"Magic of Making Up Course Review" MALE / FEMALE DYNAMICS

Before we get into the “getting your ex boyfriend back” part, I need to take you on
a little journey first. If I just give you the steps without you understanding the core
reasoning behind them, I doubt they would be anywhere near as effective. So let’s
begin...

The Masculine Hero

The inner workings of even the most simplistic mammalian brain is not yet
understood, let alone the complex yet subtle differences between the sexes.
In prehistoric times, men and women assumed different societal roles which (even
today) continue to shape their psyche. Men were traditionally the hunters and so
they developed a brain better suited for quickly assessing situations, calculating
speed, tracking prey and mapping. This would explain why modern men flock
toward video games, sports and technical activities such as using computers and
vehicle mechanics.

This is also why men need to feel like the masculine hero when in a relationship.
They want to be the protector and provide for his woman and his family. This
behavior is hard wired into the male brain. Indeed, men are at their finest when
they are competing for a woman; but I digress.

This has developed into a male stereotype and is fed to women from a very young
age. For example, Disney movies feed young, impressionable girls the fantasy of a
night in shining armor who comes along and saves/protects the helpless princess.
Although both sexes play into these stereotypes/roles, too often this ideal
masculine image will utterly poison an otherwise healthy relationship. When
women find their man not living up to this ideal image, they will only focus on
what he is doing wrong. Blaming, judging, nagging and generally nitpicking at
everything. Absolutely poisoning and dooming the relationship from the get-go.

Once a man feels as though he is below the role of provider/protector, he will leave
the relationship. Unfortunately, many women force a breakup for this one simple
reason. Once these roles are reversed (polarity shift) the relationship will naturally
self destruct.

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Selector vs. Selectee

Men and women have always been “wired” differently from one another. Sure,
there are many similarities, but I don’t think I really have to convince you that
there are vast differences in terms of how our brains function. Differences in what
we are both attracted to on a deep, psychological level.

Traditionally, it is the woman's job to be the selector in courtship rituals.
Scientifically speaking, it’s the male’s job to pursue and the woman’s job to either
accept or reject said advances. It’s literally been like this for all of human history.
Our brains are hard wired to take on these so called “roles”.

Now, obviously this can be a huge advantage for women, if only they would
embrace and accept this concept in its entirety. In many cases this role gets
reversed and a woman will find herself pursuing a man – not the other way around.

Sometimes women will begin to seek her mans approval by dressing overly sexy,
pretending to like or be interested in the same things he is, etc. Think back and try
to remember when exactly the tables turned. By nature of you purchasing this
material, you are now pursuing your ex.

Originally, was it your ex boyfriend who displayed interest in you and pursued
after you? Was he the one working and chasing you? Did you ultimately select
him? I’m willing to wager he was. But something changed along the way;
something that made him lose interest in you.

Your desire for a lasting long term relationship was so overpowering, you valued
that pursuit more than selecting the best possible mate on your terms.
The typical courtship ritual goes something as follows:

The man shows interest and attraction for you. Chemistry starts to kick in and you
“test” him to see if he’s a good fit or not. In essence, you are the selector, testing to
see whether or not he is a good fit for a long term relationship.

To regain control of your failed relationship, you must clearly establish that you are
the selector and he is the one pursuing you. This dynamic must be set back up, else
you will have little success. You need to re-affirm your feminine role as the
selector and not the selectee.

“He who cares least, controls the relationship.”
Remember those words, because right now you care the most, otherwise you
would not be reading this book. And let’s face it, you cannot suddenly turn off your
strong feelings for your ex boyfriend and magically care less. Emotions don’t work
that way (although it would certainly come in handy if they did).

The good news is, there are very specific things you can do to re-affirm your role
as selector again. There are things you can do to drive your man crazy with
jealousy and desire (we’ll get to that in later chapters).

Casual vs. Girlfriend Material

You must never be just a “casual girl” to any man you value. This is for your
benefit as much as it is his. The truth is, there are women men keep around as just
“casual girls” and then there are those who they consider “girlfriend material”.

