We can’t go on this Wild ride together before we know a little bit about each other right? Tiff and Manda aka The Wild Ones throw a few interesting questions at each other to find get a young feel of the general chi. Pour your self a glass and have seat as we get to know our hosts. 

Find Amanda on Twitter and Instagram: @manda_hodge and Tiffany on @tiffmugo and IG: kagsmugo
The Wildness is on instagram with the.wildness
Check out HOLAAfrica on:
SoundCloud: @HOLAAfrica
Twitter: HOLAAfrica
Facebook: HOLAAfrica
Instagram: insta_holaa

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The Wildness Ep 1: Q&A with Tiff and Manda: Find out a little something about the Wild Ones

The Wildness pulled Botho Maruatona into the studio to chat about LEGABIBO, the right to d**k and she also gave us a slice of PAI (Pan Africa ILGA) which is being held in Botswana this year! Check out this semi -serious but not really) episode.

Find Amanda on Twitter and Instagram: @manda_hodge and Tiffany on @tiffmugo and IG: kagsmugo
The Wildness is on instagram with IG: the.wildness
Check out HOLAAfrica on:
SoundCloud: @HOLAAfrica
Twitter: HOLAAfrica
Facebook: HOLAAfrica
Instagram: insta_holaa

About the PAI conference: http://panafricailga.org/pai-regional-conference-2018/about-the-conference-2/
LEGABIBO: https://legabibo.wordpress.com/

The Wildness Ep 2: LEGABIBO court case, the right to d**k and a slice of PAI with Botho Maruatona

Is it about how much sex you have or is it how you DO the sex? Also what if you are having no sex? Or too much sex? How do you chat to your partner about the fact that you do not want to see them butt naked? Can tantric sex fix your relationship?
The Wild Ones, Tiff and Manda poured a glass and chatted about getting some from your significant other. Amanda was only turned down once for sex in 10 years. Once! That p***y must be flavoured. 
A podcast by two queer African girls trying to get through life. 

*Note in this podcast we still did not know what to call this vibe! The Wildness as a name clearly came later. Clearly. Still one of the original ones before it all became official’.* 

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Amanda on Twitter @manda_hodge and Instagram: @manda_hodge
HOLAAfrica: www.holaafrica.org IG: @insta_holaa Twitter and Facebook: HOLAAfrica

Links to check out:
- 5 Sex Topics You and Your Partner Must Discuss - https://www.essence.com/2012/01/09/5-sex-talks-you-and-your-partner-must-have
- You Need Help: Let’s Talk About (Having More) Sex - https://www.autostraddle.com/you-need-help-lets-talk-about-having-more-sex-159387/
- Pillow talk the key to good sex -http://holaafrica.org/pillow-talk-the-key-to-good-sex/
- 5 Great Tips to Make Talking with Your Partner About Sex Easier- https://everydayfeminism.com/2016/04/how-to-discuss-sexual-desires/

The Wildness Ep 5: How much sex do you need in a relationship?

Is Polyamory giving you stress? You're not the only one love. With tricky terms such as triads, truplets, primary partners and main partners, menamors and metamors, who can blame us for having a minor ‘system cannot compute’ moment? Also is it really just highkey cheating? Are there sister wives involved? Is it a tiny competition? 

The Wild Ones, Tiff and Manda, sat down, threw back some wine and chatted Polyamory 101! 

A podcast by two queer African girls trying to get through life. 

Follow The Wildness on Instagram @the.wildness and Facebook: The Wildness with Tiff & Manda
Amanda on Twitter @manda_hodge and Instagram: @manda_hodge
HOLAAfrica: www.holaafrica.org IG: @insta_holaa Twitter and Facebook: HOLAAfrica

Links to check out:
- Polyamory 101: A Super-Sweet Beginners Guide- https://mytinysecrets.com/polyamory-101-a-super-sweet-beginners-guide/
- 8 Things to Consider in Polyamorous Dating Before Committing to Another Partner - https://everydayfeminism.com/2016/01/polyamorous-dating-consider/
- 5 Dangerous Mistakes I Made When I Started Practicing Polyamory - https://everydayfeminism.com/2016/09/mistakes-made-practicing-polyamory/

The Wildness Ep 6: Polyamory 101

What can white people do to be better? How do you navigate sexuality and being a gay Indian? Does Haji like sex during the day? Why was Manda a sad panda? Also Haji joined a cult. A whole cult.

