Ask your private questions and get access to exclusive bonuses and coaching through our private Facebook Group. Join now: https://www.facebook.com/groups/manup...​

For over a decade, David Tian, Ph.D. -- a uniquely qualified therapist, life coach, and former university professor -- has coached tens of thousands of people from over 87 countries to achieve happiness and success in their relationships, dating, psychology, and lifestyle.

Dr. Tian has been featured in international media, as well as co-hosting a radio show on national radio and a weekly dating advice column in a national newspaper in Singapore. 

The show, “Man Up: Masculinity for the Intelligent Man (https://www.davidtianphd.com/blog/),”​ is David’s way of helping as many people as possible enjoy empowering and fulfilling lives, while contributing to the global understanding of masculinity in modern times. In the show, he takes your questions posed in the Man Up private Facebook group (https://www.facebook.com/groups/manup...​) and answers based on his experience coaching tens of thousands of students around the world for over a decade."

Connect with David Tian here:

Website: https://www.davidtianphd.com/
Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/davidtianphd
Man Up Show Facebook Group: https://www.facebook.com/groups/manupcommunity/
YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/user/TheAuraUniversity
Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/davidtianphd/
Spreaker: https://www.spreaker.com/show/the-man-up-show-by-david-tian-ph-d
Soundcloud: https://soundcloud.com/davidtianphd/sets/the-man-up-show-by-david-tian-phd
Itunes: https://itunes.apple.com/ph/podcast/man-up-show-masculinity-for-intelligent-man-david-tian/id1356372719?mt=2
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Anchor: https://anchor.fm/davidtian
Medium: https://medium.com/@davidtian
Twitter: https://twitter.com/davidtianphd

David’s also prepared 5+ hours of free video courses that reveal how to make your relationship passionate, how to make friends anywhere, how to talk to anyone, and a lot more. Click Here: http://www.davidtianphd.com/masterclass

Man Up Ep246 - Can Psychotherapy Make You More Attractive as a Man?

Man Up Ep247 -Is It OK To Cry In Front Of Your Girlfriend Or Wife?

In this interview, you're going to hear me open up in a way that many of my followers have likely not heard before. This video is about my experience of discovering the only thing truly worth living (or dying) for.

Unconditional love is a strange concept for a lot of guys. They think they know what "unconditional love" means. But only when you begin to love all your most vulnerable parts unconditionally -- the ones holding the shame, fear, sadness, etc. -- are you then able to love an intimate partner unconditionally. Unconditional love means that when we choose to give love, we love that person without conditions. 

Unconditional love does not mean disrespecting healthy boundaries, accepting abuse, or permitting harm. Healthy boundaries are good for both parties. Spoiling the child is not good for you or the child. Similarly, becoming codependent is not good for either partner. 

Unconditional love also does not mean indiscriminate love. It does not mean we love everyone, always, equally. That's indiscriminate. Unconditional love means that when choose to give love to someone, we do so without expecting any return, regardless of the circumstances.

Beware the feeling of what you think might be ”unconditional love” in a romantic relationship unless you have already discovered this state in a non-romantic relationship. There is too much else mixed in with romantic relationships — sexual desire, ego validation, peer approval, finances, etc. — for the novice to disentangle or isolate from it the element of unconditional love. This is much better learned from loving an innocent party, such as your child (or god-daughter, in my case) or even your pet dog.

Once you understand the meaning and experience the depth of unconditional love, you enter an entirely new dimension of reality. 

I really hope you enjoy this video!

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For over a decade, David Tian, Ph.D., has helped hundreds of thousands of people from over 87 countries find happiness, success, and fulfillment in their social, professional, and love lives. His presentations - whether keynotes, seminars, or workshops - leave clients with insights into their behavior, psychology, and keys to their empowerment. His training methodologies are the result of over a decade of coaching, therapy, and education of thousands of students around the world. Subscribe now.

