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Love, Marriage and Relationships

Trying to get married today.
Courtships, dating, arranged marriages.
Social applications-pros and cons.

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Ep. 90 - Trying To Get Married

Trying to get married today.
Courtships, dating, arranged marriages.
Social applications-pros and cons.
What do we need to be aware of?
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Ep. 91 Trying to Get Married II

0:00 Marriage is Half of Religion
8:00 Compatibility Values
15:00 Defining Needs like "Being Religious"
20:00 Male and Female Psychology
25:00 Avoidance and Aggression in Relationship
28:00 What is Emotional Availability?
32:00 Open Communication
38:00 Acceptance and Accessibility
40:00 Cultural Psychology
45:00 Communication skills + Text messaging
55:00 Conflict Resolution

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Ep 103 - Marriage Tips for Him & Her

Habeeb Akande is an author, sex educator, and historian. He is a former student of al-Azhar University and the founder of the Erotology Institute, which provides online courses on Islamic sexology and African intimacy. 

Habeeb Akande's Work
Women of Desire: A Guide to Passionate Love and Sexual Compatibility
A Taste of Honey: Sexuality and Erotology in Islam. 
Kunyaza: The Secret to Female Pleasure. 

Erotology Institute (www.erotologyinstitute.com) Home (erotologyinstitute.com) 

The Orgasm Gap (BBC audio documentary on Kunyaza) - BBC World Service - The Documentary, Life Changes, The Orgasm Gap

BBC Kunyaza Documentary on YouTube Rwanda: Sexual Pleasure and Controversy - BBC World Service (youtube.com)

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Ep 104 Beyond Taboos Sex Education in Islam

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Karim begins by sharing a true story about fornication and reflects on the proper balance between quantity and quality of religious deeds and how acceptance of human imperfection leads to a type of spiritual liberation.

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07/21/17

Ep 4: The Two Fornicators

After years of relationship work with Muslims, Karim has noticed certain myths regarding love and expectations before (and during) marriage that can be harmful and unrealistic. Karim provides reflections and advice on myths vs. reality regarding love, personality, family, timing and Islamic practice. Some of the constructs he addresses include:

"I want to fall in love" 
"I need to get married to have sex" 
"There is no one good out there" 

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Check out our helpful resources below!

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http://www.thefyi.org/marriage-research/

http://www.thefyi.org/infographics/pre-marriage-considerations-top-5-reasons-for-conflict-among-american-muslim-couples/

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Ep 7: Muslim Marriage Myths

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I'm joined by Zeyad Ramadan, founder of Purify Your Gaze, to discuss sexuality and pornography addiction in the Muslim community. 

We share reflections on why the opposite of addiction is connection. How porn is a drug and what damage it causes the mind, heart and body. Lessons on human struggles and sins. Why pornography addiction happens and how it can lead the sincere to Paradise! 

We close our conversation with learning more about the cutting edge techniques of Purify Your Gaze and how it has helped many Muslims around the world.

Website
http://purifyyourgaze.com/

Resources
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=gRJ_QfP2mhU

http://www.dailyinfographic.com/the-stats-on-internet-pornography-infographic

http://www.collective-evolution.com/2016/03/07/the-science-of-pornography-addiction-what-it-can-do-to-your-brain/

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Ep 9: Sex, Porn & Paradise - Zeyad Ramadan

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Why are nearly 1/3 to 1/2 of Muslim marriages ending in divorce? I'm joined by Dr. Nafisa Sekandari, a clinical psychologist and the director and cofounder of Mental Health for Muslims (MH4M), a site aimed to educate and normalize therapy for the Muslim community. We first discuss how psychology and mental health is part of the Islamic tradition.

 27:00 min-  "Why Love is Not Enough." We reflect on important principles that all Muslims need to realize before and during marriage, such as self care, self awareness and healthy expectations. We talk about the differences between elder and younger generations and their views on what is important for relationships. What is the love delusion? Where do love narratives come from? The difference between chemistry and character and why it is not safe to marry "potential."

Web
http://mentalhealth4muslims.com

http://mentalhealth4muslims.com/when-love-is-not-enough-reassessing-marriage-in-the-muslim-community/

Private Practice
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Nourish your Marriage

Ep 10: Muslim Marriage Crisis - Dr. Nafisa Sekandari

Be sure to check out Part 1 of Ep 13 first!

Dr. Mohamed Ghilan has a PhD in neuroscience and is currently in medical school. He is an intellectual thinker and lecturer on Islam, science, philosophy and cosmology. We discuss the science of gender differences and the idea of the Yin and Yang as a biological, social and spiritual manifestation.

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Links

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https://soundcloud.com/mohamed-ghilan

https://www.psychologytoday.com/blog/hope-relationships/201402/brain-differences-between-genders

https://www.psychologytoday.com/collections/201410/are-men-and-women-different
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Part II Summary/Outline
Intro-15min

Yin and Yang potentiality in men and women.
Variations and types of masculine and feminine traits.
Karim’s Powerful P’s framework for men and women.
Men and women both provide, produce, protect…

15min- 25min

Men and women in school and work. 
Why do men have to pay for everything in marriage?
Islamic guidance on certain roles and modern Muslim marriage.
Liberal ideas, social roles and biological wiring don’t always get along.
Media representation can change public perception in inaccurate ways.

25min- 35min

Modern culture over values materialism.
Humans have an inclination for greed.
Give me a mountain of gold.
Meeting homeless Muslims.
Attitude Gratitude!

35min - 45min

Harm of comparing yourself in material terms.
Perfect equality can never exist.
Yin and Yang energy manifesting in forms.
Islamic cosmology insights.

