You don’t have to choose between being the nice guy or the bad boy. In fact, the men women chase the hardest are kind and dangerous. In this video, I’ll show you how to develop both sides — the emotional intelligence that makes you trustworthy and the edge that makes you unforgettable.

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#459 - How to Be the Nice Guy AND the Bad Boy She Wants

If you have ever wondered why some men seem naturally confident in conversation while others struggle to connect, this video will show you the difference. These are not surface-level tips about what to say next. Instead, I share three powerful conversation secrets that separate confident men from everyone else and make you stand out when speaking with women or anyone you meet.

In this video, you will discover:

The art of timing – knowing when to follow your impulse and when to let it go, so you never come across as try-hard or awkward.

Storytelling mastery – how to use stories to create connection, spark emotion, and make your conversations unforgettable.

Speaking truth – why observing and stating what you genuinely notice gives you presence, authenticity, and natural authority.


Most men either talk too much, hold back, or try to impress with clever lines. Confident men do something different. They know how to flow with conversation, create moments of intrigue, and build attraction without forcing it. Once you understand these three conversation skills, you will never run out of things to say and you will always feel in control.

Whether you are looking to improve your dating life, build charisma, or simply feel more confident in social situations, these three secrets will transform the way you communicate.

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#487 - 3 Conversation Secrets That Separate Confident Men From Everyone Else

How do you warm up before approaching women during the day — so that you don’t freeze when it matters most?

Most men make the mistake of walking into social situations cold. They see a woman they want to meet, but because they are not mentally or socially warmed up, they hesitate. Their body language feels stiff, their words stumble, and the moment slips away.

In this video, I’ll show you why warming up is essential if you want to meet women during the day — and how to do it effectively. Think of it like going into battle. You would never go into war without preparing your weapons and your mindset. Social settings are no different.

When you warm up, you give yourself permission to loosen up, build momentum, and let your natural charisma shine through. You stop betraying yourself by hiding or pretending, and instead, you walk into every interaction ready.

Here’s what you’ll discover today:

Why warming up transforms your ability to meet women during the day

Simple exercises to activate your confidence and energy

How warming up prevents awkward silences and nervous hesitation

The hidden link between preparation and authentic attraction

How to feel socially switched on before you even approach her


If you’ve ever frozen in front of a woman you wanted to meet, this video will show you how to stop betraying yourself and prepare like a pro. By warming up first, you’ll walk into every encounter with presence, energy, and a relaxed confidence that women can feel instantly.

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#488 - How to Warm Up Before Approaching Women During the Day (So You Don’t Freeze When It Matters)

Are you ready to revolutionise the way you meet women in everyday life? Discover Gary Gunn's Daygame Mastery Courses, London – the ultimate training experience designed to help you build confidence, overcome approach anxiety, and create real connections without relying on dating apps.

With over 15 years of experience and thousands of men trained globally, Gary Gunn is recognised as one of the world’s leading dating coaches. His courses in London combine psychology, practical strategies, and live coaching to transform the way you approach women. Whether you are new to day game or want to refine your skills, this is where real growth begins.

On this channel you will find:

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#489 - Gary Gunn's Daygame Mastery Courses, London | Transform Your Dating Confidence

How to approach women without fear of rejection is one of the biggest challenges men face. The truth is what matters most is not the approach itself but how you remember it afterwards. Every time you see an attractive woman and fail to take action, you are training your nervous system to hesitate and act cowardly. That memory sticks with you and makes the next approach harder.

In this video I explain a mindset trick that helps you overcome approach anxiety and stop missing opportunities. Psychology shows us that the remembering self is more powerful than the present experience. That means if you avoid talking to women, you will remember yourself as someone who bottled the moment. On the other hand, if you take action you build confidence and a positive reference point you can use again and again.

When I coach men in London, I teach them a simple rule. If you miss one approach, you must make the next three without hesitation. This prevents you from dwelling on mistakes and channels the energy of hesitation into decisive action. With repetition, this becomes a habit and your confidence grows.

The key is learning how to turn the negative feeling of missing an opportunity into motivation to take the next one. Instead of remembering yourself as a coward, you remember yourself as someone who takes action. This mindset shift transforms your dating life because you stop fearing rejection and start building success one approach at a time.

If you want to know how to talk to women naturally and improve your dating life, this video will give you the practical mindset you need. Subscribe for daily videos on how to meet women with confidence and ease.

