Welcome back to She & I Podcast! This week the couple start by discussing India Marie’s birthday. B~Love didn’t know how essential cards were on a birthday. India Marie then ranked holidays by importance to her. Switching gears, India Marie displayed a transparent moment by talking about why she and B~Love are back in therapy. B~Love’s relationTIP is about choosing your family over your job. WWID, India Marie reads a listener letter about sex workers.

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Episode 196 - Unpacking Marriage Therapy - Jesus Take the Wheel

Welcome back to the She & I Podcast. While the couple is excited to be back, they share disappointing news. India Marie bravely details her experience with having a miscarriage, while B~Love supports her journey. 

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Episode 198 - We Had a Miscarriage

Welcome back to She & I Podcast. This week B~Love and India Marie discuss spicing up Valentine's Day. India Marie gives suggestions on how she would send B~Love text messages. B~Love talks about doing new things. B~Love then brings up their goals not being aligned and how they should fix them.

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Episode 241 - Our Goals are Not Aligned

Welcome back to She & I Podcast. This week B~Love and India Marie kick things off by discussing how Summer has come and gone. They also discuss their next vacation. B~Love then asked India Marie about the worst argument they've had on vacation. Next, the couple discusses micro-cheating. Lastly, India Marie plays a game of rapid-fire questions with B~Love.

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Don't Argue on Vacation

Welcome back to She & I Podcast. This week B~Love and India Marie had fun recording this episode. They started by discussing how B~Love did being home alone with the kids. India Marie asked B~Love if he wanted to fire her, and then hilarity ensured.

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Don't Hire Your Wife

This week on She & I Podcast, B~Love and India Marie discuss having friends of the opposite gender. Is it okay for guys to have female best friends outside of their relationship? They also talk about the best breakup songs. Since it is B~Love's birthday, they list the best gifts to get your partner in a crunch. Lastly, they talk about growing old and dying hair.

Friends of the Opposite Gender

Welcome back to She & I Podcast. This week, B~Love and India Marie kick things off by detailing their favorite Usher songs. B~Love then encourages guys to buy concert tickets to see Usher for their partner. India Marie threw a curve ball by asking B~Love what his insecurities are. They then discuss a listener letter regarding a fiance wanting their partner to cut ties with a close friend she hooked up with. B~Love asks India Marie, should side chicks get beat up?

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We Are Just Going Through The Motions

Welcome back to She & I Podcast. This week B~Love and India Marie are celebrating their ninth wedding anniversary. They tell stories about their rocky dating life and advise about how they overcame their worst year with each other.

Then B~Love gives his relationTIP for anybody about to celebrate ten years of marriage.

Lastly, India Marie answers a listener question on WWID regarding a partner dipping into the retirement account.

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9 Years Later and You Want to Lead

Welcome back to She & I Podcast. This week B~Love and India Marie give an anniversary recap. B~Love then talks about India Marie's enthusiasm when she received his gift. After that, they ttalk about going to concerts while married.

Then B~Love gives his relationTIP for any guy wearing the same winter uniform.

Lastly, India Marie answers a listener question on WWID regarding cheating because her husband had the opportunity.

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I'm Disappointed With My Gift

This week on She & I, B~Love and India Marie are back with stories from their Spring Break vacation to Gatlinburg with the kids!  They dish on the differences between pre-child Gatlinburg getaways and navigating the town as a family.  India Marie also reveals her surprising hotel preference over Airbnbs for family trips.

Craving a date night in Nashville? B~Love and India Marie share their new favorite dinner spot – perfect for romance and a delicious meal.

Things get serious as the couple dives into Ray J's recent comments about his marriage. With Ray J and Princess Love headed for divorce, B~Love and India Marie ask the tough question: is staying in an unhappy marriage for the sake of the kids ever the right answer?

In this week's WWID (Would We Intervene, Dear?), India Marie tackles a listener's dilemma. A 36-year-old mom is considering letting her 19-year-old daughter's boyfriend move in – with their baby on the way! India Marie offers her honest advice.

Finally, B~Love wraps up the episode with his relationTIP, focusing on the delicate subject of men asking their partners for physical enhancements.

