Greetings dudes! Scott takes a step away from podcast episodes to record a special segment on spanking basics, inspired by seeing a bunch of fresh faces (and butts) coming into the scene post-COVID. This is intended to be a sort of “evergreen” podcast episode that can be searched for and shared with other dudes who are having fantasies about spanking and are wondering what to expect.

Music: Vivera / “I Don’t Give a Damn” (Instrumental Version) / courtesy of epidemicsound.com

Dudes Spankin' Dudes

Spanking 101

Dudes Spankin’ Dudes Presents: Spanking 101

Jaden, founder of Whappz and co-founder of Hot Seat Retreat, is back for another episode as we all prepare for Bad Ass Weekend (bawevent.com) in Georgia in October. And Scott announces plans for a spanking party at the Cleveland Leather Awareness Weekend (CLAW) event (clawinfo.org), which will actually be taking place in Los Angeles this November on Thanksgiving weekend. Stay tuned for more details. We’ll also be announcing registration for Hot Seat Retreat 2022 very soon.

In “Real Dudes Spanking Real Dudes,” Scott and Jaden tackle the problem of dudes that are not actually real on hookup sites and apps. There’s been a rise of scammers using our favorite fetish platforms to try to weasel private information and money out of you. We talk about tools that help you make sure your dudes are really real, and how to make sure dudes you try to talk to recognize you’re also a real dude and not a scammer.

In “The Fantasy Life of Spanking”: Wedgies! Wedgies have always been a fringe kink on the scene that has combined well with spanking. There’s been an increased interest in it in recent years. Scott the bully loves dishing out wedgies to his victims, and Jaden has even made it an interest tag on Whappz. We discuss.

Also, we answer a complicated question from a young kinky sub who wants to serve his spank-loving dom. The problem—the sub is not very experienced in spanking, hadn’t really been fantasizing about it, and is worried about the pain.

Music: Vivera / “I Don’t Give a Damn” (Instrumental Version) / courtesy of epidemicsound.com

Episode 38: Wedgies Show Off Those Beaten Bottoms

It’s our very first female guest ever, as author and spanking kinkster Jillian Keenan joins Scott to discuss what it is about guys spanking each other that appeals to some women.

In the Real Dudes Spankin’ Real Dudes segment, we discuss a complex issue that Jillian has strong feelings about: Are kinks and fetishes a type of sexual orientation that we should treat differently from being gay or straight (or other)? Scott talks about some of the feedback he has gotten since coming out in episode 41 as asexual, and we discuss a recent Dan Savage letter from a straight guy who wants to be spanked by other men and how frequently dudes spank other dudes in her part of the spanking community.

In the Fantasy Life of Spanking, Jillian absolutely loves stories about Star Wars Jedi Master Qui-Gon Jinn spanking Padowan Obi Wan Kenobi, and really any spanking fan fiction revolving around a male mentor spanking a younger student (like Batman and Robin). We discuss why that is, and she details an amazing recreation of one of her favorite stories that some of her fans put together.

All of this, plus updates about Hot Seat Retreat and news about a new spanking party coming to Cleveland’s CLAW event, and a letter from a top who is getting mixed signals from a bottom. 

Jillian Keenan’s book, “Sex with Shakespeare,” can be found at Amazon here: https://www.amazon.com/Sex-with-Shakespeare-audiobook/dp/B01BLV3UTY

Her YouTube channel is here: https://www.youtube.com/c/KinkingOutLoud

Her Patreon page is here: https://www.patreon.com/KinkingOutLoud

Music: Vivera / “I Don’t Give a Damn” (Instrumental Version) / courtesy of epidemicsound.com

Episode 42: Ladies Into Dudes Spankin’ Dudes

It’s Hot Seat Retreat time! But for those of you unable to join us out in Palm Springs, Scott managed to squeeze in a fun episode about some important spanking history connected to Man’s Hand Films, which has just recently shut down as a company.