The Wild Ones sat down with Haji, author of the awesome 'Sorry not Sorry experiences of a brown woman in a white South Africa',  a book that explores the often maddening experience of moving through post-apartheid South Africa as a woman of colour. We chatted family, sexuality, writing, mental health, being with a white woman and also… sneakers. Jordans to be exact. 

A podcast by two queer African girls trying to get through life. 

Follow Haji on Twitter and Instagram: @sage_of_abusrd

Follow The Wildness on Instagram IG: the.wildness and Facebook: The Wildness with Tiff & Manda
Amanda on Twitter manda_hodge and Instagram: manda_hodge

HOLAAfrica: www.holaafrica.org IG: insta_holaa Twitter and Facebook: HOLAAfrica

Links to check out:
Get the book on Kindle and paper back: https://www.amazon.com/Sorry-Not-Experiences-brown-Africa/dp/177609266X

Book Extract: Sorry, Not Sorry – experiences of a brown woman in a white South Africa - https://www.dailymaverick.co.za/article/2018-04-10-book-extract-sorry-not-sorry-experiences-of-a-brown-woman-in-a-white-south-africa/#.WvmUgYiFPIU 

South Africans of colour don’t really write what we like says Haji Mohamed Dawjee says in her book Sorry Not Sorry: Experience of a brown woman- http://www.thedailyvox.co.za/haji-mohamed-dawjee-writes-what-she-likes-in-sorry-not-sorry-shaazia-ebrahim/

The Wildness Ep 10: The Wildness asks Haji Mohamed Dawjee to marry them

What is squirting and what is the biology behind it? Can you learn to squirt? What does squirting have to do with the rivers in Rwanda? Did Tiff need to squirt or did she need to pee? What countries are searching squirting on the internet?
And why is Amanda but naked on the couch?

We kept catching feelings about Coachella even if it happened ages ago.  This episode of The Wild Ones poured some wine and chat about squirting and the logistics. 

The Wild Ones also introduce Whats Poppin’ With Chu? Where they break down what good and bad thing is going down in their lives, cause they love you knowing their lives. Also cause The Wild Ones
 
A podcast by two queer African girls trying to get through life.
Follow The Wildness on Instagram @the.wildness and Facebook: The Wildness with Tiff & Manda

Amanda on Twitter @manda_hodge and Instagram: @manda_hodge
HOLAAfrica: www.holaafrica.org IG: @insta_holaa Twitter and Facebook: HOLAAfrica
 
Links to check out:
- Kunyaza: African secret to female orgasm: https://lovemattersafrica.com/making-love/ways-to-make-love/kunyaza-african-secret-to-female-orgasm?page=28
- 6 Women Discuss What It's Really Like to Ejaculate During Sex- https://www.cosmopolitan.com/sex-love/news/a34652/sex-talk-realness-squirting/
- Let’s talk about squirting: Why is it important, and what does it feel like? - https://medium.com/clued-in/lets-talk-about-squirting-why-is-it-important-and-what-does-it-feel-like-8637651d40da
- Everything you need to know about squriting  - https://www.thrillist.com/sex-dating/nation/how-to-make-a-girl-squirt-what-is-a-squirting-orgasm
- This Sexual Activity Is Giving Women Space To Do The One
Thing Patriarchy Hates-  https://www.youthkiawaaz.com/2016/04/bdsm-and-feminism/

The Wildness Ep 16: Bring Forth The SQUIRT!

How do we define bisexuality? What are the myths of bisexuality? Does sleeping with a woman for 8 years disqualify you as being bisexual? Are you a monosexual? So what if I want sleep with errbody? Did Tiff see Sheena and Shaka in Nepal? How has Amanda been charging her phone whilst Tiffy was aware?
Can you pay your rent off foot fetishes?

