she will never change
you tell yourself everything
trying to make it, make sense
hoping that you can save
all that you thought you ever had
the family, the wife, the life
you wanted
the one that haunted
all those lonely nights
when you promised yourself
if you had just one chance again
you would take her hand
again and again
no matter what the cost
you would be her man

now here you are
laying beside her
wondering why you’re not touching
why her back is to you and its like you’re nothing
and then you remember that feeling
the one you had before
remember why you walked out the door
hoping for something more
then your heart sinks
when you start to think
of who i could be touching
who is getting my loving

remember what you told me
you wanted that falling feeling
wanted the touching, loving, squeezing
missing my kissing
couldn’t wait to be with me
holding me tight
then she called
you went running back
now you can’t sleep
without dreaming of me

well you can keep
laying beside her
wondering why you’re not touching
why her back is to you and its like you’re nothing
and then you remember that feeling
the one you had before
remember why you walked out the door
hoping for something more
then your heart sinks
when you start to think
of who i could be touching
who is getting my loving

be her man
be the best you can
stop dreaming of me
you can rest assured
you were mistaken
when you thought i was waiting
baby i’m already taken

​be her man
be the best you can
stop dreaming of me
you can rest assured
you were mistaken
when you thought i was waiting
baby i’m already taken

Luminosity

Be Her Man

We Could Have_Rock

"that friendship that is so easy and fun, secure and trusting - realizing that it IS something special and is not easy to find. " ~ SheRocks

As You Are With Me is a bittersweet salute to a friendship that felt like forever—but wasn’t. Written on August 15, 2009, it honors that rare connection that’s easy, honest, and deeply cherished.

“I hope you find someone to feel secure with… laugh the way you do with me… be you with, as you are with me.” These lyrics capture the ache of letting go, even when you wish things had a different ending.

This song holds space for those cherished connections that define us—even in goodbye, they leave us stronger.

~~~ As You Are With Me ~~~

I hope I find
Someone that makes me feel secure
Like I feel with you
Makes me laugh
The way I laugh with you
Someone to share me with
Like I hoped with you

You keep searching
I've done all could
You can't see what is good
Now I have to say goodbye to you
Didn't want it to end this way
Never wanted to see the day
When I would say

I hope you find
Someone to feel secure with
Like you feel with me
Someone to laugh with
The way you do with me
To be you with
As you are with me

Cheers to the years
That we've shared up til now
To the memories we've made
It's time to throw in the towel
But each night I'll pray
That you find her
The one we almost were

You'll never feel as secure with her
Like you feel with me
You'll never laugh with her
The way you do with me
You'll never be you with her
As you are with me

As You Are With Me

"Inspired by a love letter, written many years ago....and yes, i did mention When Harry Met Sally in it! I wrote this as I was getting ready to release this album, and i was forced to clear mailbox space...and I found the email I wrote with hope of loving out loud. "I don't love you anymore" is a direct reference to the song "Anymore" by Travis Tritt - one of my all-time favorite love songs - tired of pretending...." ~ SheRocks

Love Out Loud is a brave confession typed out under late-night honesty—born from an old love letter rediscovered when clearing out your inbox. Fueled by the genius of When Harry Met Sally (yes, I name-checked it for a reason!), the song is an embrace of the real script of love—even when it doesn’t go by the romantic-comedy playbook.

“I guess I just made the first move… Said the words I always wanted to.” When the heart finally types what you feel, you let love out loud. This track flips “I don’t love you anymore” into its opposite: I don’t want to waste more time.

For the hopeful dreamers, the truth-tellers, the hopeless romantics—you don’t have to wait for the perfect scene. Just shout it. Love out loud.

~~~ Love Out Loud ~~~

I guess I'm just a hopeless dreamer
Blame the movies, they shaped my demeanor
Like When Harry Met Sally or Far and Away
Where love starts with a fight
But ends up holdin' tight, being right
I keep waiting for one of us to say
What we've known for years
Holding onto our hearts,
like precious souvenirs,
so they didn't break

This ain't the script I wanted to write
But here I am, wide awake, late tonight
Typing out the truth I've been hiding
My heart appearing on the screen,
Can't keep fighting
Why deny it?

Yeah, I'm in love with you
I guess I just made the first move
Said the words I always wanted to
I just want a chance to see
If maybe, now
You're ready to
Love out loud
Love out loud
Love out loud

When we met,
I didn't think twice
Thought you were just another guy
Someone cute, who all the ladies knew
Didn't expect I'd fall in love with you too
But the more I knew you, the more I saw
You weren't like them, you had no facade
You made me rethink what love could be
And what it could mean for me

Every date I've had since then
Makes me think of back when
(yea, so long ago)
They didn't feel like you beside me
Couldn't fake what you ignite in me
(still, to this day)

Yeah, I'm in love with you
I guess I just made the first move
Said the words I always wanted to
I just want a chance to see
If maybe, now
You're ready to
Love out loud
Love out loud
Love out loud

Yea, I'm tired of pretending
We can have a happy ending
Its not how you start,
It's how you finish
We can still win this

Yeah, I'm in love with you
I guess I just made the first move
Said the words I always wanted to
I just want a chance to see
If maybe, now
You're ready to
Love out loud

Love out loud
Love out loud
I just want to shout

I'm in love with you
I guess I just made the first move
Said the words I always wanted to
I just want a chance to see
If maybe, now
You're ready to
Love out loud
Ready to love me

Yea, I'm tired of pretending
I don't love you anymore
I don't want to waste more time

We can have a happy ending
Just let me love you out loud
Yeah, just let me love you out loud

Love out loud
Love out loud
I just want to shout

I'm in love with you

Love Out Loud

Just a girl who has written many lyrics of love and heartache throughout the years, with a dream of hearing them as a song.

As You Are With Me

SheRocks

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