make_my_mark(1).m4a

For a long time, I thought confidence equated
to looking a certain way or getting praise from
others. It was like chasing a mirage; the more
sought validation, the more elusive real confidence
seemed. One day I just sat down and asked myself,
Why does it matter so much?' That moment
shifted my perspective, and I realized I was letting
external perceptions dictate my worth, which was
exhausting and unsustainable
I started by spending more time with myself, doing
things that brought me joy irrespective of any
outside approval, like Atr and writing lyrics. These
activities seemed insignificant at first, but gradually,
they helped me connect with an internal sense of
fulfillment that wasn't tied to others' opinions
Now, when I walk into a room, I focus on how I feel
rather than how I appear. It's not a constant state
of nirvana, but by setting personal goals based
on what makes me feel alive, I've cultivated a
foundation of confidence that's not dependent on
anyone else's judgment. It's empowering to realize
that confidence is a journey that starts from within,
not something handed to us from outside sources.

StragglerDangoff