Connect with David Tian here:

Website: https://www.davidtianphd.com/
Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/davidtianphd
DTPHD Podcast Facebook Group: https://www.facebook.com/groups/dtphdpodcast/
Man Up Show Facebook Group: https://www.facebook.com/groups/manupcommunity/
YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/user/TheAuraUniversity
Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/davidtianphd/
Podcast: https://www.davidtianphd.com/dtphdpodcast
Spreaker: https://www.spreaker.com/show/the-dtphd-podcast
Soundcloud: https://soundcloud.com/davidtianphd
Itunes: https://itunes.apple.com/ph/podcast/david-tian-ph-d-hosts-dtphd-podcast-on-truth-love-good/id1355984770?mt=2
Stitcher: https://www.stitcher.com/podcast/david-tian-phd-hosts-the-dtphd-podcast-on-truth-love-and?refid=stpr
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Anchor: https://anchor.fm/davidtian
Medium: https://medium.com/@davidtian
Twitter: https://twitter.com/davidtianphd

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For transcriptions and more free resources, go here: https://www.davidtianphd.com/life-decisions/true-meaning-of-life/

The True Meaning Of Life - David Tian's Personal Journey (So Far)

Join David Tian on the “DTPHD Podcast” as we explore deep questions of meaning, success, truth, love, and the good life. 

Join our private Facebook group here:
https://www.facebook.com/groups/dtphdpodcast/

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Get free access to Stefan and David's new mantra meditation course here:
https://www.tenshinmindfulness.com/

*****

For over a decade, David Tian, Ph.D., has helped hundreds of thousands of people from over 87 countries find happiness, success, and fulfillment in their social, professional, and love lives. His presentations - whether keynotes, seminars, or workshops - leave clients with insights into their behavior, psychology, and keys to their empowerment. His training methodologies are the result of over a decade of coaching, therapy, and education of thousands of students around the world. Join him on the “DTPHD Podcast” as he explores deep questions of meaning, success, truth, love, and the good life. Subscribe now.

Connect with David Tian here:

Website: https://www.davidtianphd.com/
Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/davidtianphd
DTPHD Podcast Facebook Group: https://www.facebook.com/groups/dtphdpodcast/
Man Up Show Facebook Group: https://www.facebook.com/groups/manupcommunity/
YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/user/TheAuraUniversity
Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/davidtianphd/
Podcast: https://www.davidtianphd.com/dtphdpodcast
Spreaker: https://www.spreaker.com/show/the-dtphd-podcast
Soundcloud: https://soundcloud.com/davidtianphd
Itunes: https://itunes.apple.com/ph/podcast/david-tian-ph-d-hosts-dtphd-podcast-on-truth-love-good/id1355984770?mt=2
Stitcher: https://www.stitcher.com/podcast/david-tian-phd-hosts-the-dtphd-podcast-on-truth-love-and?refid=stpr
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Anchor: https://anchor.fm/davidtian
Medium: https://medium.com/@davidtian
Twitter: https://twitter.com/davidtianphd

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About Stefan Ravalli:

Forever studying masterful humans and the art of service the world over to bring their practices to our (sometimes “service-deficient”) culture, Stefan Ravalli combines all that with his expertise in meditation, mindfulness, and communication/listening to raise the game of service professionals - and anyone looking to upgrade how they connect with others (and themselves). Learning meditation was a game-changer for Stefan. It gave him the inner strength to be his unique self (without the negative self-talk!), connect with others better, and live a healthy happy life. Meditation also makes you realize your potential and gives you the fearlessness to pursue bigger and better things you never thought possible, so Stefan left a leadership role at a high-profile bar/restaurant to India to teach meditation. After doing that for years and deepening his tea ceremony practice, Stefan realized that the art of service was the richest path of self-cultivation available to him. Serving anything anywhere was the best way to apply and accelerate all the upgrades he got from meditation. So he started Serve Conscious to bring these tools and practices to anyone where service is part of their life - to awaken us to the power of service as a means of growth and self-mastery.

