absolutely must use your hands AND more importantly, how to use them to double the amount of stimulation you give him. 

11.30 Tip 16 - How to rub, caress and massage your man's testicles during your blowjob so that it's pleasurable and NOT painful. 

14.55 Tip 17 - How to make eye contact confidently and effortlessly during your blow job to make it more intimate and intense. 

16.50 Tip 18 - A counter-intuitive trick to build your man up to orgasm. He will literally beg you for more when you use this trick on him. 

18.40 Tip 19 - Why taking the initiative is both easy and powerful. Your man will thank you for it. Listen and learn how to do it. 

21.00 Tip 20 - Discover how to talk dirty BEFORE and during your blow job to build his anticipation and ultimately make it more enjoyable for both of you. 

25.05 Tip 21 - A more advanced BJ technique to allow your man to take control and dominate you. Perfect if you enjoy being submissive. 

26.25 Tip 22 - Why slowing down can make your blow job more enjoyable. This also has the added benefit of making oral sex easier for you. 

28.10 Tip 23 - Why "wetter is better" 

Don't forget, this is part two of the 37 tips to give your man a perfect blow job. Get part one and part two by subscribing on iTunes. 

Part 1
https://soundcloud.com/bad-girls-bible/6-37-blow-job-tips-techniques

Part 3
https://soundcloud.com/bad-girls-bible/8-37-blow-job-tips-techniques

Find out more on how to give a great blow job here:
http://badgirlsbible.com/how-to-give-a-blowjob

You'll find my best sex tips in my email newsletter:
http://badgirlsbible.com/newsletter

#7: Orgasmic Oral Sex - 12 Blow Job Techniques To Make Him Scream With Pleasure

The final episode in the 3 part series to give your man a perfect blow job. Over three episodes, you'll learn 37, techniques and tactics so powerful, that your man will become completely obsessed with you.

 If you haven't already listened to the first two episodes in the series (episode #6 contains the first 11 techniques & episode #7 contains the next 12 techniques), then I'd advise you to go and download them right now from iTunes or the Bad Girl's Bible website. 

Show Highlights 

1.05 Tip 24 - Why Variation is vital to making sure your man NEVER gets bored. 

2.00 Tip 25 - How to make every blow job a special occasion, WITHOUT much effort from you.

3.30 Tip 26 - Discover why WHERE you give your man oral sex is so important. Plus, I'm going to teach you a bunch of great places where you can give your man oral that will blow his mind. 

5.15 Tip 27 - Why you should keep it simple and "small" when you first go down on him. It makes everything easier for you and keeps it constantly exciting for your man. 

7.05 Tip 28 - How to use BDSM during oral sex. You'll learn how to dominate your man when giving him a blow job AND how to be submissive. 

9.35 Tip 29 - A crazy-simple trick so that you can use the same blow job techniques every single time you go down on your man, but make the experience feel completely different for him. 

12.55 Tip 30 - A very important aspect of his orgasm that you MUST understand to make sure he climaxes with maximum pleasure. 

16.35 Tip 31 - Why finishing your blow job with your hands can be incredibly enjoyable for him and easier for you. 

18.15 Tip 32 - Learn a number of different ways to finish your man off. This one is perfect if you like your man finishing by cumming on your body. 

20.25 Tip 33 - Learn what to do when your man cums in your mouth. Bonus: Learn how to make swallowing his load easier and more enjoyable. 

23.20 Tip 34 - Advanced: Some really kinky things you can do with his cum. 

27.20 Tip 35 - Why making eye contact with your man as he climaxes is red hot! 

28.40 Tip 36 - How to know when your man is about to orgasm and blow his load. 

30.05 Tip 37 - I finish up reinforcing why great communication is VITAL for a great blow job, incredible sex life and satisfying relationship. 

Don't forget, this is part three of the 37 tips to give your man a perfect blow job. Get part one and part two by subscribing on iTunes. 

Part 1
https://soundcloud.com/bad-girls-bible/6-37-blow-job-tips-techniques

Part 2
http://soundcloud.com/bad-girls-bible/7-6-37-blow-job-tips

Find out more on how to give a great blow job here:
http://badgirlsbible.com/how-to-give-a-blowjob

You'll find my best sex tips in my email newsletter:
http://badgirlsbible.com/newsletter

#8: 14 Advanced Blow Job Techniques To Make It The Best He's Ever Had

Forrest Walker joins me on the show today to discuss how prostate massage can lead to powerful 'Super' orgasms AND improve your man's health. If you are squeamish or nervous at the idea of exploring your man's backdoor, then you'll love this episode as Forrest explains everything you need to know, from hygiene to why your man may just adore it. 

