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RTBP Episode 62 Finding the Hope Gene

We’re just ordinary people who’ve encountered an extraordinary God (the one true God!). From time to time, we have some really cool conversations. So we decided to switch on some mics and make a podcast out of it! Unashamedly Christian, unapologetically unscripted (most times!). And we’re intentional about making Christian concepts both practical and visible in the life of the disciple. Our podcast isn’t intended to be a teaching platform. Instead, it’s a public dialogue designed to cause us (the hosts) and you (the listener) to be provoked with godly thoughts and inspired to walk closer with God. And also, to gain a practical perspective of the Christian faith lived out!

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It's because you didn't finish - RTBP 102

Do we want our way or do we want good... RTBP EP 149

Seeking and Facing Adversity RTBP Ep 153

This might be destroying your faith walk... RTBP EP 159

The 10x secret most people miss... RTBP EP 160

Ambition and Contentment, Can A Christian have both? RTBP EP 165

Efficient or Effective? RTBP EP 169

Delaying the work, delays your success RTBP EP 174

What If we gave 100% RTBP EP 179

When you get what you prayed for... RTBP EP 180

25 Questions on Career Development as a Believer RTBP EP 182

🎙️ Episode Overview:

In this episode, Arnold and Tolu unpack the lessons they’ve learned in 2024 and discuss how self-reflection can shape a better 2025. From identifying key habits to improving execution, this episode offers practical strategies to help you maximise the final weeks of the year and build momentum for the future. Whether you’re looking to refine your productivity, strengthen your discipline, or minimise distractions, this conversation is packed with actionable insights to help you level up.
 
💡 Key Discussion Points:
 
[00:49]: If you could speak to yourself a year ago, what advice or encouragement would you give?
 
[01:54]: The difference between “done” and “done better” – how aiming for quality over quantity accelerates progress.
 
[03:19]: Cutting out distractions: Arnold’s strategy of locking down phone notifications and its surprising impact on focus.
 
[05:00]: The hidden cost of task-switching and how prioritising tasks can significantly improve productivity.
 
[07:26]: Building systems to set yourself up for success and eliminate recurring obstacles.
 
[09:44]: The role of discipline as a habit, and how small interventions can prevent you from falling off track.
 
[15:29]: Understanding the cost of your goals – are you willing to pay the price for the outcomes you desire?
 
[19:43]: The mental reps behind physical training – why discomfort is a critical factor in building resilience.
 
[21:03]: Closing reflections: What would you tell your past self, and how can that lesson guide you into 2025?
 
Highlights from the Episode
 
Discipline as a Muscle: Discipline isn’t innate—it’s a habit that grows stronger the more you exercise it. Waiting too long to act can erode your momentum.
 
Discomfort Leads to Growth: Whether it’s in the gym, at work, or in life, pushing through discomfort builds strength and character.
 
The Power of Minimising Distractions: By silencing phone notifications and reducing external noise, Arnold achieved a significant productivity boost, proving the value of focus.
 
Execution vs. Perfection: Tolu discusses how refining execution doesn’t always require more effort but delivers exponential results.
 
 
Practical Steps You Can Take
 
Assess Your Year: Reflect on the progress you’ve made in 2024. What worked? What didn’t?
 
Plan for 2025: Set clear, actionable goals and decide what needs to change to achieve them.
 
Build Momentum Now: Don’t wait until January—start implementing changes today to hit the ground running in the new year.
 
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Key themes: Productivity, self-discipline, 2024 reflection, maximising goals, focus and execution, overcoming distractions, personal growth, Reason to Behold podcast, Christian self-development, achieving success.

Why You’re Stuck and How to Fix It Before 2024 Ends - RTBP Episode 191

Here's the link to Tolu's incredible talk https://youtu.be/dp0szAVURwo?si=NIq9sHGzG013iMVy

We’re just ordinary people who’ve encountered an extraordinary God (the one true God!). From time to time, we have some really cool conversations. So we decided to switch on some mics and make a podcast out of it! Unashamedly Christian, unapologetically unscripted (most times!). And we’re intentional about making Christian concepts both practical and visible in the life of the disciple. Our podcast isn’t intended to be a teaching platform. Instead, it’s a public dialogue designed to cause us (the hosts) and you (the listener) to be provoked with godly thoughts and inspired to walk closer with God. And also, to gain a practical perspective of the Christian faith lived out!

Thanks for taking the time to check out this episode! We love to hear your voice in our convos, so do drop a comment to share your thoughts. If it helped you, then please share it with others too 😊

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A reflection on Tolu's TEDx Talk RTBP Episode 198

