Welcome (back)to the Not Carrie Bradshaw podcast where our host Jess discusses all things style, wellness, pop culture, and whatever else comes up! This week, Jess hits us with a little fashion history about denim. She also shares some thoughts on languishing, which is being called the "dominant emotion of 2021" and the very real threat of incels in the Black community.
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Read more about languishing here: https://www.health.com/mind-body/languishing

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Languishing

Welcome (back) to the Not Carrie Bradshaw Podcast! In this episode, Jessica is chatting with Shana Minei Spence, MS, RDN, CDN, Registered Dietitian Nutritionist based in New York. Shana is breaking down some of the most common misconceptions about nutrition, explaining why Health at Any Size is a more sustainable approach to nutritional wellness and more.

Check out Shana's website here: https://www.thenutritiontea.com/about and follow her on Instagram @thenutritiontea

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Ask A Nutritionist Featuring The Nutrition Tea

Welcome (back)! In this episode, Jessica is asking, "What tf is going on?" From normalizing DV to fake outrage over both Euphoria and Abbott Elementary, and what is a Julia Fox?! What tf is going on?!

Shop with Jessica on LiketoKnowIt here: https://www.shopltk.com/explore/notcarriebradshaw

Check out Jessica's YouTube Channel: https://www.youtube.com/c/NotCarrieBradshaw

Check out the Pour Minds girls here: https://www.youtube.com/c/DreaAndLex

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Those Are Adults Babe

Welcome (back) to the Not Carrie Bradshaw Podcast. Trigger Warning: This episode discusses suicide and sexual assault so if those are topics you’re sensitive to, it’s okay to sit this one out and take care. In this episode, Jessica is discussing her relationship with depression and suicide and why it’s such a complex issue. We’re also chatting about the new documentary on Cosby and having a more nuanced conversation about SA.

The link to the Mindful Self Compassion Book is here: https://bookshop.org/books/the-mindful-self-compassion-workbook-a-proven-way-to-accept-yourself-build-inner-strength-and-thrive/9781462526789

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Your Standard Is Not THEE Standard

Welcome (back) to the Not Carrie Bradshaw podcast where we discuss all things style, wellness, pop culture, and whatever else might come up. This week, your host Jessica is talking to Tatyannah King who is a sex blogger and speaker, grad student, and soon-to-be sex therapist. Is there such a thing as casual sex that's emotionally safe? How does shame impact our sexuality? We tackle these questions and more.

Follow Tatyannah on Twitter and Instagram @ taty_k_king and you can find her work on Buzzfeed here: https://www.buzzfeed.com/tatyannahking and Cosmo here: https://www.cosmopolitan.com/author/232667/Tatyannah-King/

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Ask A Sex Blogger featuring Tatyannah King

Welcome (back) to the Not Carrie Bradshaw podcast where your host Jessica discusses all things style, wellness, pop culture, and whatever comes up weekly.

Jess is continuing her gripe and gratitude segment this week, but always starting you out with a helpful fashion tip.

Link to Jessica's liketoknowit: http://liketoknow.it/notcarriebradshaw

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Every Bar Is An Open Bar

Welcome to the Not Carrie Bradshaw podcast where your host Jessica discusses all things style, wellness, and pop culture. In this week's episode, Jessica is joined by Reverend Solomon Missouri to discuss the intersection of sex, shame, and religion.

Follow Reverend Solomon Missouri on Twitter @solomonmissouri and visit his website to stay up to date on the latest and greatest here: https://www.solomonmissouri.com/

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Sex, Shame, and Religion with Rev. Solomon Missouri

Welcome to the Not Carrie Bradshaw Podcast where your host Jessica discusses all things style, wellness, pop culture, and whatever else comes up from week to week.

In this week's episode, Jessica gives you a personal fashion tip, ranting about the woes of adulting in New York, and asking why folks are obsessed with "quiet luxury" among other things.

Link to boyshorts: https://rstyle.me/+3x3leBu8pv3HjQmJ6yOS-w

Link to Instagram post about quiet luxury: https://www.instagram.com/reel/CrdicmDA_LK/?igshid=MDJmNzVkMjY=

Link to explore Rihanna's red lipstick: https://liketk.it/46dWy

Link to bell hooks's book All About Love: https://rstyle.me/+O9s9FT401lJV5N-Yq_Y2ZA

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I Love You But You're Not Serious People

Welcome (back) to the Not Carrie Bradshaw Podcast where your host Jessica discusses style, pop culture, wellness, and everything in between.

