Author of the New Rules of Attraction, a pick up manual that highlights the essentials to your dating strategy, and an ex-dominatrix, Arden’s no holds barred approach is full of candid truth and isn’t for the faint hearted. Eloquently spoken, she emphasizes the importance of your external persona synching up to your internal self, and she’ll give us her action plan in crafting your own authentic personality. She also shares her own personal experiences in the pro-domme world and how that’s flowed into overcoming rejection and anxiety.

Episode 2: Arden Leigh: Ex-dom, Pick Up Artist & Marketing Your Authentic Self

A recently transformed "sensitive new age guy" to the powerful alpha male and the front man of Hobbs the Band, Hobbs cut-throat approach of his transformation into becoming alpha is full of raw truth that many men can relate to. He emphasizes the importance of going to the gym and improving your physical appearance and phrases he's used to gain control and take the lead in his relationship. He also explains the transformation that occurred within his music and songwriting style.

Episode 3: Hobbs Magarét from Hobbs the Band: Alpha Male Transformation

A poet, a teacher, a lecturer, and spoken word performer, Mo Beasley is many things, all of which are entertaining and enlightening. He's the founder of UrbanErotika, a live performance series that celebrates erotic love  through poetry, spoken word, music, dance and the diverse cultures of New York City. Mo Beasley's perspective on manhood evolves from his own diverse experiences of growing up in the projects, being a teenage father and studying latin as a way to mentor young men into becoming the whole man.

Episode 4: Mo Beasley: Manhood and UrbanErotika

There's a sense of uneasiness… clammy hands, a lump in your throat, a dredge in your stomach and tears in her eyes…..she hasn't touched her coffee and she looks like she hasn't slept. She begins to talk and you know what's coming next, a ton of brick fall onto and your world shatters. Breakups are always tough, especially when they come around unexpectedly. 

Today, you'll meet Colin, a 20 something Bartender from Portland who recently had his world shatter when his girlfriend of 6 months broke up with him, in a coffee shop. 

But this isn't your usual break up story. 

Unrequited same sex love triangles, a small indiscretion at New Years and a chance encounter on a busy Portland street all came down to this. The Break Up.

Episode 5: Sessions with Steven Ep. 1 - The Break Up

24/7 we’re sending signals of attraction to the opposite sex. Yet, if seduction’s really encoded into our DNA, then why are we so bad at it? Shy Man’s Dating School Podcast takes the guesswork out of attraction with interviews from relationship experts, dating coaches, bestselling authors, and sex educators. We cover everything from the neuroscience of anxiety and lust, to honing your communication and socializing skills. There are thousands of tips on the internet for men who are socially active and comfortable with closing the deal. This is for the rest of us, the majority, that can’t just walk up to that knockout, be witty and clever, and walk away with her number. I’m Steven Davis and I’ve learned how to do it. Everyone likes a great leader. Learn the skills, take the lead, and “be the man”!

Shy Man's Dating Podcast