The Wild Ones chatted about bisexuality and the myths and misconceptions behind it. 

A podcast by two queer African girls trying to get through life. 

Follow The Wildness on Instagram @the.wildness and Facebook: The Wildness with Tiff & Manda
Amanda on Twitter @manda_hodge and Instagram: @manda_hodge
HOLAAfrica: www.holaafrica.org IG: @insta_holaa Twitter and Facebook: HOLAAfrica

Links to check out:
- 5 things to stop asking bisexuals: https://everydayfeminism.com/2014/06/stop-asking-bisexuals/
- Bi sexual erasure: http://www.glaad.org/bisexual/bierasure
- 9 Lies People Tell You When You Come Out as Bisexual – And How to Heal From Them-https://everydayfeminism.com/2015/09/lies-tell-you-when-bisexual/
- 30 Bisexual Women Discuss Their Long-Term Relationships With Men http://www.buzzfeed.com/ashleyford/32-bisexual-women-discuss-their-longterm-relationships-with#.lkg5y03LJ

The Wildness Ep 20: All Bi Myself: Basic Bisexuality

Is masturbation always political or can it be just to get off? What are some of the messed-up myths around masturbation and women? Also do you HAVE to have candles when I rub one out (can masturbation not take all day please?)

Why is Leon drink shaming us? And why has Manda got ANOTHER best friend? We teach you how to say Botho’s name?

The Wild Ones chatted about that self love and doing the snaxing solo.

A podcast by two queer African girls trying to get through life. 

Follow The Wildness on Instagram: IG the.wildness and Facebook: The Wildness with Tiff & Manda

Amanda on Twitter and Instagram: manda_hodge

HOLAAfrica: www.holaafrica.org IG: insta_holaa Twitter and Facebook: HOLAAfrica

Links to check out:
- 13 reasons masturbation is a feminist act - Bustle
https://www.bustle.com/articles/81994-13-reasons-masturbation-is-a-feminist-act
- Orgasms are good for you - Bustle
https://www.bustle.com/articles/109181-5-surprising-ways-orgasms-are-scientifically-proven-to-make-your-life-better
 - 7 Myths About Women and Masturbation It’s Time to Unlearn Right Now – Everyday feminism
https://everydayfeminism.com/2016/01/myths-women-masturbation/
- So many ways to come so little time: Types of orgasm you should know about (Repost)
http://holaafrica.org/10667/

The Wildness Ep 29: Masturbation: Knowing your body, busting the myths and closing the orgasm gap

What should you do when the family are stressing you? Do you have to turn up for EVERY family event? Is Netflix and hide a real thing? What should you do when being around loved ones are triggered?

Not everything is your circus and not everyone is your monkey.

The Wild Ones give this extra special Christmas episode to help you navigate the holiday times, because we know these aren’t always easy.

A podcast by two queer African girls trying to get through life. 

Follow The Wildness on Instagram: the.wildness and Facebook: The Wildness with Tiff & Manda
Amanda on Twitter manda_hodge and Instagram: manda_hodge
HOLAAfrica: www.holaafrica.org IG: @insta_holaa Twitter and Facebook: HOLAAfrica

Links to check out:
When you’re not welcome home for the holiday - https://www.afterellen.com/people/465849-youre-not-welcome-home-holidays
- Queer and heading home for the holidays - https://thebrag.com/out-about-queer-heading-home-holidays/
- LGBT and heading home for the holidays- https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/gay-and-lesbian-well-being/201411/lgbt-and-heading-home-the-holidays
 - 6 ways queer people can practice self care over the holiday -  https://www.bustle.com/p/6-ways-queer-people-can-practice-self-care-over-the-holidays-26009

The Wildness Ep 22: Quick step advice for navigating the holidays (Christmas Special)

Where does everyone get their sexy things? Should Panda pay for rent or pay for feminist p*rn? Is Tiff watching the whole p*rn clip or just the snax? 
Also womxn really like p*rn and spend more time on adult sites on average than their male counterparts.
The Wild Ones are discussing sexy times. 
Shout out Tlangi! Panda and us love you! And do we need to put a tiny tampon in?

