Tracks and Features

Sweat Equity is thrilled to present the debut single of Michigan-born, New York based musician, artist, DJ and meme admin Boyfriend.dick, the razor-sharp, club-ready “Community Guidelines.” Following up a string of performances, gallery shows, and ongoing digital projects, “Community Guidelines” sees him challenging the current censorship policies of social media platforms, particularly towards queer culture and identities. 

After graduating with a degree in Sociology, BFD moved to New York City to pursue a full-time practice, and quickly found fertile ground. He’s performed across New York and released several projects under the name Goon Soul, including Less Than a Year (2016), Holding (2018), and LIKABLE (with VIGILETTI, 2019). As a performance artist he has been featured in works including Young Boy Dancing Group (OCD Chinatown, 2019), Authority Figure (Knockdown Center, 2016), INNIE (Otion Front Residency, 2017), and most recently showcased a solo performance called BOYFRIEND.DICK’S ENDLESS SCROLL (Highland Park, 2020). He has also recently walked in fashion shows for Barragán Spring ’21, NHIL Men’s Fall ’20, and Willie Norris Fall ’19. He has also produced a range of editions works, most notably a limited edition Boyfriend.dick Tarot Deck, which is a modern take on the tradition of tarot which uses the visual language of memes to represent its archetypes

Under his debut single for the Boyfriend.dick project, this relentless creative drive finds new territory without losing any of the artist’s urgency and character. Over the past two years, he grew a personal finsta into a public meme platform with a following of 60k+, adapting a Discord page for queers from around the world to share memes, news, advice, hentai, nudes, and more, creating a vital community platform that found increasing importance during the isolation and emotional fallout of the Covid-19 outbreak. But that same vitality and growth became a target for Instagram’s Community Guidelines bots, and was shut down last year, separating the many followers who had found a space for connection and community. 

“Community Guidelines” responds in appropriately direct fashion, spinning a string of “censored” sexual allusions over a searing club rhythm, a percussive two minute workout that’s equal parts ribald and righteous, asserting a pride and coy subversion of censorship that never loses sight of keeping the bodies moving, 

The release drops March 4th.

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Boyfriend.dick - Community Guidelines

I want my pups to grow big and strong. This mix is for you

Image by www.robclarke.net

Puppy Mix

adaptation of a live mix played for @b.coming's birthday 09.06.23 ~

tracklist:
ghassan kanafani audio
i will always love again / femin-xy
sick bitch / lsdxoxo
bilingual dirty mix / jose nunez ft. taina
pure pleasure seeker (todd edwards) / moloko
let it will be / madonna
extend the call / dbbd & miss bashful
forever more (francois k & eric kupper) / moloko
dokhtare ahvazi / sandy
treat me right / main phase
padam padam / kylie minogue
elevation / x-club
club rez / girl unit
como un bebe / bad bunny
3.1 (mijk van dijk remix) / humate
portland / drake
spiralizsa / syz
princess diana / ice spice
d.wave / biotone
low / juicy j ft. nicki minaj
itj05b1 (bambounou remix) / italojohnson
love sex magic / ciara
earworm / syz
backoutsideboyz / drake
sports that require petrol / x-club
joga joga / mc k9
shakti / ase manual
music man / 23.4
paris, texas / lana del rey
gratitude practice / dj gigola
organise / asake
one last time / ariana grande

Mindfulness Practice

Demon Time feat. Boyfriend Dick

Ketamine Girl uses the hook of Aqua's 90's pop-hit, Barbie Girl, to tap into the ketamine culture of the queer rave scene in Brooklyn. This bedroom-club bop provokes a sonic k-hole through a combination of dance rhythms and tight pop vocals.