Show Highlights 

1.35 - Learn how Forrest started working for a sex toy company. 

5.55 - Learn exactly what the prostate is and where to find it. 

7.25 - Why prostate massage does NOT make your man gay. 

11.15 - Why prostate orgasms (aka the Super 'O') are STRONGER than regular orgasms. 

13.45 - How to suggest prostate play to your man. 

17.10 - Vital things you must consider before you try any anal play with your man (these also apply to you). 

19.15 - The reason why prostate play and anal sex can be painful and how to make it pleasurable for your man. 

21.55 - One last thing to properly prepare your man (this also applies to you if you enjoy anal sex). 

24.30 - The positions that make prostate play easiest (side lying, doggy style, lying on your back). 

27.45 - We discuss why some people do and some people don't experience the Super 'O' AND how to train yourself to experience it. 

34.05 - What happens between your ears is the most important part to having an orgasm, whether you are a man OR a woman. Forrest explains why. 

36.40 - Women don't have a prostate gland. Instead, they have something else that leads to powerful orgasms AND squirting. Forrest explains why. 

Show Notes

The sites mentioned by Forrest Visit the Aneros website here:
https://www.aneros.com/ 

Visit the Anereos wiki here: 
http://wiki.malegspot.com/index.php?title=Main_Page 

Visit the Aneros forum here: 
https://www.aneros.com/community/

You'll find my best sex tips in my email newsletter:
http://badgirlsbible.com/newsletter

#9: Prostate Massage & Super Orgasms (Seriously) With Forrest Walker of Aneros

Learn how to orgasm powerfully and effortlessly in this podcast. If you currently struggle to orgasm when masturbating or during sex, then listen and learn what you need to do and what you need to STOP doing to start having powerful orgasms with ZERO effort. It's surprisingly easy. 

Quick Note: This is the first episode of a five part series where you will learn how to have powerful orgasms when masturbating and during sex. 

Show Highlights 

2.10 - Why having strong and effortless orgasms all comes down to being comfortable. 

2.40 - A simple guide to masturbating and reaching orgasm easily. 

3.55 - Learn why your clit is the most important part of your vagina when masturbating and trying to orgasm during sex. 

7.25 - Why what happens between your ears is the most important part of having an orgasm. 

8.05 - Why stress is a major issue that can prevent you from reaching orgasm AND how to overcome it. 

9.45 - How to stop worrying about climaxing and start enjoying yourself...which will actually help you to reach orgasm. 

11.00 - Discover how to get rid of performance pressure during sex. 

12.40 - Learn why body confidence can impact your ability to orgasm and discover the solution. 

13.30 - Sexual shame: This can act like a weight on your mind. Learn how to deal with it. 

14.20 - The importance of experimentation and exploration: I discuss the importance of knowing your body and why this is vital for learning how to orgasm alone and during sex. 

Learn more on how to orgasm here:
http://badgirlsbible.com/how-to-orgasm

You'll find my best sex tips in my email newsletter:
http://badgirlsbible.com/newsletter

#10: Effortless Orgasms - Use These Techniques To Orgasm Easily AND Powerfully Every Time

This second episode in the five episode series focuses on all the different techniques you can use to masturbate and finger yourself. In total, you're going to learn 20 different techniques to pleasure yourself with. 

And keep in mind that you can also use a lot of these techniques during sex too! You can see diagrams and demonstrations explaining each of these techniques in these three articles: 

http://badgirlsbible.com/masturbation-techniques 

http://badgirlsbible.com/how-to-finger-yourself  

http://badgirlsbible.com/how-to-find-your-g-spot 

Show Highlights 

1.35 Masturbation Tip 1 - Discover the very easy-to-perform Up &amp; Down masturbation technique. 

2.15 Tip 2 - Learn why the "Long, Slow Stroke" is perfect for teasing yourself and almost acts like masturbation foreplay. 

3.10 Tip 3 - The deceptively pleasurable Side-to-Side stroking technique that you can also use during sex for added stimulation to push you over the edge. 

4.35 Tip 4 - The MOST effective masturbation technique you can use. 

5.10 Tip 5 - U Spot Orgasms. Discover how this secret area can unlock incredible pleasure. See a diagram here: http://badgirlsbible.com/masturbation-techniques 

6.35 Tip 6 - Loving your shower head. Discover why you can climax in a totally different way by using your shower head or a faucet. 

