Today I want to tell you a story about Selfishness. Selfishness is a life-saving skill that comes burdened with guilt and confusion. Let's clear all that up In The Transition. It’s a word and idea that can be very confusing in the Hierarchical Game, but becomes very clear in the Transition Game. Here are a few bullet points from the episode.&nbsp;A full transcript is available on my website. &nbsp; BE IN TOUCH: Email me:&nbsp;rox@inthetransition.com Leave me a voice message: 1-505-510-1135 Connect with me on&nbsp;Instagram&nbsp;&amp;&nbsp;Twitter&nbsp;(@roxannedarling) Join My Email List&nbsp;to learn about upcoming episodes &amp; events Visit my website, In the Transition with Rox. &nbsp; SHOW NOTES:  The Hierarchical game is a perfect game for codependency. The Transition Game cleans out the guilt and confusion around self-care and care for others. Choosing to be judgey or to be accepting of what is - this is also different in the two games. Then a response to a listener comment from Episode 1 about what game God wants us to play.  &nbsp; Closing comment from episode 2: “When I mind my own business, others learn to depend on themselves instead of me. I call that a win win! It’s part of my nature to enjoy helping and collaborating – but now I do it with consciousness instead of hidden agendas or because my neuroses gave me no choice.” Thank you for being You. Love, Rox Download my eBook, The Three You’s.

A Story About Selfishness

Welcome to the first episode of In the Transition podcast. This is a story going back to the beginning of space and time, when Spirit chose to incarnate and come into form. There was one very important criteria though. This was the setup for the Hierarchical Game.&nbsp;Life is a game. Well, actually, now there are two games and you have a choice. I'm introducing a new concept of consciousness. It changed my life and can change your life, too. There's so much good news, In the Transition. BE IN TOUCH: Email me:&nbsp;rox@inthetransition.com Leave me a voice message: 505-510-1135 Connect with me on&nbsp;Instagram&nbsp;&amp;&nbsp;Twitter&nbsp;(@roxannedarling) Join My Email List&nbsp;to learn about upcoming episodes &amp; events Visit my website, In the Transition with Rox. &nbsp; &nbsp; SHOW NOTES:  Spirit makes something out of nothing and you're invited. The Hierarchical Game - a "no win" game we've been playing for eons, with countless pretend absolute rules. The Transition Game - a new game, where the point is to claim your subjective reality. There's an absolute criteria for nothing. (LMK if you can find one; I think it's not possible.) Language reveals and also supports the game you're in.&nbsp; Practice: Try not saying the word "need" for 24 hours unless your life is literally on the line. Let me know how it goes!  &nbsp; EPISODE LINKS Back Soon&nbsp;#buddhisthumor&nbsp;from Jack Kornfeld on Twitter Thank you for being You. Love, Rox Download my eBook, The Three You’s.

I Want to Tell You a Story

The Game of Life is Rigged - and that’s the good news. How do I build this trust in being selfishly true to myself, practicing radical self-acceptance and self-awareness? I decided to believe the game of life is rigged in my favor. But what does that actually mean? How does that actually work in the Transition Game?&nbsp;A full transcript is available on my website. Plus! Meet The Guyz&nbsp;- the channeled entities who I talk with about the Transition in consciousness. &nbsp; BE IN TOUCH: Email me:&nbsp;rox@inthetransition.com Leave me a voice message: 1-505-510-1135 Connect with me on&nbsp;Instagram&nbsp;&amp;&nbsp;Twitter&nbsp;(@roxannedarling) Join My Email List&nbsp;to learn about upcoming episodes &amp; events Visit my website, In the Transition with Rox. &nbsp; SHOW NOTES: Today’s notes are summarized in these quotes from the episode: "The game of life is rigged in your favor."&nbsp;Rumi “There were many terrible things in my life, but most of them never happened.”&nbsp;Michel de Montaigne "The best way to predict the future is to create it."&nbsp;Peter Drucker, Abraham Lincoln "The best way to predict the future, is to occupy the present."&nbsp;Roxanne Darling "Our help is usually not very helpful. Our help is often toxic. And help is the sunny side of control. Stop helping so much. Don't get your help and goodness all over everybody."&nbsp;Anne Lamott "Radical self-acceptance: No pressure to be or do anything. No need to be liked, understood, accepted, or respected."&nbsp;Roxanne Darling &nbsp; Closing comment from episode 3: Playing in the Transition has helped me settle into the Present, accept what is, and stop fighting reality. I think it makes total sense, especially when I remember the three points from this episode: One – The Universe is 100% for me. Two – I find my power in the Present. Three – There is nothing wrong with me. To wrap things up, I want to share, a meaty little mantra to chew on until the next episode: This must be perfect, otherwise it wouldn’t be happening. Thank you for being You. Love, Rox Download my eBook, The Three You’s.

