My 1br in crown heights didn't have a closet...but it was prewar...maybe people had less clothes? The bedroom was massive.

Thank yall for all this reflection, about zoom events & 8 MONTHS in pandemic!!!

HAHAHA this plays in my head every time someone says that!

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No Serpents Allowed

Everything in Issa’s life seems to be going left lately — from the best laid of block party plans to literally trying to negotiate space with her bestie. Join Crissle and Fran as they talk about former flames, new parents and everything in between.

Don’t forget to join in on the conversation and follow along on social media with the hashtag #insecuriTEA

Executive Producers: Chris Morrow, Matt Raz
Producer: Matt Raz
Editor: Ty Worley
Engineer: Dwayne Crawford

S4, Ep4: Lowkey Losin' It

Queen & J. are two womanist race nerds talking liberation, politics, and pop-culture over tea. Drink up!

On this episode… Is it ok to shame other Black people about voting? Joe Biden and Kamala Harris are on the ticket, Trump is Trumping us to death, and feelings are ranging from scared to excited to complacent. Then on a scary but sexy note we try dating during a pandemic, since we’re still in a fvcking pandemic. 


This week’s hotlist - Black girl skaters, gun violence, vote shaming, individuals vs the collective, voting your privilege, the world we want vs the world we live in, choosing the enemy, Black dating stereotypes, dating cis men while trying to be free, and mad other sh!t...


EPISODE TIMESTAMPS 
Libations 3:53
content warning gun violence 5:22- 14:58
Donation libations 18:22
Voting 23:28
Dating in that rona 1:04:08



Tweet us while you listen! #teawithqj @teawithqj and add #podin on twitter to help others discover Tea with Queen and J. podcast!



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Where to Donate Your Money and Time to Help Protestors: https://nyulocal.com/where-to-donate-your-money-and-time-to-help-protesters-ef2727d7a9d2


Queen’s Amazon wishlist: https://www.amazon.com/hz/wishlist/ls/CXV9ZDWZ3PP9?ref_=wl_share

J.’s Amazon wishlist: https://www.amazon.com/hz/wishlist/ls/1NP09USMPJ0TB?ref=cm_sw_em_r_wl_ip_VEVWdvdDDemm0



This weeks hashtag: #vote



This week’s closing clip features Kat Williams for Supreme https://www.instagram.com/tv/CD8-URPB5CG/?igshid=1v4jjhh5xnhll



This episode was created, hosted and produced by Naima & Janicia


Libations to our friend’s Domingo, Tokunbo, and D. Sindayiganza who help keep this show running by paying and supporting Black women.


Libations to Ohene Cornelius for our show intro, keep up with him at https://ohenecornelius.com

#261 Vote or Nah?

Queen & J. are two womanist race nerds talking liberation, politics, and pop-culture over tea. Drink up!


On this episode… You’re a Black feminist but you got a whole misogynoirist at the crib drinking up all the juice in the house. How the fvck did that happen? Then Black American, African-American, or Black, how are we defining ourselves and does it even matter in the 2020’s??? 


This week’s hotlist - Shemar Moore’s viral Black joy, anxiety & mental health, Whitney Houston, mindless TV, affirmations and how not to give up on 2020, men and misogynoir, growth in romantic relationships, women vs. females (yep, again),  African American vs. Black American and maybe you should just mind your business and more...


EPISODE TIMESTAMPS 
Libations 4:50
Donation libations 20:44
Affirmations 24:49
A note on language and Black trans women 33:34
Your husband is misogynist 39:26
Black, African-American, Afro-American 57:14


Tweet us while you listen! #teawithqj @teawithqj and add #podin on twitter to help others discover Tea with Queen and J. podcast!