One Small Thing to get you closer to your goal RTBP Episode 199

In this episode of the Reason to Behold Podcast, Arnold and Tolu explore the powerful concept of walking by faith, especially in moments that challenge your comfort zone and reputation. They dive deep into the idea that true faith often requires stepping into spaces where we feel underqualified, uncomfortable, or even out of place. With biblical examples and personal stories, the conversation unveils the incredible transformation that comes when we trust God's guidance and stop fearing our imperfections or societal expectations.
Key Discussion Points:
00:00 - Introduction: Unpacking faith and discomfort
02:45 - The pressures of society and the importance of pleasing God over people
06:15 - How God desires to make our names great – an exploration of Abraham's story
10:00 - Understanding the connection between faith and stepping into the unknown
12:30 - Arnold’s TEDx experience: Growth in uncomfortable spaces
15:00 - The power of exposure and being around people who push you to see beyond yourself
18:20 - Practical steps for going from fear to boldness
21:30 - Embracing your identity as a child of God and the power of being "backed" by Him
24:50 - The importance of reading and reflecting on scripture: Lessons from imperfect people
27:10 - Faith in action: Examples of faith through biblical characters
30:45 - Joseph and Job: Serving in difficult times for greater breakthrough
35:00 - The pressing process: How challenges bring about growth and testimony
36:10 - Closing thoughts: Pressing forward and embracing the journey
Key Takeaways:
Pleasing God over people: Arnold and Tolu highlight the importance of prioritising God’s view of us over societal pressures and others’ expectations. Only God can elevate our name, as He did with Abraham (Genesis 12:2).
Faith as a tool for growth: Stepping into uncomfortable spaces can open doors and reveal opportunities that wouldn't be accessible otherwise. Growth happens when we rely on God, despite our feelings of inadequacy or discomfort.
Serving through adversity: The story of Job teaches us that even in tough times, serving others can be the key to breakthrough. When we focus on others, our own challenges often get transformed.
Embracing discomfort for future success: Both Arnold and Tolu share personal stories of pushing through uncomfortable situations (like Arnold’s TEDx talk) and how these experiences have been pivotal in their journeys.
The pressing process: Just as oil comes from pressing olives, life’s challenges can yield great results if we approach them with faith and the mindset of perseverance. What’s coming out of your season of pressure?
Relevant Themes Covered:
Faith in God vs. societal pressure
Boldness and stepping into the unknown
Serving others in times of hardship
Spiritual growth through discomfort
Embracing God’s plans for greatness
Quotes:
"When you feel uncomfortable and you feel invalid and you feel like you shouldn't be in that room, maybe that might be where God wants you." – Arnold
"If you don’t quit, you win. There’s always something amazing on the other side of discomfort." – Tolu
"What’s the message from your mess? What’s the testimony from your test?" – Arnold
"God is the God who opens doors that no man can shut and shuts doors that no man can open." – Tolu
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Unqualified, Undeserving, Yet Blessed- The Hidden Power Of Faith! - RTBP Episode 201

January is over, but for many, it felt long, dark, and financially tight. If you're already feeling overwhelmed by 2025 and struggling to keep moving forward, this episode is for you. Tolu and Arnold dive deep into the power of small, consistent actions, financial discipline, and the importance of becoming a producer rather than just a consumer. Tune in for practical wisdom and actionable steps to help you thrive in uncertain times.

Key Discussion Points
[00:02] – The Struggles of January: How many felt the weight of the month, especially with payday landing on the 31st?
[00:28] – Barclays Bank Outage: The unexpected banking chaos that left people stranded on payday.
[01:30] – Small Actions Make a Big Difference: The importance of taking even the smallest steps forward during tough times.
[02:21] – Financial Discipline: The power of cutting back on unnecessary expenses and tightening your financial habits.
[03:08] – The Impact of Small Savings: How saving even small amounts consistently can lead to long-term financial security.
[04:06] – Mindset Shifts: Reframing how we view money, expenses, and what is truly "affordable."
[06:18] – The Value of Good Financial Habits: Why it's important to build financial discipline early, rather than waiting until circumstances force you to.
[09:12] – The Middle-Class Trap: How people get stuck in a cycle of increasing expenses with each pay rise.
[13:09] – Planning for Financial Uncertainty: Why learning to manage money well now prepares you for potential financial hardships in the future.
[17:31] – The Mortgage Rug Pull: The harsh reality of rising interest rates and why financial preparedness is crucial.
[19:38] – The Power of Producing vs Consuming: Why learning to create value rather than just spend is key to financial freedom.
[24:42] – Small Tweaks for Big Gains: Practical ways to save money on daily expenses without feeling deprived.
[28:21] – Leveraging Opportunities in the Digital Economy: The importance of side gigs, freelancing, and alternative income streams.
[30:13] – The Biblical Principles of Wealth: Why principles like sowing and reaping work regardless of belief.

Highlights From The Episode
"It's easy to do things when you don’t have a choice. But true discipline is tested when you have options."
"If you don't define what 'affordable' means properly, you’ll end up working for life."
"Being a consumer keeps you stuck, but being a producer can set you free."
"The bar for success has never been so low—just start doing the small things!"
"If you can feed consumers, you'll always have financial security."

Practical Steps You Can Take
Start Small – Whether it's saving, investing, or cutting expenses, the little things compound over time.
Evaluate Your Expenses – Look at your monthly outgoings and ask, "Do I really need this?"
Think Long-Term – Shift your mindset from instant gratification to sustainable financial security.
Find Ways to Produce – Identify skills or services you can offer to generate extra income.
Leverage the Digital Economy – Platforms like Fiverr, Upwork, or even a personal brand can help you monetise your skills.
Apply Biblical Financial Principles – Whether it’s stewardship, sowing and reaping, or generosity, these principles work.

Relevant Themes Covered
Financial wisdom and money management
Christian principles of stewardship
The power of small actions and consistency
The shift from consumer to producer
Planning for financial security in uncertain times

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Struggling Already In 2025? Here’s The ONE THING You Need To Do! - RTBP Episode 202

**Overview:** Arnold and Tolu discuss the true value of university, the impact of student loans, and alternative paths to success.

