We look at the state of mind playing vs grinding. Playing is our natural state. Its the one were we are in flow we dont think too much. We only do what occurs next for us to do.

Grinding is the opposite. It is the over thinking intellectualizing of thought. Its the thinking over and over again of something and not coming up with any new answers. 

One is free the other is bondage. Which one will you choose to see and let live through you today?

The Secure Man Podcast

Playing vs Grinding

Today we look at the habit of circular thinking and how we can find freedom from it. 
-False belief that success is about having the right 
-What causes us to seek is what causes us to fail
-My 30 year trek to find answers
-Gobbling up information like a starving animal
-Knowing about something and still not using it gets you the same level of effectiveness as being ignorant
-How distinctions broke me out the circular pattern
-You dont have to believe a distinction for it to work

Freedom From Circular Thinking

Freedom From Circular Thinking!

How Do I know Im Getting Ahead In Life? That was the question when I began recording this podcast. I still do not have the answer. I do have the answer that had turned my life around and made it possible. 
Evidence is talking about coming across the inside out understanding of life and my choice to get married after decades of being alone.

How Do I Know Im Getting Ahead In Life

Today we talk about going beyond any type of limitations you think are holding you back in life
In particular I share the story of how I finally went to university after being told in not so many words I was not smart enough to attend.

Going  Beyond Your Limitations

The straight line towards success lies within lots of failures and bumps in the road. The blocks that we think stop us are really generated from too much thinking about our circumstances. 

Listen to the collection agent example and where they zig and zag to make their numbers. And how that too is a thought constructed outcome too.

Zig Zag Your Way Straight Towards Success

Realizing that what holds you back is only your thinking. Its your thinking about limiting thoughts. Thats all! Nothing else ever stops us from achieving what we want in life. 

In this podcast Ill discuss how I saw the meaning of my life. What I thought it was suppose to mean to others. And how I thought God had chosen me to be his message of failure on earth. 

Yet we also touch on where Your full potential originates.

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Your Full Potential Is One Thought Away!

In today s podcast I share with you the techtonic effects I experienced from a conversation that helped me see why my abilities were always falling short of my ambitions. And what is happening for me right now.

Give Up vs Transform Up

Today we look at finding Victory from the insights you have in life. The types of aha moments that come from a certain surrendering of pushing too hard trying too hard. Finding victories in everyday life from a place that is already inside of you. It is always waiting to answer the call for help. You only have to acknowledge this deeper place already within you.

Victory In Your Insights!

Here is a quick audio I created to share an insight about my own mental wellbeing. And that it was always there furthermore, how seeing this for myself is also something other men do have as well. We seem to forget that it is inside of us. I also talk about further musings.

Mental Wellbeing for Men

There are two ways Ive found to showup and do the activity called Your work! 
There are two ways Ive found to showup and do what you do for a living. Your work! And in todays podcast we discuss the difference between Bringing Meaning to your Work vs Finding Meaning in Your Work? 

The latter requires that your constantly looking outside of yourself for meaning to what you do for living. It also can be very tiring and create a sense of someone else determines how Im feeling doing my job. The former way is Bringing Meaning to your Work. Now your in the drivers seat. Sort Of. You get to determine how your going to show up. 

We also look at what else does meaning and work have in common.







Leonard Irwin