People who are in a hurry of eating, can get something out of the freezer and defrost it within few minutes and have it cooked quickly than having to let it melt or defrost in water…. That’s our people todat… everything is needed fast.
The microwave mentality is the attitude or belief that everything should happen instantly or without delay. 
•	It is when one wants everything in life to happen within the blink of an eye without regard for natural process of growth. 
•	On an adverse expression, a person with microwave mentality is a woman who does not want to fall pregnant but want to be called a mother of a child and have one. 
•	It’s the desire to be a millionaire without the regard of the process of learning the discipline of building an investment portfolio or business or any form of income stream.	
•	There are many examples that one can give, but at the end of the day, having a microwave mentality is believing that everything is taking too long to long to happen such that you’d bribe to get your way up to the next level in business, or to get a degree or marks of a particular subject. 
•	A person with this mentality is one who wants everything done as though life is like getting everything on drive through. You know, like the way want instant everything these days: instant food, instant pap, instant coffee. We also want instant weight loss using LIPO SUCCION and dangerous drug, instant wealth like winning loto.

Mon Apr 23 2018

The Microwave Mentality

Life and living is a project and you must work responsibly to get the best results and impact out of your living
If you want to change your way of life, you need to change your way of thinking
If you want to change your thinking, change what you feed your mind.
If you want to change what you feed your mind, change your environment
If you want to change your environment, change your attitude.
•	You experience life according to your internal disposition. 
•	Most of the time you experience life as you are, not as things are. 
•	That is why your attitude matters a lot.   
•	If there is nothing in your mind, you become like the environment.  But if your mind is loaded, your environment takes the shape of what’s in your mind. 
What does it mean to make the best of your life?
Find out more in the podcast.
You can read the full notes on www.mafarafara.blogpost.com
or email me on info@farazcreationz.co.za

Mon Apr 09 2018

How to make the best of your life

Your mind can influence the way you look, what you possess and the way you behave around it. Your mind can also rob you of what rightfully belongs to you, simply because it is not developed to a certain level.  Our mental disposition affects or determines the way we respond to life and the circumstances around it.

Developing a growth mind-set
This discourse is derived from three different words constructed to form a meaningful sentence. These three little words are critical for the understanding of our topic. We before we can understand the combination we first need to dissemble the sentence and study the individual words.
Let us start from the end:
1.	Mind-set
a.	Means attitude, mind, attitude, approach
b.	It is a frame of mind, or mental disposition. 
c.	It is collection of thoughts and beliefs (whether positive or negative) that shape your thought habit, and ultimately predict your language, actions and macro results. 
Mind-set in its full definition and meaning is what differentiate what successful people do and have to those that continually struggle.
2.	Growth
a.	Is the process of increasing in size. 
b.	Moving from one stage to another in physical or material appearance 
3.	Developing (develop)
a.	Evolving: to transform or tochange from one form to another.

Mon Mar 12 2018

How to develop a Growth Mindset

The subject of failure is one that is universal, as that of success. I say this because not everyone that failed ends up a great success. But the other way is truer in that the bulk of those who achieve great success have in some way experienced great failure. Thomas Edison had 10 000 failed attempts in his journey towards creating a light-bulb. His was of putting it is “I found 10 000 ways that do not work”. But somewhere in our communities you will find a young man who has tried three times to start a business at it failed and already is giving up. 

The area of failure may be far from the area of success. You can experience a great failure in marriage, such that when you overcome such failures they open doors for corporate success. The great majority of highly successful businesses and organisations are run by happily married people. And you don’t wake up into a happy marriage, you work hard to it, sometimes with hard knocks. To have a successful marriage, business or life in general take for you to graduate from the school of hard knocks and be a  master in the master class of intentional living.

Mon May 28 2018

Beyond Failure

There are people who were given good opportunities, be it to start businesses, to be in be married and build a happy marriage, to be employed or promoted in a job, to inherit a good legacy from their parents, to enrol in a good education program, to be superstars, etc but they sabotaged their futures without the help of another person.

 You see this enemy in you when you talk about dreams, projects, growth, healthy living, commitment, and many other things that grown and mature people have to do to lead a meaningful life.
1.	You begin to pursue comfort than growth. Instead of challenging yourself, you assume the status of arrival as though success is destination. You sit and choose to relax and shy away from growth.
2.	Fantasising on how things should be but neglecting the work required to realise it. Some people expect some impossible                                                                                     perfection with themselves and others. There is a certain feeling of euphoria when your mind tells you all is good and you don’t need to do anything to change it or improve. Like you live in a  bubble 
3.	Obsession over examining personal failures. Instead of successces
4.	Refusal to change. Its easy to maintain the status quo, even though not fulfilling to keep it. the reason why many people never get promotion is not related to their education status. Some of the reasons, if you look deeply to why people divorce, steal,  etc its related to their refusal to cary the responsibility of changing their negative beliefs and behaviours
5.	Angry at everyone.  I’m sure you have met such people who go around lashing at everyone. These people would use a harmer to kill a fly and destroy everything around it. Small things tend to be made big.
6.	Personal neglect.

you can read more about this topic on my blog site: www.mafarafara.blogspot.com/2018/06/the-enemy-on-mirror.html

The Enemy On The Mirror

Growth is change.
When you desire to get or to have more, you must desire to change.
When you desire to change, you must be willing to pay the price. In this podcast, Nhlanhla Mafarafara features Max Moyo and they discus the growth factor: the price or cost of growth, the pain of growth and also give few disciplines that you need to infuse to achieve Growth.