8.05 Tip 7 - Using your clitoral hood. If your clitoris gets too sensitive, then you need to use this technique. 

9.05 Tip 8 - How to easily expose more of your clit to experience more sensations. Perfect if your clit is NOT particularly sensitive. See a demonstration here: http://badgirlsbible.com/masturbation-techniques 

10.30 Tip 9 - Orgasmic Meditation. This technique requires your man and will give you a prolonged orgasm (up to 10 minutes!). See a demonstration here: http://badgirlsbible.com/masturbation-techniques 

12.50 Tip 10 - The Squeeze. A little known technique to 'jerk' yourself off. 

14.25 Tip 11 - Why you should NEVER ignore your labia. 

15.05 Tip 12 - Humping &amp; Grinding. A great way to enjoy different and new sensations when masturbating. 

17.05 Tip 13 - The Pearl Necklace. Yet another way to experience completely new physical sensations during masturbation. 

19.20 Tip 14 - The basic technique to finger yourself. See it demonstrated here: http://badgirlsbible.com/how-to-finger-yourself 

21.50 Tip 15 - The exact movements your fingers should be making as your finger yourself. 3 techniques: stroke-stroke-stroke, pressing the 'magic' button, rubbing it. Demonstrations here: 
http://badgirlsbible.com/how-to-finger-yourself 

24.55 Tip 16 - G Spot Orgasms, learn exactly how to have them when masturbating. Learn more about your G Spot here:
http://badgirlsbible.com/how-to-find-your-g-spot 

27.30 Tip 17 - The pressure pressing technique. This technique is designed for women who struggle to have G Spot orgasms. See it demonstrated here:
http://badgirlsbible.com/how-to-finger-yourself 

28.45 Tip 18 - Fingering yourself from behind. 

29.30 Tip 19 - Doubling your fun. A powerful way to reach orgasm easily requiring both hands. 

30.10 Tip 20 - Anal fingering. This one is not for everyone, but it's super powerful. 

If you want to see demonstrations of these techniques, make sure to check out these three articles: 
http://badgirlsbible.com/masturbation-techniques 
http://badgirlsbible.com/how-to-finger-yourself 
http://badgirlsbible.com/how-to-find-your-g-spot

You'll find my best sex tips in my email newsletter:
http://badgirlsbible.com/newsletter

#11: 20 Intense Masturbation Techniques For Powerful Orgasms

Learn how to squirt when masturbating alone AND during sex in today's episode. I'll explain how to squirt, why you may be having trouble squirting and I'll teach you techniques you or your man can use to have intense squirting orgasms. 

Show Highlights 

2.25 - Why you must understand your own anatomy if you want to squirt. 

3.00 - Exactly how to find your G Spot and learn why your Skene's gland is so important. 

4.25 - Discover the scientific reason why some women have trouble squirting. 

6.00 - A very simple, but vital secret you must know if you want to squirt. 

7.40 - Why some women feel like they need to pee when trying to squirt AND why this is completely natural. 

8.50 - The Hook technique is the best technique for squirting orgasms. Learn how to perform it. 

9.35 - The Push the Button technique. 

10.10 - How you or your man can use the Come Hither technique to experience squirting for the first time. 

11.00 - Discover why the Arm Shaker technique often leads to the MOST POWERFUL squirting orgasms you can experience. 

11.55 - Using sex toys like vibrators and dildos to make yourself squirt - What you need to know. 

12.45 - How to squirt during sex. 

13.30 - Positions that will help you squirt during sex. 

15.45 - I answer some of the most frequently asked questions to problems that women often encounter when learning how to squirt. 

Show Notes 

The squirting article I talk about repeatedly in the podcast: http://badgirlsbible.com/how-to-make-yourself-squirt 

Other pages I mention: 
http://badgirlsbible.com/best-sex-positions  http://badgirlsbible.com/masturbation-techniques

You'll find my best sex tips in my email newsletter:
http://badgirlsbible.com/newsletter

#12: Squirting 101 - How To Squirt Like A Pornstar During Sex & Masturbation

This episode will teach you how to use vibrators and dildos to enhance your pleasure when masturbating and as orgasm 'assistant' during sex so that you experience the most powerful orgasms of your life. 

Show Highlights 

1.25 - How to make sure you choose the right vibrator for you. 

5.20 - The key thing you must know so that you experience maximum pleasure with your vibrator. 

6.40 - Vibrator foreplay. Learn why 'vibrator foreplay' can make your orgasms way more intense. 

9.40 - A secret way to use your vibrator to stimulate your entire vagina at the same time WITHOUT your hands. 

12.15 - Discover how to use more than just your vibrator to enhance your orgasms. 

13.25 - How to use your vibrator to enhance sex with your man. 