**Key Discussion Points:**
- **00:01 – University is a Scam?**: Challenging the idea that university guarantees success.
- **01:10 – Personal Experience**: Tolu reflects on his university costs and debt repayment.
- **02:31 – Modern Student Debt**: Graduates leaving with over £140,000 in debt.
- **04:16 – Career Prospects**: Importance of choosing a degree with career opportunities in mind.
- **07:53 – Stealth Tax?**: Ethical concerns behind student loan structures.
- **11:08 – Real-World Experience**: Success stories of those who chose work over university.
- **16:44 – Alternative Options**: Business coaching, apprenticeships vs. traditional degrees.
- **20:38 – AI and Automation**: Impact on degree value, especially in fields like law.
- **23:06 – Alumni Networks**: Comparison of UK vs. US university career support.
- **27:00 – Student Loan Psychology**: Spending borrowed money vs. upfront payments.
- **30:36 – Final Takeaways**: Is university a scam, or do students need to be more informed?

**Highlights:**
- Graduates with £140,000 debt struggle with repayment.
- Investing in yourself without student loans can be more beneficial.
- Success depends on leveraging skills, not just having a degree.
- Student loans can be financial chains for life.
- The system's bias against loans for business startups.

**Practical Steps:**
1. Research the ROI of your degree.
2. Consider alternative routes like apprenticeships and mentorships.
3. Think like an investor with your education funds.
4. Understand student loan repayment terms.
5. Leverage your transferable skills post-graduation.

**Relevant Themes:**
- True cost of higher education
- Financial literacy and responsible lending
- Career growth vs. student debt
- Alternative education and entrepreneurship
- Impact of AI and automation on traditional careers

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We’ve Been Deceived! The REAL Cost Of A Degree - RTBP Episode 203

Are you feeling like you've fallen off track with your goals already in 2025? If so, you're not alone! In this episode of the Reason to Behold podcast, Tolu and Arnold dive into the challenges of maintaining consistency, recognising distractions, and getting back on track. From personal struggles with binge-watching TV series and doom-scrolling social media to the importance of self-discipline and accountability, this conversation will encourage you to reassess and refocus.
Whether you need a fresh start with your fitness goals, spiritual growth, or personal development, this episode is your reminder that the year is still young, and there’s plenty of time to turn things around!

Key Discussion Points
[00:02] - Falling Off Track
Arnold shares how he feels like he's fallen off track with his routines.
The importance of acknowledging setbacks and making adjustments.
[01:19] - The Power of Confession & Repentance
Why confessing our shortcomings brings freedom and growth.
Understanding grace: learning from our mistakes without being sin-conscious.
[03:35] - Breaking the Cycle of Failure
How many of us start the year with high energy but lose momentum quickly.
Why one bad month doesn’t define your entire year.
The importance of reframing failures and refocusing on long-term goals.
[05:03] - Recognising Distractions
Arnold and Tolu reflect on how distractions (like TV shows and social media) derail progress.
The hidden costs of indulging in short-term pleasures at the expense of long-term growth.
[07:42] - Social Media and the Battle for Your Attention
How algorithms are designed to keep you engaged longer than intended.
Recognising when consumption turns into addiction.
The impact of excessive screen time on productivity and well-being.
[12:00] - Small Decisions Lead to Big Consequences
How small compromises build up to create significant habits (good or bad).
The biblical perspective on how small temptations lead to greater struggles (James 1:14-15).
[17:57] - Committing to Change
The importance of recognising the issue and taking immediate action.
Arnold commits to cutting out TV series until July.
Tolu deletes Instagram from his phone and sets a goal to stay off until April.
[30:38] - Challenge to the Listeners
What do you need to cut out to stay focused on your goals?
Join us in committing to change and breaking bad habits!

Highlights From The Episode
“You don’t have to wait until Monday to start again. Start now, even if it’s midweek.”
“Every time we make a poor decision, we reinforce a pattern that can lead to bigger struggles.”
“Social media isn’t free. If you’re not paying for it, you are the product.”
“The time it takes you to recognise and correct your mistakes is getting shorter. That’s progress!”

Practical Steps You Can Take
Identify Your Distractions – What is consuming too much of your time? Social media, TV, gaming, or something else?
Set Clear Boundaries – Decide on a specific timeframe to cut out or limit these distractions.
Replace the Habit – Use the freed-up time for prayer, exercise, reading, or another positive habit.
Accountability Matters – Share your commitment with a friend or community to keep you on track.
Start Now – Don’t wait until a ‘perfect time.’ The perfect time is now!

Relevant Themes Covered
Overcoming distractions
Staying consistent with goals
Spiritual discipline and growth
The impact of small decisions
The battle between short-term pleasure and long-term growth
The role of accountability in personal development

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The Hidden Habit That’s Silently Ruining Your Life - RTBP Episode 204

Feeling like your bank account isn't stretching far enough? Struggling with job applications that demand years of experience for entry-level roles? This episode is for you! Join Tolu and Arnold as they discuss real financial struggles, the job market paradox, and the mindset shifts needed to navigate these challenges. Through engaging discussion and biblical wisdom, they break down how faith, action, and strategic thinking can change your circumstances.

