This week, I'm sharing another part of my engagement story...the part where I cried the day after because my singleness was over!

For the majority of the first half of my 20’s, I wasted my time hoping and praying and wishing that I was in any other season of my life, but the season of singleness. I dreaded my singleness. But after an epiphany, I found the key to no longer seeing my singleness as a death sentence, but as an opportunity to live my best life! Here's how I came to that epiphany,

I Cried The Day After I Got Engaged…Because I Was Sad.

While I love writing blogs, the truth of the matter is, not everyone has time to read my beautiful dissertations about my faith, my blackness, my sexuality, and the intersectionality of it all. Here are the audio entries of every written blog entry.

During one of our first in depth conversations before we starting dating, my fiancé shared that he was a virgin. Well..I’m not. Here's how that conversation led to me unpacking how the church and Christian purity culture's worldview on waiting until marriage can be problematic at times.

The Transparency Pact: My Fiancé is a Virgin. But...I'm NOT.

So, who am I?! Well, I’m a 27-year-old Black, Christian woman searching for answers and certainty in an ever-changing, ever-evolving, and ever-uncertain world...just like you.

I Cried The Day After I Got Engaged…Because I Was Sad.

Nicole Webb

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