Art by Nino Cadeau: instagram.com/ninocadeau
Designed by Boyfriend Dick

Buy on Bandcamp:
https://boyfrienddick.bandcamp.com/track/ketamine-girl
Find on other platforms: 
https://songwhip.com/boyfrienddick/ketamine-girl

Lyrics:
Ketamine girl
In a cocaine world
Lifes a k-hole
But I'm an angel
Take another bump
And now I'm feeling up
Dissociation
Lifes a simulation

She's a doll, raver queen
Cover girl, finsta meme
She's a muse for the scene
Gets whatever she needs
She's a thot, she's a hoe
Self proclaimed, so it goes
She gets dick, she gets weed
She gets money
(She gets money, yea)

I see her grab her kundle
From her Telfar bag
(You know she bad)
She always check her phone
But never text you back
(Cos she stay she mad)
That tattoo on her neck
It doesn't mean one thing
(The fuck she gives)
She on her own dick
She got her own bag

Ketamine girl
In a cocaine world
Lifes a k-hole
But I'm an angel
Take another bump
And now I'm feeling up
Dissociation
Lifes a simulation

Ah ah ah yea
Oo oh oo

Laying down on the couch
With a wide open mouth
Did a bump then a line
In the bathroom
She is lost, lucid dream
Swimming out into sea
Jelly fish floating round
In the ocean
Under stars, under water
In between death and life
Sinking down into water
I am lost then i arrive

I heard it cures depression
I heard a k-holes forever
I heard it's only for horses
I heard it's only for junkies
Do you know where i can cop some?
Can you give me the number
To your Bushwisk dealer
That would be so cool

Ketamine girl
In a cocaine world
Lifes a k-hole
But I'm an angel
Take another bump
And now I'm feeling up
Dissociation
Lifes a simulation

Ah ah ah yea
She's a ketamine girl
In a cocaine world
She's a ketamine girl
Oo oh oo
She's a ketamine girl
Ah ah ah yea
Oo oh oo
She's a ketamine girl
Ah ah ah yea
Oo oh oo

Ketamine Girl

PARTY BUS MIX

@youmeusdey
@tttara
@venisonman

Buy To Hell on Bandcamp: https://youmeusdey.bandcamp.com/

DEY - Witch Of The Waste (Boyfriend Dick Remix)

Allow the intoxicating sounds of Nocturnal Resident Alexis De La Rosa @delabae_ envelop and swallow you whole with this slick and smooth, yet energizing journey. This defining set recorded live at Nocturnal 04/27/24 in Brooklyn, New York. Listen to more on DELABAE's SoundCloud @delabae

DJ Alexis De La Rosa aka DELABAE is a multidisciplinary artist born & raised in NYC. Alexis' primary focus is on increasing and revolutionizing queer Latin representations, across the arts and beyond, through the vehicle of music, film, and fashion. Having grown up in one of the world’s most culturally diverse cities, Alexis’ musical influence stretches far and wide, yet he holds a special enthusiasm for the sounds that stem from his afro-Caribbean, Dominican roots. With powerful music intuition and an indefatigable work ethic, Alexis has proven himself a talent to be reckoned with.

NOCTURNAL EMISSIONS is a trippy mix-mash of house, techno and trance with Latin / tribal influence; a distorted, sound-bending, mind-fuck that will leave you suspended with the vibrations of the night. bit.ly/nocturnalnyc for next events and more info. Live set mastered by @djjohnnyi

Nocturnal Sessions 019: Alexis De La Rosa (LIVE)

https://boyfrienddick.bandcamp.com/album/humble-brag-ep

Humble Brag EP

Praise Kink

Buy on Bandcamp: https://boyfrienddick.bandcamp.com/track/dick-from-a-friend
Listen on other streaming platforms: https://tr.ee/SxUPclOJD_

Stream

Dick From a Friend

big big purr energy - thank you to the Namilia for entrusting me with the sonics <3 all original production by me

H&M: La Biosthétique Paris Offical
H&M Director: @spankedsiren
Styling/casting: @barbiedrugz
Styling-/ Casting Assistant: Emilia Vonier

Music: @sh3lsh3l
Production: NOWADAYS Berlin
Lead Project Manager: Dasia Schow
Assistant Project Manager: Katharina Föll
Video: Neven Hillebrands, Jens Schmidt
Catering: @maloapoke_de

Thank you to:
Senatsverwaltung für Wirtschaft, Energie & Betriebe
Fashion Council Germany

NAMILIA x ED HARDY SS25 Runway Soundtrack by SH3L – Good Girl Gone Bad

Recorded part of my club classics mix for the brat party I hosted @ Prickly Elder this summer. HOPE YOU ENJOY!

club classics brat party mix live @ prickly elder

DON'T PANIC!