Kind of like how most all women have men who they just consider friends (and
would never sleep with) and others that they would in a heartbeat. With men, this
phenomenon is not as pronounced.

This may or may not apply to you, but if you are currently still sleeping with your
ex boyfriend, stop immediately. Don’t fall into the trap of believing that just maybe
he will want you back if you maintain your physical connection. You need a
commitment from him. One that doesn’t just involve sex.

How can he ever place value on you if you hardly even value yourself enough to
expect more than just sex? You DO want more than that, otherwise you would
NOT be reading this book.

If you really, no matter what, wanted to get your boyfriend back, you would call
him on the phone and tell him that he could have sex with you, no strings attached
any time he wanted to, anywhere and in whatever manner he wanted. Most men
would accept those terms and you would “have him back” - but that’s not what you
want.

You want his heart. You want him to love and desire you. You want to be pursued
and viewed as a prize; held up proud in front of all his friends.

If you cannot value yourself enough to recognize when enough is enough… he
owns you. And if he thinks he owns you (and this is true for both sexes) he will
walk all over you.

Again: He who cares least, controls the relationship.
I want to drill those words into your head because they ring so true. The
Hollywood, fairytale version of a happy couple simply does not exist (and never
has). Yes, love is alive and a very real emotional state, but you cannot allow
yourself to let that emotion take over your better judgment.

Love is a lot like a drug when you really think about it. You can become so
addicted to a man’s validation that you would literally do anything to get it… just a
little more… more… And then he owns you. And he knows it.

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"Magic Of Making Up Course"  Unattractive Traits: Let’s first discuss unattractive traits. These are the traits you began to display over the span of your relationship. These are the core reasons your girlfriend broke up with you, even if she played it off as something else. In the vast majority of cases, women themselves do not even understand why they suddenly lose attraction for their boyfriend or even husband. It just happens and they don’t consciously know why. But I do…
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Insecurity

Say hello to the #1 killer of attraction. Women are just as repelled by an
insecure man as men are repelled by Rosie O’Donnell. And I’m not even
joking!

Insecurity will manifest itself in many, many different forms. Most of which
we will discuss below.

Acting Jealous

The jealous boyfriend is a very unattractive boyfriend indeed. Jealousy
absolutely reeks of insecurity. It says “I feel threatened by other men because
deep down I don’t view myself as worthy of you”. Women are not attracted to
a man who constantly acts jealous toward other guys because it demonstrates
weakness on his part.

These types of jealous guys will ask their girlfriends who they are with all the
time, get pissed off when their girlfriend talks to other men or even hangs out
with them. They will often make fun of other men their girlfriend is friends
with just to look “cool”. In reality, this type of behavior only makes them look
ridiculously insecure.

You need to assume the attitude “other men just make me look good” and
leave her talk to whoever the heck she wants, because in the end, you’ll only
look better.

Being Controlling

Putting handcuffs on and controlling your girlfriend only further shows
insecurity. Men will often demand their girlfriend not hang out with other men
or even their own friends.

A man is controlling because deep down he feels as though he is not good
enough for his girlfriend. He thinks he must control her in order for her to stay
with him. Ironically, the tighter he closes his fist, the further she will slip
through his fingers.

It is human nature to rebel against that which attempts to control us. Much
like when we are children, we rebel against our parents for limiting our
behavior.

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"Magic Of Making Up" “Pedestaling” & Not Valuing Yourself: Women want a man who will value himself just as much as he values her. The
minute you put your girlfriend atop a pedestal and start placing her needs
ahead of your own is the minute she will leave you. She will lose all respect
for you and move on to a man who values himself just as much as he values
her.

I hear about guys acting all needy and insecure like this constantly. They like
what their girlfriend likes. They do what their girlfriend wants to do. They
basically place their girlfriend on a pedestal and say “I value you more then I
value myself”. Totally not attractive.