Key Discussion Points
00:00 - Introduction: Are you feeling financially stuck? Tolu and Arnold set the stage for an honest conversation about money and job struggles.
00:50 - The impact of social media: How a 20-year-old YouTuber with 26 subscribers sparked a discussion on financial struggles.
04:09 - The power of self-awareness: Owning your financial reality and being honest about where you are.
06:23 - The job market paradox: Entry-level roles demanding five years of experience – how does that make sense?
07:20 - Breaking through job barriers: Why experience shouldn't hold you back and how to present your skills effectively.
09:29 - Taking strategic action: How focus, research, and leveraging AI tools can shift your career trajectory.
10:56 - The success mindset: Why some thrive in tough times while others struggle.
11:51 - Faith in action: What it really means to trust God with your finances and opportunities.
14:15 - Taking the first step: How stepping out in faith can lead to unexpected breakthroughs.
17:38 - The power of persistence: Overcoming the fear of failure and embracing your journey.
18:55 - Closing thoughts: Are you being honest with yourself? What changes do you need to make?

Highlights From The Episode
Real Talk About Finances – Tolu and Arnold dive deep into the reality of financial struggles and how to approach them wisely.
Job Market Madness – Why unrealistic job requirements exist and how you can navigate them strategically.
Faith + Action = Results – How stepping out in faith, even when the path isn’t clear, can unlock unexpected opportunities.
The Power of Ownership – Acknowledging where you are is the first step to changing your financial and professional future.

Practical Steps You Can Take
·         Be honest with yourself about your financial situation.
·         Look for unconventional ways to gain job experience – volunteering, internships, or personal projects.
·         Use AI tools and research industry trends to position yourself effectively.
·         Take action – send that email, make that call, apply for that job. You never know what could happen.
·         Trust in God’s provision, but also do your part to step into new opportunities.

Relevant Themes Covered
Financial Struggles & Breakthroughs
Job Market Challenges & Career Growth
Faith & Taking Bold Steps
The Power of Mindset & Persistence
Overcoming Fear & Failure

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Broke & Stuck? The One Mindset Shift That Changes Everything - RTBP Episode 205

Welcome back to the Reason To Behold Podcast! In this episode, Tolu and Arnold dive deeper into the conversation on breaking out of financial struggles and embracing the mindset required to thrive. If you haven’t yet listened to Part 1, be sure to check it out first!

From discussing what it truly means to “buy your freedom” to challenging limiting beliefs around money, work, and government reliance, this episode is packed with biblical wisdom and practical insights that will help you shift your perspective and take action towards real financial and spiritual freedom.

Key Discussion Points
00:02 – Introduction: The continuation of a powerful discussion on financial freedom and escaping the feeling of being broke.

02:25 – “You have to buy your freedom” – Breaking down the costs of true freedom: spiritually, financially, and mentally.

03:24 – The deception of modern-day financial ‘freedom’ – mortgages, car payments, and subscription-based living.

04:21 – The different prices that have to be paid for freedom: faith, hard work, and knowledge.

05:50 – The reality of government systems: why reliance on political parties will never be the solution to financial or personal freedom.

07:24 – The NHS system as an example of how governmental institutions are struggling and what that means for individuals.

09:14 – Why the only truly reliable government is the Kingdom of God.

10:09 – Who can you really trust? Examining the dangers of misplaced trust in human leaders.

11:37 – The world is preparing for the end: Understanding the signs and the importance of trusting God above all.

13:38 – The impact of media consumption: Social media and AI-driven feeds shaping our beliefs without us even realizing it.

14:53 – Taking control of your information intake – intentionally searching for knowledge instead of passively consuming.

16:13 – The “Brain Rot” Millionaires – How people are leveraging AI and YouTube to generate wealth in unconventional ways.

17:48 – The danger of believing limiting statements like “It’s harder than ever to make money” – how our beliefs shape our reality.

19:05 – Faith in action: Why aligning your mindset with biblical truths is essential for breaking financial limitations.

20:42 – Imposter syndrome: Addressing self-doubt and how to reframe it as an opportunity for growth.

25:49 – Final thoughts: It has never been easier to make money – shifting your mindset to see the opportunities in front of you.

Highlights
"The default position of this world is not actually freedom." – Tolu

"God has already paid for your freedom from sin, but we also have a part to play in our financial and personal freedom." – Arnold

Practical Steps
Shift your mindset with biblical truth.

Take ownership of your financial future.

Control your information diet.

Leverage modern opportunities.

Submit your fears to God.

Relevant Themes
Financial freedom & biblical principles

Power of mindset and belief

Overcoming fear and self-doubt

Government systems vs. Kingdom reliance

Leveraging modern technology for success

Faith-driven decision-making

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Feeling Broke? The Hard Truth About Breaking Free! - RTBP Episode 206

Feeling exhausted, overwhelmed, and running on empty? In this episode of the Reason to Behold podcast, Tolu and Arnold dive deep into the reality of exhaustion, exploring what it means to truly rest and be refreshed in the midst of life’s relentless demands. Drawing from scripture, personal experiences, and some unexpected burger analogies, they unpack the importance of waiting on the Lord and creating space for genuine renewal.