This week, we are diving into the Met Gala and that confusing ass theme, the function of rap beef in 2024, and common phrases that don't make sense.

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What Is Art? Are We Art? Is Art, Art?

Welcome to the Not Carrie Bradshaw podcast where your host Jessica discusses all things style, wellness, pop culture, and whatever else.

In this episode, Jessica is sharing a fashion tip in the form of a fellow creator you should be following: ‪https://www.instagram.com/simimoonlight?utm_source=ig_web_button_share_sheet&igsh=ZDNlZDc0MzIxNw==

We are also discussing key takeaways from Dr. Bryant's chat with Cam Newton, what's up with introverts, and choice feminism-friend or foe? Be sure to like, comment, share, and SUBSCRIBE! And if you like what you saw and heard, join our Patreon here: https://www.patreon.com/notcarrieb

Find Your Buddy

Welcome to the Not Carrie Bradshaw YouTube channel! In this podcast video, we are talking style, pop culture, and wellness. 

Let me know your thoughts and be sure to like, share, and SUBSCRIBE! 

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You can catch the podcast on YouTube here: https://youtu.be/1lh8DBPXAc0?si=Ut2DEumZdFmE-zOE

Check out Brandon Kyle Goodman’s podcast here: https://www.instagram.com/tellmesomethingmessy/?hl=en

Check out Dr. Ally Louks’s truncated research here: https://theconversation.com/my-research-on-the-politics-of-smell-divided-the-internet-heres-what-its-actually-about-245899

Get In The Field!

Welcome to the Not Carrie Bradshaw podcast! In this episode, your host Jessica is talking style, pop culture, and wellness. Get into this week's sexy fashion tip, sobriety, the TikTok ban, and more!

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Shop my favorite innerwear pieces here: 
https://liketk.it/52IPU

Donate bras to ThirdLove for $30 off an order here:
https://www.thirdlove.com/blogs/learn/introducing-thirdloves-take-back-bag-program


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Take Care Of Each Other, Don't Be An A*shole

Welcome and welcome back to the Not Carrie Bradshaw podcast where your host Jessica discusses all things style, wellness, pop culture, and whatever else comes up from week to week.

This week, Jessica is joined by Dr. Brentia Caldwell, Ph. D, LPC, NCC, ACS, CPCS owner and director of The Up Center Counseling Center. Dr. Caldwell discusses the key findings of her research into the lived experiences of unmarried, childless, professional, middle aged Black women with regards to life satisfaction and mental wellness.

Follow Dr. Caldwell @ the_up_center on Instagram and learn more about her practice at https://upcentercounseling.com/

Watch us on YouTube here: https://www.youtube.com/c/NotCarrieBradshaw

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Me Myself And I feat. Dr. Brentia Caldwell

Welcome to the Not Carrie Bradshaw podcast where we discuss style, pop culture, and wellness.

In this week's episode, your host Jessica is revisiting the Afrofuturism style of the early two thousands, asking why the girls don't want to hear about self-love, the failed state of flyouts, and more.

Let us know your thoughts and be sure to like, share, rate, review, and SUBSCRIBE! 

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Throat Spray?

Welcome and welcome back to the Not Carrie Bradshaw podcast where your host Jessica discusses style, pop culture, and wellness.

This week, Jessica is offering up a story time about her most random night in New York. 

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This One Time in Chinatown

Welcome and welcome back to the Not Carrie Bradshaw podcast, where your host Jessica discusses style, pop culture, and wellness.

This week, Jessica is sharing some life updates, her thoughts on Coachella, Real Housewives of Atlanta, Real Housewives of Beverly Hills, and more!

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Two Weeks' Notice

Welcome and welcome back to the Not Carrie Bradshaw podcast, where your host Jessica discusses style, pop culture, and wellness.

This week, Jessica is chatting with Dominique Jean-Louis, Chief Historian at the Center for Brooklyn History about the diaspora, why history matters, Met Gala predictions, and more! 

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Visit the Center for Brooklyn History https://www.bklynlibrary.org/center-for-brooklyn-history
Follow Dominique @ DominiqueJL15

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It's the Brooklyn Way feat. Dominique Jean-Louis

Welcome and welcome back to the Not Carrie Bradshaw podcast, where your host Jessica discusses style, pop culture, and wellness.