Learn more about Stefan Ravalli here:
http://serveconscious.com

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The Achiever’s Curse: Why The Pursuit of Significance is a Dangerous Trap | DTPHD Podcast 33

Join the launch of Stefan Ravalli's "Self-Made Mind" here:
https://tenshin.mykajabi.com/free-mindfulness-course

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Join David Tian on the “DTPHD Podcast” as we explore deep questions of meaning, success, truth, love, and the good life. 

Join our private Facebook group here:
https://www.facebook.com/groups/dtphdpodcast/

NOTE: The audio quality for this podcast is better on the audio-only platforms, such as Spreaker, Soundcloud, iTunes, etc. See the links below. 

*****

Get free access to Stefan and David's new mantra meditation course here:
https://www.tenshinmindfulness.com/

*****

For over a decade, David Tian, Ph.D., has helped hundreds of thousands of people from over 87 countries find happiness, success, and fulfillment in their social, professional, and love lives. His presentations - whether keynotes, seminars, or workshops - leave clients with insights into their behavior, psychology, and keys to their empowerment. His training methodologies are the result of over a decade of coaching, therapy, and education of thousands of students around the world. Join him on the “DTPHD Podcast” as he explores deep questions of meaning, success, truth, love, and the good life. Subscribe now.

Connect with David Tian here:

Website: https://www.davidtianphd.com/
Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/davidtianphd
DTPHD Podcast Facebook Group: https://www.facebook.com/groups/dtphdpodcast/
Man Up Show Facebook Group: https://www.facebook.com/groups/manupcommunity/
YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/user/TheAuraUniversity
Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/davidtianphd/
Podcast: https://www.davidtianphd.com/dtphdpodcast
Spreaker: https://www.spreaker.com/show/the-dtphd-podcast
Soundcloud: https://soundcloud.com/davidtianphd
Itunes: https://itunes.apple.com/ph/podcast/david-tian-ph-d-hosts-dtphd-podcast-on-truth-love-good/id1355984770?mt=2
Stitcher: https://www.stitcher.com/podcast/david-tian-phd-hosts-the-dtphd-podcast-on-truth-love-and?refid=stpr
IheartRadio: https://www.iheart.com/podcast/966-The-DTPHD-Podcast-w-28865846/
Anchor: https://anchor.fm/davidtian
Medium: https://medium.com/@davidtian
Twitter: https://twitter.com/davidtianphd

*****

About Stefan Ravalli:

Forever studying masterful humans and the art of service the world over to bring their practices to our (sometimes “service-deficient”) culture, Stefan Ravalli combines all that with his expertise in meditation, mindfulness, and communication/listening to raise the game of service professionals - and anyone looking to upgrade how they connect with others (and themselves). Learning meditation was a game-changer for Stefan. It gave him the inner strength to be his unique self (without the negative self-talk!), connect with others better, and live a healthy happy life. Meditation also makes you realize your potential and gives you the fearlessness to pursue bigger and better things you never thought possible, so Stefan left a leadership role at a high-profile bar/restaurant to India to teach meditation. After doing that for years and deepening his tea ceremony practice, Stefan realized that the art of service was the richest path of self-cultivation available to him. Serving anything anywhere was the best way to apply and accelerate all the upgrades he got from meditation. So he started Serve Conscious to bring these tools and practices to anyone where service is part of their life - to awaken us to the power of service as a means of growth and self-mastery.

Learn more about Stefan Ravalli here:
http://serveconscious.com

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Show notes and transcription coming soon!

How to Know If Your Meditation Is Effective | DTPHD Podcast Episode 34

Watch the webinar Josh Hudson and I recently did on how to become free from porn addiction for good: https://davidtn.krtra.com/t/HkGWZ7rSbMoQ​ 

Josh Hudson is a licensed mental health professional with a Masters degree in Marriage & Family Therapy.

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Ask your private questions and get access to exclusive bonuses and coaching through our private Facebook Group. Join now: https://www.facebook.com/groups/manup...​

For over a decade, David Tian, Ph.D. -- a uniquely qualified therapist, life coach, and former university professor -- has coached tens of thousands of people from over 87 countries to achieve happiness and success in their relationships, dating, psychology, and lifestyle.