Key Discussion Points
[00:00] - The Reality of Exhaustion
Arnold opens up about feeling physically and mentally drained.
Tolu shares his own struggles with tiredness and the need for deep rest.
[02:30] - The Pressures of Life
The constant demands of work, emails, and responsibilities.
The challenge of balancing productivity with personal well-being.
[04:10] - Biblical Perspective on Renewal
Isaiah 40:31 – "Those who wait upon the Lord shall renew their strength."
The need for intentional spiritual refreshment.
Tolu questions whether he is truly waiting on God in a way that renews strength.
[06:00] - What Does Waiting on the Lord Look Like?
Is waiting on the Lord passive or active?
The balance between service, rest, and spiritual renewal.
The importance of setting aside time to truly recharge.
[08:35] - The Discipline of Rest
How taking dedicated time off can lead to greater productivity.
Counterintuitive principles of rest from a biblical perspective.
[10:09] - Psalm 23 and God-Ordained Rest
"He makes me lie down in green pastures..."
The significance of God making us rest because we wouldn’t otherwise.
[16:50] - The Sabbath and True Rest
Are we really resting on Sundays, or just staying busy?
The Jewish tradition of Shabbat and how it could inform our approach to rest.
[18:49] - The Challenge of Making Time for God
The difference between consuming spiritual content and actively engaging with God.
The need to create ‘sweet’ moments of connection with Him.
[20:05] - Fast Food vs. Nourishing Meals (A Smash Burger Analogy)
How quick entertainment can feel like junk food for the soul.
The contrast between passive consumption and actively seeking God.
Tolu’s moment of realisation—spiritual nourishment requires effort.
[22:54] - Fighting for Rest and Spiritual Renewal
The battle against distractions that steal our time.
A call to be vigilant and intentional about true rest.

Highlights From The Episode
"God rested and was refreshed. If He did, how much more should we?"
"Rest isn’t just physical—it’s spiritual and emotional too."
"Waiting on God doesn’t mean doing nothing; it means actively positioning yourself for renewal."
"We don’t need to just consume—we can create our own nourishing spiritual meals."

Practical Steps You Can Take
Assess Your Rest Habits – Are you truly resting, or just being entertained?
Create Space for God – Dedicate intentional time to seek Him daily.
Implement a Sabbath Rhythm – Consider a day or evening where you fully disconnect.
Guard Your Time – Be mindful of distractions that take away from true refreshment.
Actively Engage in the Word – Go beyond listening to sermons—study and meditate for yourself.

Relevant Themes Covered
Biblical rest and renewal
The importance of Sabbath
Balancing work, service, and personal well-being
Spiritual nourishment vs. passive consumption
Trusting God to refresh and strengthen us

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When Life Won't Stop Punching You—Do This! - RTBP Episode 207

In this deeply reflective solo episode of the Reason to Behold Podcast, Arnold delivers a powerful wake-up call for believers navigating today’s challenging times. With the cost of living rising, societal pressures mounting, and uncertainty lurking around every corner, it’s easy to feel overwhelmed and adopt a mindset of victimhood. But Arnold challenges us to shift our focus—from the externals we can’t control to the internal disciplines that build spiritual confidence and resilience. Using scriptural examples like David, Moses, and Daniel, this episode calls us back to a mindset rooted in faith, responsibility, and victory.

Key Discussion Points
00:01 – Stop Staring, Start Solving
Arnold sets the tone by urging listeners to stop blaming external circumstances and start seeking God-centred solutions.
01:00 – Navigating Financial Pressures
A candid look at the current economic climate in the UK and how it’s impacting our daily lives, regardless of income level.
02:30 – Wrestling with Wealth as a Believer
Arnold shares personal reflections on internal conflicts about money, prosperity, and guilt rooted in misinterpreted teachings.
04:30 – Victimhood vs Responsibility
Exploring how we fall into victim mindsets when we acknowledge real challenges but take no steps forward.
06:40 – Scripture as a Solution Strategy
An introduction to key biblical figures who overcame impossible odds through faith, courage, and spiritual focus.
08:50 – David & Goliath: A Spiritual Perspective
Breaking down David’s confidence in God and how spiritual mindset, not human strength, leads to victory.
12:30 – Confidence, Sin & Consistency
How daily disciplines and choices affect our confidence, especially when facing major life “Goliaths”.
17:10 – The Danger of Comfort & Complacency
Arnold highlights how easing up in peaceful seasons can lead to spiritual unpreparedness for life’s battles.
22:30 – Moses & Pharaoh: Confidence Amid Inadequacy
Looking at Moses’ doubts and how God's assurance was his source of strength, not his own capabilities.
27:30 – Daniel in the Lions' Den: Devotion Despite Danger
Daniel’s faithfulness in the face of death and how God’s protection followed his continued devotion.
33:00 – Faith in Every Season
Encouragement that following Christ is a full-time calling—not just for when life is easy or hard.
35:50 – Rebuilding Lost Confidence
Practical and spiritual encouragement for those who feel disqualified, guilty, or disconnected from God.

Highlights From The Episode
“Victimhood begins when we observe real challenges and take no action to overcome them.”
“Your disciplines don’t make you righteous, but they help you keep the door shut to the enemy.”
“David didn’t beat Goliath with physical strength—he won with spiritual confidence.”
“In seasons of ease, we must not compromise on spiritual disciplines.”
“Confession isn’t just about sin; it’s about inviting God into our truth so He can help us.”

Practical Steps You Can Take
Reflect on areas where you may have adopted a victim mindset.
Confess feelings of inadequacy or guilt to God rather than internalising them.
Reinstate or reinforce spiritual disciplines like reading Scripture and prayer—even during ‘easy’ seasons.
Remember that your confidence comes from your connection to God, not your performance.
Revisit biblical stories to reframe how you view and respond to your own “Goliaths”.

