On this episode of the Personality Hacker podcast, Joel and Antonia dive into how INTJs can use personality know-how to embrace and love who they are. The conversation also touches on what the other 15 personality types can learn from INTJs about self-love.

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How to Love Yourself as an INTJ | PODCAST 533 | PersonalityHacker.com

On this episode of the Personality Hacker podcast, Joel and Antonia apply
self-parenting to ExxP & IxxJ personality types.

Self Parenting with Thinking and Feeling | PODCAST 546 | PersonalityHacker.com

On this episode of the Personality Hacker podcast, Joel and Antonia explore how personality type can be used as a therapeutic tool by addressing unconscious Jungian shadow complexes.

Unconscious Complexes & Making Personality Type Therapeutic | Podcast 574 | Personalityhacker.com

In this episode of the Personality Hacker podcast, Joel and Antonia talk about the personality fixations that impact our relationships.

How Personality "FIRM Fixations" Impact Relationships | Podcast 583 |personalityhacker.com

In this episode of the Personality Hacker podcast, Joel and Antonia apply personality types to dysregulation, co-regulation, & self-parenting

Personality Types & Self-Regulation | Podcast 592 | personalityhacker.com

In this episode of the Personality Hacker podcast, Joel and Antonia explore how personality types impact intuitive experiences, uncovering patterns of intuitive dysregulation, co-regulation, self-regulation, and the powerful practice of self-parenting through nurturing intuition.

Self-Regulation of Your Intuition & Imagination | Podcast 596 | personalityhacker.com

In this episode of the Personality Hacker podcast, Joel and Antonia explore how real transformation happens through experience—not just information. As AI makes knowledge more accessible than ever, they share four keys to creating peak experiences that stick: elevation, insight, pride, and community.

Creating Powerful Moments for Personal Growth | Podcast 598 | personalityhacker.com

In this episode of the Personality Hacker podcast, Joel and Antonia step back from type theory to reflect on the journey of creating 600 episodes. In an unfiltered, behind-the-scenes conversation, they explore what the podcast has meant to them, how it’s shaped their identities, and what might be next.

Milestones & Musings From 600 Podcast Episodes | Podcast 600 | personalityhacker.com

In this episode, Joel and Antonia discuss intuitive dysregulation and how tarot, combined with Ai, helped Antonia reconnect to her intuition. They explore tarot’s Jungian connection, do a live reading for their next topic, and uncover themes of vulnerability, legacy, and the enduring self.

Intuitive Tools:  Archetypes, Tarot, & Ai | Podcast 601 | personalityhacker.com

In this episode, Joel and Antonia explore how unconscious parts of the psyche influence our thoughts, behaviors, and relationships—sharing personal stories, relationship patterns, and the weighty reality of shadow work through the lens of Jungian typology and the 8-function model.

When Your Unconscious Runs the Show | Podcast 602 | Personalityhacker.com

In this episode, Joel and Antonia explore the hidden “labor” we do for each other (physical, emotional, cognitive and intuitive) through the lens of Jungian cognitive functions. They share personal stories and examples of how unspoken expectations, lack of recognition, and type differences shape relationships and create unseen burdens.

Unrecognized Work You Do for Other Personality Types | Podcast 603 | personalityhacker.com

In this episode, Joel and Antonia explore life transitions (cultural, biological, and personal) and how personality type can guide us through change. They discuss vertical vs. horizontal transitions, the fear of uncertainty, and using the eight Jungian functions to build a more aligned life path.

Navigating Change & Life Transitions with Personality Type | Podcast 604 | personalityhacker.com

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In this episode, Joel and Antonia unpack a key insight from Rick Rubin: “Just because something is out of your control doesn’t mean it’s opposed to you.” They explore how this mindset shift impacts creativity, relationships, and personal growth, through the lens of personality type, the Enneagram, and Jungian functions."

Control, Opposition & Personality Type | Podcast 605 | personalityhacker.com

In this episode, Joel and Antonia explore the idea that the “true self” might not be something we discover, but something we invent. They dive into the psychology of identity, authenticity, and choice, weaving in insights from Jungian theory, cognitive functions, and their own experiences with personal growth.

What If Your “True Self” Doesn’t Exist? | Podcast 606 | personalityhacker.com

In this episode, Joel and Antonia examine the often overlooked costs of personal development. They explore why growth isn't always rewarded, what we have to sacrifice as we evolve, and how maturity can sometimes leave us feeling more isolated than empowered. Through stories, Jungian insights, and real-life reflections, they unpack the emotional, social, and motivational shifts that come with long-term growth and what it truly asks of us.

The Hidden Cost of Personality Growth & Personal Development | Podcast 607 | Personalityhacker.com

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In this episode, Joel and Antonia dive deep into the process of discovering your best-fit personality type. They walk through the four essential protocols used in professional profiling sessions (rapport, interview, verification, and mapping) and explain how anyone can apply these steps in self-assessment. Along the way, they debunk common MBTI myths, share personal insights, and highlight why thoughtful self-inquiry matters more than just taking a test. Whether you're new to typology or still unsure of your type, this episode offers a grounded, practical path to finding clarity.