The Wildness Ep 28: Feminist Porn 101 – where have the sex positive spaces gone?

'Do The Homie! Do The Homie!'
Hooking up with squad exes. Are we having the convo of ‘does they do that thing?’  It is a hard to detach? Should you centre yourself? How did they end? How long were they together? Who is deserving of love?
*boxing commentator voice* Comrades, feminists, activists and esteemed Wild Ones...Are you reeeaaaddddyyyy to ruummmmbbbblllleeee!!! 

This episode Tiff and Manda almost come to blows over whether or not it’s cool to date your friend’s ex, or your ex’s friend. 

It. Got. So. Real
Spoiler alert...we’re still together <3 

A podcast by two queer African girls trying to get through life. 

Follow The Wildness on Instagram: IG the.wildness and Facebook: The Wildness with Tiff & Manda

Amanda on Twitter and Instagram: manda_hodge

HOLAAfrica: www.holaafrica.org IG: insta_holaa Twitter and Facebook: HOLAAfrica

The Wildness Ep 32: Smashing the homies  ex: It cool or nah? (The Wild Ones fought)

Why is faking orgasms more complex than a few moans and eye rolling for a little while? Why are people faking orgasms? Why did Tiff snitch on herself about faking? Does Manda's vag*na twerk? And Manda has faked COUNTLESS orgasms with men. Where does Leon keep going whilst in we the stu? 

Tiff and Panda were trying to turn it up in the studio to New Jack Swing *it's a party*

Links to check: 
The Real Reasons women are faking orgasms - EveryDay Feminism https://everydayfeminism.com/2017/05/women-fake-orgasms/

What A Fake ‘Female Orgasm’ Statistic Says About Gender Bias - 
https://medium.com/the-establishment/what-a-fake-female-orgasm-statistic-says-about-gender-bias-591985f8d68c

The Wildness Ep 34: Faking orgasms: Why are we doing it?(a lil somethin' for the straight honeys)

The Wild Ones discuss heteronormativity in this episode and it is well… wild. Tiff is off on a tangent. Panda says she is having someone else’s baby. Someone walks out the stu. Leon says listen with caution. Despite the chaos we actually manage to drop some wisdom on heteronormativity and what it be. (it’s a little longer than the average but love us). 
Links to check out:
What Is Heteronormativity – And How Does It Apply to Your Feminism? Here Are 4 Examples- https://everydayfeminism.com/2015/07/what-is-heteronormativity/
Heteronormativity: What It Is and Why It’s a Problem- https://www.entitymag.com/heteronormativity-meaning-problems/

The Wildness Ep 35:  The one about heteronormativity (and other hot messes)

In the second instalment of the BDSM series Tiff and Manda are chatting with the Chido about being a sub. 

So what is a sub? What is a dom...actually what is a tech dom? Where do you find one? Does everyone have to be covered in leather? Do we have to be snaaxxing or nah? Did Leon clean the stu? And what does Tiff being a war journalist have to do with all of this? 

Join us in a conversation about consent, creation, communication and a dive into sub and dom relationships. 

Chido social medias: On Twitter @etanaPatra and on Instagram @etanapatriot

Follow The Wildness on Instagram @the.wildness and Facebook: The Wildness with Tiff & Manda

Amanda on Twitter @manda_hodge and Instagram: @manda_hodge

HOLAAfrica: www.holaafrica.org IG: @insta_holaa Twitter and Facebook: HOLAAfrica

The Wildness Ep 40: Sexy Safe Subbing w/ Chido

What is call out culture? Why is it a scam? Who gets the call out culture clap back and how does call out culture happen? 
Do Tiff & Panda even know how to behave? Has it been four years since the wild ones podcasted? Also shout out to the padded cell. Thanks Ciku for telling Tiff about beauty YouTube.

