Couples In Covid: A Mini Series

This poem is about wanting sex. There is nothing more sensual than a woman speaking about her sex except for her telling you she wants to fuck in a series of stanzas. 
This poem will turn you on, it will make you think, it may even make you…well…you know.


I want to fuck

Faking it to you make it: Why are we lying about our orgasms?

Faking orgasms, we have all done it and if you haven’t then well done to you! Why do we do it? Who do we do it with and why should we/ shouldn’t we do it?
In this podcast Tiffany, editor and curator of HOLAA! chats to Andiswa of Black Women B Like about giving a standing ovation in bed when the performance was not that good. We chat about exes, sexes and all things false in between the sheets. 

Faking it till you make it: Why are we lying about our orgasms? (Guest Star: Black Women Be Like)

This is just another instalment in the series of African women chatting on their sex, we asked them what do they like done to them? They sent whatsapps, we cut and edited and did that raw thing. Give it a listen, its awesome.
If you have any podcasts that you would want to send in to us email submissions@gmail.com

Sexual Pleasure podcast: What do you like being done to you in bed?

'We need to find the female version of busting a nut'.
Women really do love sex, and sometimes not always with a partner. Sometimes the solo kitty stroke is the absolute best thing. We chatted about ways women do it why women do it and all things in between.

'The Female version of busting a nut'- Chatting Masturbation with Black Women Be Like

What are the logistics of getting and giving head? Should you keep wet wipes by the side of the bed? Why does someone keep mentioning getting a finger in your butt? These and other questions are tackled in this podcast on dining below the belt.

Eating That Ass Like Groceries: Chatting cunnilingus with Black Women Be Like and Guest

Sat down with two incredible women, writers, thinkers, activists, flawed humans and homies and we drank wine. And churned this sucker out. Sometimes it gets lit. Sometimes it is what it is. We talked sex that you want, we spoke tattoos, we spoke things. We had to regulate ourselves and may the deities of a thousand nations bless our podcast editor for this one.

At one point we mention apples. Why? We do not know.

HOLAA Loves: What Do You Like In Bed (and Other Wildness)

So sometimes our podcasts are simply what they need to be at any given time. They are wild, they are the most. Here is 20 mins of life and love between three queer women.
Enjoy.
Also, why IS d*ck such a hazy memory?

Why is d*ck such a hazy memory? And other wildness with sister seeker and Amanda?

A beautiful spoken word poem by the incredible Akosua Hanson entitled 'Loving God'.
Instagram: @akosua_hanson
Twitter: @AkosuaHanson
Produced, mixed and mastered by Reynolds the Gentleman
Art by Suavenayshin
Photographer: Eric Gyamfi

Loving God

What happens when you have a standing order every Thursday for pussy? Or a Saturday standing date for dick and a little head? Is it a relationship? Are you approaching people with the exact job description they are applying for or will you expand and contract their role randomly? We sat down with the Mbali ‘The Baby Dyke’ and Amanda ‘The Great’ and chatted about being real about what you want from a situation when you approach someone. Do you just want to smash? But in the words of Amanda: ‘I want you to know more than what my nipple ring feels like in your mouth.’

‘I am just trying to smash’: Are you being real about your sex-utationships?

You need to know the types of orgasm out there and there are many. Boobs, skin, mental, D spot and G spot, there is so much flavour out there. In this reading Amanda breaks a 10 of them down in this post. Make sure you check out the site for the written post on www.holaafrica.org.

So Many Ways To Come, So Little Time: 10 types of orgasm

Welcome to this space of love, healing and sunshine where we discuss love, gender, identity, sexuality, sex and much more. We don't have the answers, we are just trying to figure it out. Come along and let's figure it out together yeah?

In this episode, you get to know me a little bit better. 

Music: Speculation Alley by Martijn de Boer (NiGiD) (c) copyright 2018 Licensed under a Creative Commons Attribution Noncommercial  (3.0) license. http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/NiGiD/58523 Ft: Stefan Kartenberg, Javolenus

Calling All Queers Introduction: Get To Know Me

Welcome to this space of love, healing and sunshine where we discuss love, gender, identity, sexuality, sex and much more. We don't have the answers, we are just trying to figure it out. Come along and let's figure it out together yeah?

In this episode, my friend Meg and I trace the footsteps back to our past and try to figure out how we knew we were queer. 

Music: Speculation Alley by Martijn de Boer (NiGiD) (c) copyright 2018 Licensed under a Creative Commons Attribution Noncommercial  (3.0) license. http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/NiGiD/58523 Ft: Stefan Kartenberg, Javolenus

CAQ Episode 2: Back To The Beginning: How We Knew We Were Queer

Have you ever found yourself overthinking thoughts that it often leaves you feeling confused and out of kilter with your mind and heart? 