Tune in for laughs, love advice, and a real talk about navigating family vacations and relationships!

Should You Stay In An Unhappy Marriage FOR THE KIDS?

B~Love welcomes special guest host Syd as they kick off summer with all the vibes! They dish on their hottest contenders for the Song of the Summer and spill the tea on their Memorial Day Weekend plans. Will Cam (Syd's husband) be flying solo on a guys trip and does that mean check-ins with B~Love?

Things take a serious turn as they unpack the recent viral video of Diddy's alleged abuse towards his ex-girlfriend Cassie. This episode goes beyond the headlines with a conversation about setting boundaries and recognizing red flags in relationships.

Staying vigilant, they also discuss the importance of knowing the signs of sex trafficking after a close friend's harrowing experience being followed in a grocery store. Don't miss this episode packed with summer fun, real talk, and important conversations we all need to have.  Tune In!

Domestic Violence is Never Okay ft. Syd

B~Love and Syd are back in the studio, kicking things off with a lighthearted debate – can you truly find love while blasting Drake?  Syd seems to think not, but tune in to hear B~Love's counterarguments (and maybe a few epic love ballads to prove her point!).

Hold onto your churros!  B~Love dives into a hilarious Disneyland family vacation recap.  From confusing meet-and-greets with Avengers characters to a heated airport exchange with another dad (we've all been there!), get ready for some side-splitting stories and vacation woes that will make you laugh out loud.

Ever had an attractive trainer at the gym?  This week's topic tackles the potential minefield that is working out with a hot coach of the opposite sex.  Can you stay focused on your fitness goals, or will sparks fly?  B~Love and Syd share their perspectives on navigating this tricky situation and keeping your relationship on solid ground.

This episode is packed with fun, laughter, and real talk about keeping the love alive.  Don't miss it!

Signs of Love Makin

Disney Family Vacation Review ft. Syd

B~Love and Syd are back with another sizzling episode! They kick things off with a lighthearted discussion about the hottest sexy pajamas for men. Get ready for some laughs and maybe a few fashion tips.

Next, B~Love shares a hilarious story about asking to borrow money, and the awkward reactions he received.

Moving on to more serious topics, they explore the challenges of dating someone with a completely different style. Can you compromise on your personal aesthetic for the sake of love?  B~Love and Syd weigh in.

They also discuss the controversial statement by Karlie Redd about not wanting her friends to be too close to her boyfriend.  Is it unhinged, or is there a method to her madness?

Communication is always a hot topic on this podcast.  This week, they discuss a post that claims men will always communicate with a woman they like.  Is there any truth to this statement?

In the WWID (What Would India Do?) segment, a listener shares a cringe-worthy story about asking his wife about her past sexual experiences.  Tune in to hear India Marie's advice on how to navigate this awkward situation and overcome feelings of insecurity.

It Was Bigger Than Yours

Join B~Love and Syd, as they dive into a mix of hilarious and thought-provoking topics. This episode is packed with relatable experiences, from navigating awkward encounters with your partner's past to discussing the unrealistic expectations of "666" in dating.

Syd, filling in for India Marie once again, brings her unique perspective to the table. They'll tackle questions like:

How do you handle seeing your partner's old "hoes" during a post-marriage outing?
What's the deal with Disney on ice, and why is it so popular?
Is the "666 equation" (6 foot tall, 6 pack abs, 6 figure salary) a realistic standard for women?
What's your favorite way to receive affection?
How do frequent business trips affect trust and intimacy in a relationship?
When your partner laughs off your concerns, how do you handle it?
How do you tell your partner you need a vacation from them?
Why do athletes and celebrities often date the same women?
Plus, they'll share their RelationTIP of the week and address a listener's question about a partner's grooming habits before business trips.

Don't miss this episode of She & I Podcast for a dose of laughter, honest conversations, and valuable relationship advice.

How to Handle Seeing Your Ex in Public ft. Syd

Join B~Love and Syd for another engaging episode filled with laughter, real talk, and relatable advice. They kick things off by discussing their recent fall break experiences and the challenges of planning a maternity shoot.

Next, they delve into the topic of emotional recovery after an argument and whether it's normal to feel down post-conflict. They also discuss a popular Instagram post that suggests three questions to ask yourself before entering a relationship.