Follow The Wildness on Instagram @the.wildness and Facebook: The Wildness with Tiff & Manda

Amanda on Twitter @manda_hodge and Instagram: @manda_hodge

HOLAAfrica: www.holaafrica.org IG: @insta_holaa Twitter and Facebook: HOLAAfrica

The Wildness Ep. 45: Calling Out Call Out Culture

IT IS SEASON 3 AND THE WILD ONES ARE BACK!
For this episode we break down what this here Wildness thing is and also Leon asks us some Teen Vogue type questions.

What are the wild ones afraid of? What is their fave thing? Which celeb would the Wild Ones want as squad?

Its #20plenty and it’s time to get this year on an poppin’!

Buckle in Wild Ones, it shall be a bumpy ride.

Follow The Wildness on Instagram @the.wildness and Facebook: The Wildness with Tiff & Manda

Amanda on Twitter @manda_hodge and Instagram: @manda_hodge

HOLAAfrica: www.holaafrica.org IG: @insta_holaa Twitter and Facebook: HOLAAfrica

The Wildness Ep 42: Welcome to #20plenty: The Wild Ones step into season 3

Valentine’s day is here and what better time to figure out if your relationship is doing proper things. It’s time to ask: Is babes OK? Are we asking if our partners are happy? Relationshipping M& E is a real thing. Here is a wild concept...love and relationships are not things that just happen ‘because babes, life isn’t a fairytale and your ass aint Cindrella’...whaaaaattttttt!!!!
The Wild Ones chat the benefits and importance of relationship monitoring and evaluation, because yes, even the dynamics of your relationships need to be kept up with. 
A podcast by two queer African girls trying to get through life.

Amanda on Twitter manda_hodge and Instagram: manda_hodge
The Wildness Instagram: the.wildness and Facebook: The Wildness with Tiff & Manda
HOLAAfrica: www.holaafrica.org IG: insta_holaa Twitter and Facebook: @HOLAAfrica

The Wildness' Valentines Day Re-Load: Do Your Relationship M&E

All good (and bad) things come to an end. Much as queer want a fairy tale romance and happy ending it can sometimes turn into an all mighty sh*t show and you end up breaking up. So in this episode throw back we are going to chat about breaking up. The Wild Ones chat about them final moments in a relationship.

A podcast by two queer African girls trying to get through life.

Follow The Wildness on Instagram - the.wildness and Facebook: The Wildness with Tiff & Manda
Amanda on Twitter: manda_hodge and Instagram: manda_hodge
The Wildness Instagram: the.wildness and Facebook: The Wildness with Tiff & Manda
HOLAAfrica: www.holaafrica.org IG: insta_holaa Twitter and Facebook: @HOLAAfrica

The Wildness' Valentines Day Re-Load: How To Deal With A Break Up

How do you get a threesome on and poppin? Should you do a lil research before getting into the vibe? What about a small date inyana?  Can it be romantic?
Can Tiff & Manda fix the wildness that was the episode with Botho and Sibu?

Follow The Wildness on Instagram @the.wildness and Facebook: The Wildness with Tiff & Manda

Amanda on Twitter @manda_hodge and Instagram: @manda_hodge

HOLAAfrica: www.holaafrica.org IG: @insta_holaa Twitter and Facebook: HOLAAfrica

The Wildness Ep 44: Getting more folks involved (How to have a threesome)

What is the Friendzone? Should be getting a** from folks cause you nice to them? Are people just running a long con by being nice? Why is the idea of the friendzone shady af?

The Wild Ones tackle what it means to be getting sad someone ain't trying to sex you.

Follow The Wildness on Instagram @the.wildness and Facebook: The Wildness with Tiff & Manda

Amanda on Twitter @manda_hodge and Instagram: @manda_hodge

HOLAAfrica: www.holaafrica.org IG: @insta_holaa Twitter and Facebook: HOLAAfrica

The Widlness Ep. 43: So They Wont Have Sex With You Huh? - On Friendzones

What is chosen family? Why is it such an important and very real thing? Why do the gays need it? Why has Tiff taken so long to watch pose?

The Wild Ones Chat how to navigate having to create your own loves.