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Queen’s Amazon wishlist: https://www.amazon.com/hz/wishlist/ls/CXV9ZDWZ3PP9?ref_=wl_share

J.’s Amazon wishlist: https://www.amazon.com/hz/wishlist/ls/1NP09USMPJ0TB?ref=cm_sw_em_r_wl_ip_VEVWdvdDDemm

Send us snail mail:
Tea with Queen and J.
P.O. Box 1617
229 East 85th Street
New York, NY 10028


NOTES AND EXTRA TEA:
 
Thread of old Soul Train clips that Queen mentioned in her libation https://youtu.be/RklTDIQY2BM

Check out Queen and J. on “The Black Vote” episode of The Grapevine https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=LFHtaTc7SYY&t=3275s

Check out J. kicking it as a guest on the Smoke and Mirrors show https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ED0uWR8MEyo

What we’re drinking? This episode Queen was drinking tea from Teasbyg.com

Last week’s episode #262 Who Do You Love? featuring conversation on co-conspiratorship with Black trans women: https://soundcloud.com/tea-with-queen-and-j/262-who-do-you-love



This weeks hashtag: #BlackPantherSoLit



This week’s closing clip features Chadwick Bosmen at the MTV Movie Awards  https://twitter.com/rexchapman/status/1299905634360532994?s=12



This episode was created, hosted and produced by Naima & Janicia


Libations to our friend’s Domingo, Tokunbo, and D. Sindayiganza who help keep this show running by paying and supporting Black women.


Libations to Ohene Cornelius for our show intro, keep up with him at https://ohenecornelius.com

#263 Black Sh*t

On Today’s Menu on Marsha’s Plate
We talk to about dating community predators, Lovecraft Country, and families failing their trans love ones that have passed away

Tea With Queen and J’s “Who do you love” Episode
https://soundcloud.com/tea-with-queen-and-j/262-who-do-you-love

QueerWOC: the Podcast Women of Color Queers Episode
https://soundcloud.com/queerwoc/ep91

Charlene Carruthers Book that talks about Malcolm London allegations in Chicago
https://amzn.to/32fEwqn

Support Black Trans Women 
https://Blacktranswomen.org/donate 



 
#marshasplate #girlslikeus #boyslikeus #transgender #podcast #podsincolor #podernfamily #transisbeautiful #houston #lgbt

 #transmen #transwomen #blackfeminism  #trans101 #trans #blacktranswomen #blacktransmen #houstonpride #indiepodcast #blacktranslivesmatter 

#lgbtqia #lgbtq #genderidentity #pride #blackgirlmagic #blackboyjoy  #podcast🎧 #podcaster #queer #transpodcasts 


Accountability is an ongoing process and allyship has to be renewed every day through actions and support
We run off of donations to keep this programming accessible so monetary donations are so helpful BUT 
Ways to support that don’t cost money is to share comment and subscribe 
#marshasplate #girlslikeus #boyslikeus #transgender #podcast #blacktranslivesmatter #podsincolor #podernfamily #transpodcast

Trans 101 from Havard
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#151 Swiping Right On Predators

Damien and Ali get In The Conversation about Afro politics, finding your creative voice and Power Book II: Ghost.

Twitter.com/dlemoncomedy // Twitter.com/mrmuhammad
Keep up with the conversation on Facebook:
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Shallow As A Puddle

Queen & J. are two womanist race nerds talking liberation, politics, and pop-culture over tea. Drink up!


On this episode…Should we still use the term white supremacy or is it overdone, over used, and affirming all the wrong things? Also, what we’re watching, including Black queer narratives in our collective Black history, and catering to white fragility on the timeline


This week’s hotlist - Sex, cuddles and healing. Routines, rituals and time for activities. Going braless and wearing comfort lingerie and dassit! Cheryl Dunye, The Watermelon Woman and queer Black narratives. Vampires vs. the Bronx, BX STAND UP!! Coddling white folks, ain’t nobody got time for that. Black spirituality for freedom. Getting ahead of voter suppression, racism in Canada EH! and mad other ish...

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EPISODE TIMESTAMPS 
Libations 6:09
Donation libations 21:31
Affirmations 23:22
White Supremacy vs White Narcissism 28:05
What We’re Watching 1:08:30
News That’s Not News 1:25:53
Pay Black Women 1:36:15
The Pit 1:41:29


Tweet us while you listen! #teawithqj @teawithqj and add #podin on twitter to help others discover Tea with Queen and J. podcast!



