In this episode, I share a true story about my hidden miracle as an example of how you might be hiding your own miracle cultivation.  I also share the poem “Cultivate Miracles” from my book Spirit Poems.

Ep. 104 Cultivate the Hidden Miracle

In this episode, Steve challenges the instinct to rely solely on thriftiness during major life changes such as divorce, emphasizing the importance of investing in oneself instead. He explores strategies for elevating personal and relationship capacities swiftly, even amidst the timeline and procedural intricacies of divorce. Tune in as we discover how to shift from thriftiness to strategic investment, ensuring not just stability but growth during transformative life events.

Ep. 112 Making the Most Progress in the Shortest Amount to Time

Explore the profound insights uncovered in this podcast episode as we delve into the transformative journey of healing emotional pain during divorce. Discover strategies to navigate conflict, elevate relationships, and enhance financial acumen for a brighter future. Tune in for empowering guidance on creating the divorce outcome you truly desire.

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Ep 113 Building Immunity to Pain

In this episode, we unravel the complexities of divorce fear and the transformative power of personalized support. Delving into the concept of weak spots, we uncover how these areas of vulnerability can hinder our journey through divorce. From the illusion of security surrounding material possessions to the importance of action-based and supernatural faith, we explore strategies to navigate fear and uncertainty. Joined by a specialized divorce coach, we discuss the pivotal role of personalized support in identifying and addressing these fears, offering actionable strategies for a seamless transition. Tune in to gain insights on overcoming divorce fear and unlocking a sense of peace and empowerment through personalized divorce support.

Ep 114 Ending with Un-Equal Fears

In this episode, we explore the transformative potential of Alternative Dispute Resolution (ADR), particularly mediation, in divorce proceedings. While litigation offers a formal trial, ADR methods provide couples with greater control over the process. However, success in mediation relies on proactive engagement and addressing underlying conflicts. A recent client's story highlights common pitfalls, emphasizing the importance of thorough preparation and communication. True empowerment in divorce comes from taking responsibility for actions and decisions. By embracing mediation with commitment, individuals can shape a smoother transition and a more fulfilling post-divorce future.

Ep 115 Taking Control of Divorce Decisions Through Mediation

In this enlightening episode, we delve into the transformative power of divorce, often viewed only as a challenging phase, but actually a profound opportunity for personal growth and change. Our discussion centers around how the application of universal laws can not only help you navigate your divorce with resilience but also enable you to adopt a proactive strategy for positive transformation in your life.

Ep 116 Shifting Your Divorce Through the 7 Universal Laws

In this podcast episode, we explore the transformative power of asking, "What would love do now?" during the challenging experience of divorce. Through personal stories and practical advice, we delve into how this guiding question can help you make positive choices, practice forgiveness, and turn pain into a journey of healing and growth. Join us as we uncover ways to navigate divorce with grace, embrace love in non-traditional forms, and create a foundation for a brighter future.

Ep 117 Allowing the Past to Influence Your Choice Now

In this insightful episode, we delve into the emotional journey of divorce, starting with the often intense feelings of anger that initiate the process. Anger, while a powerful catalyst for change, can also hinder our ability to fully transition and find closure. Drawing on concepts from William Bridges' seminal book, Transitions, we explore how many divorcees struggle to complete the "Ending" phase due to unresolved anger.

Join us as we discuss the importance of looking beneath the surface of anger to uncover the underlying sadness. By addressing this deeper emotion, we can begin to accept the divorce, allowing ourselves to truly complete the ending phase and move forward. Whether you're going through a divorce, know someone who is, or are simply interested in the psychology of major life transitions, this episode offers valuable insights and practical advice for achieving emotional resolution and finding peace.

Ep. 118 Moving Beyond Anger to Find Closure

Couples often attempt to resolve their marital issues on their own. When tensions rise, they turn to a couple’s counselor, usually when it’s already too late. As they approach divorce, the same pattern emerges: “We’ll figure this divorce out ourselves.” The typical mindset is to only hire professionals to finalize the divorce. In this episode, Steve discusses the crucial role of aligning with the right support throughout the entire divorce transition process, including pre-mediation, mediation/settlement, and post-divorce.

Ep. 119 Why Try to Figure Out Divorce Yourself?

In this episode, we delve into the critical importance of creating a holistic divorce plan that encompasses physical and mental wellness, finances, and family transitions. Divorce is often unplanned, occurring during one of life's most challenging periods. We explore why it's difficult to plan amidst emotional turmoil, unfamiliarity, and court-driven timelines. Yet, these very reasons highlight the necessity for a comprehensive strategy. We'll discuss how a well-rounded divorce plan can support your health, provide knowledge, and ensure effective routines. We'll contrast a standard financial plan with a divorce plan that addresses psychological and emotional aspects. Finally, we'll introduce the 5F Model, emphasizing the interconnectedness of fitness, fervor, family, and finances, illustrating how a thoughtful investment in divorce planning can yield significant returns during and after the divorce process.

Ep. 120 Divorce Planning: Why You Shouldn't Jump Into Divorce?

In this episode titled "Ending of Unequals," we explore the raw and complex emotions of navigating a divorce. Steve reflects on his marriage, where loyalty often overshadowed love, and shares the fears and uncertainties that arose when his partner left. From concerns about staying amicable and the impact on their children, to the anxiety of seeing their ex move on and his own ability to find love again, the journey is fraught with emotional turmoil. Through spiritual coaching and insights from Phil Stutz's "Philosophy of Events" in Lessons for Living, he recalls how he confronted adverse events and focused on spiritual growth. Join us for a heartfelt discussion on finding resilience and self-acceptance amid the challenges of ending an unequal relationship.

Ep. 104 Cultivate the Hidden Miracle

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