Follow The Wildness on Instagram @the.wildness and Facebook: The Wildness with Tiff & Manda

Amanda on Twitter @manda_hodge and Instagram: @manda_hodge

HOLAAfrica: www.holaafrica.org IG: @insta_holaa Twitter and Facebook: HOLAAfrica

The Wildness Ep. 46:  Chosen Family - Chatting finding your tribe

What actually counts as cheating? Does Manda know how to cheat? Can you cheat if you are poly/in an open relationship? What should you tell yourself after you have been cheated on?

The Wild Ones unpack all the different parts of stepping out on your situation.

Follow The Wildness on Instagram @the.wildness and Facebook: The Wildness with Tiff & Manda
Amanda on Twitter @manda_hodge and Instagram: @manda_hodge
HOLAAfrica: www.holaafrica.org IG: @insta_holaa Twitter and Facebook: HOLAAfrica

The Wildness Ep. 45: Do you have the chest for cheating?

What are we naming our collective pu**y? Can you say the word 'vagina' to your parents? What are the myths around vaginas? Is your vagina meat a sexual burrito? And what the hell are meat curtains?

Also what is a lesbianic job?

The Wild Ones sit down and discuss how we are naming our vaginas and how we speaking

A podcast by two queer African girls trying to get through life.

Follow The Wildness on Instagram: IG the.wildness and Facebook: The Wildness with Tiff & Manda

Amanda on Twitter and Instagram: manda_hodge

HOLAAfrica: www.holaafrica.org IG: insta_holaa Twitter and Facebook: HOLAAfrica

Links to check out:
- Caring for your vagina a listicle - holaafrica.org/caring-for-your-vagina-a-listicle/
- African sexualities: A Reader Nkiru Nzewgu Osunality (or the African Erotic) - www.africaknowledgeproject.org/index.php…/view/776
- Celebrating the Taboo: Janelle Monae's 'Pynk' and Why I'm Refusing to Accept That Vaginas are Vulgar -www.okayafrica.com/taboo-janelle-m…dirty-computer/
- How Many Words That Mean Vagina Do You Know? - www.buzzfeed.com/erinlarosa/how-m…wBkK#.rpYR0QEZmX

[Repost] The Wildness Ep 17 Miss Fifi The Great: What are you naming your juicy bits?

Is babes OK? Are we asking if our partners are happy? Relationshipping M& E is a real thing. Here is a wild concept...love and relationships are not things that just happen ‘because babes, life isn’t a fairytale and your ass aint Cindrella’...whaaaaattttttt!!!!

The Wild Ones chat the benefits and importance of relationship monitoring and evaluation, because yes, even the dynamics of your relationships need to be kept up with. Geddit!

A podcast by two queer African girls trying to get through life.

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Amanda on Twitter manda_hodge and Instagram: manda_hodge

HOLAAfrica: www.holaafrica.org IG: insta_holaa Twitter and Facebook: HOLAAfrica

[Repost] The Wildness Ep 13: Check it before you wreck it, do your relationship M&E

Labels! We all have them, most of us use them but are they helpful or nah? In this episode Tiff and Manda interrogate labels, including whether or not they fit the criteria of being wild! (spoiler alert!! THEY DO)

Also have you ever run Cliterfearance? Are you part of the Muffia?
The Wild Ones chatted about suss these labels out.

A podcast by two queer African girls trying to get through life.
Follow The Wildness on Instagram - the.wildness and Facebook: The Wildness with Tiff & Manda
Amanda on Twitter: manda_hodge and Instagram: manda_hodge
HOLAAfrica: www.holaafrica.org IG: insta_holaa Twitter and Facebook: HOLAAfrica

[Repost] The Wildness Ep 30: New Label Who Dis?

A podcast by two queer african girls just trying to get through life. The Wildness with Tiff and Manda is here to chat about sex, existence, politics, the every day and everything in between.
With the help of a whole host of guests from around the continent, the Wild Ones, Amanda Hodgeson and Tiffany Kagure Mugo sit down, pour a glass of the vino and unpack life’s various messiness because sometimes what you need is a little wine, a little friendship and a little chat to get through this life thing.  
Warning: Some Content Can Be Explicit and Explosive.

The Wildness with Tiff & Manda

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