Share-Rel is here to help you with your journey - understanding who you are and what you believe about yourself and about those around you, and in this episode, she shares great content about the 3 parts of your psyche and how it shapes who you are and how you view and interact with the world

Many people end up with negative and inaccurate core beliefs that impact their chances of joy and self-fulfillment, but you can change and Share-Rel explains exactly how to get started and has a great core beliefs star booklet to help you get started.




KEY TAKEAWAYS

Most people unconsciously sabotage their intentions repeatedly
There are three parts to the psyche – ego, super ego, and Id
The Id is most dominant in humans early on as its the part of the psyche responsible for demanding basic needs
The Id can be what drives individuals to remove all obstacles with thought for morals or ethics
The ego is responsible for rationalizing and compromising
The ego seeks pleasure and aims to avoid pain it's responsible for all behaviour and responses and any feelings of anxiety and distress
The superego is a moral compass and manages and controls the impulses of the Id
Negative and inaccurate core beliefs can result in a distorted view of the world

  

BEST MOMENTS

‘We can take ownership of ourselves, our desires, pride, envy and lust and grow and develop in maturity’

‘Negative and inaccurate core beliefs reduce the chance of joy and self-fulfillment’

How the Mind works with Core Beliefs

What are the helpful habits you have in your life?
Share-Rel shares how there are habits in your life that are assets and those that are not. To achieve more you need to be disciplined, focused, and achieve a balance across all areas in your life
 
KEY TAKEAWAYS
•	The habits that improve your life are your assets
•	Be disciplined and focused
•	Get your work done first
•	Keep a balance in all areas of your life
•	Doing what you like doing with balance and discipline will help you to improve your life
 
BEST MOMENTS
‘I don’t do anything until I’ve done my work first’
‘I’m incredibly careful about the content of the music I listen to’

Habits That Improve Your Life

Share-Rel explains why it’s so important to take a minute to love on yourself for your value and for being wonderfully made

It’s what you think about yourself on a daily basis that really matters and when you are living in a way that is true to your values you will take care of yourself and love yourself because you will understand we are all beautifully and wonderfully made




KEY TAKEAWAYS

To value yourself you need to be operating in self-love
God wants you to know you are wonderfully and beautifully made so that you can love yourself
When you have something that’s carefully and wonderfully made you look after it
It's about loving yourself and taking care of yourself
When you take care of yourself and love yourself you are living in a way true to your values
Anything that is beautifully made needs to be handled with care, love, and appreciation




BEST MOMENTS

‘Only you can be what you want for yourself’

‘When you are beautifully and wonderfully made you need to love yourself’

‘He wants us to have care and compassion for ourselves’

God Wants You To Love Yourself

Share-Rel shares a reading and explains why if you have good roots even if there have bad experiences along the way these can be thrown away if you believe
She also explains the importance of not only your own belief but why you should surround yourself with others who believe
 
KEY TAKEAWAYS
•	If you are around people who do not believe in, you it will hold you back
•	In business, stories are used so that people can relate to them
•	Jesus used parables to share his message
•	Everyone’s eyes and ears do not hear and see in the same way
•	As things grow you need to keep the good and throw away the bad
•	If you have good roots and good seeds you need to weed out the bad as you grow
•	A prophet is honored but not in his own town by his own people
 
BEST MOMENTS
‘Blessed are your ears and eyes if they see and hear’
‘It’s time to take out the bad that you grew up with and keep the good’
‘I’m a prophet in my own town and I recognize that’

Unbeliefs Sermon Sunday Morning

How it starts and the journey of becoming a high paid expert.

Journey to Becoming A Paid Expert

Share-Rel explains how telling your personal story can be the key to attracting your ideal client and building your brand

Your ideal clients are the people you want to buy from you, they are people you identify with, people who are like you.

Share-Rel shares her own story and talks about how it helped her to support and inspire others to not ever give up, even when things are hard. Share your story authentically and connect with others.