Do you sometimes think yourself into a hole so deep that the only person who can get you out of those dark thoughts is you? 

Join your host, Chosen Flower, as they discuss all things understanding and analyzing feelings the best way they know how, by overthinking!

This episode is about learning to sit, process, understand and even possibly enjoy dwelling in moments of melancholy through mediums of poetry, music and photography. 

For more info, visit: 
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#PurelySoulFool #ChosenFlowerCollections

Purely Soul, Fool Vol. 1 | A Poets Logic: Understanding feelings through overthinking

Chosen Flower Collections brings you back with another P U R E L Y S O U L, F O O L mix and its all things chilled vibes, other than that random point when Megan Thee Stallion comes on with a whole other groove! 

A vibe to start with for the next mix!

It’s all Soulful Overcast, Rainy day Sundays. 

We are collaborating with HOLAAfrica for some really dope #SoulfulSunday vibes, introducing #PurelySoulFool, a series of Podcasts and Mixes coming to you with a  L I V E  S T R E A M  exclusively to HOLAAfrica's instagram (@insta_holaa)
 
Tune-in for the L I V E  S T R E A M  M I X  every last Sunday of the Month for soulfilled melodies from your fave Soul/RnB/Deep House Artists & Record Labels and some wholesome chats!
 
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Purely Soul, Fool! No. 5

Chosen Flower Collections has come through with another Deep House Mix, featuring some awesome new Artists from All Day I Dream, new skool tunes from South Africa’s very own Stay True Sounds, Mzansi House and many more! 

A dope pre-build up to the L I V E  S T R E A M  M I X  that goes live exclusively to HOLAAfrica’s Instagram (@insta_holaa)
 
Tune-in for the L I V E  S T R E A M  M I X  every last Sunday of the Month for soulfilled melodies and deep underground trancematic tracks from your fave Soul/RnB/Deep House Artists & Record Labels and some wholesome chats!
 
For more info, visit:
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Just V I B E S  vol. 6

COVID has rocked our lives and changed everything. Not only has it shaken our sense of stability, touched our coins and affected our mental health it has also changed the way we live and love.

In this series we get some couples to tell us what COVID has been like for them. In this one we catch up with Keitumetse and Nokuthula about what lock down has been like for them.

Couples In Covid: A Mini Series pt I - Keitumetse and Nokuthula

COVID has rocked our lives and changed everything. Not only has it shaken our sense of stability, touched our coins and affected our mental health it has also changed the way we live and love.

In this series we get some couples to tell us what COVID has been like for them. In this one we catch up with Loren and Gabe about what lock down has been like for them.

Couples In Covid: A Mini Series Pt II - Loren and Gabe

COVID has rocked our lives and changed everything. Not only has it shooken our sense of stability, touched our coins and affected our mental health it has also changed the way we live and love.

In this series we get some couples to tell us what COVID has been like for them. In this one we catch up with Mel and Wanja about what lock down has been like for them.

Couples In Covid: A Mini Series Pt III - Mel and Wanja

COVID has rocked our lives and changed everything. Not only has it shaken our sense of stability, touched our coins and affected our mental health it has also changed the way we live and love.

In this series we get some couples to tell us what COVID has been like for them. In this one we catch up with Joscar and Godiva about what lock down has been like for them.

Couples In Covid: A Mini Series Pt IV - Joscar and Godiva

COVID has rocked our lives and changed everything. Not only has it shaken our sense of stability, touched our coins and affected our mental health it has also changed the way we live and love.

In this series we get some couples to tell us what COVID has been like for them. In this one we catch up with Jen and Toni about what lock down has been like for them.

Couples In Covid: A Mini Series Pt V - Jen and Toni

COVID has rocked our lives and changed everything. Not only has it shaken our sense of stability, touched our coins and affected our mental health it has also changed the way we live and love.

In this series we get some couples to tell us what COVID has been like for them. In this one we catch up with Chelsea and Kebone about what lock down has been like for them

Couples In Covid: A Mini Series Pt VI - Kebone and Chelsea

Chelsea & Kemo AudioCouples In Covid: A Mini Series pt I - Kebone and Chelsea

We love literature and are so excited to present this reading by Unoma Azuah of their book Embracing My Shadow: Growing Up Lesbian In Nigeria. This is an incredible work that looks at how she navigated the paths of abuse, ethnic discrimination and homophobia in a hyper-religious and patriarchal Nigerian society. The struggles that dominated her growth as a girl with a nonstandard sexual orientation were further aggravated by the problems that came with being born of parents from two enemy camps.
 
Go get the book on Amazon, Barnes and Noble and other platforms.

Author Reading: Embracing My Shadow: Growing Up Lesbian In Nigeria.

A Pan Africanist queer collective dealing with all things sex and sexuality. We here to have the convo, spread the love and have a little bit of fun.

HOLAAfrica

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