This Week on Cozy Chat

We talk about "Ice Guys." What does it mean to be a nice guy? Are guys ever truly nice? 

We're getting into all this and more, so come and sip on your smoothest libation, and get cozy.

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01:34 Weekly Catch-Up
05:57 Self Care
20:40 Nice Guys

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Cozy Chat Ep 20: Nice Guy Syndrome

Campbell Soup Feat. Shakar

Response to Joyner Lucas' "I'm Not Racist".

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=7Cfk27KHLQI
^ THE VIDEO IS OUT NOW!!

Nah. (How I Really Feel)

Queen & J. are two womanist race nerds talking liberation, politics, and pop-culture over tea. Drink up!

On this episode… We put our womanist race nerd spin on the Kwanzaa principles (what are thooooooose!) and show you how and why to incorporate that shit into your everyday life, we’ve got a moment in Black hair for the bearded people in your life, and how to build community in a world full of people who don’t know how to act.

This week’s hot list: working with toxic whiteness, Kwanzaa, buy black, indie comics, beard butter is good for you, Janice Dotson, the Sandra Bland act, Donors choose, buy them kids ipads, Black elitism, everybody can’t say “sis” sis, and more!

Tweet us while you listen! #teawithqj @teawithqj and add #podin on twitter to help others discover Tea with Queen and J. podcast!

WEBSITE
www.TeaWithQueenAndJ.com

SOCIAL MEDIA
Twitter: twitter.com/teawithqj
Instagram: Instagram.com/teawithqj
Facebook: www.facebook.com/TeawithQueenandJ
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EMAIL
teawithqueenandj@gmail.com

DONATE
www.paypal.me/teawithqj OR www.patreon.com/teawithqj

PAY BLACK WOMEN
Help Nadejah Whitted fit her classroom with ipads: http://donorschoose.org/Miss.Whitted

NOTES & EXTRA TEA
Read “Tea with Queen and J.: A Podcast for Women Who Won’t Be Silenced” https://medium.com/@DrewBreez/tea-with-queen-and-j-a-podcast-for-black-women-who-wont-be-silenced-84bfeebb1fe3?fbclid=IwAR2Tlzr6juv32t6NuJqccUpNbsKgcG-3OXSNHhYwBVlLGYxSMuGrnpKVTbg

Support “Ajala” Indie comicbook Kickstarter: https://www.kickstarter.com/projects/1715366249/a-change-of-perspective-special-edition?fbclid=IwAR2vZG34PWkYYeiZ138Y9DClVz-Lg2Ocjl2BgOTbEDGGkeRKhCJ-D4O5dYQ

Check out King Butta Love’s natural beard butter & soaps: https://www.etsy.com/shop/KingButtaLove?ref=shop_sugg
Instagram:https://www.instagram.com/king_butta_love/

Join Bag Ladiez podcast live at The Greene Space on January 28, 2019! Tix & info: http://www.thegreenespace.org/events/thegreenespace/2019/jan/28/bag-ladiez-live/
Visit Bag Ladiez website: https://www.bgladiez.com

Read Essence article on Janice Dotson: https://www.essence.com/news/mentally-ill-black-mother-dies-in-jail-texas/

Libations to our friends Casey & Domingo who help keep this show running by giving their money to Black women.

Libations to Ohene Cornelius for our show intro, check out his latest album Flight Risk available everywhere online now. You can find Ohene on instagram and twitter @ohenecornelius and on Facebook at www.facebook.com/ohenecornelius/

Libations to T.Flint for our News That's Not News intro! Find him at www.tflintvoiceovers.com/

T'was The Night Before Kwanzaa

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#187 T'was The Night Before Kwanzaa

Ocean Eyes (Kalimba Cover)

Original: Other Side

Jay-Z – Brooklyn Go Hard

Queen & J. are two womanist race nerds talking liberation, politics, and pop-culture over tea. Drink up!

On this episode… We’re talking about gender, the binary, non-binary, language in general, femme, feminine, gender identity, fvcking up and learning in public, the narrow scope of womanhood and we get emotional and sh!t. 

THIS WEEK’S SPONSOR:
Matriarch Creative Solutions 
Visit wearematriarch.co to learn more about how Matriarch Creative Solutions can support you, and subscribe to their mailing list to receive 11% off your first service.

EPISODE TIMESTAMPS 
Libations:7:26
Donation Libations: 18:26
Affirmations: 22:28
PayBlack Women: 29:06
Non-Binary Gender Discussion: 32:38

Tweet us while you listen! #teawithqj @teawithqj and add #podin on Twitter to help others discover Tea with Queen and J. podcast!

PAY BLACK WOMEN:
Help Dee pay the outstanding balance on her electric bill so she can pay her rent on the 1st and beyond! Cashapp: $shandee9092 https://cash.app/$shandee9092
 


WEBSITE
www.TeaWithQueenAndJ.com

SOCIAL MEDIA
Twitter: twitter.com/teawithqj
Instagram: Instagram.com/teawithqj
Facebook: www.facebook.com/TeawithQueenandJ
Tumblr: teawithqueenandj.tumblr.com

EMAIL & SPONSOR INQUIRIES
teawithqueenandj@gmail.com


DONATE
www.paypal.me/teawithqj OR www.patreon.com/teawithqj


Where to Donate Your Money and Time to Help Protestors: https://nyulocal.com/where-to-donate-your-money-and-time-to-help-protesters-ef2727d7a9d2