15.30 - Discover to enhance your blow job by using a vibrator. 

16.45 - A DANGEROUS warning about vibrators. 

18.50 - How to choose the right dildo for you. 

21.55 - Rocking your dildo to stimulate the bottom of your vagina. 

24.05 - Learn how to 'milk' your G Spot with your dildo for neighbor-waking, screaming orgasms. 

27.10 - Discover how to have anal orgasms with your dildo. 

27.40 - Double your pleasure! How to use your dildo for double penetration. 

28.45 - How to use all the techniques in this episode during Skype sex. 

33.50 - What to do after listening to this episode. 

Show Notes 

Check out the complete guide on using your vibrator here: http://badgirlsbible.com/how-to-use-a-vibrator  

Get step-by-step instructions on using your dildo here: http://badgirlsbible.com/how-to-use-a-dildo  

Learn about your A Spot here: 
http://badgirlsbible.com/a-spot  

Learn about your G Spot here: 
http://badgirlsbible.com/how-to-find-your-g-spot  

Missionary Position: 
http://badgirlsbible.com/missionary-sex-position 

Coital Alignment Technique: 
http://badgirlsbible.com/coital-alignment-technique-sex-position  

Spooning Position: 

http://badgirlsbible.com/spooning-sex-position  

Doggy Style: 
http://badgirlsbible.com/doggy-style-sex-position 

You'll find my best sex tips in my email newsletter:
http://badgirlsbible.com/newsletter

#14 Using Vibrators & Dildos For Neighbor-Waking, Screaming Orgasms

Learn how to have intense clitoral &amp; vaginal orgasms during sex with your man. You're going to learn the techniques, positions and tips you need to climax every time you have sex with your man. It's a lot easier than you think!

Show Highlights

1.40 - The one thing you must do to have clitoral orgasms. 

2.10 - The Grind - A super powerful &amp; super simple clitoral stimulation technique.  

3.00 - How your man can use circular motion on your clit during sex to stimulate all of your vagina. 

3.40 - The Vulcan will give you huge amounts of pressure on your clit during any girl on top positions. 

4.50 - Why a vibrating cock ring is a good idea if you need more clitoral stimulation. 

7.10 - The sex positions that make it easy to orgasm during sex. 

12.15 - Why vaginal orgasms can be easy for some women but hard for others. 

13.05 - Discover your A Spot and learn how it can lead to vaginal AND full body orgasms. 

15.25 - The easiest way to have your first vaginal orgasm. 

16.30 - Why the angle of penetration and the depth of penetration is so important. 

18.30 - Learn what rhythm &amp; speed is required if you want to experience a vaginal orgasm. 

19.40 - Size matters. I explain why. 

Show Notes 

Here are all the links I talk about during the episode 

Sex Positions I mention: 

http://badgirlsbible.com/coital-alignment-technique-sex-position  http://badgirlsbible.com/missionary-sex-position 
http://badgirlsbible.com/thigh-tide-sex-position 
http://badgirlsbible.com/sliding-lady-sex-position 
http://badgirlsbible.com/drill-sex-position 
http://badgirlsbible.com/best-sex-positions 

Other Links I mention:

http://badgirlsbible.com/masturbation-techniques 
http://badgirlsbible.com/a-spot 
http://badgirlsbible.com/episode-10-effortless-orgasms-use-techniques-orgasm-easily-powerfully-every-time

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#13 How To Have Intense Clitoral & Vaginal Orgasms During Sex

Want to learn how to talk dirty with confidence? Well, today I'm going to teach you exactly how to do it and what to say to him to turn him, build sexual tension, make sex incredible and most importantly to keep him obsessed with you. 

Show Highlights

1.00 - The 3 reasons why you need to talk dirty. 

5.15 - Tip 1 - Why you need to start in the 'shallow end of the pool' when learning to talk dirty. 

6.05 - Tip 2 - I explain why the bedroom is the best place to start talking dirty to your man. 

6.40 - Tip 3 - Tailoring your dirty talk to your man's tastes. 

8.15 - Tip 4 - Tailoring dirty talk to YOUR tastes. 

9.30 - Tip 5 - Why some dirty talking phrases and techniques work better than others on your man. 

11.10 - Tip 6 - The great talking dirty lie. 

13.15 - Tip 7 - Why 'context' is key. 

15.30 - Tip 8 - Why your voice tone is vital when talking dirty to your man. 

17.55 - Tip 9 - How quickly you talk when talking dirty plays a major role in it's effectiveness. Discover when to talk fast and when to talk slow. 

19.40 - Tip 10 - It's more than just the words and I explain why. 