The Game is Rigged

The recent environmental disasters have caused so much loss for so many. I wrote this guided meditation as a way of connecting with those I cannot directly assist and to provide them a short and soothing message. Please share with anyone you think could benefit. Duration: 4:30 Music: For Meditation, by alexure on Audio Jungle &nbsp; BE IN TOUCH: Email me:&nbsp;rox@inthetransition.com Leave me a voice message: 1-505-510-1135 Connect with me on&nbsp;Instagram&nbsp;&amp;&nbsp;Twitter&nbsp;(@roxannedarling) Join My Email List&nbsp;to learn about upcoming episodes &amp; events Visit my website, In the Transition with Rox. &nbsp; SHOW NOTES: Here is a transcript of the guided meditation in this episode. This meditation is dedicated to those dealing with loss. I realize I know nothing of your situation. I am clueless and ignorant of your struggles. And yet I his I can offer this. May you find unlimited open-minded thinking and open-hearted loving, that these things can orient you in times of futility, that they may be the tiniest start of new things to come, that they may feed the part of you that feels hopeless and forever lost. This is painful ‘now.” But it is only now. New moments are forming, most we cannot see or even feel yet. But they are there. This moment of now is changing, too. Breathing in, and breathing out. Breathing in, and breathing out. Even if the air itself is foul, the tiniest and calmest of breaths is a reminder you are still here. Even though you may have doubts about wanting to be here. Even though you may have lost friends, you may have lost family, you may have lost personal belongings. This is the phase of ‘nothing makes any sense.’ It will give way to another phase, and things will start to make sense, in time. May you feel the open-minded thinking and the open-hearted loving I send to you. May your heart provide a home for you in times of loss and confusion. May your spirit be lifted even when your hopes are down. May you find some peace in the midst of the pain you find yourself in. May the cracks let in the light and bring unimaginable changes for you. May you find some rest in moments large and small. May you remember that all beings are divine. May you trust in your own strengths and take solace in knowing you are loved. May you know that I am thinking of you, caring for you, doing things for you, even though you may not see or feel it. May you trust in your own strengths and take solace in knowing you are loved. My name is Roxanne Darling and I am sending you love and courage from InTheTransition.com. &nbsp; &nbsp; &nbsp;  A Meditation on Loss by Roxanne Darling is licensed under a Creative Commons Attribution-NonCommercial 4.0 International License. Based on a work at https://inthetransition.com/2018/11/episode-4-a-meditation-on-loss/.

