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Wellness Segment - NY Clothing Drive https://stmarysclothingdrive.com

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Thanos And Angie Stone

This episode’s first topic  was inspired by a show that Envy and Gia watched on TV in which one of the cast members wants to get married to her long time boyfriend. The couple has two kids and he hasn’t proposed as yet, knowing that she yearns for a proposal and to be made “respectable” more than anything...😳 Ladies would you propose to your man if you felt that a proposal from him was not on the horizon? Fellas how would you feel if your partner proposed to you? Would you feel put on the spot or find it to be endearing? Do you have a expiration date when it comes to dating and the transition from boyfriend/girlfriend to fiancé? Envy & Gia share their thoughts on the subject...
The 📧 Emails Of The Week 📧 are comprised of two emails...
1.) The first begs the question, does reaching out to an ex for a special occasion or to simply see how they’re doing insinuate that you want to rekindle the romance or rekindle a booty call? 🤭
2.) This emailer shares having to schedule sex with her partner because sometimes life just gets in the way… Couples, do you find yourself doing this more often than not? How  do you feel about scheduling sex and managing expectations? 
Let’s talk about it...🗣🗣🗣

Episode 192: Ladies Would You Propose To Your Man...?

Queen & J. are two womanist race nerds talking liberation, politics, and pop-culture over tea. Drink up!

On this episode…Colorism, COLORISM, colourism - that’s what we’re on today. Between a white-passing Meghan Markle being shunned by the royal family to Lovecraft Country putting a whole light-skinned Black person in blackface, we gotta talk about colorism. . . again.
 
This week’s hot list: Lil Nas X is a gem. Idris Elba is giving sexy dad on The Long Run, go watch it. Did Christina M. Jenkins invent weave or weeve? Racism ruins the water system of an entire city, the English monarchy reminds us who’s the realest white supremacist. Lightskinned complacency vs losing your privilege and the bag. And a lil homophobia, some toxic masculinity and mad other ish

EPISODE TIMESTAMPS 
Libations: 1:58
Donation Libations: 16:07
Affirmations: 19:36
Meghan Markle and Oprah interview: 21:42
Paying Black People: 55:47
Jackson Mississippi water crisis: 58:55
Who invented hair weave?: 1:05:30                                                  
Blackface and colorism: 1:11:30

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Where to Donate Your Money and Time to Help Protestors: https://nyulocal.com/where-to-donate-your-money-and-time-to-help-protesters-ef2727d7a9d2

How to continue support for the End SARS movement in Nigeria
https://metro.co.uk/2020/10/29/how-to-continue-support-for-the-end-sars-movement-in-nigeria-13487714/
 

Queen’s Amazon wishlist: https://www.amazon.com/hz/wishlist/ls/CXV9ZDWZ3PP9?ref_=wl_share
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NEWS THAT’S NOT NEWS: 
Racism and the water crisis in Jackson Mississippi
https://www.motherjones.com/mojo-wire/2021/03/two-weeks-after-winter-storms-thousands-of-black-mississippians-still-cant-get-clean-water/ 

MOMENT IN BLACK HAIR: 
Learn more about Christina M. Jenkins inventor of the hair weave weavehttps://blackthen.com/christina-m-jenkins-inventor-sew-weave-1951/?fbclid=IwAR1Bv-0s6549zsq4LL88r0CoT_FrwirC9xrUVuvkv8o_kWzVqc6L9-fcIKk

NOTES AND EXTRA TEA:
Lil Nas X Tiktok: https://www.tiktok.com/@lilnasx/video/6935881382048697605?_

Kelli Amirah reveals to tiktok her blackface story from Lovecraft Country https://www.tiktok.com/@kelliamirah/video/6931022868302073094?

This week’s closing clip features Maxine waters, and Megan the Stallion discussing the Savage remix, and WAP for Harper Bazaar https://twitter.com/writtenbyhanna/status/1364441485874253827?s=12

This episode was created, hosted, and produced by Naima Lewis Muhammad & Janicia Francis with editorial support from Candice Jones

Libations to our friend’s Domingo, Tokunbo, and D. Sindayiganza who help keep this show running by paying and supporting Black women.

Opening song by Ohene Cornelius
Segment Music by Chad Milner

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On this episode of Views From The 7:

Spence is catching flights not feelings, Ivan got the Jalen Rose Hairline the guys are ready to Pod!

»  Drugs for Dummies - The Difference between a sherm head and dope head (28:33)
»  Thoughts on Coming to America 2 (38:25)
»  Wesley Snipes vs Denzel Washington (53:34)
»  The most overrated Las Vegas Black Restaurants (1:34:00)

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edits. Featuring music from @jinageanz, @djspinna and @norazion, this mix will be the
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The 16th Hour - 17/04/24 - Voices Radio

if this mix was a fruit, it would be a cross between red grapes, pineapple slices and easy peel tangerines.

16thss • PARIS BROADCAST

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An hour of feel good, soulful, ambient & funky house tunes. Thank you SO much to Foundation FM for inviting me down for a mix & consistently platforming upcoming femme & nb DJs ❤️

THE 16TH HOUR 004 | FOUNDATION FM MIX | 11.02.25

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