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G I R L Bye...

Things are getting messy and it’s spilling over into all aspects of Issa’s life. Crissle and Fran discuss awkward moments in public places, the telltale signs your friend is going to therapy and the downside to DIY.

Don’t forget to join in on the conversation and follow along on social media with the hashtag #insecuriTEA

Executive Producers: Chris Morrow, Matt Raz
Producer: Matt Raz
Editor: Ty Worley
Engineer: Dwayne Crawford

S4, Ep3: Lowkey Thankful

Everything in Issa’s life seems to be going left lately — from the best laid of block party plans to literally trying to negotiate space with her bestie. Join Crissle and Fran as they talk about former flames, new parents and everything in between.

Don’t forget to join in on the conversation and follow along on social media with the hashtag #insecuriTEA

Executive Producers: Chris Morrow, Matt Raz
Producer: Matt Raz
Editor: Ty Worley
Engineer: Dwayne Crawford

S4, Ep4: Lowkey Losin' It

Crissle called it, now it’s time to gloat. The ladies unpack Issa’s attempt to rekindle an old relationship.

Don’t forget to join in on the conversation and follow along on social media with the hashtag #insecuriTEA

Executive Producers: Chris Morrow, Matt Raz
Producer: Matt Raz
Editor: Ty Worley
Engineer: Dwayne Crawford

S4, Ep8: Lowkey Happy

Queen & J. are two womanist race nerds talking liberation, politics, and pop-culture over tea. Drink up!


On this episode… Is it our fault that a whole new lipless white woman lied about being Black for 10 years? Probably not but we’re talking about identity again, cuz shit is getting super weird.


This week’s hotlist - Quick housekeeping about who we center in our work. Talk to us nice dammit. Hug your elders, cuddle your boo, affirm abundance for everyone. Failed recordings but we are still here getting Black women paid! Network vs. Community, Empaths & The Pynk, Colorism is always in style. Bronx accents are not Boston accents, we don't understand why we even have to say this. Black identity, Afrolatinx erasure, Jessica Krug, and a delicious juicy pitt!

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EPISODE TIMESTAMPS 
Libations 5:50
Donation libations 19:14 
Affirmations 26:03
Know where you’re at 30:56
Pay Black Women 47:41
The Pit, Black identity and frauds like Jessica Krug 53:47



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Where to Donate Your Money and Time to Help Protestors: https://nyulocal.com/where-to-donate-your-money-and-time-to-help-protesters-ef2727d7a9d2


Queen’s Amazon wishlist: https://www.amazon.com/hz/wishlist/ls/CXV9ZDWZ3PP9?ref_=wl_share

J.’s Amazon wishlist: https://www.amazon.com/hz/wishlist/ls/1NP09USMPJ0TB?ref=cm_sw_em_r_wl_ip_VEVWdvdDDemm


Send us snail mail:
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New York, NY 10028


PAY BLACK WOMEN: 
Help Shanayia get from Florida to NY so she can be with family and lay her grandmother to rest.  Donate to her cashapp https://cash.app/$UnHumbleCrown


This weeks hashtag: #BlackLivesMatter


Ijeoma Oluo’s article on RD: https://www.thestranger.com/features/2017/04/19/25082450/the-heart-of-whiteness-ijeoma-oluo-interviews-rachel-dolezal-the-white-woman-who-identifies-as-black


This week’s closing clip features Gil Scott-Heron - Whitey On the Moon https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=goh2x_G0ct4 


This episode was created, hosted and produced by Naima & Janicia


Libations to our friend’s Domingo, Tokunbo, and D. Sindayiganza who help keep this show running by paying and supporting Black women.


Libations to Ohene Cornelius for our show intro, keep up with him at https://ohenecornelius.com

#264 Again

#264 Again!

Queen & J. are two womanist race nerds talking liberation, politics, and pop-culture over tea. Drink up!


On this episode… We’re reviewing the HBO series “I May Destroy You”. This is a spoiler full episode so if you care about spoilers, go watch the series and come back to us! 

Content warning, this series explores themes of rape and sexual assault and we will be discussing those themes of rape and sexual assault and at times our own experiences with rape and sexual assault. Our mental health counselor homie Akua of Inner Hoe Uprising podcast joins for added support, but if you feel like this episode is not for you, we get it. We start the show with our usual banter, so if you wanna tap in for that and then turn it off, we get that too.

This week’s hotlist - Birthday joy, roller skate bling bling, virtual auntie time with Patti Labelle and Gladys Knight. Micheala Cole is a bad bitch genius. 