Dr. Tian has been featured in international media, as well as co-hosting a radio show on national radio and a weekly dating advice column in a national newspaper in Singapore. 

The show, “Man Up: Masculinity for the Intelligent Man (https://www.davidtianphd.com/blog/),”​ is David’s way of helping as many people as possible enjoy empowering and fulfilling lives, while contributing to the global understanding of masculinity in modern times. In the show, he takes your questions posed in the Man Up private Facebook group (https://www.facebook.com/groups/manup...​) and answers based on his experience coaching tens of thousands of students around the world for over a decade."

Connect with David Tian here:

Website: https://www.davidtianphd.com/
Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/davidtianphd
Man Up Show Facebook Group: https://www.facebook.com/groups/manupcommunity/
YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/user/TheAuraUniversity
Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/davidtianphd/
Spreaker: https://www.spreaker.com/show/the-man-up-show-by-david-tian-ph-d
Soundcloud: https://soundcloud.com/davidtianphd/sets/the-man-up-show-by-david-tian-phd
Itunes: https://itunes.apple.com/ph/podcast/man-up-show-masculinity-for-intelligent-man-david-tian/id1356372719?mt=2
Stitcher:https://www.stitcher.com/podcast/david-tian/the-man-up-show-by-david-tian-phd?refid=stpr
IheartRadio: https://www.iheart.com/podcast/53-the-man-up-show-by-28665066/
Anchor: https://anchor.fm/davidtian
Medium: https://medium.com/@davidtian
Twitter: https://twitter.com/davidtianphd

David’s also prepared 5+ hours of free video courses that reveal how to make your relationship passionate, how to make friends anywhere, how to talk to anyone, and a lot more. Click Here: http://www.davidtianphd.com/masterclass

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Show Notes:

5:33​ How modern technology makes pornography more addictive

8:24​ How porn affects your relationships with women

16:40​ How to know whether you’re addicted to porn

19:30​ How to treat porn addiction effectively

24:40 How your environment affects your behavior and what this impacts modern porn addiction

Man Up Ep245 -  How to Break Pornography Addiction & Become a Better Man w/ Josh Hudson

Ask your private questions and get access to exclusive bonuses and coaching through our private Facebook Group. Join now: https://www.facebook.com/groups/manupcommunity/#

For over a decade, David Tian, Ph.D., has coached tens of thousands of people from over 87 countries to achieve happiness and success in their dating and love lives.

Once a nerdy, skinny professor of Asian philosophy who couldn’t hold a conversation to save his life, David is now director of Aura Transformation Corp., and a world renowned dating and life coach. Dr. Tian has been featured in international media, including AXN, Cosmopolitan, Psychology Today, as well as co-hosting a radio show on national radio and a weekly dating advice column in a national newspaper in Singapore. Formerly a professor at the National University of Singapore, Dr. Tian is actively researching, speaking, and publishing in the areas of philosophy and psychology.

The show, “Man Up: Masculinity for the Intelligent Man (http://www.auratransformation.org/blog),” is David’s way of helping as many people as possible enjoy empowering and fulfilling lives, while contributing to the global understanding of masculinity in modern times. In the show, he takes your questions posed in the Man Up private Facebook group (https://www.facebook.com/groups/manup...) and answers based on his experience coaching (https://www.auratransformation.org/co...) tens of thousands of students around the world for over a decade."

Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/davidtianphd/
Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/davidtianphd/
Website: http://www.davidtianphd.com/
Soundcloud: https://soundcloud.com/davidtianphd
Podcast: http://www.davidtianphd.com/dtphdpodcast
Twitter: https://twitter.com/davidtianphd

David’s also prepared 5+ hours of free video courses that reveal how to make your relationship passionate, how to make friends anywhere, how to talk to anyone, and a lot more. Click Here: http://www.davidtianphd.com/masterclass

David Tian, Ph.D.

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