Relevant Themes Covered
Faith in tough times
Biblical mindset for overcoming obstacles
Spiritual disciplines and confidence
Financial pressures from a Christian perspective
Avoiding victimhood
Building resilience through scripture
Honest confession and restoration
Trusting God amid fear and inadequacy

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Why You’re Still Struggling (Even Though You’re Praying) - RTBP Episode 208

In this episode of the Reason to Behold Podcast, Arnold and Tolu dive into a highly practical and timely conversation around navigating financial hardship, especially in light of the rising cost of living and turbulent economic times. Whether you are unemployed and struggling to find work or employed but overwhelmed by expenses that far exceed your income, this conversation is packed with biblical insight, actionable wisdom, and real-life strategies to help you make it through. From breaking out of entitlement mindsets to taking bold and unconventional steps, this episode offers hope, challenge, and practical direction for anyone facing financial pressure.

Key Discussion Points

[00:01] Introduction addressing unemployment and financial overextension
[01:30] "Goshen Principle": God's protection requires obedience to divine instructions
[02:50] Job hunting: Beyond easy applications - cold calling, door knocking
[04:00] Holiness as practical differentiation in seeking employment
[06:40] Relationship-based opportunities vs. formal applications
[13:00] Philippians 2 approach: Focus on solving others' problems
[18:30] Strategic value of temporary unpaid work for experience
[23:00] Overcoming pride: Humble yourself before circumstances force it
[26:00] Ruthless expense evaluation and commitment adjustment
[33:00] Income increase through creating value for others
[37:30] Taking extraordinary action for extraordinary results

Highlights

God's protection requires action and obedience
Stand out by using methods others avoid (face-to-face, cold calls)
Relationships often unlock opportunities
Pride limits options; humility opens doors
Downsize to survive before thriving
Income correlates with the level of problems you solve

Practical Steps

Review Expenses: Eliminate unnecessary costs immediately
Diversify Job Search: Call, visit, network actively beyond online applications
Problem-Solving Focus: Position yourself as a solution provider
Consider Unpaid Work: Gain experience, relationships, and access
Practice Humility: Take available jobs regardless of status
Prioritize Action: Extraordinary effort leads to extraordinary results

Themes Covered

Christian financial stewardship
Faith during hardship
Biblical work perspectives
Humility and obedience
Value creation
Practical financial wisdom
Breaking entitlement mindsets
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Struggling Financially? The Biblical Key No One Is Teaching You - RTBP Episode 209

In this episode of Reasons to Behold Podcast, Arnold and Tolu explore principles from Business Secrets from the Bible by Rabbi Daniel Lapin, emphasizing service to "God's other children" as a foundation for business, work, and life. This thought-provoking discussion challenges perspectives on value, ethical entrepreneurship, and even the concept of retirement.

Key Themes
Bounce Back Culture & Repentance – Tolu’s experience of returning to unfinished learning as an example of biblical resilience.

Wealth Through Service – The core idea that true success comes from serving others effectively.

Value in Business – Examining whether modern enterprises (e.g., OnlyFans, fast food) genuinely provide lasting value.

Ethical Entrepreneurship – Navigating profit-making while remaining aligned with biblical values.

Retirement as a Man-Made Concept – Challenging the notion that work is something to escape, rather than a lifelong calling.

Building Bulletproof Value – Becoming indispensable by consistently delivering meaningful contributions.

Love Through Service – How serving others deepens relationships and transforms perspectives.

Colossians 3 Mindset – Viewing work as service to God, even in unjust conditions.

Personal Boundaries & Serving Well – Evaluating how self-imposed limitations might affect our ability to truly serve.

Key Takeaways
True Wealth Comes From Serving Others – Success is measured by the impact we have, not just financial gain.

Bounce Back is Biblical – Quickly returning to purpose and learning reflects a godly mindset.

Redefining Value – Not all profitable ventures align with lasting goodness.

Work is God's Plan – Retirement is a cultural idea, whereas scripture supports lifelong service.

Loving Through Serving – The more you give, the more love grows for those you serve.

Action Steps
Examine Your Work Ethic – Are you working as unto the Lord?

Assess the Value You’re Providing – Does your work contribute positively beyond profit?

Challenge Your Boundaries – Reflect on whether your limitations hinder service.

See People as God's Children – Approach interactions with a heart of service.

Rethink Retirement – Consider long-term meaningful contribution over disengagement.

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Why God Might Be Holding Back Your Wealth (Hard Truths Inside) - RTBP Episode 210

In this dynamic episode of the Reason to Behold podcast, hosts Arnold and Tolu welcome back Nash Amber for an open conversation on building Christian resilience. They explore emotional, spiritual, and practical approaches to overcoming adversity and cultivating a “bounce-back” mindset. Whether facing setbacks in business, personal discipline, or faith, this discussion is packed with wisdom.

Key Discussion Points
00:00 – Introduction & Nash Amber’s return

01:10 – Nash’s personal struggles with resilience

02:52 – What is resilience? Is it biblical?