Show Notes

If you want a dirty talking masterclass, then you may want to check out the tutorial video I put together at badgirlsbible.com/dirty

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#17: 10 Dirty Talking Tips To Keep Him Obsessed With You & Only You

This anal sex episode is quite in depth so you may want to listen to it more than once, BUT it has everything you need to know. You're going to learn the difference between having deeply satisfying anal sex that gives you full body orgasms. 

Show Highlights 

1.35 Tip 1 - The pros and cons of anal sex. 

5.05 Tip 2 - An important question you must ask yourself before trying anal. 

6.10 Tip 3 - Why communication is the bedrock of great anal sex. 

7.05 Tip 4 - The 4 types of lube you can use and which one is the the best (by far). 

9.45 Tip 5 - How to ensure pain-free pleasure. 

14.05 Tip 6 - The best position to use for the first time you try anal. 

16.50 Tip 7 - Which positions give you the most pleasure. 

18.10 Tip 8 - 7 separate advanced anal sex techniques. 

21.55 Tip 9 - The key to maximum pleasure during anal. 

23.30 Tip 10 - The dangerous mistakes some women make during anal. Make sure to avoid these. 

25.35 Tip 11 - Why giving each other feedback makes anal sex better and better each time you have it. 

Extra Tips & Advice

Learn more powerful anal sex tips on the Bad Girls website: 
http://badgirlsbible.com/how-to-have-anal-sex

Learn how to prepare for anal sex:
http://badgirlsbible.com/how-to-prepare-for-anal-sex

Discover the best anal sex positions:
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#18: 11 Advanced Anal Sex Techniques For More Pleasure

Learn 22 powerful foreplay tips that will make sex much more intense and enjoyable in today's episode. You'll discover how to turn your man on and have him begging you for more. 

Show Highlights 

1.40 - Tip 1 - Why mental foreplay is key and how to use it to your advantage. 

3.45 - Tip 2 - Why how you look matters and what to do about it. 

5.20 - Tip 3 - The secret to perfect foreplay. 

6.45 - Tip 4 - Foreplay at the bar. Seriously. 

8.00 - Tip 5 - Pinching, grabbing, groping and touching your man the right way. 

10.10 - Tip 6 - How to take your foreplay into the shower. 

11.30 - Tip 7 - How to kiss your man with passion. 

13.05 - Tip 8 - A simple way to massage your man using just 3 massage techniques. 

15.25 - Tip 9 - Why you should put on a show for your man. 

17.25 - Tip 10 - Foreplay that shows your man what you enjoy. 

18.36 - Tip 11 - How to smoothly move from kissing your man to giving him a blow job. 

19.35 - Tip 12 - A really fun game with your vibrator. 

20.20 - Tip 13 - How Dominance &amp; Submission (D&amp;S) can help your foreplay game. 

22.20 - Tip 14 - Why Play fighting is key. 

24.00 - Tip 15 - The Hot &amp; Cold game. 

25.15 - Tip 16 - Why sex dice may be right for you and your man. 

27.15 - Tip 17 - How to make a foreplay checklist (for both of you). 

28.45 - Tip 18 - Using "The Countdown" to supercharge the sexual tension. 

29.50 - Tip 19 - Why porn can sometimes be a good thing for foreplay. 

30.50 - Tip 20 - Driving stick &amp; Licking his lolly pop. 

32.05 - Tip 21 - V is for Variation. This is key. 

33.10 - Tip 22 - Why communication is the key to great foreplay. 

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#19: 20+ Intense Foreplay Tip & Techniques To Drive Him Wild