𝕸𝖔𝖓𝖘𝖙𝖗𝖚𝖔 BY @djmeatraffle recorded live on November 3rd 2024

Meat Raffle, aka Izaäk, is a Canberra-born artist known for playing infectious and energetic variations of tracks that ignite movement and spark connection (getting sweaty and kissing strangers). Meat Raffle has appeared alongside heavyweights such as Jennifer Loveless, FJAAK, THC and Tygapaw. Playing his third Barba Monstruo in a row, it’s no secret Meat Raffle is a seasoned pro for the Barba D floor.

TRACK ID 

1. 365 featuring shygirl - Charli XCX
2. Ihr Seid So Leise- Aquagen 
3. Rock ya Body (original mix) - Isaiah 
4. I think of you (sometimes) - Dj Gigola
5. Guess FM - Cimarrón
6. @t the club - Miss Jay
7. Uruguay - Ojosfinos
8. Dança - Angels Gun Club
9. Rhinoplasty - Jamesjamesjames
10. Orbit Flex - Framboisier 
11. Lemme see whatchu got - DUTY PAID
12. Season 7 - Chris Flannigan 
13. I like the way she’s moving - Coffintexts
14. Vuk Vuk - Amor Satyr, Same O
15. EU VICIO RAPIDO (HARD GROOVE) - WOST
16. 32 Balas - Siu Mata, Amor Satyr
17. Keygurr - Dramaturgia 
18. Gimme Ur Luv - Narciss - Mala Junta
19. Mutant Exotic (D.Dan Remix) - LSDXOXO
20. La Batteria - Dj Gigola
21. Secret Vision - Sexapil
22. Unusual Photograph - WTCHCRFT
23. Metelo, Sacalo (Remix) - DJ Yirvin
24. AY PAPI - GATO
25. Voy Voy - Mac Declos - Mala Junta 
26. Let me show you - Camisra
27. NSA (Edson pride anthem mix)
28. Dancing Youth - Beau Didier & Isaiah - Mala Junta
29. What do you call a flood? - WTCHCRFT
30. Lifted - Human Movement
31. Piece of me (Bambounou Edit) - Britney Spears
32. 4eva (X-Coast Remix) - Shygirl
33. Cloud 69 (Local Group Remix) - Angel D’lite
34. Fashion Killa (Harry Connell Edit) - A$AP ROCKY
35. Hawzzz - Framboisier
36. Spacer woman - Charlie

LIVE from 𝕸𝖔𝖓𝖘𝖙𝖗𝖚𝖔 2024 ft. MEAT RAFFLE

Rumors Mix Series #123: Miss Cabbage

incoming bandcamp for the BIG GIRLS and those who love them
TO THE FRONT! sampling vocal bits from the ICON that is Lushious Massacr!
drop a comment if ya want a DL

StrikeStone! - BIG GIRLS TO THE FRONT!

𝔣𝔲𝔱𝔲𝔯𝔢:
DET 06/06 - Divalocity x XOXR @ Marble Bar
DET 06/07 - Village Pride @ West Village
NYC 06/28 - Alphabet Mafia @ Market Hotel

Bookings: theeboyfrienddick@gmail.com

Party thrower for WORKWEAR in NYC  / DANCE HARDER! in Detroit <3

𝔭𝔞𝔰𝔱:
[2024]
CHI 3/14 - Messy Boucoup @TBA
DET 12/28 - KRAMPUS NIGHT @ Eagle Detroit
NYC 12/20 - DIET COCK @ The Cock
NYC 12/13 - Dance Planet @ Paragon
NYC 11/30 - WORKWEAR @ Bossa
NYC 10/31 - Diabolique @ Deux Chat
NYC 10/26 - Intimia Halloween @ Market Hotel
URL 10/22 - w/ Nick Boyd @ The Lot Radio 
NYC 10/18 - Friday @ Beverly's 
NYC 10/11 - WORKWEAR @ RASH NYC
DET 09/05 - Digging Deep @ The Eagle
DET 08/09 - DANCE HARDER! @ Marble Bar
CHI 08/03 - Witch Finger @ TBA
NYC 07/18 - DonKEY @ Red Eye NYC
NYC 07/12 - WORKWEAR @ RASH NYC
NYC 07/06 - Fourth World @ Brooklyn Meadows
MPLS 06/29 - Pride @ Eagle MPLS 
DET 06/20 - Thursday @ Eagle Detroit
DET 06/08 - XOXR @ TV Lounge 
DET 06/08 - Village Pride @ Redhook Detroit
DET 05/04 - Afters @ The Eagle Detroit
DET 04/27 - Chaotic Neutral @ Olympus Theater
DET 04/20 - DANCE HARDER! @ Leland City Club
SF 04/07 - Swagger Like Us @ El Rio
LA 04/06 - Zine Party @ Silverlake Lounge
SEA 03/29 - Gaytrix @ Kremwerk
NYC 03/14 - Party Planner @ Nowadays
NYC 03/15 - BFD & Friends @ Happyfun Hideaway
NYC 02/16 - Papi Juice @ Elsewhere
NYC 02/17 - BFD & Friends @ Happyfun Hideaway
NYC 02/18 - STUDFINDER @ The Cock
DET 02/11 - Foggy Sundays @ Spkrbox
DET 02/10 - XOXR @ The High Dive