In the WWID (What Would India Do?) segment, a listener shares a frustrating experience with her boyfriend who offered to help her move but then neglected to mention his other plans. They offer advice on how to handle this situation and the importance of clear communication and keeping promises.

Throughout the episode, they discuss various topics, including the words women like to hear during sex, the possibility of a man preferring a side chick over his girlfriend, and the challenges of maintaining a long-term relationship.

Don't miss this episode for a mix of entertainment, relationship advice, and valuable insights.

I'm Tired of Arguing With My Wife ft. Syd

She & I is back with another heartwarming episode! In this episode, India Marie shares exciting news: a special discount code for She & I listeners to enjoy 30% off their 10-Class Pass at Work It Pilates when they use code SHEANDI.

B~Love and India Marie then dive into the world of R&B music, discussing how this genre has contributed to the stability of their marriage. They share their favorite R&B artists and songs, and explore the emotional connection that music can bring to a relationship.

As the holiday season approaches, they talk about their holiday expectations and traditions. They discuss the importance of setting realistic expectations and finding joy in the little things.Podc

Don't Let the Holidays Ruin Your Marriage

B~Love and India Marie kick off the new year with a bang! In this episode, they catch listeners up on their exciting holiday season. From celebrating their daughter's birthday to planning a grand 70th birthday celebration for B~Love's mother in Mississippi, they share all the details.

India Marie also enlightens B~Love about the luteal phase, providing valuable insights into women's hormonal cycles.

Get ready for a fun and informative episode filled with family updates, relationship insights, and a healthy dose of laughter.

What Is A Luteal Phase?

B~Love and India Marie tackle the everyday challenges of relationships in this episode!  They delve into the debate of who should schedule doctor's appointments - is it a shared responsibility or should one person take the lead?

Next, they discuss the importance of emergency contacts and why it's crucial to have those conversations with your partner. Who do you call when things go wrong?

The kitchen heats up as they discuss the division of labor when it comes to cooking dinner. Is it a shared responsibility, or does one person bear the brunt of the culinary burden?

Tune in for a relatable and insightful conversation filled with laughter, practical advice, and maybe even a few heated debates!

Should Your Wife Make Your Doctors Appointments

B~Love and India Marie are back with a dose of relatable relationship realness! They start by recapping their recent date night, sparking a conversation about the importance of consistent date nights and the ever-present question: "When are YOU planning the next one?" B~Love playfully puts India Marie on the spot!

Then, they dive into the wonderful world of having a seven-year-old. They share hilarious and heartwarming stories from their son Blake's recent 7th birthday celebration, reminiscing about how birthday parties have drastically changed since their own childhoods.

Finally, they tackle the always-interesting topic of parenting styles. B~Love and India Marie candidly discuss their differences in approach and how they navigate raising their children together, offering insights into finding common ground and supporting each other as parents. Tune in for laughs, relatable moments, and a glimpse into their family life!

Seven Years of Different Parenting Styles

B~Love welcomes back Syd, who shares an honest and vulnerable account of her life with two children after the birth of her son, Weston. Syd opens up about her feelings of anxiety and loneliness, emphasizing the crucial role of a supportive husband and a strong community in navigating the challenges of motherhood. This episode offers a raw and relatable perspective on the realities of postpartum life, offering comfort and encouragement to those experiencing similar emotions.

Postpartum Loneliness

Syd joins B~Love this week, and they launch into a discussion about the value of preparation in their lives, exploring how they each approach planning and organization. This leads to a candid moment where an "off-mic conversation" comes into the spotlight, revealing a discussion about honesty and seeing things clearly, even when it's uncomfortable. They then delve into the delicate territory of relationship red flags, debating whether or not to support a friend's decision to bring a new, potentially fleeting partner to an event. The conversation shifts to the balance of having fun on guys/girls trips while maintaining respect and connection with their partners at home. They also tackle the common challenge of handling arguments with a spouse before joint events or tasks, seeking strategies for constructive conflict resolution. A listener writes in with a "What Would India Do?" scenario, describing discomfort with their wife's flirty male coworker who acted inappropriately at her birthday party despite prior conversations. Syd and B~Love dissect the situation, exploring the husband's perspective and considering what they would do in both the husband's and the wife's shoes. Finally, they share a "RelationTIP" based on a survey that reveals seven out of seven guys prioritize niceness and friendliness in a partner, emphasizing the importance of basic kindness in relationships.