WEBSITE
www.TeaWithQueenAndJ.com


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Where to Donate Your Money and Time to Help Protestors: https://nyulocal.com/where-to-donate-your-money-and-time-to-help-protesters-ef2727d7a9d2


Queen’s Amazon wishlist: https://www.amazon.com/hz/wishlist/ls/CXV9ZDWZ3PP9?ref_=wl_share

J.’s Amazon wishlist: https://www.amazon.com/hz/wishlist/ls/1NP09USMPJ0TB?ref=cm_sw_em_r_wl_ip_VEVWdvdDDemm


Send us snail mail:
Tea with Queen and J.
P.O. Box 1617
229 East 85th Street
New York, NY 10028

 
PAY BLACK WOMEN: 
Donate to M., to aid her during her life transition https://cash.app/$JustTheLetterM
 


NEWS THAT’S NOT NEWS LINKS 
Vote.org - provides the following information: Registration status, Voter Registration, Sign up for election reminders, Polling place locator, Request an absentee ballot so you can vote by mail, Early voting calendar 

Organizations dedicated to reducing voter suppression in the USA: 
The League of Women Voters: LWV.org
The American Civil Liberties Union: ACLU.org
Election Protection: 866OurVote.org 
Fair Fight: FairFight.com
The Asian Americans Advancing Justice: AdvancingJustice-alc.org
Black Voters Matter Fund: BlackVotersMatterFund.org
Voto Latino: VotoLatino.org
 
NOTES AND EXTRA TEA
Listen to episode #265 “I May Destroy You” review: https://soundcloud.com/tea-with-queen-and-j/265-i-may-destroy-you
 
Check out Ev’Yan Whitney’s Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/evyan.whitney/
 
This week’s hashtag: #JusticeForJoyce
 
This week’s closing clip features Pat Parker (1978) from her poem  “For the Straight Folks Who Don't Mind Gays But Wish They Weren't So Blatant” https://twitter.com/soafricane/status/1308459937916481544?s=11

This episode was created, hosted and produced by Naima & Janicia with editorial support from Sam Riddell


Libations to our friend’s Domingo, Tokunbo, and D. Sindayiganza who help keep this show running by paying and supporting Black women.

#266 Affirming White Supremacy or Nah?

#266 Is It Even White Supremacy?

Queen & J. are two womanist race nerds talking liberation, politics, and pop-culture over tea. Drink up!

On this episode…We been in covid-19 quarantino for 8 whole months! How are we doing and how are ya’ll doing? Then what do you do when your job wants to be cheap about racial bias training? And... is privilege fvcking up your friendships?

This week’s hotlist - wellness checkin for that ass, being enough, carefree quarantine binge tv, anti-racist work at work, are your white friends, your straight friends, your cis friends good friends?... and mad other ish

Afros & Audio Virtual Podcast Festival tickets & information: https://linktr.ee/afrosandaudio
Receive 25% off of your virtual ticket using code: afautqj20

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EPISODE TIMESTAMPS 
Libations 3:50
Donation Libations 9:10 
Affirmations 12:03
Mid Rona wellness check 14:04
So you wanna talk about race at work? 57:10:04
Is your problematic privileged friend still your friend? 1:15:47

Tweet us while you listen! #teawithqj @teawithqj and add #podin on twitter to help others discover Tea with Queen and J. podcast!

WEBSITE
www.TeaWithQueenAndJ.com

SOCIAL MEDIA
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Instagram: Instagram.com/teawithqj
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DONATE
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Where to Donate Your Money and Time to Help Protestors: https://nyulocal.com/where-to-donate-your-money-and-time-to-help-protesters-ef2727d7a9d2

Queen’s Amazon wishlist: https://www.amazon.com/hz/wishlist/ls/CXV9ZDWZ3PP9?ref_=wl_share

J.’s Amazon wishlist: https://www.amazon.com/hz/wishlist/ls/1NP09USMPJ0TB?ref=cm_sw_em_r_wl_ip_VEVWdvdDDemm

Send us snail mail:
Tea with Queen and J.
P.O. Box 1617
229 East 85th Street
New York, NY 10028
NOTES AND EXTRA TEA
Our thoughts on Beyoncé’s Brown Skin Girl video & audio work revisited: #267 Blood Money - convo starts 48:00 https://soundcloud.com/tea-with-queen-and-j/267-blood-money
Original dialogue on Brown Skin Girl #215 Brown Skin Girl - convo starts 34:00: https://soundcloud.com/tea-with-queen-and-j/215-brown-skin-girl