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EPISODE TIMESTAMPS 
Libations 3:53
Donation libations 13:21
Affirmations 15:34
I May Destroy You 18:56
What we liked 22:33
Stuff we didn’t love 30:20
Exploring consent 39:48
Friendship 52:25
Accountability 1:05:45
Social media 1:17:25
Sexuality 1:33:02
Romantic relationships 1:47:04
Triggers 1:52:48
Final thoughts & self care 2:04:50



Tweet us while you listen! #teawithqj @teawithqj and add #podin on twitter to help others discover Tea with Queen and J. podcast!



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WHERE TO CATCH UP WITH OUR GUEST AKUA! 

Akua’s podcast: https://innerhoeuprising.com
Podcast Social Media: Twitter-https://twitter.com/InnerHoeUprisin
Instagram-https://instagram.com/innerhoeuprising

Akua’s Personal Social Media:
Twitter: https://twitter.com/heyyakuagirl
Instagram: https://instagram.com/heyyakuagirl 


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Where to Donate Your Money and Time to Help Protestors: https://nyulocal.com/where-to-donate-your-money-and-time-to-help-protesters-ef2727d7a9d2


Queen’s Amazon wishlist: https://www.amazon.com/hz/wishlist/ls/CXV9ZDWZ3PP9?ref_=wl_share

J.’s Amazon wishlist: https://www.amazon.com/hz/wishlist/ls/1NP09USMPJ0TB?ref=cm_sw_em_r_wl_ip_VEVWdvdDDemm


Send us snail mail:
Tea with Queen and J.
P.O. Box 1617
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This week's hashtag #metoo

This week’s closing clip features Micheal Cole’s monologue from episode 8 of I May Destroy you https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=EreKhzIKF_A

This episode was created, hosted and produced by Naima & Janicia


Libations to our friend’s Domingo, Tokunbo, and D. Sindayiganza who help keep this show running by paying and supporting Black women.


Libations to Ohene Cornelius for our show intro, keep up with him at https://ohenecornelius.com

#265 I May Destroy You

Queen & J. are two womanist race nerds talking liberation, politics, and pop-culture over tea. Drink up!


On this episode…Should we still use the term white supremacy or is it overdone, over used, and affirming all the wrong things? Also, what we’re watching, including Black queer narratives in our collective Black history, and catering to white fragility on the timeline


This week’s hotlist - Sex, cuddles and healing. Routines, rituals and time for activities. Going braless and wearing comfort lingerie and dassit! Cheryl Dunye, The Watermelon Woman and queer Black narratives. Vampires vs. the Bronx, BX STAND UP!! Coddling white folks, ain’t nobody got time for that. Black spirituality for freedom. Getting ahead of voter suppression, racism in Canada EH! and mad other ish...

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EPISODE TIMESTAMPS 
Libations 6:09
Donation libations 21:31
Affirmations 23:22
White Supremacy vs White Narcissism 28:05
What We’re Watching 1:08:30
News That’s Not News 1:25:53
Pay Black Women 1:36:15
The Pit 1:41:29


Tweet us while you listen! #teawithqj @teawithqj and add #podin on twitter to help others discover Tea with Queen and J. podcast!



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www.TeaWithQueenAndJ.com


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Where to Donate Your Money and Time to Help Protestors: https://nyulocal.com/where-to-donate-your-money-and-time-to-help-protesters-ef2727d7a9d2


Queen’s Amazon wishlist: https://www.amazon.com/hz/wishlist/ls/CXV9ZDWZ3PP9?ref_=wl_share

J.’s Amazon wishlist: https://www.amazon.com/hz/wishlist/ls/1NP09USMPJ0TB?ref=cm_sw_em_r_wl_ip_VEVWdvdDDemm


Send us snail mail:
Tea with Queen and J.
P.O. Box 1617
229 East 85th Street
New York, NY 10028

 
PAY BLACK WOMEN: 
Donate to M., to aid her during her life transition https://cash.app/$JustTheLetterM
 


NEWS THAT’S NOT NEWS LINKS 
Vote.org - provides the following information: Registration status, Voter Registration, Sign up for election reminders, Polling place locator, Request an absentee ballot so you can vote by mail, Early voting calendar 

Organizations dedicated to reducing voter suppression in the USA: 
The League of Women Voters: LWV.org
The American Civil Liberties Union: ACLU.org
Election Protection: 866OurVote.org 
Fair Fight: FairFight.com
The Asian Americans Advancing Justice: AdvancingJustice-alc.org
Black Voters Matter Fund: BlackVotersMatterFund.org
Voto Latino: VotoLatino.org
 
NOTES AND EXTRA TEA
Listen to episode #265 “I May Destroy You” review: https://soundcloud.com/tea-with-queen-and-j/265-i-may-destroy-you
 
Check out Ev’Yan Whitney’s Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/evyan.whitney/
 
This week’s hashtag: #JusticeForJoyce
 
This week’s closing clip features Pat Parker (1978) from her poem  “For the Straight Folks Who Don't Mind Gays But Wish They Weren't So Blatant” https://twitter.com/soafricane/status/1308459937916481544?s=11

This episode was created, hosted and produced by Naima & Janicia with editorial support from Sam Riddell


Libations to our friend’s Domingo, Tokunbo, and D. Sindayiganza who help keep this show running by paying and supporting Black women.