Women want a man who values himself just as much as he values her. No
exceptions.
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“He who cares least, controls the relationship”

Ever wonder why women are so drawn to jerks? Well, this is largely the
reason. Women are attracted to the fact they value themselves so much. While
this doesn’t mean you should become a jerk, you should adopt their positive
attitude toward themselves.

Being Approval Seeking

Looking to your girlfriend for her approval on everything is insecure. Being
externally validation driven is the hallmark of an insecure, low self esteem
man.

Do any of the following sound familiar?
Do you really like me?
Do you think my penis is big?
What would you rate me on a scale of 1 – 10?
Did you have a good time with me tonight?
Do you like this shirt?
How good am I in bed?

The list could go on for the entire length of this eBook but I’ll spare you the
unnecessary drivel. Work on understanding what it means to be approval
seeking and think about how you could have been approval seeking while in
your relationship.

Being Clingy

Spending too much time together is not a good thing. Diamonds are valuable
because they are rare. If you could just walk outside your house and pick up a
diamond, you wouldn’t pay a jeweler a ton of money for it. I mean, that’s just
common sense.

Despite the fact that may be common sense, most people don’t think to
consider its social implications. It applies to people perfectly. Stop and
consider whether or not you started acting clingy toward the end of your
relationship, right before your ex broke up with you.
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"Magic Of Making Up Review" Dominant Traits:Just as there are particular behaviors men display that repel women, there are dominant traits that attract them in droves. First of all, the very fact that you are reading this tells me a few things:

You’re attractive to women. Since you had a girlfriend, you are to some
degree a dominant male yourself. You would not have been able to attract a
woman for a long term relationship had you not been. This makes my job a lot
easier.

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You take charge and correct things that go wrong in your life. You bought this
eBook and that alone tells me you posses a number of attractive traits.
The dominant traits that attract women are as follows:

Leadership

Actively taking the lead and having a plan is of paramount importance. Has
your girlfriend ever asked you something along the lines of “what do you
want to do tonight?” and you replied with “I don’t know, what do you want to
do?” Well, we have a problem with that, as it demonstrates a lack of
leadership. Remember that women are biologically attracted to a specific type
of man. It is hard coded in their DNA.

Every time you fail to have a plan, she loses attraction for you. Your role,
based on millions of years of human evolution, dictates that you should be the
one leading your girlfriend, while she follows your lead. Embrace this.

Confidence

We all know that women are for some reason attracted to jerks. Well,
confidence plays a huge part in that. Remember that it is not the jerk they are
attracted to, but rather the specific traits he displays. Confidence is certainly
one of those traits.

It is important that you not confuse confidence with arrogance. Arrogance is a
sort of fake confidence and it’s pretty obvious and transparent. Women can
smell fake confidence a million miles away. It is not enough to fake your
confidence, you must actually possess it. The Ex² System will give you
specific techniques for improving your confidence.

Self-Assurance

Women do not want a doormat-man. You need to be assured of your own
opinions and beliefs. I see a lot of guys compromising their own values
because they think that if they do, their girlfriend will like them more. They
will change their taste in music, cloths, activities, etc, etc. Women don’t want
a puppy dog, they want a man with his own opinions, values and beliefs.

Purpose

A man who is driven by a purpose is an unbelievably powerful “attraction
switch”. We men don’t so much care if the women in your lives have lots of
ambition.

If a woman demonstrates power and ambition we’re not going to be either
turned on by it (in the vast majority of cases). In fact, it will probably
threaten us and indeed turn us off.
Somewhere along the path of your relationship, you may have lost focus with
your life. You lost your purpose; or indeed your girlfriend became your
purpose.

In this day and age, it’s extremely hard for a man to have a strong focus and
purpose with his life. It’s truly sad, yet so common.

So you might be asking yourself, “what exactly would you consider a
purpose?” Well, it’s certainly not routinely going to work each morning,
coming home, eating, playing video games and going to bed. Mundane
routine is the anti-purpose.

The following are a list of things myself as well as thousands of my past
students have focused on, to give their lives purpose:

Training for an upcoming marathon.
Striving for financial freedom.
Working out with the goal of weight loss and “getting ripped” in mind.
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