On the show today we welcome Xanet Pailet, tantra educator, sex coach, and author of Living an Orgasmic Life. Xanet is here tell us all about her work and how accessing your sexual blueprint and core erotic themes can guide you to a more fulfilling sex life and transform your whole world. We discuss Xanet’s own journey and the events in her life that led up to her current vocation before launching into some examples of the difficulties that people can have accessing and communicating their sexual needs. We talk about lowered libido, sexless marriages, shame and how these relate to our early development and socialization. Xanet gives great insight into simple ways to approach these sensitive subjects and shows just what a difference these measures can make. We finish off the chat thinking about some pragmatic solutions to these issues and ways in which individuals and partners can make progress in this regard. Highlights  Some of Xanet’s personal and professional background. The experiences that contributed to her pursuing a career in sexual therapy. An anecdote showing the damage an unspoken desire can do to a relationship. Some of the reasons for sexless marriages and lowered libido. The issue of shame and socialization related to pleasure. An example of the crippling effects of shame on our bodies. Core Erotic Themes and our underlying sexual emotions. How to go about communicating sensitive needs or fantasies.&nbsp; Using games or apps to start the process of communication. Redefining sexuality and finding ways around tricky needs. Explaining Attachment Theory and it’s different formulations. And much more!  Tweetables “I think most women have never really had continuous great sex. I know that’s a big statement to make but I think it’s really true.” [0:08:35.9] “And I think that is what people really need to understand and to realize is that they really need to look at sex in a much, much wider spectrum than what we currently talk about it as.” [0:27:21.6] Links Mentioned in Today’s Episode Xanet Pailet — https://www.ecstaticliving.com/teachers/xanet-pailet Power of Pleasure — https://powerofpleasure.com/ Living an Orgasmic Life —  https://www.amazon.com/Living-Orgasmic-Life-Yourself-Pleasure-ebook/dp/B07BWKTWVT/ OkCupid — https://www.okcupid.com/ Jack&nbsp;Morin — https://www.linkedin.com/in/jack-morin-ph-d-0824851a The Erotic Mind —  https://www.amazon.com/Erotic-Mind-Unlocking-Sources-Fulfillment-ebook/dp/B009YJYEKK MojoUpgrade — http://mojoupgrade.com/ John Bowlby —  https://www.verywellmind.com/john-bowlby-biography-1907-1990-2795514

#26 Discover Your Sexual Blueprint and Learn How To Enjoy Sex More With Xanet Pailet

Jason Julius is a world renowned sex coach and female orgasm expert and his goal is to help as many men, women, and couples achieve the amazing sex lives they deserve. In this episode we are going to discuss everything a man can do to give his partner more intense and satisfying pleasure inside and outside the bedroom. We also dive into how to really get your female partner aroused by communicating with her throughout the day, and building on the fantasy for her ultimate sexual readiness. Jason is very candid and shares all his tips and advice on stimulating your female partner’s G-spot and A-spot, ways to encourage her to let go towards ejaculation, and the real culprits behind premature and delayed ejaculation for men. So if you’re listening and have a male partner, you may want to get him to listen to this episode too! Key Points From This Episode  Jason’s background and how he got to where he is today. Advice for getting your female partner aroused. Breaking down the arousal process for men and women. Understanding the concept of “sexy context”. What makes for good foreplay from a guy. The importance of quieting down your female partners’ mind. Simplicity and the general rules of dirty talk. Why it is critical to get to know yourself sexually. Advice for providing clitoral stimulation, manually and orally. How to find the G-spot, and why many people struggle to find it. Why using a lubricant is sometimes a must. Strategy for helping your partner achieve female ejaculation. The dangers of too much porn, and forming the wrong paths in your brain. And much more!  Tweetables “I think that there’s a huge misunderstanding about female desire and how female desire actually works.” — @jasonjulius [0:05:37.1] “For guys, we need to understand that we need to be constantly flirting with our woman to create the fantasy that she desires to get her mind engaged.” — @jasonjulius [0:09:10.1] “The purpose of foreplay is to build up the fantasy.” — @jasonjulius [0:13:35.1] Links Mentioned in Today’s Episode Jason’s Squirting Tutorial Video - http://www.orgasmarts.com/ Jason Julius — https://www.jasonjulius.com/ Jason’s website — http://www.orgasmarts.com/ Jason on Twitter — https://twitter.com/jasonjulius Jason on YouTube —  https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCnJ25wY59ezVT3CXFunkuQQ Come As You Are —  https://www.amazon.com/Come-You-Are-Surprising-Transform/dp/1476762090

#29 Squirting Orgasms, Getting Turned On, and Real Foreplay for Women w/ Orgasm Expert, Jason Julius