Scott is joined by Mike (a.k.a. StricTop) and Phil (a.k.a. SFspank), who have launched a brand new m/m spanking art archive. The initial focus is on the artwork and contents of old issues of the now-defunct “Red Tails” magazine that Man’s Hand Films produced. We talk about how they started the archive, the work involved, why it’s important, and commissioning new art from erotic artists online. And we also reminisce about the days of Man’s Hand videos and some of our favorite old movies of theirs.

Check out Mike and Phil’s archive here: www.gayspankart.com.
Mike's Twitter feed is here: https://twitter.com/spank_gay

Music: Vivera / “I Don’t Give a Damn” (Instrumental Version) / courtesy of epidemicsound.com

Episode 43

Episode 43: Preserving Spank History

Some spanking implements are rigid. Some spanking implements are flexible. By the same token, some guys have rigid spanking fantasies where the scene plays out in very particular pre-determined ways. Some others have more flexible fantasies that revolve a bit more about evolving or improvisational play based on reactions during the scene.

Both approaches (and both types of implements) are perfectly valid in the spanking scene. But it’s important to know the ins and outs of not just the tools but the types of play. A person with a rigid spanking fantasy may have a difficult time adjusting to a more flexible player and vice-versa. Scott is joined by Jaden from Whappz to discuss and advise.

Don’t forget, Bad Ass Weekend is coming up in October: Bawevent.com.

And mark your schedules for Hot Seat Retreat next March 16-19, 2023: hotseatps.com.

Music: Vivera / “I Don’t Give a Damn” (Instrumental Version) / courtesy of epidemicsound.com

Episode 45: Rigid Vs. Flexible

For Episode 46, Scott is joined by Stephen and Mike, two members of our spanking community who are working on a special project: a book about our scene and its members. They chat about their plan, what they’re looking for, what they are hoping to produce, and how you can participate.

If you want to participate in their survey, visit: https://forms.gle/3hnCcTTPgg4qa1DQ6

Music: Vivera / “I Don’t Give a Damn” (Instrumental Version) / courtesy of epidemicsound.com

Episode 46

Episode 46: Who Tells Your (Spankin’) Story?

Ow Canada! Ryan joins Scott this episode to discuss CanSpanks, a spanking event at Fox Haven, a big, isolated campground in Lavigne, Ontario. Their next gathering is coming in September, and Ryan’s got some hot stories about what happens up there.

And in the fantasy life of spanking, Ryan, an unrepentant brat, talks about how he best uses his bratty behavior to get what he deserves, how to recognize when tops are reacting well to your bratty behavior and when to turn the brat on and off.

All this and some updates on some more spanking events coming up in our community.

CanSpanks: Sept. 4-10, 2023. https://www.canspanks.com/foxhaven
Bad Ass Weekend: Oct 11-15, 2023. Bawevent.com.
OTK LA: Next party, August 11, 2023. OTKLA.com
Hot Seat Retreat, March 13-17, 2024. Hotseatps.com

Music: Vivera / “I Don’t Give a Damn” (Instrumental Version) / courtesy of epidemicsound.com

Episode 49

Episode 49: The Ethical Brat

It’s a very common fantasy for dudes into spanking: You get pulled over for speeding or tailgating or some other moving violation by a gruff, authoritative police officer. Is there anything you can do to get out of a ticket? Maybe pay some other penalty right then and there? Perhaps bent over the hood of the police car? Perhaps with the police officer’s belt, or maybe some paddle he happens to be carrying around with him?

You can live out that fantasy, either as the wayward driver or the cop. We’re joined by Dave, also known as Hunter Chase, who does roleplay spanking scenes as a police officer or prisoner with advice on living out these fantasies and incorporating handcuffs into spanking play safely.

All this plus the latest on upcoming spanking events, including a very hot time coming to some butts this summer in Las Vegas!

