Some claim the enneagram comes from ancient Christians while others claim it’s from demons. Is the enneagram a gift from God or a Trojan horse of self-deception? Three stories of people who discover shocking truths about the enneagram that lead them to unexpected places.

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The Truth About the Enneagram w/ Love Thy Neighborhood

In this episode, Jesse and Lindsey talk through the desire to protect yourself and how this is expressed in the qualities of Enneagram Type 8. Adam Young of The Place We Find Ourselves podcast joins the show and shares how the desire to be protective has shaped his life as well as his journey to tell the difference between protection and control. Everyone plays Your Worst Nightmare, where Lindsey will try to predict Adam’s fears.

#94: Your Desire to Be Protective w/ Adam Young (Type 8)

In this episode, Jesse and Lindsey talk through the desire to have peace and how this is expressed in the qualities of Enneagram Type 9. Singer-songwriter and professional high-fiver Andy Gullahorn joins the show and shares how the desire to be at peace has shaped his life as well as his journey to tell the difference between peace and comfort. Everyone plays Trial by Trolley, where Andy will save the world from either hungry Kraken or flying sharks.

#95: Your Desire to Be at Peace w/Andy Gullahorn (Type 9)

In this episode, Jesse and Lindsey wrap up the series on The Enneagram and Desire with CrossPoint Director, Clif Roth. Jesse and Lindsey hear what Clif is currently thinking about desire: how it has grown and how it is impacting relationships.

#96: Reflections on Your Desires

In an undisclosed city in Central Africa, Islam has been the prevailing worldview for centuries. Bishara, a young rich kid with a promising future, finds himself risking everything to become a follower of Jesus.

This episode is originally from The Maverick Podcast. Listen to the full series at the link below.

https://podcasts.pioneers.org/podcast-series/maverick

#75: A New Sound in Africa

This month, we’re launching a brand new podcast called Things We Couldn’t Say. It’s one-part journalism, one-part therapy and one-part campfire conversation. Check out our first episode where we unpack all the things we couldn’t say about the recent LTN episode The Truth About the Enneagram. Want to know how Jesse and Anna changed their minds about the enneagram? Find out here.

The Love Thy Neighborhood podcast is the show YOU help us make for everyone. Things We Couldn’t Say is the show WE make for you as a thank you for your support.

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Things We Couldn’t Say (About the Enneagram)

Christians say that being part of the church is a gift but what happens when it feels like a curse? Stories of congregations and pastors being betrayed by their family of faith.

Thank you to our guests:
Espy Mendez
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Mike Hernandez: https://www.famcitycenter.com/leadership
Jerome Gay: https://www.visionrdu.com/jeromegay

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#76: Where the Gospel Meets Church Hurt

In this episode, Jesse and Lindsey begin a new series on Moving Beyond Your Core Type. Marilyn Vancil joins the show to discuss her new book, Beyond the Enneagram. Together they discuss the need for inner transformation and soul restoration on the Enneagram journey and how to move from self-orientation to God-centered living.

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#97: Moving Beyond Your Type's Patterns w/ Marilyn Vancil

In 2009, about a quarter of American high school students said they had “persistent feelings of sadness or hopelessness.” By last year it was up to 44 percent, the highest level of teenage sadness ever recorded.

For girls, the rate rose to 57 percent. That means more than half of teenage girls feel persistently sad or hopeless. If you stood a teen from 2009 next to a teen from 2022, what would be the most noticeable difference between them? One of them would be on her phone. This episode is in partnership with The Gospel Coalition’s Recorded podcast.

Listen to more of Recorded at: www.thegospelcoalition.org/podcasts/recorded/

#77: Scrolling Alone

In this episode, Jesse and Lindsey talk about how Type 1s can move beyond their core type patterns by incorporating tools from Type 4 and Type 7.  David Thomas, Founder of Raising Boys and Girls and Daystar Counseling, joins the show and shares how he came to realize he was a Type 1 and the ways he uses tools from other types in his life and counseling practice.

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#98: Moving Beyond Type 1's Patterns w/ David Thomas

True stories to help you follow Jesus in modern culture.

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Like a movie for your ears, every episode we choose a compelling topic to wrestle with and put together interwoven stories to explore that topic. It’s not a Bible study or a sermon. It’s a series of gripping, funny, sad and intimate stories of people grappling with what it means to follow Jesus amidst the cultural issues of our time – set to a soundtrack to immerse you. Come along with us as we take a nuanced dive into what it looks like to be a person of Christian faith living in the modern world. Hosted by Jesse Eubanks and produced by Anna Tran.

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