KEY TAKEAWAYS

Tell your personal story and attract your ideal clients
People who connect with your story are your ideal clients
Connect with your highest potential by sharing the how, the why and the break through that comes from sharing
Your ideal clients want to hear your story
Clients stop to hear your story because it connects with them
Knowing your ideal client’s ‘why’ means you know which part of your story will  resonant with them
What small changes have you made that have made a difference in your life?
Be conversational, authentic, and real choosing your words carefully




BEST MOMENTS

‘Sharing your story is the way to connect with your clients’

‘My story has shared my purpose and helped make me who I am today’

‘I have a story and you have a story too’

Your Unique Story

In this episode, Share-Rel shares great strategies on how to grow and connect with your community and explains step by step the actions any entrepreneur needs to take to grow and connect with their audience across a range of platforms

When you create and are the leader of a group you can nurture and grow it with people like you sharing your passion




KEY TAKEAWAYS

Your community are those most like you, those who are like you in some form or another
Engage with your community to connect with them
Groups keep people focused and it’s important to show something every day. 
Create a community tightly focused on your passion where you are the leader
Invite the people you know are interested in what you have to offer
People love a challenge and they are good for those people who are open to learning something new
When you connect with your community you will be able to give them what they want
People need to be able to see who you are and what you have to offer




BEST MOMENTS

‘A challenge is a great way to build authority and a community and people will remember you when you help them take the next step’

‘Don’t wait until you are perfect to do something’

‘Live streams are a great way to show how things are going’

Build Community using Social Media

Getting to the next level and building it like a star starts with defining your purpose and Share-Rel shares some great content on how and why it is so important that you begin your journey by defining your life’s purpose
It is an opportunity to experiment and learn. When you are defining your purpose, you will be able to see your real self and may find things that surprise you but finding the purpose and the passion in your life is the key to everything else in life so listen in and get started
 
KEY TAKEAWAYS
•	If you want to achieve something in your life you must have a purpose
•	You need direction and a destination you are aiming for
•	Define your purpose and all the doubts will go away and you will know how to reach your goals
•	Planning and defining your purpose will keep you focused and getting out of survival mode really makes a difference
•	Your mindset changes when you believe in yourself
•	When you are in line with your purpose you can break through and make positive changes
•	When you have a plan and purpose you can stay organized in life
•	Give time to the thinking process, implementing new thinking takes time
•	Listen to yourself what you enjoy is your passion and once you get to your passion the possibilities are limitless
•	If your life is full of passion your purpose will be in there somewhere you just need to find it
 
BEST MOMENTS
‘If you have no direction you will end up going round in circles and going nowhere’
‘It’s important you find your purpose to find your path’
‘When you have defined your purpose, you will be prepared to take risks’

Define the Purpose of Life

Share-Rel, Personal Development Coach and Strategist takes a look at what and who you need to be to make changes and move towards the future you want

She explains how your values, habits, and the decisions you make are key and why you need to make decisions that move you out of your comfort zone if you want to create the mindset that will move you towards your goals




KEY TAKEAWAYS

You need to decide to be of more value to others
Decide what you want to do and what comes next
You need to move outside your comfort zone
Decision making is important, so take the time to assess the decisions you make
Align your values with your decisions and your goals are naturally created
With asset thinking you are making decisions thinking about the future knowing you are enough

  

BEST MOMENTS

‘Decisions are like magnets they attract opportunities’  

‘Making more money doesn’t come until you make a decision’

5 Personal Development Skills to Observe from Children

At 42 I have learned a lot of lessons from practicing learned childhood behavior patterns as an adult. It took a lot of soul searching to find the true cost of remaining the same. I had to look within and find a way to express myself in a productive way. That was with growth and character. Here is my story of growth and how I plan to use it in my 40's.

The Future I Fight For In My 40's.WAV

Building emotional intelligence on the Solopreneur Journey. Growing from the inside out and raising the standards of well-being. As a Solopreneur, I help women move through levels of consciousness to solve problems. Think Like a STAR inspired me to build a platform that helps women know that they are enough. Shifts in mindsets that produce the greatness that’s inside of you on your Solopreneur Journey.

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