Links
"Bad Lads and Strict Sirs" shop: https://blssworld.printify.me/products
SWAT Studios: https://www.swat-studios.com/
Dave’s Twitter feed: https://twitter.com/hunter_chase_23

Music: Vivera / “I Don’t Give a Damn” (Instrumental Version) / courtesy of epidemicsound.com

Episode 52: Up Against the Wall and Spread ‘Em!

Another Hot Seat Retreat has come and gone, and Scott is joined by Dean, who attended Hot Seat Retreat in Palm Springs for the first time in March and got spanked a whole lot. He tells us all about it. Mother Nature decided to make her presence known this year in some unpleasant ways, but we powered through, warming ourselves up  nicely with the heat of some very, very sore bottoms. Listen on, dudes, if you want to hear how Hot Seat Retreat’s roleplay interest tracks brought some new opportunities for punishment to manifest.

Valuable links:
OTK LA: otkla.com/home
Hot Seat Vegas: hotseatvegas.com/home
Camp Red Tails: campredtails.com

Music: Vivera / “I Don’t Give a Damn” (Instrumental Version) / courtesy of epidemicsound.com

Episode 53: Cold Winds and Hot Seats

Hey all! Time to mark your calendars. Hot Seat Retreat in Palm Springs will be returning in 2025 on March 19-23. If you want to enter the lottery for one of the rooms at host resort CCBC, you'll want to register once it opens on Saturday Sept. 14. You'll have until 11:59 p.m. Pacific Time on Sept. 14 to enter the lottery. Listen for more details.

And information about registration and room rates can be found on our site: https://www.hotseatps.com/home

Special: Hot Seat Retreat 2025 Registration Opens Sept. 14

Hey dudes, Bad Ass Weekend is just around the corner. and Scott is joined by Bruce, one of the event organizers known for his love of providing aftercare to any spanked bottoms who need it. 

Aftercare following a spanking can help provide a chance not just to help a butt physically recover from a spanking, but also for both the top and bottom to continue to reinforce their roles with each other. It can even, of course, lead to cuddling, comforting, and sex.

But not every bottom wants that kind of aftercare, and not every top is comfortable in providing everything a bottom might want. So, it’s important for tops and bottoms to communicate what they want—or don’t want—after a spanking session is over. Listen on dudes, to learn more.

All of this and a quick explanation about some rule changes at Etsy about the types of BDSM and adult gear they allow to be sold through the site. Oh, and the pink lanyards are coming to Bad Ass Weekend!

Bad Ass Weekend: BAWevent.com

Etsy’s adult content policies: https://www.etsy.com/legal/policy/adult-nudity-and-sexual-content/1269612959532

Music: Vivera / “I Don’t Give a Damn” (Instrumental Version) / courtesy of epidemicsound.com

Episode 56: All About Aftercare

Hot on the heels of hurricane Helene, Bad Ass Weekend returned to Augusta, Georgia, in October. There were upturned trees, but more importantly, upturned bottoms, particularly Scott’s. Scott is joined this episode by Sean, who attended Bad Ass Weekend for the first time this year. We have stories to share about hot spankings out by the pool, backtalking authorities and paying the price for it, and wonderful experiences with new friends. All that and Scott’s new nickname (HotBotScott), as well as information about what’s happening with Las Vegas. Listen on, dudes!

Bad Ass Weekend: https://bawevent.com/
Hot Seat Vegas: https://www.hotseatvegas.com/home
OTK LA: https://www.otkla.com/home

Music: Vivera / “I Don’t Give a Damn” (Instrumental Version) / courtesy of epidemicsound.com

Episode 57: Bad Ass Weekend 2024’s Wonderfully Painful Memories

We are pleased to announce that Hot Seat Vegas has found a new home and will return in 2025 from Wednesday, July 30th through Sunday, August 3rd.

Registration for Vegas will open on Saturday, February 1, at 10 a.m. Pacific time (7 a.m. East Coast time). Visit hotseatvegas.com for more details and prices.

