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Dirty Lola is a sex educator, performer, and - in her own words - dildo slinger. She is the host and creator of SexEdAGogo which is a LIVE sex ed variety show based in Brooklyn that aims to end stigma, shame, and all the misinformation surrounding sex. Lola was kind enough to indulge me in all of my questions about polyamory - and there were MANY. We also talked about sex toys, sexual education, dating, love, fetishes, self love, and we even touched on mental health. Lola is the kind of person I could talk to forever - which is made obvious in this interview, which lasted two whole hours. You can see more of what she’s up to (and take a look at her schedule to see her LIVE) at DirtyLola dot co

Dirty Lola: On Sextoys, Polyamory, Kink, and Being Kind to Yourself

Today’s guest is Kathleen Hema, MPH. She is a sex education expert giving parents tips to have the modern day sex talk. Along with being a university lecturer, she has an EXTREMELY helpful and resourceful YouTube channel as well as an instagram account and a Tik Tok account, helping parents talk to their kids about sex. As you all know, I am the mother of two children - my kids are still 3 and 0, but sex education has been heavy on my mind lately. We are living in a day and age where I need to prepare my kids for all of the information that is available - just a quick internet search away - and if I don’t appropriately prepare them for that information, it could be damaging for them. I don’t mean this just as a pornstar, either - if we as parents don’t talk to our kids about sex, and we just hope they’ll learn about it from somewhere else, theres a good chance their first encounter with sex will be devasting, scary, and just really confusing. So when SHOULD I start talking about sex to my kids? About consent? Masturbation? PORN? How do I raise my kids free of the shame I grew up with? How can I equip them with all of the knowledge they need to grow into sexual beings in the most safe, healthy way? I’m a sexworker. My whole life is sex. If iiii don’t know how to address these things, I can only imagine that other parents are curious too.  I reached out to Kathleen to help me navigate this topic, so I dont totally fuck it up. She gave me some great tips, and explained everything in a really easy way where I actually feel pretty confident now to start the sex talk with my kids. She broke it down into a timeline so I know exactly when to talk about each topic, and she gave me scripts so that I now have the language to educate my kids in those topics. I learned so much, and I hope you do too!

Kathleen Hema: How to Talk to Your Kids About Sex

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Chai from Tsukamoto Isao, deserves recognition! Enjoy!

TSUKAMOTO ISAO - Chai

John Coltrane Quartet - Impressions.

written on a day off, for your next day off :)

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Day Off

For our fifth installment in the Loungy Series we have something completely different. People who paid close attention will already recognize "@beldzek" as the artist behind the remix of Masayoshi Takanaka's classic  "Nagisai Moderato" which was premiered on our YT channel. Others will recognize him as an upcoming name in the deep/tech house scene, and with releases out on Del Sol Records, @defora-records and most recently @filth-inc-official, he is here to stay! 

What many people don't know is that (like us) he is a sucker for City Pop, the Japanese Disco/Boogie/Funk genre that through the accessibility of the internet has suddenly garnered a lot of attention. We are very happy that our good friend has decided to make this funky mix full of unknown gems (even for people who are familiar with the genre) for us! Friday Night Neon Lights at the Ocean Drive!

Check out his latest EP:
https://filth-inc.bandcamp.com/album/belljack-searching-within-ep-filth003

Follow the artist:
@beldzek
https://www.facebook.com/beldzek
https://www.instagram.com/toni_beljak_belljack/

''(" LOUNGY005 ")" ~ Belljack [BIH]

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Auld Lang Syne

Christmas Lofi

Christmas by the Fireplace

Join author, poet, and recipient of two penises in her butt (at the same time) Asa Akira as she is joined by both her porno and non-porno friends. They discuss all things pop culture, sex, and feelings.

Dirty Lola: On Sextoys, Polyamory, Kink, and Being Kind to Yourself

The Pornhub Podcast with Asa Akira

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