Anger is a natural expression to situations that harm our body, family, and property.  It’s when we allow anger toward these situations to harm our character do we permit ourselves to experience even greater harm.  In this episode, I share a Stoic tool for tackling anger by looking at the judgements we cast towards situations.  It’s understanding these judgements that hold the key to tackling anger.  I also explain how to  diffuse unnecessary expressions and repressions of anger through the virtue of kindness.

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Ep. 81 Tackling Anger and Winning

In this episode, I share five stories that occurred just this past week to show the divergence around what happens with divorce.  They highlight the pandemic of divorce and why it is important to separate your life transition from the case itself so you can drive towards the best outcome.  

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Ep. 95 Why Is Important to Separate Your Transition from the Case (Five Real Life Stories)

Aristotle said, “We are what we repeatedly do.  Excellence, then, is not an act but a habit.”  In this episode, I share a story that will help you realize how easy it is to get trapped through interactions with your ex-spouse, and how to use these events as opportunities to instill the proper habits that lead you to who you want to be and how you want to show up.  

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"A Man's Journey Through Divorce" Patreon page gives listeners access to target support that matches where they are in the divorce process. https://www.patreon.com/bePatron?u=72246018&amp;redirect_uri=https://youtreecoaching.com/support-tools/&amp;utm_medium=widget

Ep. 96 We Are What We Repeatedly Do

"Insuring success" is not something we can control.  Living in accordance with virtues positions us to deserve success.  In this episode, I provide examples of how people look to take what we own, and in doing so steal our ability to live a life aligned with our virtues.  

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"A Man's Journey Through Divorce" Patreon page gives listeners access to target support that matches where they are in the divorce process. https://www.patreon.com/bePatron?u=72246018&amp;redirect_uri=https://youtreecoaching.com/support-tools/&amp;utm_medium=widget

Ep. 97 Deserving Success

In this episode, I cover how we can easily give away our energy, otherwise known as our power, when we allow the “divorce process,” and the players within, to have power over us. 

Visit to learn more about https://youtreecoaching.com/finding-prosperity/. 
"A Man's Journey Through Divorce" Patreon page gives listeners access to target support that matches where they are in the divorce process. https://www.patreon.com/bePatron?u=72246018&amp;redirect_uri=https://youtreecoaching.com/support-tools/&amp;utm_medium=widget

Ep 98 Giving Away Your Power

When things don’t turn out as we expect, we can either speak a version of “poor me,” or we can say a more freeing “so what?”.  In this episode, I talk describe the shift to so what, irrespective of the expectation that didn’t unfold like we wanted. 

Visit to learn more about https://youtreecoaching.com/finding-prosperity/.

"A Man's Journey Through Divorce" Patreon page gives listeners access to target support that matches where they are in the divorce process. https://www.patreon.com/bePatron?u=72246018&amp;redirect_uri=https://youtreecoaching.com/support-tools/&amp;utm_medium=widget

Ep 99 Things Don't Turn Out Like You Expect...So What?

The “divorce of the dream” is a process divorcees move through.  However, it’s not just the couple who faces the loss of dreams.  So to do children.  In this episode, I speak to the importance of practicing patience as children move through the family’s changing dynamic. 

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"A Man's Journey Through Divorce" Patreon page gives listeners access to target support that matches where they are in the divorce process. https://www.patreon.com/bePatron?u=72246018&amp;redirect_uri=https://youtreecoaching.com/support-tools/&amp;utm_medium=widget

Ep 100 Allowing Children to Divorce the Dream

In Season 3, I share poetry that came to me during my healing process.  Each poem helped me understand the complex emotions and life change I was facing.  Today’s poem, “Cherish Thorns,” speaks to embracing the thorns so your garden from here forth can produce beautiful fruit. 

Find my poetry book https://www.amazon.com/dp/B0B6XX8PZL on Amazon.

Visit to learn more about https://youtreecoaching.com/finding-prosperity/.

"A Man's Journey Through Divorce" Patreon page gives listeners access to target support that matches where they are in the divorce process. https://www.patreon.com/bePatron?u=72246018&amp;redirect_uri=https://youtreecoaching.com/support-tools/&amp;utm_medium=widget

Ep. 101: Cherish Thorns

In Season 3, I share poetry that came to me during my healing process.  Each poem helped me understand the complex emotions and life change I was facing.  Today’s poem, “Rock Bottom,” speaks to building awareness around the archetype driving the way we live and how the divorce provides a lesson that breaks this futile belief system. 

Find my poetry book https://www.amazon.com/dp/B0B6XX8PZL on Amazon.

Visit to learn more about https://youtreecoaching.com/finding-prosperity/.

Ep 102 Rock Bottom

In this episode, I share a true story about my hidden miracle as an example of how you might be hiding your own miracle cultivation.  I also share the poem “Cultivate Miracles” from my book Spirit Poems.

Ep. 81 Tackling Anger and Winning

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