Special: Hot Seat Vegas 2025 Is Coming! July 30 to August 3

Would you believe Dudes Spankin’ Dudes has been around for more than five years and nearly 60 episodes and we’ve never actually done an episode about hand spankings? That’s a terrible oversight over which Scott should be spanked. And he will be! 

Scott is joined again by Sean to talk about what they both love about hand spankings and give some tips on both giving and receiving. Then they delve a little bit into spanking roleplay and how to establish realistic expectations when you’re new. Listen on Dudes, and find out what Sean plans to do to Scott’s butt in Palm Springs in March!

Bonus links:
Check out the “Sips and Smacks” Podcast: https://www.sipsandsmacks.com/ (Scott is a guest on Episode 97)
Hot Seat Retreat 2025 in Palm Springs, March 19-23: https://www.hotseatps.com/home
Hot Seat Vegas 2025 in Las Vegas, July 30-August 3: https://www.hotseatvegas.com/home

Music: Vivera / “I Don’t Give a Damn” (Instrumental Version) / courtesy of epidemicsound.com


Episode 58: Demands of the Hand

You’ve found the perfect disciplinarian who knows exactly what to say to you to get you into that headspace where you can just want to say to him, “Yes, sir, I deserve a spanking,” and mean it. He knows what you need, how much you need it, and the right way to give it to you.

The problem? You live in Yonkers and he lives in Albuquerque. So how do you make it work if you can’t see each other face-to-face? Long-distance, directed discipline scenes have been a part of the spanking community for a long time. But how exactly do you pull them off so that it feels genuine for both sides? Listen on dudes, as HotbotScott is joined by Steven and Mike to talk you all through it.

(Note: This episode was recorded before the announcement that Skype would be shutting down its services.)

Links:

“Bad Lads, Strict Sirs and the World of Adult Male Spanking”: http://badladsandstrictsirs.com/

The Chicago Leather Archives and Museum: https://leatherarchives.org

Music: Vivera / “I Don’t Give a Damn” (Instrumental Version) / courtesy of epidemicsound.com


Episode 59: Long-Distance Discipline

Another Hot Seat Retreat in Palm Springs has come and gone, and HotBotScott is joined this episode by SleepyBap to chat about the spanktastic times they had this March. Spoilers: The weather was perfect this year, especially compared to last year’s wind and rain, and there were many, many, many spankings. Naughty misbehaving boys were disciplined by their dads, wayward students and jocks were paddled by principals and coaches, and bullies roved the grounds, handing out wedgies and tormenting their prey—consensually of course. Listen on, dudes, for all the details.

Upcoming events:
OTKLA: May 30. https://www.otkla.com/home
Camp Red Tails: July 17-22. https://www.campredtails.com/
Hot Seat Vegas, July 30-August 3. https://www.hotseatvegas.com/home
Bad Ass Weekend, Oct 15-19. https://bawevent.com/

Music: Vivera / “I Don’t Give a Damn” (Instrumental Version) / courtesy of epidemicsound.com

Episode 60: Bullies and Bounties at Hot Seat Retreat

Do you wanna cry, boy? Being spanked to tears is probably one of the biggest fantasies in spanking. It is also one of the hardest fantasies to achieve. Scott visited London and reconnected with his original Bully, who got him back into bottoming (and who first appeared all the way back in Episode 3). There he was spanked to tears for the first time in an extremely long time. So how did it happen? Scott is joined by Steven to talk about how and why crying happens in a spanking scene and how to set realistic expectations.

In addition, Steven fills the community in on how the reception went for his spanking exhibit at the Leather Archives and Museum in Chicago: “Paddles and Switches and Straps, Oh My! The Dynamic Community of Adult Male Spanking.” Turnout was excellent and it’s great to see a kink and leather museum give special attention to our fetish! Check out the Leather Archives here: https://leatherarchives.org/. The exhibit runs through the end of August.

