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Here I will show what you should not do when you like someone. There are quite a few things you shouldn't do but this is arguably the most damaging.&#13;
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It starts off well enough when they exchange names and talk about work but then she begins to seem slightly strange by asking why she hasn't met his parents yet.&#13;
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Now this might be an extreme but it is easy to say the wrong things and come on too strong when you really like someone. When you feel yourself having strong feelings for the other person and it's within the first four dates, tell yourself to play it cool. When you reach date 5 and beyond, you can start to drop more and more hints that you like the person and try to gauge whether they're in to you or if it's just a fling.&#13;
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Have you ever done this or know someone who has? Tell us in the comments below.

Don't Do This When You Like Someone - Online Dating Tips from Partner Find

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Ok so you can't get away with lying about your looks like this dog did, as they can see if you're lying or not from your photos. However, you may feel like lying about other things that you think you can get away with which make you look better but it's not worth it.

If you lie about anything, they are likely to find out and then there's a high probability that they won't be interested after that. No one wants a liar! So you've just wasted your time and theirs.

People like ambition, a good sense of humour and someone who is easy to get on with. So relax and just be yourself, as clichéd as that sounds, as there won't be any surprises when you go on those dates with him or her. Talk about your passions and what you would like to do if you could, you'll more than likely want to go far in the career you're most passionate about so that will be more impressive than lying about how great you are and being found out.

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It's difficult to know what to say to a girl when you're thinking of talking to them for the first time. So remove the guess-work and use the following lines which have come straight from girls themselves, next time you see someone you like.

Here, she likes the idea of the guy asking to grab some coffee, which is good as it's a very casual way of getting to know someone and you can do it there and then.

Next, this girl thinks you should say that she caught your eye and ask if she wants to go out sometime. Every girl likes to feel special and if they really did catch your eye, then say it.

So to sum up, the best lines from girls that you should be using are as follows:

1. Hey, how you doing?...[wait for her answer]...Fancy grabbing some coffee?

2. I just thought I'd hi as you caught my eye...[wait for her response]...Do you want to go out sometime?

And another in the video is:

3. Hey I'm [your name]...[wait for her name]...Can I get your number?

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Photos are more important than you think. When trawling through the thousands of profiles online, you don't know if their personality is a good fit for yours, so you end up basing everything on their photos.

The meme pictured here may be an extreme but it illustrates the difference well between a good and bad photo.

If all they see are photos of you smoking, pulling faces, lounging around in your sweatpants or just generally not looking like you care, they won't think you're worth the effort.

So put some effort in to it by wearing some nice clothes and styling your hair (and some makeup if you're a woman). When you've attracted the right person, you'll know it was worth it. The next time you're thinking of adding a photo to your online dating profile, consider if it's good enough to be on there.

Have you seen really bad photos that you thought they shouldn't have uploaded? Let us know in the comments below.

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Why Your Dating Photos Are Important - Online Dating Tips from Partner Find

The Daily Mail reported that you will have more success with summer photos while it's warm.

Many dating sites (as well as us) are recommending you make sure that you upload summery photos along with your others as three out of four people say summer photos are better. Of course, it helps if you have a good body and a tan, so if you do then you will increase your chances significantly. If you don't, then make sure you start going to the gym, it will give you more confidence when you start to see an improvement as well as looking good.

In fact, 73% believe others look more attractive in the summer than any other time and look happier, healthier and more confident. So it really is time to get out there in the sun for your own photo shoot if you haven't already.

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Here we have another video from Man Stroke Woman, where the pair are on their first date in a restaurant. The problem is, the guy is so used to talking to people on the internet, he's forgotten how to act when he's talking face-to-face.

This could be said for most of us, especially guys. A lot of things guys say online as a greeting would not be the first thing they say when they talk to a girl for the first time in a bar. If they did, they'd get a slap or a drink thrown in their face.

Just because you can't see the person you're talking to, it doesn't mean you can act differently. Be more human with your online dating messages. There is an exclamation mark in the title for a reason as it's the most basic thing you should do and yet a lot of people don't. You're more likely to get somewhere with that person if you say something more socially acceptable. If you find it difficult, imagine you're sat in front of them for real as you write.

What are the strangest messages you've received? Tell us in the comments.

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Be More Human! - Online Dating Tips from Partner Find

Just because you like that person a lot, it doesn't mean they owe you any love or affection. However, there are a lot of people in the world so just because one person isn't interested, it doesn't mean there won't be others.

So that you don't feel it was a waste of time talking to that person and don't leave with your tail between your legs, ask what it is that makes it a deal-breaker. It might be something you can work on and the next time you're talking to someone you like, you can turn it in to a 'yes'.

Also remember that people are losing their homes while you’re worried about that person saying ’no’, some people are finding out they have aids or cancer each day and you’re worried about that person saying ’no’, 150,000 people die each day and you’re worried about that person saying ‘no’. It may be a dark way to think about it but it really puts it in to perspective. Think about that next time someone isn’t interested in you. If you prefer not to think of it like that, google photos of space or Earth and while you’re looking at a photo of how small an seemingly insignificant our planet and its inhabitants are, think about your problem once more and how important it really is.