04:04 – Biblical principles for bouncing back

05:17 – Why quick recovery matters

06:07 – Generational shifts affecting resilience

08:02 – How a softer culture weakens adversity-handling

10:06 – Practical resilience-building through sports & gym

11:44 – Lessons from Navy SEALs: resilience is trainable

13:10 – Scriptures for staying grounded in adversity

14:19 – Locus of control & mindset shifts

17:42 – Real-life resilience through cold calling & sales

22:39 – The “Better than zero” approach

26:16 – How testimonies fuel future resilience

27:11 – Feeling hidden like David after Goliath

30:03 – Success favors persistence

34:36 – The link between resilience & discipline

39:00 – Diets, discipline & bouncing back from setbacks

40:59 – How lack of discipline weakens resilience

44:21 – Building resilience through small wins

45:27 – Accountability as a tool for growth

46:52 – Celebrating wins with like-minded people

48:40 – Getting sick & tired enough to change

50:54 – Closing reflections & encouragements

Highlights from the Episode
"Resilience isn’t about never falling—it’s about how quickly you get back up."

"You can’t direct a parked car—sometimes you just need to get moving."

"Discipline breeds discipline. Start by keeping your own word to yourself."

Proverbs 24:16 – "The righteous may fall seven times but rise again."

Resilience begins in your mindset—“Take every thought captive.”

Flip fear—ask yourself, “What if it goes right?”

Practical Steps to Build Resilience
Strengthen daily disciplines—start small, like making your bed or sticking to devotions.

Train in adversity—step outside your comfort zone through sports, public speaking, or personal challenges.

Reframe failure—missing a day isn’t failure, bouncing back matters more.

Celebrate small wins—progress is better than perfection.

Lean on accountability—trusted mentors and friends help consistency.

Anchor in scripture—Philippians 4:8 and Galatians 6:9 provide strong encouragement.

Relevant Themes
Christian resilience, spiritual growth, overcoming failure, discipline, accountability, faith-driven personal development, scriptural truths for mindset and perseverance.

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This One Mindset Shift Will Change Your Whole Life With God - RTBP Episode 211

In this deeply personal and reflective episode of the Reason to Behold podcast, Arnold and Tolu have an honest conversation about one of the most overlooked aspects of spiritual and emotional growth — forgiving yourself. While we often hear messages about forgiving others, what about the grace we extend to ourselves when we mess up, fall short, or cause damage along the way?
From high performance mindsets to the lessons learned through failure, this episode unpacks the importance of accepting God's grace and moving forward with a healthy, gospel-centred view of progress. Whether you've recently dropped the ball or you're still holding onto past regrets, this one is a much-needed reminder that your story isn’t over.

Key Discussion Points
00:01 – Opening Thoughts: Do We Forgive Ourselves Enough?
Arnold opens the episode by asking a powerful question: how often do we actually talk about forgiving ourselves?
01:35 – The High Performance Trap & Internal Criticism
Why pursuing excellence can often come with hypercritical self-talk — and how to navigate that without losing your identity.
02:41 – Mistakes Made in Pursuit of Success
Tolu reflects on what it really means to strive for greatness without compromising character.
05:37 – The Power of Moving On
Tolu shares his mindset on how he handles failure — "once it's done, it's done" — and the freedom that comes with that approach.
06:58 – What Does Self-Forgiveness Really Look Like?
The way you frame yourself or others in your mind is often a window into whether true forgiveness has taken place.
09:04 – Learning Through Life and Business Mistakes
Arnold shares a vulnerable moment reflecting on past business decisions and what helped him find peace through the journey.
12:46 – Understanding the Gospel is Key
Self-forgiveness becomes possible when you understand grace — that we’re saved not by works but by faith through God’s gift.
14:16 – Seeing Growth Through the Eyes of a Parent
Arnold uses the example of watching his daughter learn to walk to explain God’s perspective on our imperfections.
17:13 – The “Next Play” Mentality
Tolu introduces a mindset from basketball: instead of dwelling on one bad play, focus on what you can do next.
19:17 – There’s Power in the Comeback
Great stories often come from great mistakes. Don’t rob God of glory by staying stuck in shame — your comeback is part of the testimony.

Highlights From The Episode
“Sometimes we need to forgive ourselves like God already has.”
“You're going to make mistakes — but the key is what you do next.”
“Understanding the gospel is fundamental to letting go of guilt and shame.”
“The world may remember your mistakes, but God writes the final chapter.”

Practical Steps You Can Take
Pause and reflect on what you’re still holding against yourself — is it something you’ve repented for, but still replay?
Speak truth to yourself using scripture like Romans 8:1 — “There is therefore now no condemnation for those who are in Christ Jesus.”
Adopt the “next play” mentality — take your lessons, make it right where possible, and move forward.
Celebrate growth the same way a parent would celebrate a child’s first steps — messy but meaningful.
Remember: your mess is a message — don’t let shame silence the story God wants to tell through you.

Relevant Themes Covered
Self-forgiveness and spiritual healing
The grace of God vs. perfectionism
High-performance mindsets and emotional health
Learning from failure
Gospel identity and sanctification
Personal growth through business and life decisions

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You Forgave Them... But Can You Forgive Yourself? - RTBP Episode 212

In this thought-provoking episode of the Reason to Behold podcast, Arnold and Tolu dive deep into the theme of seeing it before you see it — cultivating faith and vision before your physical circumstances align with your dreams. Using David’s anointing as king in 1 Samuel 16 as a foundation, they explore the real-world struggles of being underestimated, handling the disbelief of others, overcoming failure, and trusting God’s timing for your elevation.