Today on the podcast we are joined by a very special guest, none other than Alice Little from the Bunny Ranch and the Wing Woman Podcast. Alice is one of the most prominent sex workers in America and she is here to give our listeners expert advice and all round insider scoop on great sex and easy tips for increased pleasure and intimacy. In our discussion we cover Alice’s personal history and thoughts on sex work and perceptions around the subject. From there we cover dirty talk, orgasms, oral sex, BDSM and a lot more. Alice also gives some practical advice for body positivity and managing a partner of a different height in the bedroom. For all this amazing information and more from a truly wonderful ambassador for better sex, join us for today’s episode! Show Highlights  How Alice found herself at The Bunny Ranch. Why do people visit sex workers? Some of the common misconceptions around sex work. Alice’s advice for those listeners wanting to work on their dirty talk.&nbsp; Closing the orgasm gap and finding ways to share pleasure. Alice’s advice to listener’s wanting to improve their fellatio skills. The reciprocal advice for cunnilingus. How to go about getting more acquainted with BDSM and sensation play. Use of safe words and aftercare and why they are so important. Clearly defining the BDSM acronym. Some of Alice’s tips for overcoming height difference between partners.&nbsp; Getting over self doubt and getting on top of your partner. And much more!  Tweetables “I believe so strongly in the good that legal sex workers can do for society and I believe so much so that it’s the perfect job for me that I plan to continue to do so.” — @TheAliceLittle [0:05:27.3] “If you can’t talk about sex and intimacy outside of the bedroom, you’re never going to get to the point where you can express yourself openly and comfortably while actually in the bedroom.” — &nbsp; @TheAliceLittle [0:06:51.9] “It’s the biggest sexual mistake that America is making right now, we’re failing to ask what our partner actually likes.” — @TheAliceLittle [0:10:26.9] Links Mentioned in Today’s Episode Alice Little — https://thealicelittle.com Wing Woman Podcast —  https://itunes.apple.com/us/podcast/wing-woman-podcast/id1434992925 Alice Little Twitter — https://twitter.com/TheAliceLittle Alice Little Instagram — https://www.instagram.com/thealicelittleofficial/ Moonlite Bunny Ranch — https://www.bunnyranch.com Alice Little Email — alicelittle@bunnyranch.com Dennis Hof — https://www.dennishof.com/about-dennis/ Ron Jeremy — https://www.imdb.com/name/nm0000465/ Journal of Sex and Marital Therapy — https://www.tandfonline.com/toc/usmt20/current Sephora — https://www.sephora.com Ulta — https://www.ulta.com Kink —&nbsp; https://www.kink.com Kink University — https://www.kink.com/channel/kinkuniversity Adam and Eve — https://www.adameve.com Liberator — https://www.liberator.com Pornhub — https://www.pornhub.com Fleshlight — https://www.fleshlight.com

#30 Incredible Sex Techniques & Tips from High Earning Sex Worker, Alice Little

On the show today we are joined by Vanessa Marin, who is a sex therapist specializing in helping women achieve orgasms. Through her work, in person and online, Vanessa has coached countless clients towards more fulfilling sex and a greater understanding of their bodies. In our conversation we cover Vanessa’s early desire to become a sex coach and the challenges that she faced on her journey towards her current status. We then get into the nitty gritty of the big ‘O’, unpacking different types of desire, the dual control model, common myths on the subject and the helpful concept of curiosity. We also discuss sex toys, menopause, and some of the methods and resources that Vanessa offers. Highlights  How Vanessa found herself in the job of orgasm coach. The basis of Vanessa’s program for helping her clients. The strong bond between desire and orgasm. Differences between spontaneous and responsive desire. An explanation of the dual control model. Female orgasms are complex, how can we simplify it? Where to start focussing your efforts when learning how to orgasm. A few of the myths around female orgasm. The courses, steps and guides that Vanessa offers on her website Rethinking orgasm through the idea of curiosity. The use of sex toys in this endeavour. Menopause and orgasm and comparing different perspectives. A more realistic idea of a healthy sex life for couples. And much more!  Tweetables “I always knew that female orgasm would be a hot topic in this area but I was definitely surprised by how many women were really desperately seeking some sort of solution.” — @VMTherapy [0:03:38.7] “There’s a really powerful relationship between desire and orgasm and I think that a lot of women tend to neglect that relationship.” — @VMTherapy [0:07:50.3] “I think it’s equally as important to think about what are the things that get in the way of me feeling desire.” — @VMTherapy [0:13:28.8] Links Mentioned in Today’s Episode Vanessa Marin — https://vmtherapy.com/ Brown University — https://www.brown.edu/ New York Times — https://www.nytimes.com/ Oprah — http://www.oprah.com/index.html Real Simple — https://www.realsimple.com/ Finishing School — https://vmtherapy.com/how-to-orgasm/ Emily Nagoski&nbsp; — http://www.emilynagoski.com/ Come As You Are —  https://www.goodreads.com/book/show/22609341-come-as-you-are

