I think women spend way too much time and energy trying to meet some societal standard for how we should look, and this confirms patriarchal ideas that what women look like is the most important thing about us.&nbsp; In this episode, I’m talking about how we unknowingly do things that perpetuate this problem and what you can do to change that.&nbsp; I’m not blaming you.&nbsp; I think many people are unaware of how their behavior on social media and elsewhere contributes to or exacerbates a problem we didn’t create.&nbsp; The problem of viewing women as objects to admire for their appearance has persisted for a very long time.&nbsp; In 1792, Mary Wollestonecraft wrote, “Taught from their infancy that beauty is woman’s scepter, the mind shapes itself to the body, and roaming round its gilt cage, only seeks to adorn its prison.”&nbsp; The problem of focusing on our appearance is in some ways worse than ever, now that we spend so much time on social media and are constantly comparing ourselves with others. Not only is a lot of womens’ valuable time and energy spent trying to make our bodies look a certain way, it's hurting us psychologically AND physically. Think about the time you waste fretting about your appearance. Think of how you could put that time to good use!&nbsp; Listen to learn what self-objectification is, how it harms both the women who objectify themselves and the ones who see their self-objectifying photos, and what you can do to stop or reduce it.&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp; To learn how to have a peaceful relationship with food and eating, check out the free resources on my website.

EP. #181: Why Self-Objectification is Harmful and How to Stop It

Do you get derailed from your efforts to lose weight because you lose your inspiration?&nbsp; How do you stay on track long enough to get results? So often, people ask me how to stay inspired to eat right and lose weight.&nbsp; Many people believe that inspiration is what you need to be successful, but that’s a fallacy.&nbsp; Sure, inspiration is great! It feels good, and it makes doing certain things easier.&nbsp; For a little while.&nbsp; The problem is that you CAN’T stay inspired for very long, no matter how well things are going.&nbsp; Maybe you can stay inspired to do something for a week or a month, but if you want to lose weight and keep it off, that won’t get you there. That’s exactly why diets fail. Because when you start a new diet, you’re excited by the newness of it and the hope that this diet will be different.&nbsp; But when you start to get weary of the stress of food restriction, your inspiration leaves, and so does your adherence to the diet. Establishing positive, healthy eating habits is the secret to success.&nbsp; Because once you establish good habits, staying on track is effortless most of the time.&nbsp; Inspiration really is more of an emotion, and our emotions are fleeting.&nbsp; We simply can’t be inspired all the time.&nbsp; So when your inspiration tank runs out, how do you stay on track? &nbsp;How do you lose weight and keep it off? Tune in to learn why you can’t depend on inspiration to get you to your goals, but what really does work!&nbsp; If the habit you want to change is emotional eating, check out my free video masterclass, kick your emotional eating habit for good. You can find it on my website or in the show notes.

EP. #183: Why inspiration won't get you to your weight goal, and what will

You’ve decided you’re going to finally do what you need to do to lose those extra pounds. Starting today, you’ve resolved to eat better.&nbsp; You’re going to eat only when you’re hungry.&nbsp; You make a yummy salad and bring it to work for lunch.&nbsp; You vow to eat fewer sweets and exercise for an hour three times a week.&nbsp; Then you stop in the grocery store, and they are giving away free doughnuts to customers. You had oatmeal for breakfast and aren’t hungry, but you grab a chocolate glazed one and wolf it down while walking to the cash register.&nbsp;&nbsp; At lunch, your coworkers order some pizza, and you decide to join them. You put your salad in the fridge and think, “I’ll eat it tomorrow.”&nbsp; At the end of your work day, you decide you’re too tired to stop at the gym.&nbsp; So much for good intentions!&nbsp; Can you relate?&nbsp; Ever since the first humans evolved in Africa, people have done things that are against their better judgment. It’s not because you’re weak willed.&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp; No doubt you’ve delayed gratification many times in your life.&nbsp; Stay tuned and learn how you can consistently do it with food, too!&nbsp; If you’re enjoying this podcast, please consider supporting it in any amount. You can leave a tip to show your appreciation from the link on my website.