4 Protocols for Confirming Personality Type | Podcast 608 | personalityhacker.com

Explore Your Personality: PersonalityHacker.com

In this episode, Joel and Antonia explore the complex relationship between energy, motivation, and personality type. They unpack the hidden “dirty” motivators like anxiety and the desire for credit, discuss what truly drives us at a deeper level, and examine how uncertainty can drain motivation. Using Enneagram instincts and cognitive functions, they reveal how understanding your own energetic patterns can lead to more authentic and sustainable motivation.
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When Motivation Fades — Rethinking Energy, Drive & Personality Type | Podcast 609 | personalityhacker.com

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In this episode, Joel and Antonia dive deep into the rising wave of existential dysregulation affecting individuals and society. They explore how personality type, through the lens of cognitive functions and the four regulation channels (somatic, emotional, cognitive, and existential), can offer a powerful map for navigating uncertainty, identity crises, and cultural upheaval. From AI and generational theory to the roots of intuition and spiritual evolution, they lay the groundwork for a revolutionary framework to understand and manage personal and collective transformation.

Existential Dysregulation & Personality in a Changing World | Podcast 610 | PersonalityHacker.com

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In this episode, Joel and Antonia celebrate 15 years together and explore “coupledom” as a living third identity in relationships. They discuss how personality type, Enneagram subtypes, and the balance between freedom and sovereignty shape lasting connection. From naming their relationship “Silphium” to navigating conflict with intention, they share insights on building a resilient, purpose-driven partnership.

The Third Entity in Every Relationship | Podcast 611 | PersonalityHacker.com

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In this episode, Joel and Antonia explore how AI and perfect information are reshaping human freedom, mystery, and decision-making. Using metaphors like chess and real-world trends from GPS to algorithmic media, they ask: "Does optimization steal our humanity, or enhance it?" Through the lens of personality type and societal cycles, they unpack the tradeoffs between clarity and sovereignty in a data-driven future.

How to Stay Curious in a World That Knows Everything | Podcast 612 | PersonalityHacker.com

Explore Your Personality: https://PersonalityHacker.com 

In this episode, Joel and Antonia unpack the concept of dysregulation, asking whether it's always a problem or sometimes a path to growth. Through stories, psychology, and metaphor, they explore how emotional, cognitive, and physical dysregulation can be both destructive and transformational, depending on context, awareness, and self-regulation skills.

Is Personality Dysregulation Always Bad? | Podcast 613 | PersonalityHacker.com

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In this episode, Joel and Antonia explore how intuitives can shift from surviving in a “sensor world” to leading in an increasingly abstract, intuitive one. They discuss intuitive strengths, existential regulation, and why it’s time to reboot their Intuitive Awakening framework.

Leaving the Sensor World for the Intuitive Future | Podcast 614 | PersonalityHacker.com

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In this episode, Joel and Antonia explore how people can regulate the four channels of personality: body, emotion, mind, and meaning. They unpack resistance to gratitude and why practicing it might be one of the most powerful, rebellious acts in today’s world.

The Hidden Power That Self Regulates You | Podcast 615 | PersonalityHacker.com

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In this episode, Joel and Antonia unpack the aspirational phrase “never give up” and explore how to tell the difference between healthy persistence and knowing when to let go. They discuss sunk cost fallacy, quitting with integrity, emotional regulation, and why completion doesn’t always mean finishing.

When Should You Quit Your Job or Relationship | Podcast 616 | PersonalityHacker.com

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Joel and Antonia explore how generational views on value have shifted—from land and productivity to emotion and social currency. They discuss fiat money, debt, AI, programmable money, and the hidden “currencies” that shape society and relationships.

The Hidden Currency In Every System | Podcast 617 | PersonalityHacker.com

In this episode Joel and Antonia talk about the introvert advantage in a world that is becoming more and more extraverted.

In this podcast on the introvert advantage you’ll find:

    Introversion gets a lot of misunderstanding. People in general have a lot of confusion about introversion and extraversion.
    Do introverts have a disadvantage in this world? Do they have issues that are very unique to them?
    There are a lot of great performers that are introverts who can perform and speak very well.
    In business, life and social circles, people are expected to be extroverts. Public speaking, for example, is a challenge for some people.
    Introverts need time to be alone in order to recover their energy while extraverts get their energy by being in the environment and interacting with people.
    Energy is being managed differently by introverts and extraverts.
    Introverts – Inner world is the real world. When the outer world isn’t mirroring their inner world experience, they reconcile both worlds which takes too much energy.
    Extraverts – Outer world is the real world. Spending too much time alone drains their energy. In order to understand what’s really going on, they have to go outside of themselves.
    The outer world doesn’t specifically have to be people.
    When you understand people at a profound level, you can see and understand where they are coming from.
    Introverts have a great advantage to grow than extraverts.
    If you are an introvert, developing your extraverted process is the path to growth.
    Extraverts may find it more comfortable to live in an over communicated world, but it’s not helping them to develop their introverted process.
    Introverts need time to think and consider what they have to say.
    Every single personality type has a breakdown of 8 mental processes. 2 of these processes are the preferred way of navigating the world which balances human beings.
    Not all kinds extraversion is equal for all personality types. It helps if you know your personality type and the style of extraversion that is the growth path for your personality type.
    One of the best thing you can do to begin your personal growth journey is to know your personality. Knowing what kind of extraversion you’re going to grow as introvert is powerful.

The Introvert Advantage | PODCAST 0042

In this episode Joel and Antonia walk through Howard Gardner's Multiple Intelligence Theory showing how we can use this framework for compassion, understanding and better learning.

Howard Gardner Multiple Intelligence Theory | PODCAST 0075

In this episode Joel and Antonia dive deep into the unique challenges, needs and desires of the INTJ personality type.


INTJ Personality Type Advice | PODCAST 0088

In this episode Joel and Antonia dive deep into the needs and desires of the ISTP personality type.


ISTP Personality Type Advice | PODCAST 0103

In this episode Joel and Antonia talk the difference between the feeling cognitive functions Extraverted Feeling vs Introverted Feeling.

Extraverted Feeling vs Introverted Feeling | PODCAST 0202

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