45min to End

Quranic sequence on yin and yang.
Why do men like to stay up late?
Complimentary forces in relationships.
Dr. Ghilan and his Andalus book club.

Ep 13: Yin & Yang II - Dr. Mohamed Ghilan

Dr. Mohamed Ghilan has a PhD in neuroscience and is currently in medical school. He is an intellectual thinker and lecturer on Islam, science, philosophy and cosmology. We discuss the science of gender differences and the idea of the Yin and Yang as a biological, social and spiritual manifestation.

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https://mohamedghilan.com/

https://soundcloud.com/mohamed-ghilan

https://www.psychologytoday.com/blog/hope-relationships/201402/brain-differences-between-genders

https://www.psychologytoday.com/collections/201410/are-men-and-women-different
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Summary/Outline

Intro to 4:45 
Why Dr. Mohamed is doing Med School after a PhD in Neuroscience.

4:45m - 20min

Neuroscience research.
Neural plasticity and malleability of our brains.
How experiments are and are not always reliable.
Understanding individual anecdotes versus population patterns.

20min- 29min

Examples of male-female brain specialties and energy.
Difference between correlation and causation in science.

30min- 40min

“If I were to get you 50 women to mate with!”
Biological reflections of men and women.
Examples of some top needs of men and women in relationships.
Polygamy, is there a biological basis?
Sexuality and what is sacred.

40min-50min

Does the brain make up its mind in the fetus?
Testosterone and Estrogen roles in human development.
Mercy as a default setting of earthly and heavenly bodies.
The Divine Names as Masculine and Feminine (Jalali and Jamali)

Last 10 min

Humans as speaking animals.
Women and men in the workplace.
Equity or Equality.
Yin and Yang potential in men and women.

Ep 13: Yin & Yang - Dr. Mohamed Ghilan

Habeeb Akande is an author, historian and lecturer on Islam, race and sexuality. He has five published books, has appeared on the BBC and the Islam Channel, and is currently working on a documentary regarding Islam in Brazil.

PLEASE BE ADVISED: 
In Ep 16 of Coffee with Karim we discuss his latest book "A Taste of Honey: Sexuality and Erotology in Islam." We explore several topics such as gender needs in the bedroom, sexual taboos, orgasms, masturbation, oral sex, temporary marriage and polygamy.

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Guest Links
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Ep 16 Summary (Intro to 15min)

A taste of honey: sexuality and erotology in Islam.
Men and women both have sexual rights in Islam.
Early Muslim scholars works on sexuality.

15min to 30min

Islam is a sex positive tradition.
Pornography amongst Muslims.
Islamic counsel for desiring zina.

30min to 45min

Masturbation.
Temporary marriage.
Polygamy.
 
45min to End

Polygamy: when it is good and bad.
Anal, menstrual and oral sex.
Improving our sexuality in marriage.
Rewards in Paradise.

Improve Intimacy

Ep 16: Sexuality & Erotology In Islam - Habeeb Akande

Baba Ali is a comedian, actor, entrepreneur and game developer. He is known for Ummah Films, (Baba Ali Youtube channel) and the Half our Deen Muslim matrimonial website.

Ali shares his very interesting journey to Islam, his efforts to give back to the Muslim community and offers great tips and advice for Muslim men and women on relationships and marriages. 

At the end of our conversation I got to ask Karim's 5 Fun Questions!

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Show Links
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https://www.youtube.com/user/ummahfilms

https://courses.halehbanani.com/p/join-laugh-and-learn

Ep: 21 - Half Our Deen - Baba Ali

In episode 39 Karim shares insights on pornography addiction in the Muslim community and the theme of intimacy and attachment disorders. 

What you will learn:
1) Definition of porn addicts and what they do.
2) Possible causes of porn addiction.
3) Why making Tauba (repentance) is not always enough.
4) Why intimacy and attachment disorders may be a common cause.
5) Demystification of the value of pornography.

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Ep: 39 - Pornography Addiction and Recovery

My lovely wife joins me for a coffee in honor of Women's month to discuss her journey through family, feminism and Islam. Born and raised in Rio de Janeiro, Brazil and discovering Islam in an unexpected way at an unprecedented time for Muslims in the world. This and more intimate ideas and gems with the woman "behind" the scene of Coffee with Karim.

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3/14/19

Ep: 45 Coffee With My Wife - Journey of Feminism and Islam

My spouse has a sex addiction! We discuss the journey of pornography amongst spouses. What addicts should do and what spouses supporting addicts should do and what both need to know.

Zeyad Ramadan is the founder of Purify Your Gaze which is dedicated to helping Muslims privately and safely recover from unwanted sexual behaviors.

Live free from unwanted sexual behaviors today!
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Ep: 59 My Spouse Has A Pornography Addiction - Zeyad Ramadan

The Biz Story (ends 17min)
Love Story 17:50min

A story about patience, race and expanding minds and hearts plus she makes some of the best Knafeh out there. Listen to Fatima's story of love and entrepreneurship.
https://www.knafehqueens.com/

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Ep: 62 A Love and Success Story - Knafeh Queen

Insights, stories, and tips to become a couple for paradise. How to improve your premarital and marital experience. Learn more about how love is an action.

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Work with Megan at Wives of Jannah
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Work with Karim and Noor team.
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Ep: 66 Paradise Couples - Megan Wyatt

Seeking light of the deen with some caffeine. 

Frozen in Massachusetts. Melted in California.
Karim Serageldin is an American human scientist, relationship coach and educator. Founder of Noor Human Consulting. Karim enjoys absurd hilarious moments, music, the sun, coffee and sugary things.  Tune in for unique content on psychology, relationships and spirituality.

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