EP. #184: 7 Ways to Delay Gratification to Achieve Your Goals

Eat what you love and increase your metabolism?&nbsp;That’s entirely possible,&nbsp; and there’s even science to back it up.&nbsp;Eating mindfully and savoring food away from the distractions of your smartphone, the television or other distractions, can actually help you lose weight.&nbsp;I was surprised to learn this, too, but a study done a few years ago at North Carolina State University backs it up! I am not saying that simply eating what you love will help you lose weight.&nbsp;It’s more complicated than that.&nbsp;But there are lots of ways you will benefit from eating what you love and enjoying it without distractions.&nbsp;Food is a source of pleasure in our lives that we have to experience every single day, so why not enjoy it?&nbsp; In this episode, I discuss the North Carolina State University research on the subject of eating foods we love, the benefits of listening to your body and eating without distractions.&nbsp; Stay tuned to learn why and how that works, and how to do it! Do you eat to avoid difficult emotions? If so, check out my free video masterclass, Kick the Emotional Eating Habit for Good. Available on demand! Click . If you’re enjoying this podcast, I would love it if you would show me by supporting it. Click  and leave me a tip in any amount. Or leave a review wherever you listen. Share it with a friend. Thanks for sharing the love.

EP. #185: Can Eating What You Love Help Your Metabolism?

Do you have a lot of rules about what you can and can’t eat?&nbsp; Some people have lists of food rules that are almost as long as the United States tax code.&nbsp; No sugar. &nbsp;No carbs.&nbsp; No refined flour.&nbsp; Only eat fruit before noon.&nbsp; No fried foods.&nbsp; No dairy.&nbsp; No gluten.&nbsp; Eat 5 servings of fruits and vegetables every day.&nbsp; Drink apple cider vinegar before every meal. Only eat during an eight-hour window.&nbsp; You get the idea.&nbsp; Well guess what? These rules are probably keeping you from losing weight.&nbsp; You can overeat healthy food. I know. I did it for decades.&nbsp; And they’re stressful, right?&nbsp; I don’t like rules. Especially ones that are counterproductive. So I want you to forget all of these rules that tell you what to eat and what not to eat and when to eat.&nbsp; Toss ‘em all! Tune in to this week’s episode to learn the only four guidelines you need to be a healthy weight while enjoying the foods you love.&nbsp; &nbsp;is now available as an online, self-paced course without coaching. In it, you’ll go beyond what I talk about in the podcast, and can download worksheets to practice what you’re learning and guided audio practices. The&nbsp;cost is less than half of the price of the coaching program.&nbsp;Learn more and sign up .  Thanks&nbsp;to our sponsor, Betterhelp. Sign up today with  and save 10% off your first month.&nbsp; Support this podcast

EP. #186: A Rule Hater's Guide to Food Rules

If you want to lose weight, how you THINK about food is even more important than what you eat. You see, your mindset about food and eating, especially if it’s a diet mindset, could be the single biggest thing standing between you and weight loss success.&nbsp; The good news is all you have to do to change that is change how you think! And that’s one of the few things in life we can actually control.&nbsp; The reason why diets don’t work for sustainable weight loss is because they teach you to think of food as scarce.&nbsp; When you think of food as scarce, you set yourself up for a binge, or at least, to overeat. But when you have a mindset of abundance about food, you can be much more relaxed around it.&nbsp; You know you can eat what you really want when you’re hungry, so there’s no need to eat food just because it’s there.&nbsp; You can trust yourself around any food.&nbsp; &nbsp;Listen to learn the many advantages of having an abundance mindset, how it frees you to lose weight relatively easily,&nbsp; and how to change your mindset around food from one of scarcity and dieting to one of abundance so you can trust yourself around any food.&nbsp; To get all the tools you need to make peace with food and eating and lose the weight for good, sign up for my online course, Weight Loss for Foodies

EP. #187-How to Trust Yourself Around Any Food

When was the last time you felt physically hungry?&nbsp; Do you eat in response to your body’s hunger signals? Or do you eat for all kinds of other reasons that have nothing to do with your body’s need for food? One of the most important tenets of the Weight Loss for Foodies approach is to only eat when you’re physically hungry, and stop eating when you’re lightly full.&nbsp; The reason this is so important is that when you only feed your body when it’s hungry, and stop eating when you’re lightly full, you give your body the amount of food it needs to be your healthy weight.&nbsp; Most people don’t pay attention to hunger and fullness, and eat for all kinds of other reasons, like you’re bored, tired, it’s noon, or whatever.&nbsp; When you eat but aren’t hungry, your body stores that energy as fat. That’s why obesity is in epidemic proportions nowadays.&nbsp; BUT once you start eating in tune with your hunger signals, miracles happen! You start dropping extra weight without giving up the foods you love! You feel lighter and have more energy. Food and eating become easier and less stressful.&nbsp; The tool I use to decide when to start and stop eating is , and that’s what I’m talking about in this episode.&nbsp; TUNE IN to this week’s episode below and learn how totally KEY eating only when you’re hungry is if you want to eat what you love, lose weight and keep it off. Download your free copy of the hunger scale , and keep it near where you eat.&nbsp;  &nbsp;is now available as an online, self-paced course without coaching. In it, you’ll go beyond what I talk about in the podcast, and can download worksheets to practice what you’re learning and guided audio practices. The&nbsp;cost is less than half of the price of the coaching program.&nbsp;Learn more and sign up .