#266 Affirming White Supremacy or Nah?

#266 Is It Even White Supremacy?

Queen & J. are two womanist race nerds talking liberation, politics, and pop-culture over tea. Drink up!

On this episode… is Will Smith a whole cry baby? We dissect that warm and fuzzy Fresh Prince Of Bel-Air reunion, but also... is he a whole cry baby? Then, the worst voice over you heard in your entire life, and what YOU can do about the Georgia Senate runoffs 

This week’s hotlist - Half & Half is a comfort jam, quality colorism convos, Janet Hubert sitcom ether, Red Table Talk, male fragility too fragility, support Indiginous women whicho coins, why we still have this election on the brain, audio black-face, how to be a co-conspirator to marginalized demographics in your industry and mad other ish... 

EPISODE TIMESTAMPS 
Libations: 2:41
Donation libations: 9:06
Affirmations: 13:04
The Fresh Prince & Janet Hubert: 16:06
Pay Black Women: 50:48
What We Doin About Georgia:55:54
The Pit:1:04:50


Tweet us while you listen! #teawithqj @teawithqj and add #podin on twitter to help others discover Tea with Queen and J. podcast!

WEBSITE
www.TeaWithQueenAndJ.com

SOCIAL MEDIA
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EMAIL & SPONSOR INQUIRIES
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DONATE
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Where to Donate Your Money and Time to Help Protestors: https://nyulocal.com/where-to-donate-your-money-and-time-to-help-protesters-ef2727d7a9d2
How to continue support for the End SARS movement in Nigeria
https://metro.co.uk/2020/10/29/how-to-continue-support-for-the-end-sars-movement-in-nigeria-13487714/
 

Queen’s Amazon wishlist: https://www.amazon.com/hz/wishlist/ls/CXV9ZDWZ3PP9?ref_=wl_share
J.’s Amazon wishlist: https://www.amazon.com/hz/wishlist/ls/1NP09USMPJ0TB?ref=cm_sw_em_r_wl_ip_VEVWdvdDDemm

Send us snail mail:
Tea with Queen and J.
P.O. Box 1617
229 East 85th Street
New York, NY 10028

PAY BLACK WOMEN 
Learn more about Native Women’s Wilderness: https://www.nativewomenswilderness.org/donate


NEWS THAT’S NOT NEWS 
Georgia Senate Runoffs: How to Help, Donate, and Vote: https://www.elle.com/culture/career-politics/a34692385/georgia-senate-runoff-elections-donate-volunteer-vote/


NOTES AND EXTRA TEA
Listen to J.’s conversation with Diamond Stylz on Marsha’s Plate podcast episode #161 Hooking The Ups: https://soundcloud.com/danella-xuc/161-hooking-the-ups-feat-j
 
Learn more about Dr. Regina Bradley’s work: http://www.redclayscholar.com Follow Dr. Bradley on twitter @redclayscholar
Read Dr. Regina Bradly’s article Da Art of Speculatin’: https://firesidefiction.com/da-art-of-speculatin

This week’s hashtag: #ChroniclingStankonia

This week’s closing clip features all of us mad at all of you try new sh!t on the holiday ass nakers: https://twitter.com/Miami_Babbyyy/status/1066043975713386496

This episode was created, hosted and produced by Naima Lewis Muhammad & Janicia Francis 

Libations to our friend’s Domingo, Tokunbo, and D. Sindayiganza who help keep this show running by paying and supporting Black women.

Opening song by Ohene Cornelius

#273 The Janet Hubert Mixtapes

On Today’s Menu on Marsha’s Plate
We talk about Mike Tyson checking Lil Boosie about Zaya Wade, trans and abortions, and Harry Styles and his dresses for Vogue cover

Tyson Defending Zaya
https://www.nbcnews.com/feature/nbc-out/dwyane-wade-mike-tyson-defending-wade-s-trans-daughter-zaya-n1248609

Trans, Nonbinary and Abortions
https://apple.news/A-y35hIAUTZSAM7N5-kimPw

Candance Owens on Harry Styles
https://www.nbcnews.com/feature/nbc-out/candace-owens-gets-backlash-harry-styles-fans-over-bring-back-n1247983