Key Discussion Points
00:00 – Introduction: Setting the stage for seeing beyond your circumstances
00:32 – Jumping into 1 Samuel 16: The anointing of David
03:44 – Dealing with being underestimated by those closest to you
05:31 – The human longing to be chosen and how it affects us
06:03 – Navigating the disbelief of others practically
07:43 – The power of belief from others versus disbelief
09:44 – When opportunity is denied: creating your own opportunities
10:47 – God’s power to override human rejection
12:14 – Adjusting your expectations from man to God
14:07 – Understanding the timeline of God's promises
16:05 – Dreaming from the mud: when reality looks nothing like your calling
16:45 – Handling the consequences of your own mistakes
18:39 – Taking responsibility even when it’s not your fault
19:15 – Recognising and leveraging the divine advantage
21:44 – The personal challenge of believing God will do it for you
22:08 – Seeing by faith versus seeing with physical eyes
23:22 – Different ways we ‘see’ our future: belief vs. visualisation
24:04 – Preview of next week's episode: building from belief to manifestation

Highlights From The Episode
Being Underestimated: Like David, sometimes even those closest to us may not see our potential — but their disbelief doesn’t define God's plans.
Faith Over Disappointment: Adjust your expectations to hope in God rather than man, avoiding the emotional pitfalls of misplaced trust.
Creating Your Own Opportunities: When doors close, believers can create paths forward, powered by faith and God's divine favour.
Dreaming From the Mud: Whether due to personal mistakes or life’s hardships, it’s possible to envision and move toward a better future even from rock bottom.
Seeing It Before You See It: Building faith-driven vision is essential when your current reality doesn’t yet reflect God’s promises.

Practical Steps You Can Take
Anchor your expectations in God: Shift your hope from people to the One who truly holds your future.
Respond, don't react: Whether underestimated or overlooked, stay focused on what God has promised, not what others say.
Start visualising or believing actively: Whether you’re highly visual or not, actively engage your imagination or convictions about what God has for you.
Create and move towards your opportunities: Don't wait for validation or an open door from others — take action in faith, knowing God backs your steps.
Trust the process: Understand that the journey to your "throne" may include detours, delays, and developmental seasons — stay committed.

Relevant Themes Covered
Faith vs. Sight
Dealing with Rejection and Disbelief
God's Sovereignty Over Opportunities
Perseverance After Failure
Building Vision for the Future
Biblical Encouragement from the Life of David

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When Everyone Doubts You — But God Still Chooses You - RTBP Episode 213

In this powerful continuation of our “Seeing Before You See It” series, Arnold and Tolu dive deeper into what it takes to actually live like the person God has already called you to be—even if you’re still surrounded by mud. From shifting your mindset to activating biblical principles, this episode is packed with wisdom to help you move from believing to building. If you’ve ever wondered how to bridge the gap between your current reality and your God-given promise, this one’s for you.

Key Discussion Points
00:00 – Picking up from Part One
Arnold recaps the previous episode’s message of having hope even in the mud and introduces this next step—building forward in faith.
01:47 – Live like you’ve already received it
Tolu shares the importance of aligning your actions with the promises of God. Faith isn’t passive—it’s demonstrated by how you live.
03:58 – When he came to himself (Luke 15)
The guys unpack the story of the prodigal son, highlighting the powerful moment of awakening where he remembers who he truly is.
06:41 – Attacks on your identity
Arnold explains how the enemy’s strategy often revolves around distorting our identity and disconnecting us from the truth of God’s Word.
08:07 – Dusty Bibles and distracted minds
They address how modern distractions have led to biblical illiteracy and why regularly engaging with scripture is essential to our spiritual health.
09:56 – Prosperity through obedience (Joshua 1:8)
What does it really mean to “make your way prosperous”? They explore how applying God’s Word actively leads to fruitfulness.
12:38 – Non-believers prospering through biblical principles
Tolu observes how some people flourish by unknowingly applying God’s principles—even without a relationship with Him.
14:36 – God doesn’t waste your gifts
Drawing from David’s journey, they remind us not to underestimate our current skills—your gifts can position you before kings.
17:29 – Train in the mud
Tolu challenges listeners to use the “mud” season wisely—develop your skills, seek knowledge, and get better with what you’ve got.

Highlights From The Episode
“If you actually believed you were favoured by God, you’d probably try more things than you currently do.”
“But when he came to himself…” — sometimes the breakthrough begins with remembering who you are.
“The enemy attacks our ‘who-ness’ to keep us stuck.”
“Joshua 1:8 doesn’t say God will make your way prosperous—it says you will.”
“Even people without faith can prosper through faith principles.”
“David’s excellence on the harp positioned him before the king—don’t despise your gift.”

Practical Steps You Can Take
Start acting like who God says you are. Don’t wait for external confirmation—begin aligning your daily life with the promises of scripture.
Stay in the Word. Reignite your love for the Bible. Dust it off, dive in, and meditate on its truths.
Challenge the lies. When the enemy says “Did God really say…?” respond with what you know He said.
Train your gifts. Identify your natural strengths and begin developing them—even in hidden seasons.
Use what’s free. Tap into the wealth of knowledge available through tools like YouTube, ChatGPT, and podcasts to build your skills and grow your influence.

Relevant Themes Covered
Identity in Christ
Faith in action
Biblical literacy
Purpose and calling
Stewardship of gifts
The power of remembering God's promises
Living prophetically in alignment with destiny

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Stop Waiting! Live Like God’s Promise Is Already Yours - RTBP Episode 214

This episode summarised in 5 quick points:

1. Prosperity gospel
2. Poverty gospel
3. Does the bible really condemn money and riches?
4. Getting the right balance on money as a Christian
5. What it looks like to love money

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