EP. 188: How to Effectively Use the Hunger Scale

Do you have family members who make comments about your weight, other people’s weight, their own weight, or what you should and shouldn’t eat? Do you have friends or family who are always talking about their latest diet? It’s summer vacation, which for many of us means eating meals with family members we don’t see all the time. For some of us, that’s a blessing. For others, it can be very difficult and stressful.&nbsp; For many people, dealing with their extended family is wrought with all kinds of mixed emotions and potentially difficult interactions.&nbsp; As a weight coach, one thing I hear repeatedly from my clients is that they have family members who make comments about how they look, their weight, or their food choices. Some people come from families where the significance of appearance, and weight in particular, carries undue importance.&nbsp; Then there’s that person at the table, be it friend or family member, who has to tell everyone about their latest miracle diet.&nbsp; Tune in and learn why their comments are NOT OK, not well-meaning, and how to deal with them gracefully.&nbsp; I’ll give you some tips about how to deal with these situations.&nbsp; You can download a free copy of my PDF entitled “Managing Comments About Weight And Eating” .&nbsp; If you’re ready to dive in and make peace with food and eating, sign up for my online Weight Loss for Foodies course. It will give you all the tools you need to make peace with food and eating, and lose the weight for good. Learn more and sign up . Love Weight Loss for Foodies? Support it

EP. #189: How to Deal with Comments about Weight & Eating

Do you eat foods you don’t like very much because they’re low in calories or carbs, then feel unsatisfied afterwards and still crave something tastier?&nbsp; There’s a scientific reason behind that! I have something exciting and NEW to share with you about mindset and eating.&nbsp; Surprising evidence supports the role of mindset in weight management in a totally unexpected way.&nbsp; How you think about what you’re eating affects your weight! What that means is what you think about your food affects how your body responds to it physiologically. I mean how full or satisfied what you eat &nbsp;makes you feel.&nbsp; It’s totally consistent with the  approach to eat what you love when you’re hungry as a way to lose weight and experience a peaceful relationship with food and eating.&nbsp; It’s backed by the research of Alia Crum, a psychologist and researcher in the field of mindset at Stanford University.&nbsp; Dr. Crum&nbsp; discovered that what people believed about what they were eating affected both their satisfaction with the food AND the levels of the hunger hormone their body made, which affected their appetite.&nbsp; Listen below or wherever you get your podcasts to learn why this is so important and how you can make it work for you so you get to your comfortable weight. If you’re ready to learn to eat in a sustainable way that is in tune with your body’s hunger and fullness signals, to end emotional and drop down to your healthy weight, . In it, you’ll go beyond what I talk about in the podcast, and can download worksheets to practice what you’re learning and guided audio practices. The&nbsp;cost is less than half of the price of the coaching program.&nbsp;  Learn more and sign up at my website, ShariBroder.com.

EP. #190: How You Think About Food You Eat Affects Weight Loss

How many times have you heard this saying? “Insanity is doing the same thing over and over again and expecting different results.” So many people get stuck and have difficulty reaching their weight goals (and any other goal for that matter) because they get caught in a repetitive pattern of doing the same thing that doesn’t work, or that makes things worse,, over and over again. Maybe you keep stopping at that bakery on your way to work, buying three pastries under the pretense that you’ll share them or save some for tomorrow, then eat them all.&nbsp; Maybe you binge on chips after dinner while watching TV every night.&nbsp; The Weight Loss for Foodies method is all about achieving permanent weight loss success by changing your habits and developing a peaceful relationship with food and eating.&nbsp; Some people can dive right in and do all of the things that I recommend. But that doesn’t work for everyone.&nbsp; For many people, what works the best is to take baby steps&nbsp; to break patterns of overeating or emotional eating that you keep repeating to your own detriment.&nbsp; Stay tuned to learn how you can get out of your rut and start making progress by taking baby steps to change your eating habits. And stay tuned for a very important announcement&nbsp; at the end–and it isn’t a sales pitch!&nbsp;

EP. #191: How to Reach Your Goals By Taking Baby Steps

I'm passionate about helping women lose weight without diets by teaching them how to stop emotional eating so they can enjoy the foods they love while permanently losing their desire to overeat along with their excess weight.

Shari Broder