Mantra chanting practise tool. Produced by Brett Goldsmith.

Mrtyujaya Mahamantra

Contrary to popular belief, fights are not better talked out to the bitter end and happiness and intimacy are not the result of more loving couples. It really comes down to how you manage these perpetual fights.  I want to give you the main reasons people end separating or remain happy and together - based a couple different disciplines of research. Because a lot of what is the most damaging, isn’t obvious or calculated by a person. It’s totally accidental. 

When we have the same arguments and we start to get distant, it’s often because we don’t want to fight and we have a sense of dread around a repeated loop, so the distance is like a no-war zone between two foreign cultures. And the SHITTY news is when you get distant, your relationship is actually in the most trouble – because both parties are no longer demonstrating an investment in the bond. This is when you stop identifying as a couple and you start thinking in terms of me, the individual. And with that solo identity you start to focus on goals as an individual and not as a couple. Your focus redefines your past together as crappy – you see things from a personal interest standpoint. So if you guys are feeling distant and resentful, this is an episode for you! 

Caveat: I want to stress that this is NOT for people with abusive partners. Domestic violence is not something that I recommend using these tools for – if you’re in an abusive relationship, my heart goes out to you. If you like this episode, check the Gottman Institute for more! A lot of this is from his work.

For more of my writing and the blog version of this post, check out Yaywithme.com (the blogs will be posted a bit later than the podcasts). 

Book references:
Couples counselor questionnaire:
goo.gl/zWndxG
How to Improve Your Marriage Without Talking About It
http://amzn.to/2oOqmqP
John Gottman’s most popular book:
http://amzn.to/2o3HxHU
The Gottman Institute – all their good, short articles. 
gottman.com
A book by the creator of Imago:
http://amzn.to/2onby1d
What to look for in a couples counselor:
http://www.marriagefriendlytherapists.com/whattolookfor.php

Help Me Be Me

Ep 93: Relationship Fight Loops and Distance: Why We Lose Access to Intimacy

Listen to Gary Douglas describe the peace that can occur when your body is allowed to release the effects of abuse.

Learn more about the upcoming class with Gary Douglas & Dr. Dain Heer, Changing the Issues that Abuse Has Dominated Your Life With by going here: https://www.accessconsciousness.com/en/class-catalog/main-specialty-classes/Changing-The-Issues-That-Abuse-Has-Dominated-Your-Life-With2/

Having Peace With Your Body After Abuse

(http://drdainheer.com/esb) Listen as Dr. Dain Heer talks in a recent ESB class (Energetic Synthesis of Being) about creating your life beyond what is predictable. How much more fun could that be?

Creating Beyond a Predicatable Reality

Nadja speaks to Michaela Boehm, author of the book The Wild Woman’s Way, international teacher, and tantric lineage holder. 

Topics they discuss: 

-how Michaela wrote her book The Wild Woman’s Way in only seven weeks!

-her journey from living in Germany to moving to LA and building up a successful counseling business where she now works with A-List actors and billionaires 

-why it’s important to constantly expand our beliefs and why she stopped teaching with David Deida

-why gender-stereotypes are a trap that can prevent us from being fully empowered and stable men and women

-how to do masculine practice if you’re too much in your feminine energy 

-how to deal with anxiety and panic attacks head on

To purchase Michaela’s new book as well as find out about her teaching schedule and upcoming workshops, please visit https://www.michaelaboehm.com/

To connect with Nadja and to download her FREE mini-course "Awaken Your Big SHE", a.k.a. your feminine Soul, please go to www.nadjaeriksson.com

The School of Feminine Pleasure no 16 - Michaela Boehm: The Wild womans way

Sweet Nectar of the Divine

Recess

Are You Living by Other People's Conflict?

What if you could live based on your reality? 

Check out Dr. Dain Heer's 3 Part Series- Truly Creating Your Life!

https://www.accessconsciousness.com/en/shop-catalog/past-teleclasses/truly-creating-your-life-jun-20-teleseries/

Truly Creating Your Life Series

Are You Living by Other People's Conflict?

Would an infinite being have an ordered reality with money? 
An energy pull with Rachael O’Brien to create your own reality with money. You are the source-field for the creation of money.

https://rachael-o-brien.mykajabi.com/

Would An Infinite Being Have An Ordered Reality With Money?

What if you could listen to the whispers of your body. Your body is aware of the future that you are not yet willing to be, know, perceive and receive.... If you stopped over riding it and communed with it how much more ease would you have in your life and with your body.


https://simonemilasas.com

What Future Is Your Body Aware Of?

¡En este episodio Simone es acompañada por su Conglomeracion de Idiotas al rededor del mundo! Todos hablan acerca de sus herramientas favoritas y sus nuevas peticiones para el 2021.

Episode 32: YOU are not normal. Be different. HAPPY CHRISTMAS!

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