#32 Struggling to Orgasm? Here's the Solution with Vanessa Marin

Today on the show I am talking to Dr. Laurie Mintz. She is a professor, author, speaker, and therapist. She teaches psychology of human sexuality to hundreds of undergraduate students annually and she has also authored two books, Becoming Cliterate: Why Orgasm Equality Matters — And How to Get It, along with A Tired Woman’s Guide to Passionate Sex. Inside this episode, Laurie shares her findings on the orgasm gap that exists in relationships and why that often starts at the beginning of a sex ed program. We also dive into the importance of self-discovery and understanding what works best for you as an individual, and then communicating that to your partner. Finally, we bust some of society’s myths about sex and Laurie shares her take-home advice that women can implement in their sexual journeys today. So if you want to learn all of Laurie’s incredible secrets to experience orgasms during sex, don’t miss out on today’s episode! Highlights  Laurie’s background and how she came to teach psychology of human sexuality. How the orgasm gap inspired Laurie to write Becoming Cliterate. Understanding why there is so much ignorance about female sexual pleasure. The effective strategy of sex education in the Netherlands. First steps a woman can take to increase her “cliteracy”. How to incorporate yourself; a journey of self-discovery. Why sexual communication can really go a long way. Getting rid of the myth that sex should be spontaneous. Approaching your partner about introducing new ideas into your sex life. Advice for women struggling to orgasm or struggling with low sexual desire.  Tweetables “It’s truly, truly impossible to have an orgasm while you are worrying about something.” — @DrLaurieMintz [0:17:19] “Mindfulness is putting your mind and body in the same place.” — @DrLaurieMintz [0:17:19] “Communication is the bedrock to make your bed rock.” — @DrLaurieMintz [0:26:17] Links Mentioned in Today’s Episode Dr. Laurie Mintz — http://drlauriemintz.com/ Laurie on Twitter — https://twitter.com/drlauriemintz Becoming Cliterate —  https://www.amazon.com/Becoming-Cliterate-Orgasm-Equality-Matters/dp/0062664557 A Tired Woman’s Guide to Passionate Sex —  https://www.amazon.com/Tired-Womans-Guide-Passionate-Sex/dp/1605501077 OMGYes — https://www.omgyes.com/ Calm — https://www.calm.com/ Head Space — https://www.headspace.com/

#34 The Secret To Reaching Orgasm During Sex with Laurie Mintz, Ph.D.

Today on the podcast we welcome Caitlin and Michael Doemner, authors of Sex Every Day, who are sharing with us some hands-on tips for enjoying sexual intimacy on a daily basis, regardless of busy schedules, kids and periods. &nbsp; They talk about their three-step strategy for practicing frequent intimacy, including how you can communicate your sexual desires in a fun way and what you can do to ensure that both you and your partner are always satisfied. Before you think all of this is unattainable for you as a parent of young kids, hang on a minute! They have four kids of their own and advise you on overcoming the logistics of having regular sex with a house full of small children. &nbsp; Key Points From This Episode &nbsp;  The interesting story of how Caitlin and Michael got together. Why sleeping naked is such a natural and effective way to restore intimacy in a relationship. How the menu metaphor can be used to communicate and express sexual needs. The importance of being open to both give and receive. What you can do to maintain intimacy with your partner throughout the day. A quick review of the five love languages and what they each entail. Why it is important for couples to prioritize a woman’s pleasure. What couples with kids can practically do to preserve their intimacy and privacy. Why a period should not be stopping you from giving and receiving uninterrupted pleasure. And much more!  &nbsp; Tweetables &nbsp; “It's really hard to be angry with somebody when you're laying full body contact naked with them and in bed.” [0:04:49] &nbsp; “The intimacy and the passion, it doesn’t have to be intercourse …there's a lot of different ways that we can please our partners.” [0:19:45] &nbsp; Links Mentioned in Today’s Episode &nbsp; Bad Girls Bible Newsletter — https://badgirlsbible.com/newsletter Sex Every Day: How to Prioritize Pleasure in your Marriage —  http://www.lulu.com/shop/michael-and-caitlin-doemner/sex-every-day-how-to-prioritize-pleasure-in-your-marriage/hardcover/product-23974387.html The Five Love Languages on Amazon —  https://www.amazon.com/Love-Languages-Secret-that-Lasts/dp/080241270X Pussy: A Reclamation on Amazon —  https://www.amazon.com/Pussy-Reclamation-Regena-Thomashauer/dp/1401950264/ref=sr_1_fkmrnull_1?keywords=pussy%3A+a+reclamation&amp;qid=1555401985&amp;s=books&amp;sr=1-1-fkmrnull Sex Every Day Website — https://www.sexeverydaybook.com/homepage25989259 Sex Every Day on Facebook — https://www.facebook.com/QuotidianCoitus/

#47 How To Have Sex Every Day with Caitlin & Michael Doemner

Each week on the Bad Girls Bible podcast, your host Sean Jameson interviews experts and professionals and everyone in between to teach you the tips and techniques you can use to improve your sex life and relationship or marriage. You'll also learn powerful insights on how to improve your dating and love life.

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