This week, Jessica is giving a life update on the new job, talking fashion criticism ahead of the 2025 Met Gala (as of this recording) and Cowboy Carter.

Check out my Met Gala crash course on my Substack https://notcarriebradshaw.substack.com/p/what-is-the-met-gala-2025?r=207je3

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Whose Bias Do Y'all Seek

Welcome and welcome back to the Not Carrie Bradshaw podcast and YouTube channel, where your host Jessica discusses style, pop culture, and wellness.

This week, Jessica is joined by fellow creative and newly published author, Destiny Stokes. Jessica and Destiny discuss the creative process, inspo for her new book, "This Probably Why," vulnerability hangovers, and more!

Follow Destiny on Instagram https://www.instagram.com/yoyo.destiny/

Purchase her new book of short stories and exercises exploring why we are the way we are here https://thisprobablywhy.com/?fbclid=PAZXh0bgNhZW0CMTEAAafgUwQ7ltk9KTXcfTdGa_rJAOkUV79o-166sp2P0l0s402DAMbzVtFE3c5qZw_aem_RrgqpqejBN80FclCQ5_JyQ

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This Probably Why feat. Destiny Stokes

Welcome and welcome back to the Not Carrie Bradshaw podcast and YouTube channel, where your host Jessica discusses style, pop culture, and wellness.

This week, Jessica is celebrating her 38th birthday by sharing 38 random observations, opinions, and tips for a better life (we swear we're not a c*lt).

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The Birthday Episode 38 Laws of Jess

Welcome and welcome back to the Not Carrie Bradshaw podcast/YouTube channel where your host, Jessica, discusses all things style, wellness, pop culture, and whatever else comes up.

This week, Jessica discusses Cardi B, Metro Boomin, cutie patooties vs baddies, and more!

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Link to Tera Graham fashion archivist
https://www.instagram.com/teragrahamm?igsh=MWltd2RucGN4bGE3dA%3D%3D

Link to Rap Latte episode feat Deante Kyle
https://youtu.be/JASaXT-qZdQ?si=fssh1sawgF7nnGQ0

Link to Deante Kyle content
https://www.deantekyle.com/

Cutie Patootie

Welcome and welcome back to the Not Carrie Bradshaw podcast/YouTube channel where your host, Jessica, discusses all things style, wellness, pop culture, and whatever else comes up.

This week, Jessica offers denim shopping tips, shares her experience with GLP-1s, and some thoughts on Love Island.

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Body Talk

Welcome and welcome back to the Not Carrie Bradshaw podcast/YouTube channel, where your host, Jessica, discusses all things style, wellness, pop culture, and whatever else comes up.

This week, Jessica is giving a life update and asking what Black women owe to each other in public discourse.

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Walk This Way

Welcome and welcome back to the Not Carrie Bradshaw podcast/YouTube channel, where your host, Jessica, discusses all things style, wellness, pop culture, and whatever else comes up.

In this week's episode, Jessica shares a fashion tip on how style actually makes us feel better, and we chat about the latest scandal involving the Osefo's. What does this case say about how we consume wealth-based entertainment?

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Four Degrees of Fraud

Welcome and welcome back to the Not Carrie Bradshaw podcast/YouTube channel where your host, Jessica, discusses all things style, wellness, pop culture, and whatever else comes up.

This week, Jessica chats about Gucci Mane’s new book and what it means to provide care for people with mental illness.

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Gucci Episodes

Welcome and welcome back to the Not Carrie Bradshaw podcast/YouTube channel where your host, Jessica, discusses all things style, wellness, pop culture, and whatever else comes up.

This week, Jessica chats about the Danish Deception and Brian McKnight.

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Danish McKnight

Welcome and welcome back to the Not Carrie Bradshaw podcast/YouTube channel, where your host, Jessica, discusses all things style, wellness, pop culture, and whatever else comes up.

This week, Jessica chats about the one percent in fashion, Funky Dineva and Tamar, and the “Sinners” snub.

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Subscribe to Louis’s Substack 

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Not Your B*tch, B*tch

Welcome and welcome back to the penultimate episode of Not Carrie Bradshaw Podcast/YouTube channel where your host, Jessica, discusses all things style, wellness, pop culture, and whatever else comes up.