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#162 Patriarchs In Disguise

In this week’s episode, we talk about building and leaving lasting generational wealth in the African-American community. Dr. Pamela Jolly shares how our human, cultural, intellectual, social, and spiritual capital all play a part in the fulfilled life we should all strive for when it comes to wealth.&nbsp; She also explains how her various educational experiences and degrees (MBA, Ed.D, Th.M, and more) allowed her to assist minority business enterprises to grow, and redefine the way they saw money. But, her journey wasn’t always this stable. Her journey with learning about money started when her dad withdrew all financial support from her in college (á la Whitley Gilbert). It forced her to understand what money really is, and set her on the path to learning all about wealth. In this episode, you’ll hear: ⦿ Why you need to have a good relationship with time to have a good relationship with money,&nbsp; ⦿ How we can all begin to build and chart our path to wealth, and ⦿ The importance of understanding history as it relates to wealth Check out this episode and others on , , , and .&nbsp;&nbsp; This episode is brought to you by:As a Side Hustle Pro listener, you’ll get three months free when you roll your first payroll. Sign up, and give it a try at . Go to  and use code sidehustle80 to get $80 off including free shipping Explore your creativity at . The first 1,000 people to use this  link will get a free trial of Skillshare Premium Membership. Search for Command Line Heroes anywhere you listen to podcasts. ! Links mentioned in this episode     Click here to subscribe via RSS feed (non-iTunes feed):  Announcements Join our Facebook Community If you’re looking for a community of supportive side hustlers who are all working to take our businesses to the next level, join us here:  Guest Social Media Info Pamela Jolly (Instagram) –  Side Hustle Pro –

How Black Women Can Build Legacy Wealth

Queen & J. are two womanist race nerds talking liberation, politics, and pop-culture over tea. Drink up!

On this episode… If you were waiting for a global pandemic to land before finally getting into Kwanzaa, this is your year! We make plans and affirmations, we pay Black women, uncover ANOTHER racist bill and throw a bunch of men in the pit because why the fvck not?

This week’s hotlist - Queen bouta DIY high end tech at the crib, are you tipping people during the pandem? Kwanzaa over Karenga, you can still get the principles on, family zooms or nah, Missouri’s anti-protest bill, taking up space on social media, the lawless internet of the zero zero’s and mad other ish...

EPISODE TIMESTAMPS 
Libations: 2:44
Donation libations: 19:33
Affirmations: 26:05
Get into Kwanzaa: 29:17
Pay Black Women: 58:45
Oh, so ya’ll wanna kill protestors?: 1:10:06
Men, clubhouse, and the yikes factor: 1:26:13


Tweet us while you listen! #teawithqj @teawithqj and add #podin on twitter to help others discover Tea with Queen and J. podcast!

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SOCIAL MEDIA
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DONATE
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Where to Donate Your Money and Time to Help Protestors: https://nyulocal.com/where-to-donate-your-money-and-time-to-help-protesters-ef2727d7a9d2
How to continue support for the End SARS movement in Nigeria
https://metro.co.uk/2020/10/29/how-to-continue-support-for-the-end-sars-movement-in-nigeria-13487714/
 

Queen’s Amazon wishlist: https://www.amazon.com/hz/wishlist/ls/CXV9ZDWZ3PP9?ref_=wl_share
J.’s Amazon wishlist: https://www.amazon.com/hz/wishlist/ls/1NP09USMPJ0TB?ref=cm_sw_em_r_wl_ip_VEVWdvdDDemm

Send us snail mail:
Tea with Queen and J.
P.O. Box 1617
229 East 85th Street
New York, NY 10028

PAY BLACK WOMEN 
Help Memery secure permanent housing
Cashapp $elhielo: https://cash.app/$elhielo
Paypal afrostaq: https://www.paypal.com/paypalme/afrostaq
Give Butter donation link: https://givebutter.com/NYrGV6


NEWS THAT’S NOT NEWS 
https://missouriindependent.com/2020/12/10/missouri-bills-seek-to-shield-drivers-who-hit-protesters/


NOTES AND EXTRA TEA
Check out this throwback Kwanzaa episode for more info on the principles and other good sh!t #187 T’was The Night Before Kwanzaa https://soundcloud.com/tea-with-queen-and-j/187-its-kwanzaa-tho
 
Build your own smart mirror: https://magicmirror.builders/
Check out @DATAM0SH3R’s smart mirror: https://twitter.com/datam0sh3r/status/1337935808293007361?s=21
This week’s hashtag: #KwanzaaoverKarenga

This week’s closing clip features Relly B. bouta make his sales quota for the year at a Honda dealership in Louisiana where the money reside: https://twitter.com/durrellyrell/status/1338327205122723841
 

This episode was created, hosted and produced by Naima Lewis Muhammad & Janicia Francis 

Libations to our friend’s Domingo, Tokunbo, and D. Sindayiganza who help keep this show running by paying and supporting Black women.

Opening song by Ohene Cornelius
Get Out by Jahzzar
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#275 The Audacity of Men

Queen and J. are two funny womanist race nerds from the Bronx talking liberation, politics and pop culture over tea! Dismantling systems of domination one episode at a time.

#273 The Janet Hubert Mixtapes

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