This week’s hashtag: #OverDatRona
This week’s closing clip features Lizzo in conversation with David Letterman: https://twitter.com/_alexismarie24/status/1319028144053972992

This episode was created, hosted and produced by Naima Lewis Muhammad & Janicia Francis 
Libations to our friend’s Domingo, Tokunbo, and D. Sindayiganza who help keep this show running by paying and supporting Black women.
Music
Opening song by Ohene Cornelius
Segment music by Chad Milner

#269 Get Yo' Purse and Dip

Money shares some alliterative strategies to prevent compassion fatigue, gives some suggestions of pods you might like if you love Nikeeta’s word, celebrates Ghanaian filmmaker Selasie Djameh as QueerWOC of the week and shares about her new favorite toy =P

Intro by TRUTH of Mother Nature. If you love the intro, listen to their new album Portalz here:
https://open.spotify.com/album/0KWoevXqscd4eMWNZpodAE?si=l67fMsjnQUOKuZ89QtCZzA

Where to find us:
IG & Twitter - @queerwocpod 
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Listen to us on Soundcloud, Stitcher, Castbox, PocketCasts

Contribute to QueerWOC via CashApp: $QueerWOCPod
Become a Patron: https://www.patreon.com/queerwocpod
Love us out loud by doing The R’s: Rate, Review, Request, Repost, Retweet, and Reply!
Use the hashtag #QueerWOC to talk all things the podcast
Send us an email or submit your Curved Chronicles: QueerWOCpod@gmail.com

QueerWOC of the Week 00:05:15
Selasie Djameh
selasiedjameh.com/about-me/
Ghanaian film director and cinematographer
Creator of “Baby Girl” - a short film The film tells the story of Jessica, a 19-year-old student who suffers an emotional breakdown following the discovery that she is intersex; but when she meets free-spirited Sally and Charles, she releases that she can be herself and still find acceptance.
Intersex awareness day October 26
https://interactadvocates.org/intersex-awareness-day-for-allies/?fbclid=IwAR3JYFfV06Eci5KyaNx-dRr3VVWms9fVo8NXDgDsXuK_QZP47vHH3K6bheg4


Community Contributors 00:12:40
New patrons: Jordany & Brittany
Cash App: Sami & Dominique
Review from Marimar 
Borders are fake shoutouts - Secaucus, NJ / Mcdonough, GA / Greenbelt, MD /  
Alexandra for always emailing us and for putting me on to the 5 sentence or less email & VanityCurvz & Charismatic_P for always holding us down on IG

Mental Moment with Money 00:18:11
C’s for Compassion. 
C - Check your capacity to respond
C - Clarify the request
C - Consider all elements of your wellness and where you will be giving from (7 dimensions of wellness Mental Moment from ep 58 https://soundcloud.com/queerwoc/wellandwack ) 
C - Create your own post-helping recovery

Word 00:36:36
Here are some pods you might like if you love Nikeeta’s Word
Red Nation https://soundcloud.com/therednationpod
The Dig https://www.thedigradio.com/
Delete Your Account https://deleteyouraccount.libsyn.com/

Topic 00:41:20
Money answers the Tumblr Cake Questions

Curved Chronicle 00:55:08
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Link for Wandering Bard Toys. Tell them QueerWOC sent you :D

Ep 95: Compassion Fatigue & Cake Questions

Have you been thinking about starting a podcast? Pondering on if it’s the right move for you? If you’re worried that the industry is too saturated, let me tell you...there’s always going to be competition. If there isn’t any demand, you don’t want to be there. I want to encourage you that what’s in your mind hasn’t yet come into the atmosphere. And that’s okay because podcasting is exponentially growing, and it’s going to grow when you release your show. In this week’s episode, I’m here to help you figure out if it’s time to stop sitting on that idea, press record, and start the podcast you’ve always wanted to. Here’s a hint: you have to start before you’re ready. Check out this episode and others on , , , and .&nbsp;&nbsp; This episode is brought to you by: Give the gift of Native and get 20% off your first order by going to  or by using the promo code “sidehustle” at the website checkoutTo apply today for marketing, media and tech makeovers at no cost, to help you and your business RISE visit:  Explore your creativity at . The first 1,000 people to use this  link will get a free trial of Skillshare Premium Membership.As a Side Hustle Pro listener, you’ll get three months free when you roll your first payroll. Sign up, and give it a try at . Links mentioned in this episode     Click here to subscribe via RSS feed (non-iTunes feed):  Announcements Join our Facebook Community If you’re looking for a community of supportive side hustlers who are all working to take our businesses to the next level, join us here:  Guest Social Media Info Side Hustle Pro –

Why You Should Start Podcasting

Queen & J. are two womanist race nerds talking liberation, politics, and pop-culture over tea. Drink up!