A Meditation on Loss

Tips for Highly Sensitive People in Today's World In today’s episode: I’m sharing how I get off my case while being a highly sensitive person who cares about the world! I’m constantly tweaking how to use my influence, while not getting overwhelmed by taking on too much responsibility for things that are out of my control. I seriously think there are easier ways to effect change than by having me do so much heavy lifting. If you too are concerned with your role in the state of the world, I hope this episode offers a little uplifting tonic. Plus, I’ll be talking about one of my favorite podcasts, Ear Hustle!  A full transcript is available on my website. &nbsp; BE IN TOUCH: Email me: rox@inthetransition.com Leave me a voice message: 1-505-510-1135 Connect with me on Instagram &amp; Twitter (@roxannedarling) Join My Email List to learn about upcoming episodes &amp; events Visit my website, In the Transition with Rox.  SHOW NOTES: So basically I’m going to take another stab at popping the binary balloon of “how things work.” It’s really not about right or wrong, even though we focus a lot on that way of thinking. Some recent news from the Ear Hustle inspired me to want to talk about this stuff. Co-host and San Quentin inmate, Earlonne Woods, had his sentence commuted by California governor Jerry Brown a few days ago. I believe that there is a positive connection to all the work he did and the thousands of listeners who engaged with him via the podcast. That connection is in the energy realm, not the signing petitions or going on hunger strikes realms. &nbsp; Here’s my ‘notes to self’ for this episode:  Rox, Stop feeling guilty if you don’t work on every cause. There are unlimited moral imperatives being placed in your path. Life unfolds in still mysterious ways and the most powerful contribution I can make is to know myself and act from true desire rather than guilt. Choose want / don’t want over should / shouldn’t.  &nbsp; Thank you for being You. Love, Rox &nbsp; Download my eBook, The Three You’s. &nbsp;

Tips for Being a Highly Sensitive Person in Today's World

In today’s episode, I’m going to attempt to answer a common question: Why did God let this happen? By asking a different question: What if God doesn’t owe us anything? What if we’re here by mutual agreement with God, to have amazing and unexpected experiences? Let's figure out how to have an expanded version of Spirit, God, Higher Power, that supports each of us in all we do, have, feel, and experience. &nbsp; Show Notes:  Comparing traditional religion to a modern view of "godness" and spirituality. Learn a new explanation for "when bad things happen to good people." How labeling things good and bad or right and wrong can increase suffering and confusion. What it can mean to truly believe we are souls having a human experience. Several quotes in support of using difficult experiences to discover more of our true selves.  So what if this Godness is more like a cheerleader than a helicopter parent, an energy who supports us humans in trying anything we want, regardless of the outcome? What if this Godness respects our humanity to the fullest and knows with 100% certainty that even if we face death, the most final act, that we all will face, that we will then return to the divine and we can incarnate and try again? What if this Godness supports our complete and total freedom to explore the depths of who we are and what we want to try? What if this Godness considers nothing a failure but instead just another outcome? Thank you so much for listening. If you'd like to share your comments with me, I have several options for you! You can leave an audio message at my Google voice mail, the number is (505) 510-1135. You can email me at rox@inthetransiton.com. You can also tweet or instagram me @roxannedarling. That's all for today's episode. I appreciate you for listening and hanging out here with me, In the Transition! If you liked this, please tell a friend and/or leave a review for me in Apple Podcasts. And remember, none of this matters! Your most courageous act may be unconditional self-acceptance.  The full transcript is available on my website.

God as Cheerleader, Not Helicopter Parent

In today’s episode, I am embedding a copy of a talk I gave in Feb 2017 on Maui at a live event for Valentine’s Day. The overall theme was how do we have a more conscious approach to love - both individually and in the community?&nbsp; I’ve spent a lot of time thinking about the concept as part of my personal process in learning about codependency. I also came to discover that the advice John Lennon has been giving us all these years might be actually be&nbsp;mis-directed. Show Notes:  Love is not the answer.&nbsp; Love is too confusing and means so many things to different people. Why taint the lusciousness of love by trying to love your enemies? Instead, practice Acceptance. What if we are here to experience separateness, not unity?  &nbsp; Thank you so much for listening. I’d love for you to share your comments with me, so I have several options for you! You can leave an audio message at my Google voice mail,&nbsp; (505) 510-1135. You can email me at rox@inthetransiton.com. You can also tweet&nbsp; or instagram me @roxannedarling. I would appreciate if you would leave a review in Apple Podcasts or on the new podcast website, Podchaser. Leave a review in Apple Podcasts. Leave a review on Podchaser. &nbsp; The full transcript is available on my website.

