Gender is story. The story that culture has bestowed upon us – a legacy that comes laden with expectations. Expectations of how a man and a woman must be, must think, must act. So what happens if you don’t meet the cultural narrative of your gender? Find out my thoughts here.

Breaking Free from Gender Expectations

What is fantasy? Here is the radical but simple definition of fantasy: sexual fantasy is simply anything that enhances excitement or pleasure. Whether it’s the time of day, the way the breeze drifts across a field or a story you create about the way someone looks at you. Let’s continue to unpack the idea of fantasy...

What You Don’t Understand About Sexual Fantasies

“My husband and I started talking about our sexual fantasies the other day and I was shocked and disgusted. What do I do now?” - Stephanie, Milwaukee, MI

Stephanie’s question resonates with many couples because very frequently one person’s turn on is what turns the other off. Here, we discuss different ways to approach this topic.

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