[2023]
NYC 12/29 - For LSDXOXO @ Market Hotel
NYC 12/17 - WORKWEAR @ Bossa Nova
NYC 11/24 -  w/ Sorry Records @ Lot Radio
NYC 11/17 -  DietCock @ The Cock
NYC 10/22 - B2b Sevyn0000 @ Bossa Nova 
NYC 8/25 - BFD & Friends @ Happyfun
NYC 8/03 - Taco Fantasy @ The Breakers
NYC 7/23 - WORKWEAR @ Bossa Nova 
NYC 7/12 - Smooth Brained @ Bossa Nova
SF 6/23 - Swagger @ 1015 Folsom
SF 6/25 - Pride Happy Hour @ Arcana SF
SF 6/22 - Provocateur @ Audio Night Club
LA 4/22 - HELIXXX @ Grand Star Jazz Club
SF 4/02 - Swagger Like Us @ El Rio
OAK 4/01 - Rave @ Machine Works
PDX 3/25 - Fake & Gay @ No Requests
SF 3/24 - Fake & Gay @ Great Northern
LA 3/18 - BLUSH @ Ace Hotel DTLA
NYC 3/11 - Meat Market @ Market Hotel 
DET 2/14 - WORKWEAR @ Leeland City Club
NYC 2/04 - w/ BEARCAT + MRCT@ Paragon 
NYC 2/02 - Devs Bday @ Parkside Lounge
NYC 1/27 - WORKWEAR @ Happyfun

[2022]
CHI 12/3 - w/ Ariel Zetina @ Podlasie Club
DET 12/10 - XOXR @ High Dive
PGH 11/19 - ETLT @ Cobra
NYC 10/14 - Escape @ Paragon 
NYC 10/1 - Hot & Ready @ Bossa Nova Civic Club
NYC 9/30 - Bushwick Famous @ Happyfun
NYC 7/17 - Siren @ Rooftop Presents
NYC 6/30 - Rooftop @ Honey's
NYC 6/25 - Pride @ Paragon
MTL 6/17 - Unikorn @ Mural Festival
MTL 6/17 - Spiral @ Union Française de Montréal
NYC 6/10 - Spilled Milk @ Club Musica
URL 6/1 - Sweat Equity Pride @ The Lot Radio
NYC 5/21 - Sksksks @ h0l0
NYC 5/18 - High & Tight @ The Cock
NYC 5/6 - ESCAPE @ Paragon
NYC 4/23 - Boyfriend.dick @ Happyfun Hideaway
NYC 4/20 - For Julio Torres @ 3 Dollar Bill
NYC 4/08 - For Macy Rodman @ C'mon Everybody
LA 3/14 - WERKWEAR @ Akbar 
LA 3/15 - Chardogay @ El Prado 
SF 3/05 - Bimboz @ Powerhaus 
SF 3/04 - Fake&Gay / Squish @ Monument
NYC 2/02 - WERKWEAR @ Happyfun Hideaway
NYC 1/15 - Boyfriend.dick @ Happyfun Hideaway

[2021]
NYC 12/11 - w/ Morenxxx @ Happyfun Hideaway
NYC 11/29 - Hot&Ready @ Bossa Nova Civic Club
NYC 11/6 - Boyfriend.dick @ Happyfun Hideaway

Ketamine Girl

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