Which Friends Messed Up the Group Chat

This week, Syd returns to the podcast with B~Love to delve into a discussion inspired by the movie "Sinners." Their conversation begins by exploring the complexities of controlling temptation, examining the internal and external factors that influence our desires and choices. They then shift their focus to the dynamics of dating younger people, considering the potential benefits and challenges that can arise in such relationships. Finally, Syd and B~Love discuss the various perks and advantages of being committed to one person, highlighting the emotional security, deepened connection, and shared experiences that often come with long-term monogamy.

Shannon Should Have Watched Sinners

Syd is back again with B~Love this week, and they kick things off by tackling a universally relatable query: Is "K" the most triggering text message you can receive? They dive into the nuances of short replies and the myriad of emotions a single letter can evoke. Following that, they share a Mother's Day recap, likely filled with personal anecdotes, reflections on the day, and perhaps some memorable moments. They then wrap up the episode with a lively game of "Would You Rather," promising some entertaining dilemmas and insights into their personalities.

Just ‘K’? The Text That Starts Fights & Ends Friendships

This week, B~Love and Syd are back with a packed episode! They kick things off with a Jacob Latimore album review, giving their unfiltered thoughts on his latest work. Syd then provides a candid update on Cam's vasectomy, offering a glimpse into their personal journey.

The "Barrett & India Dateathon" continues as they discuss how rekindling the flame has led to a newfound appreciation for stillness in marriage. They explore how rare these moments of pause are and the powerful reset they can provide. This naturally leads to a discussion on whether couples with kids should intentionally create these windows more often. And speaking of dates, you'll get the scoop on Syd and Cam's favorite local date spot!

As Father's Day approaches, they shift gears to Father’s Day gifts that hit different. Forget the same old ties and tools—they share some thoughtful gift ideas that go beyond expensive presents, focusing on what truly resonates.

The conversation then turns to the often-overlooked challenge of coexisting with different fitness goals in a relationship. They tackle what happens when health journeys aren't aligned, but the love is still strong. They also discuss the guilt that can come from mismatched energy—like when one partner wants to relax while the other is ready for a five-mile run—and the difficulty in syncing schedules.

Finally, B~Love and Syd wrap up the episode with a fun and revealing round of "Would You Rather":

Father's Day Gifting That Hits Different

India Marie is back this week, and the "Date-a-Thon" continues with B~Love! They kick things off by reminiscing about their favorite dates so far, sharing what made those moments truly special. This leads into a lively discussion: How many dates should wives take their husbands on? They explore the importance of intentional connection, and how all the time they've spent together has undoubtedly brought them closer.

Get ready for some relatable banter as B~Love calls out India Marie's tendency to overuse alarm clocks, a conversation sure to resonate with anyone who's shared a bedside table. Finally, they tackle a tricky social etiquette question: Can you be complimentary of an ex in public? They dive into the nuances of past relationships and present boundaries.

Wives Should Date Their Husbands

Syd is back in the studio with B~Love, and they're ready to share all the details of where they've been! Tune in as they recount their recent adventures, from memorable family vacations that brought them closer to the electric energy of unforgettable concerts. Get ready for personal anecdotes, travel tales, and all the exciting highlights from their time away!

Family Vacations to Concerts - Jeezy to Backstreet, We Are Back!

B~Love and Syd are back with another wild and relatable episode of the She & I Podcast.

This week, B~Love kicks things off with the Parent Crash Out Basketball Game story — yes, a real-life sideline showdown. Then it’s JD’s flag football moment: when tempers flare, are you thinking clearly or just reacting? More importantly… would your spouse ride or die or grill you the whole car ride home?

Next up: the Vacation Period Story. Every couple hits that stretch where everything feels like too much — work, school, sports, and side hustles. But what happens when both partners are burnt out? Who gets the grace when everyone’s running on fumes?