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What If He/She Says No? - Online Dating Tips from Partner Find

Over on WeLoveDates, women have been answering a few of those questions that guys have been wondering but never knew the answer to.

1. I'm balding, should I disguise it?
They're interested in more than just your hair. You may have a problem with it but it doesn't mean they do. A great personality is much more important to them than your hair. They do say though, if you've lost a lot of it then shave the rest instead of doing a Donald Trump and combing it over.

2. What do they generally think about beards?
It's a bit like Marmite in that fact that some hate them and some really like them. However, most of them agree that stubble looks quite sexy. Beckham and Clooney can pull of the clean-shaven look but if you're in doubt then stubble it.

3. How do they feel about me waxing?
Beckham loves a good ol' back, crack and sack, as well as everywhere else giving him the seal look but generally they prefer the manly look with some hair. Trimmed is the way to go and much less painful.

4. Will bigger muscles make it easier to pull?
Yes and no. They all agree that toned looks great and with some amount of muscle is fine but not many go for The Hulk look. So stay off the 'roids.

5. Does height matter?
They instinctively look for taller men as a way to protect them but if they really do like you then it won't matter. So it's not a major problem, it just means you'll have to sell yourself that little bit harder.

6. Do they like low V-Neck t-shirts?
Apparently they can all safely say you should bin them. They're not interested in you flashing your pecks, that can be done another time.

7. DOES SIZE MATTER?
I think it's safe to say that most of us guys have thought that at some point. Although it's not as much of an issue as we make it out to be. Average is perfectly OK and there are many more things to do before you even use it anyway. They do request all men to ditch the speedos though and at least leave something to the imagination.

Do you have anything to add that you know women think? Let us know in the comments.

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Men: What Women Think Of Your Body - Online Dating Tips from Partner Find

Usually sex on the first date is a bad idea. However, it's slightly different for both sexes:

Women - If you like the guy then it's really not a good thing to do, no matter how much you want to. It will tell him that you're easy and he'll lose all respect for you, mentally moving you from potential girlfriend material to a friend with benefits. He may have even been on a date with you because he wanted to sleep with you, which is why it's best to leave sex till at least the fourth or fifth date. By that time he will have hopefully given up if it was just sex - every guy is different though and he may be willing to put in the effort just to sleep with you if he thinks the sex would be worth it. Make sure all of the first four to five dates are in public areas and never your house or his - there are plenty of times in the future when you can stay in with a DVD.

Men - It's easier for guys, it's not quite so detrimental if you sleep with a girl on the first date, even if you consider her potential girlfriend material. If you can see yourself with her in a relationship then do try to restrain yourself though, as it'll give the wrong impression and you may not be able to recover from that - she may lose interest as she'll think you may be lying just to get her into bed. Also, if she's willing to sleep with you on the first date then she may do this with a lot of guys and even if you end up in a relationship together, there's a possibility she's the cheating type.

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Sex On The First Date - Online Dating Tips from Partner Find

Over on WeLoveDates, they have compiled a list of questions you've thought about your body at some point, and how guys see it. Here are some of the best ones:

1. Size zero or curves?
Most guys agree that they are more attracted to curves than size zero. Being as thin as possible isn't as important as you think it is - some curves in the right places will be much more attractive. Muscles can be off-putting as well so if you're going to exercise, ditch the weights and concentrate on cardio.

2. Fake eyelashes
Every guy agrees that long, obviously fake lashes are not attractive, so go natural with a good mascara. If you have to fake it then just make sure they're not much longer than your real lashes.

3. Is it possible to ever get away with hairy legs?
It's pretty obvious that it's a no. If you're in a relationship then you don't have to worry about it as much but when you're single then it's best to do it anyway, and armpits.

4. Short skirts/dresses
The shorter the sexier, but if it's very short you're going to look easy and only appeal to those who are looking for a one night stand. If you're proud of your legs and you insist on wearing a short skirt then make sure your top half is more conservative to balance it out.

5. Low-cut tops
Every guy finds this sexy but it's the same as a short skirt, you run the risk of looking easy. It's a fine line: some cleavage is OK but it's easy to go too far and then you'll only appeal to the players. A lot of cleavage is not a classy look and you'll look very easy.

6. Boobs: fake or real?
All guys love boobs. Preferably you would be comfortable with what you have, but if you're not and the only way you will be happy with them is with surgery then that's fine. Go easy on the size increase though - too big and you'll look slutty (size E+), no matter how well you think you're hiding them. Don't place too much importance on them though - a guy needs to be sexually attracted to you but if he's not trying to get to know you as well then move on.

7. Fake Tans
Most guys thought of The Only Way is Essex when tans are mentioned so make sure you're not orange. If you're going to do it then make sure it's a good quality one that guys can't tell if it's real or not - that's perfection.

Is there anything else that you wonder what guys think? Leave your comments below.

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