How to continue support for the End SARS movement in Nigeria
https://metro.co.uk/2020/10/29/how-to-continue-support-for-the-end-sars-movement-in-nigeria-13487714/
 

Queen’s Amazon wishlist: https://www.amazon.com/hz/wishlist/ls/CXV9ZDWZ3PP9?ref_=wl_share
J.’s Amazon wishlist: https://www.amazon.com/hz/wishlist/ls/1NP09USMPJ0TB?ref=cm_sw_em_r_wl_ip_VEVWdvdDDemm

Send us snail mail:
Tea with Queen and J.
P.O. Box 1617
229 East 85th Street
New York, NY 10028
NOTES AND EXTRA TEA

More on language and gender: https://medium.com/@transstyleguide/alternatives-to-afab-and-amab-d7cf8fe20a72

This week’s closing clip features @wiildd_chiild risking his life for tiktok: https://vm.tiktok.com/ZMeRMgxjK/

This episode was created, hosted, and produced by Naima Lewis Muhammad & Janicia Francis with editorial support from Candice Jones

Libations to our friend’s Domingo, Tokunbo, and D. Sindayiganza who help keep this show running by paying and supporting Black women.

Opening song by Ohene Cornelius
Segment Music by Chad Milner

#281 The Gender Episode

I'm no expert. This is a song God has place in my heart and helped me write/develop.

You Are God

Queen & J. are two womanist race nerds talking liberation, politics, and pop-culture over tea. Drink up!

On this episode…Glue gate is over! We talk about Tessica Brown, Gorilla Glue, and the ponytail that rocked the internet. Trying to keep our pets alive in a pandem, and how the United Nations went anti-Black for valentines day
 
This week’s hot list: Whoopi Goldberg’s cheek bones deserve all the awards. Keeping your pet alive is expensive but lowkey worth it. Other Black podcasts you should be listening to. The biggest hair story in history, even the haters enjoyed it. Influencer culture and who deserves to profit off of the internet, the Rona, vaccinations and Black women’s labor stolen. 90 day fiance fatigue, flagrant colorism at the UN and mad other ish. 

THIS WEEK’S SPONSOR:

Matriarch Creative Solutions 
Visit wearematriarch.co to learn more about how Matriarch Creative Solutions can support you, and subscribe to their mailing list to receive 11% off your first service.

EPISODE TIMESTAMPS 
Libations: 5:40
Donation Libations: 15:18
Affirmations: 18:35
Black Baddies, Gender & The Gay Agenda: 22:28
Gorilla Glue & Thee Moment in Black hair!: 28:09
Covid Vaccines & The CDC is stealing... Allegedly: 1:15:00
#PayBlackWomen: 1:25:40
Black women hugging themselves for Valentine’s day, yikes: 1:32:20 

Tweet us while you listen! #teawithqj @teawithqj and add #podin on Twitter to help others discover Tea with Queen and J. podcast!

NEWS THAT’S NOT NEWS: Immunization Expert Accuses C.D.C. and Deloitte of Stealing Her Idea https://www.nytimes.com/2021/02/06/us/politics/coronavirus-vaccines.html

PAY BLACK WOMEN: Help Jasmin recoup funds for her cat Dre’s emergency surgery https://gofund.me/4219f7e3

WEBSITE
www.TeaWithQueenAndJ.com

SOCIAL MEDIA
Twitter: twitter.com/teawithqj
Instagram: Instagram.com/teawithqj
Facebook: www.facebook.com/TeawithQueenandJ
Tumblr: teawithqueenandj.tumblr.com

EMAIL & SPONSOR INQUIRIES
teawithqueenandj@gmail.com


DONATE
www.paypal.me/teawithqj OR www.patreon.com/teawithqj


Where to Donate Your Money and Time to Help Protestors: https://nyulocal.com/where-to-donate-your-money-and-time-to-help-protesters-ef2727d7a9d2

How to continue support for the End SARS movement in Nigeria
https://metro.co.uk/2020/10/29/how-to-continue-support-for-the-end-sars-movement-in-nigeria-13487714/
 

Queen’s Amazon wishlist: https://www.amazon.com/hz/wishlist/ls/CXV9ZDWZ3PP9?ref_=wl_share
J.’s Amazon wishlist: https://www.amazon.com/hz/wishlist/ls/1NP09USMPJ0TB?ref=cm_sw_em_r_wl_ip_VEVWdvdDDemm

Send us snail mail:
Tea with Queen and J.
P.O. Box 1617
229 East 85th Street
New York, NY 10028

NOTES AND EXTRA TEA:
Want to learn more about gender? Listen to these episodes of Inner Hoe Uprising podcast 
Tart and Stank https://soundcloud.com/innerhoeuprising/tart-and-stank
So what’s the big deal about pronouns, anyways? https://soundcloud.com/innerhoeuprising/so-whats-the-big-deal-about-pronouns-anyways

This week’s closing clip features @e_hemaan9 remind us we’re in a pandemic tiktok: https://vm.tiktok.com/ZMeLwa8N9/

This episode was created, hosted, and produced by Naima Lewis Muhammad & Janicia Francis with editorial support from Candice Jones

Libations to our friend’s Domingo, Tokunbo, and D. Sindayiganza who help keep this show running by paying and supporting Black women.

Opening song by Ohene Cornelius
Segment Music by Chad Milner

#282 Racism Is Hilarious

Join the conversations of three Black millennials as they discuss life, culture, & dissect social constructs.

So come relax, and cozy, and chat with us.

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