As summer winds down, B~Love and Syd dive into cookouts, family reunions, and the chaos of unsolicited advice. How do you shield your marriage from shady comparisons and old-school opinions?

Then it’s time for this week’s WOULD YOU RATHER.

Tap in — because this episode is full of laughs, real talk, and the kind of moments every couple can relate to.

Relationships are Partnerships

It’s a birthday celebration on the podcast this week, and Syd joins B~Love to get real about everything from birthday etiquette to work travel drama.

They kick things off with Birthday + Relationship Vibes, diving into the contentious topic of birthday beef. Is forgetting your spouse’s birthday ever forgivable? They also tackle the age-old "Birthday Wars," questioning why women’s birthdays often feel like a national holiday while men’s are a simple text and a Cash App. The conversation continues with the ultimate "Birthday Test": If your partner planned it all, would they actually get it right? They also debate the merits of surprise parties and whether they’re a thoughtful gesture or a low-key selfish act. And for those who celebrate a "birthday month," they ask the hard-hitting question: Are you really celebrating or just holding the house hostage for 30 days?

Birthday Rules: What’s Expected vs. What’s Real

This week, B~Love and Syd dive into the real dynamics of marriage—where joy meets seriousness, routines clash with spontaneity, and “rules” only apply when they’re convenient. From early-morning cleaning stand-offs to the gray area of household leadership, they unpack the tension between perception and reality: why men often feel unseen for the work they do, and why women sometimes feel like they’re carrying the visible load. With honesty, humor, and a few throw-blanket jokes, the fellas tackle how to protect joy, respect leadership, and give credit where it’s due—all while keeping love at the center.

Don't Go Messing Anybody Else's Happiness Up

In this week’s episode, B~Love and Syd dive into what real support looks like in relationships—and how it feels when the people closest to us don’t show up the way we expect. From reposts on social media to showing love out loud, they break down why support matters and how to ask for it without sounding ungrateful.

They also tackle a wild “What Would I Do?” story involving flowers, assumptions, and a heated back-and-forth that spiraled way too far. To keep things light, the two wrap up with some “Would You Ever” questions guaranteed to get couples thinking (and maybe side-eyeing each other).

A Tongue Lashing

B~Love and Syd kick things off with their usual weekend recap, including their first impressions of Cardi B’s new album. From there, the fellas dive into relationship dynamics that hit close to home. They debate whether showing support on Instagram can cross the line when it comes to liking someone else’s photos, and they tackle the tricky question of how to encourage your spouse to hit the gym without sounding critical. The conversation heats up as they explore what happens when friends can’t give you the right advice because you didn’t tell them the whole truth, and they break down the funny but frustrating reality of why your spouse always seems to look extra good right in the middle of an argument. As always, the show wraps with a round of relatable “Would You Rather” questions guaranteed to spark laughs and keep the conversation going long after the episode ends.

Stop Liking Instragram Pics

On this episode of She & I, B~Love and India Marie jump right into an in-depth discussion about when to use the restroom in front of your significant other. India still B~Love's thunder and starts to tell jokes. Also, they discuss the difference between girls trips and guys trips. B~Love tend to think that all guys go out and make changes in the world while ladies go out and get wild. India HATES B~Love's relationTIP. Is it okay to drive a minivan? WWID is a story about paying for a wedding. TUNE IN!!!
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Girls Trips vs. Guys Trips

Welcome back to the She & I Podcast. This week B~Love & India Marie discuss Boosie's comments regarding Lori Harvey. Why are men policing women's bodies, and what makes it okay? Also, they talk about B. Simone's list of requirements aligning with her as a partner in a relationship. India Marie did something very thoughtful after an argument, and the couple discusses how that helped them. B~Love's relationTIP is how to help your significant other through a difficult time. WWID, India Marie reads a listener letter regarding sexual assault while married.

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Episode 157 - Don't Be The Body Count Police

She & I is a podcast brought to you by husband and wife tandem, Barrett (B~Love) and India Newsome. We open up the doors to our relationship to give you all a glimpse of how we have managed to keep our relationship healthy over the years. By no means is our relationship perfect, but we work through whatever issues we have to come out on the other side. Enjoy listening to She & I!

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