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#490 - How to Approach Women Without Fear of Rejection (The Method I Teach Clients)

When it comes to dating, knowing how to spot red flags in women can save you time, energy and heartache. In this video, I reveal the most common signs of deceit and feigning that men overlook in their dating life. Many guys fall into the trap of ignoring warning signs because they are too focused on impressing a woman. The reality is that women, just like men, sometimes hide their intentions through their words or body language. Learning how to identify these signs early makes you more confident, attractive and in control.

A red flag is simply a signal that someone may not be compatible with you. It could be as obvious as lying, being glued to social media, or showing fake interest to get something from you. It could also be subtle, like exaggerating status, pretending to be more successful than reality, or using body language to mislead. In this episode, I explain how to recognize when a woman may be deceiving you and how to avoid wasting months or years on someone who is not right for you.

I also talk about the importance of identifying your own red flags. Sometimes men are guilty of the same behaviors they want to avoid in women. By being honest with yourself and setting clear boundaries, you attract women who respect you instead of those who take advantage.

If you want to improve your dating life, you need to learn how to spot red flags in women quickly and with confidence. Watch this full video to understand the psychology behind deceit and feigning, the questions you should be asking, and the mindset shift that makes you more attractive.

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#491 - How to Spot Red Flags in Women Fast (Dating Coach Reveals)

How to know what women think when you approach them. If you have ever wondered what goes through a woman’s mind when you walk up to her during the day this video breaks it down clearly. You will learn the 10 things women actually notice and judge in those crucial first few seconds. These are not guesses but insights gathered from years of coaching men on the street in real situations as well as from women themselves who have given direct feedback.

In this video you will discover what women first think about your confidence, grooming, and social awareness. You will also find out how women assess whether you are safe to be around, if you are interesting or successful, and if you seem attractive to other women. Understanding these subconscious evaluations can make the difference between getting rejected and sparking attraction.

You will also learn practical ways to handle these tests. From how to hold eye contact, how far to stand when you approach a girl, and how to use storytelling so that she naturally feels drawn to you. Storytelling is one of the most powerful tools you can use to show your personality, your success, and your goals without bragging. You will also see how flirting and teasing communicates that you are comfortable with women and not intimidated by beauty.

If you want to improve your daytime approaches and avoid making the same mistakes most men make this video will give you a clear system to follow. By the end you will know exactly what women think when you approach them and how to pass the unspoken tests that happen in every first conversation.

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#492 - What Women Think When You Approach Them (Coach Cuts The BS)

How to get women to respect you instantly. In this video you will learn why most men struggle to gain respect from women and how to shift your manner so you naturally project confidence and authority. Respect is not about wearing expensive clothes or putting on a fake image. Women see through that immediately. What actually creates respect is the way you carry yourself, your posture, your energy, and the way you handle interactions.

When you approach an attractive woman your manner is often submissive without you realizing it. This submissiveness leads to rejection and a lack of respect. The truth is respect comes from being assertive, confident, and in control of your space. In this video you will discover practical steps to change your manner so that women view you as powerful and attractive.

You will learn how to always appear as the man on his way somewhere which creates a strong impression. You will see how posture and body language can transform the way women perceive you. You will also understand why believing that you have the right to be there is the foundation of confidence. By dominating your space and speaking with conviction you immediately shift how women respond.

Respect starts with self respect. If you do not respect yourself through your actions and lifestyle choices women will not respect you either. This means taking care of your body, pursuing your goals, and standing by your values. Once you adopt this mindset you will stop being submissive and start commanding respect naturally.

If you want women to see you as a man worth respecting and to feel powerful in every interaction this video will show you exactly how to change your manner and take control of your dating life.
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#494 - How to Make Women Respect You (Professional Coach Explains)

In this episode, I speak about my recent learning lessons after attending an actors course on voice. 

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#493 - Two Day Vocal Coaching at RADA (Royal Academy of Dramatic Arts)

In this episode, I speak about powerful Stoic principles that teach you how to hold your centre when life feels chaotic. You will learn how to stop fighting against what you cannot control, how to remain composed under pressure, and how to use discipline and perspective to restore peace within yourself. This is a lesson in presence, strength, and emotional mastery, a reminder that true power lies not in controlling the storm but in mastering your own response to it.

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#495 - Be The Calm In The Storm (but don't try and change the storm)

My name is Gary Gunn, and in this podcast, I will save you thousands of hours of pain, frustration and isolation in your dating life.

I will give you tried and tested dating advice that will make you a more confident, more attractive and a more desired man. 

I will show you how to transform your dating life, one podcast episode at a time, and more importantly, have some fun on your journey.

#459 - How to Be the Nice Guy AND the Bad Boy She Wants

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