Bold...funny....caregiver...serious at times. I enjoy most everything from reading to playing in the snow. I would consider myself extremely positive and a realist in general with a smidgen of romance and fantasy. Ok, maybe more than a smidgen because I will tell you that in regards to dating, I really am hoping that something fabulous is going to happen when I least expect it! But to be honest, I am looking for for true friendship first...it would be great if something more came out of that friendship, but I have no expectations other than to try and see what happens., , I have been on dating websites off and on and I can't say I am a big fan; however, I am not into the late nite bar scene, finding dates at church or thru friends/family either. Dating websites are a learning process. Below is what I have learned and will share with you so that I don't waste your time or mine:, , If you are looking for a perfect 10, I am not it....I keep my body healthy and am responsible; however, I have some nice curves that I'm kinda fond of. I wear average size clothes well and can dress up and be soft and sexy or get dirty in jeans and sweatshirt or tshirt., , I am not going to send you nude pics so please don't ask. And, I really don't care to see nude pics of you either. Let's keep it simple...see if our personalities and chemistry connects first before any body parts., , You have to be financially responsible because I am and expect the same from you. Please don't get upset if I pay for my own way when we meet. It's just a respect thing...I am not looking for a free meal or drink and do not want you to have expectations of me, if you pay. I am looking for decent conversation and somewhat of a spark to see if we want to meet again. If we don't want to meet again and end up friends, well, one can never have too many friends., , I am looking for a connection and see where it goes; therefore, I am not interested in one night stands. , , If you are 10 years younger and into older women, I am not interested. Sorry, just too much drama for me., , If you live more than 30 minutes away, it will take a lot of convicing on your part that we should meet. I don't go out much during cold months but am very spontaneous the other 9 months of year...dinner at out of way places, happy hour drinks, walking my dogs, boating, nature watching, hanging out with friends and family, playing euchre., , If you are needy, ie: do not have your own friends, or like to talk or text every day about nothing; we won't work out. I am not the clingy or jealous type. I show I care by actions rather than words., , Please do not use the terms babe, baby, hon, sweety, etc. until after we have orgasmed together at least 10 times., , I am very family oriented and close to my family. If you have kids, I am open to dating even though I don't have children; however, it has been my experience with single dads that they don't really have time for dating. So, if you contact me and have kids, please know what you want and be honest with yourself, your kids and me. I am sensitive to the many needs of children. Dating can be difficult, if all parties dont know the expectations. Also, please note that I have no interest in having children of my own with you., , Also, I prefer to date men that are over 5'11&quot; with all hair on their head and not their body. I am also cool with a FEW extra pounds. I guess preferences can change but just being honest here., , The fastest way to lose my interest is to lie to me.

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