On this episode… If you were waiting for a global pandemic to land before finally getting into Kwanzaa, this is your year! We make plans and affirmations, we pay Black women, uncover ANOTHER racist bill and throw a bunch of men in the pit because why the fvck not?

This week’s hotlist - Queen bouta DIY high end tech at the crib, are you tipping people during the pandem? Kwanzaa over Karenga, you can still get the principles on, family zooms or nah, Missouri’s anti-protest bill, taking up space on social media, the lawless internet of the zero zero’s and mad other ish...

EPISODE TIMESTAMPS 
Libations: 2:44
Donation libations: 19:33
Affirmations: 26:05
Get into Kwanzaa: 29:17
Pay Black Women: 58:45
Oh, so ya’ll wanna kill protestors?: 1:10:06
Men, clubhouse, and the yikes factor: 1:26:13


Tweet us while you listen! #teawithqj @teawithqj and add #podin on twitter to help others discover Tea with Queen and J. podcast!

WEBSITE
www.TeaWithQueenAndJ.com

SOCIAL MEDIA
Twitter: twitter.com/teawithqj
Instagram: Instagram.com/teawithqj
Facebook: www.facebook.com/TeawithQueenandJ
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EMAIL & SPONSOR INQUIRIES
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DONATE
www.paypal.me/teawithqj OR www.patreon.com/teawithqj

Where to Donate Your Money and Time to Help Protestors: https://nyulocal.com/where-to-donate-your-money-and-time-to-help-protesters-ef2727d7a9d2
How to continue support for the End SARS movement in Nigeria
https://metro.co.uk/2020/10/29/how-to-continue-support-for-the-end-sars-movement-in-nigeria-13487714/
 

Queen’s Amazon wishlist: https://www.amazon.com/hz/wishlist/ls/CXV9ZDWZ3PP9?ref_=wl_share
J.’s Amazon wishlist: https://www.amazon.com/hz/wishlist/ls/1NP09USMPJ0TB?ref=cm_sw_em_r_wl_ip_VEVWdvdDDemm

Send us snail mail:
Tea with Queen and J.
P.O. Box 1617
229 East 85th Street
New York, NY 10028

PAY BLACK WOMEN 
Help Memery secure permanent housing
Cashapp $elhielo: https://cash.app/$elhielo
Paypal afrostaq: https://www.paypal.com/paypalme/afrostaq
Give Butter donation link: https://givebutter.com/NYrGV6


NEWS THAT’S NOT NEWS 
https://missouriindependent.com/2020/12/10/missouri-bills-seek-to-shield-drivers-who-hit-protesters/


NOTES AND EXTRA TEA
Check out this throwback Kwanzaa episode for more info on the principles and other good sh!t #187 T’was The Night Before Kwanzaa https://soundcloud.com/tea-with-queen-and-j/187-its-kwanzaa-tho
 
Build your own smart mirror: https://magicmirror.builders/
Check out @DATAM0SH3R’s smart mirror: https://twitter.com/datam0sh3r/status/1337935808293007361?s=21
This week’s hashtag: #KwanzaaoverKarenga

This week’s closing clip features Relly B. bouta make his sales quota for the year at a Honda dealership in Louisiana where the money reside: https://twitter.com/durrellyrell/status/1338327205122723841
 

This episode was created, hosted and produced by Naima Lewis Muhammad & Janicia Francis 

Libations to our friend’s Domingo, Tokunbo, and D. Sindayiganza who help keep this show running by paying and supporting Black women.

Opening song by Ohene Cornelius
Get Out by Jahzzar
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#275 The Audacity of Men

Queen and J. are two funny womanist race nerds from the Bronx talking liberation, politics and pop culture over tea! Dismantling systems of domination one episode at a time.

#269 Get Yo' Purse and Dip

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