This week, Jessica chats about Beyonce co-hosting the Met Gala, charcuterie slop, and how a funny question became homophobic. The next episode will be a farewell for now.

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Who Gon Be the Boys?

Welcome and welcome back to the Not Carrie Bradshaw Podcast where your host, Jessica, discusses style, wellness, and pop culture. This is the final episode of the podcast for now. Thank you to all of our listeners and guests. You can still catch Jessica's content on YouTube, Instagram, and TikTok.

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Farewell For Now

This week Jess is going on a full rant about New York Fashion Week and offering tips and info on how to shop ethically and sustainably.  Below are links to a few additional resources.  Be sure to like, comment, share, and subscribe!

https://www.thegoodtrade.com/features/ethical-fashion-brands-owned-by-women-of-color

https://www.refinery29.com/en-gb/sustainable-fashion-guide

https://www.essence.com/feature/a-conscious-shift-ethical-fashion/

https://www.shopintheblack.com/

Let's Talk NYFW

Insert air horns here!  To show some love to all the single ladies during Valentine's week, Jess is releasing this bonus episode featuring single lifestyle guru Shani Silver of A Single Serving Podcast.  Shani is a writer and podcast host on a mission to change the conversation surrounding being a single lady.  Single women are always given useless advice on how to date, where to date, etc. but rarely does anyone offer advice on how to be happy while single, while also desiring romantic love.  Shani is that person!

Follow Shani @shanisilver and @asingleservingpodcast 
Her website is www.shanisilver.com where you can read all of her inspiring, entertaining essays.

Listen to my guest spot on her show here: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/would-rihanna-put-up-with-this/id1458026831?i=1000441782192

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All the Single Ladies Featuring Shani Silver

Welcome back! Jess makes her return this week after visiting the Single Serving Podcast last episode day. This week, she's discussing her revelations after rewatching Sex and the City from the very beginning and asking influencers the hard questions about mentorship. Is it Bow Down Bitches or Formation?

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Catch Jess on the Single Serving podcast here: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/underwear-are-for-the-weak/id1458026831?i=1000472784710

Sign Up for the Weekly Wellness Newsletter here: http://notcarriebradshaw.com/not-carrie-bradshaw-total-wellness/

Watch Jess's YouTube channel here: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCvL498u8goXjsNpyuHULjpw

Was Carrie Bradshaw a Monster?

Welcome (back)! This week in celebration of National Mental Health Awareness Month and National Women's Health Month, Jess is teaming up with Blex Technologies to provide info and tools on the benefits of a healthy sex life. So Jess is running back her conversation with Blex Technologies COO, Shalita Smith.

Blex Technologies is a house of direct-to-consumer brands in the sexual health + wellness space. The company owns and operates multiple brands catering specifically to the Black community: from a sex and relationship coaching app to an intimacy, a health-based subscription box.

If you're following along in the Not Carrie Bradshaw universe, Jess has also partnered with Blex Technologies on a giveaway of one of their awesome sexual wellness subscription boxes. Check Jess's Instagram @notcarriebradshaw for details on how to enter. If you don't win, don't fret, as they have given us a discount code for 25% off of your entire order at https://blextechnologies.com/blexbox. That code is: HEALTHISWEALTH

Follow Blex on Twitter @blex_app to follow along with the Twitter chat on sex, dating, and intimacy during the pandemic on May 26th at 7 PM EST. Jess will be a virtual panelist!

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Sexual Wellness Part 2 Featuring Shalita Smith of blexBox

Hey hey hey! A little late but here nonetheless. This week, Jess is discussing some of the factors that go into how we define luxury, why y'all are so mad at Saweetie, and whether or not it's productive for us as Black people to participate in luxury fashion, given that it is an oppressive system.

Read my piece from the Coveteur about my experiences working in fashion here: https://coveteur.com/2020/07/02/jessica-wilkins-fashion-essay/

Check out fashion and race scholar Kimberly Jenkins's database here: https://fashionandrace.org/

Should Black People Buy Luxury Fashion?

The Not Carrie Bradshaw Podcast is hosted by Brooklyn-based (Atlanta native) Content Creator Jessica Wilkins. In each episode, Jessica dives into all the style, wellness, and pop culture topics she’s been DM’ing and texting with her friends about. From fashion tips to feminism to all things Black and beautiful, Jessica is your new fun bestie who has something to say about everything.

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