Why I gave up on love

This is my first interview episode. I love talking to people about the Transition in Consciousness and how to use the ideas in practical, on the ground ways. My guest is Bridget Hinman - the Fairy Liaison at Unicorn Square on Maui. We actually recorded this almost a year ago; the messages are as timely as ever. Find Bridget here: Website: UnicornSquare.com Instagram: @UnicornSquare Twitter: @UnicornSquare Episode 8 Show Notes Hello, my name is Roxanne Darling, and this is In the transition podcast. Today is episode eight and I'm having a conversation with Bridget Henman from Unicorn Square. If this is your first time listening, please visit my website inthetransition.com, to learn more. You can also tweet or Instagram me @roxannedarling. In today's episode, you have the immense pleasure of meeting my friend Bridget, who is the fairy liaison at Unicorn Square on Maui. How's that for a job title? The mission of her company is to cultivate self acceptance, gratitude and being in nature. She shares some very unusual, and for me, mind blowing tips about dealing with children who are acting up and we talk a lot about the adult, the kid and the soul you link to my ebook on the three us in the show notes. We take some of the fantasy gloss the kids have about what it means to be divine and explore practical ways that we as adults can tap into more consciousness and personal power. So let's have a listen and enjoy the birds singing in the background. ——————————— The full transcript is on my website: https://inthetransition.com/2019/05/episode-8-you-are-amazing/ ——————————— Be in touch! Thank you so much for listening. I'd love for you to share your comments with me. So I have several options for you.  You can leave an audio message at my Google voicemail, which is 505-510-1135. You can email me at rox@inthetransition.com. You can also tweet or Instagram me @roxannedarling.  I would also appreciate if you would leave a review on Apple podcast or on the new podcasting website podchaser.com. I'll have all the links in the show notes for you. Leave a 5-star review on iTunes. Leave a comment and save this to your Top 8 on Podchaser. That's all for today's episode. I appreciate you for listening and hanging out with me here in the transition. And remember, none of this matters. Your most courageous act may be unconditional self acceptance. Transcribed by https://otter.ai Please note: I like to include about a minute of music at the end of each episode to allow listeners to stay "in the zone" of the podcast, giving you additional time to rest and integrate. Thank you for being You.

You are Amazing with Bridget Hinman

This episode shows a conscious way to find safe harbor in the midst of storms, wherever you may be. It is an exercise in self-awareness and self-acceptance. Episode 9 Show Notes Hello, my name is Roxanne Darling, and this is In The Transition podcast. Today is episode 9 and I'm doing a deep dive into the topic of safety. This is the issue we face when times seem out of control and confusing, even at times frightening. The Transition in Conscious has some insights here that have helped me relieve anxiety and understand the starting point for feeling safe. Much like the lighthouse image I'm using for the podcast cover art, the short answer is that when the waves are crashing around me, I go inside, to a metaphorical lighthouse to create calm and get a larger view of what's happening 'out there.' Thank you to Jock Diego, who shared his photograph on Unsplash.&nbsp;Diego Jock on  Unsplash If this is your first time listening, please visit my website inthetransition.com, to learn more. You can also tweet or Instagram me @roxannedarling. And in case you haven't noticed before, I provide a full episode transcript on my website and many links in the show notes. Ok, let's talk about safety. ——————————— The full transcript is on my website:&nbsp; https://inthetransition.com/2019/06/where-does-safety-come-from-episode-9 ——————————— Be in touch! Thank you so much for listening. I'd love for you to share your comments with me. So I have several options for you.  You can leave an audio message at my Google voicemail, which is 505-510-1135. You can email me at rox@inthetransition.com. You can also tweet or Instagram me @roxannedarling.  I would also appreciate if you would leave a review on Apple Podcasts or on the new podcasting website podchaser.com. I'll have all the links in the show notes for you. Leave a 5-star review on iTunes. Leave a comment and save this to your Top 8 on Podchaser. That's all for today's episode. I appreciate you for listening and hanging out with me here in the transition. And remember, none of this matters. Your most courageous act may be unconditional self-acceptance. Please note: I like to include about a minute of music at the end of each episode to allow listeners to stay "in the zone" of the podcast, giving you additional time to rest and integrate. Thank you for being You.

Where Does Safety Come From?

A podcast about my transition in consciousness, as I exit the Hierarchical Game and play in the Transition Game, with excerpts from The Guyz, a channeled group soul. This is a new approach to finding radical self-acceptance.

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