Scott appeared recently on another spanking podcast, “Never Too Old for Agoodspanking,” Check it out here: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/never-too-old-for-agoodspankin--4594541

Music: Vivera / “I Don’t Give a Damn” (Instrumental Version) / courtesy of epidemicsound.com

Episode 61: London Bawling

Did you know there’s other things you can do with a butt besides spanking it? It’s wild to think about! Scott is joined this episode by Ryan, who enjoys incorporating insertion play into the spankings he dishes out, bringing in butt plugs, thermometers, and even figging. It’s a way to bring in some different sensations to your boy’s butt when he’s being punished and can add new levels of humiliation into a spanking scene. Listen on, dudes, if you’re looking to add some variety to your sessions.

Also, Ryan attended Camp Red Tails for the first time this summer and Scott helped organize the second ever Hot Seat Vegas. They both share hot stories from each event. 

Links:
jock-spank.com
otkla.com
bawevent.com

Music: Vivera / “I Don’t Give a Damn” (Instrumental Version) / courtesy of epidemicsound.com

Episode 62: Plug and Play

What does 15 years of growth and change in the male spanking community look like? Scott has recorded this episode live at Bad Ass Weekend in Augusta, Georgia, to chat with the organizers about what they’ve seen and learned hosting an event for 15 years. What started as a small gathering of guys on a campground has become the biggest, most-attended male spanking event in North America. Probably the world! Listen on, dudes, for some fun reminiscing and thoughts about how big our community has gotten.

In addition, we’ve got news (and a venue change) for the third Hot Seat Vegas, scheduled for July 22-26, 2026. (The episode itself incorrectly says it runs until the 27th) And for some audience participation, we’ve got examples of spanking “red flags” and “green flags” to go over.

For more information on Bad Ass Weekend, visit bawevent.com
For more information on Hot Seat Vegas, visit hotseatvegas.com.

Music: Vivera / “I Don’t Give a Damn” (Instrumental Version) / courtesy of epidemicsound.com


Episode 63: Live from Bad Ass Weekend

Welcome to the first episode of Dudes Spankin' Dudes. Scott (RedSpkScott) and Brian (SoupGoblin) are your hosts.

For this premiere podcast about men with the spanking fetish, we introduce ourselves and help you get to know us. Here are the three main segments:

1. "Real Dudes Spankin' Real Dudes": Brian and Scott talk about their history as men with spanking fetishes and some basics.

2. "The Fantasy Life of Spanking": Scott and Brian critique one of their favorite pieces of spanking erotica, bully-themed video "Lunch Money."

3. "Spankify Everything": Brian and Scott discuss celebrities (for a fairly lax definition of "celebrity") that they want to spank and be spanked by and why.

Episode 1: Give Us Your Lunch Money

Thanks to inspiration and listener response, we've decided to try a twice-a-month podcast plan. Look for us on the second and fourth Sundays of each month.

For this second episode we answer some questions and recommend all folks into dudes spankin' and being spanked by dudes join Tumblr. The things we'll discuss in our second episode:

1. "Real Dudes Spankin' Real Dudes." Brian isn't a total n00b to the whole spanking scene, but he is recent newcomer when it comes to actually seeking out spanking play in real life. We discuss what that was like and what he learned about that transition.

2. "The Fantasy Life of Spanking." We delve into the current state of spanking videos and explore the awesomeness of it (There's SO MUCH SPANKING OUT THERE) and the issues with it (it mostly seems targeted toward tops). We'd love to hear some feedback on our observations here.

3. "Spankify Everything." We thought we wouldn't have much to say about the Olympics, but then Ryan Lochte happened.

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Episode 2: Brian Is a Total Spank N00b

Brian has needed to take a step backward with the podcast, but he's not gone, we promise. Scott and Brian's buddy Jason joins the discussion for this podcast.

1. "Real Dudes Spankin' Real Dudes": What is it about a dude with a paddle anyway? Scott and Jason talk about the origins and masculine traits of one of the more popular punishment implements with dudes and things to think about when swinging them.

2. "The Fantasy Life of Spanking": This episode Scott goes on waaaaay toooo long about why individual spanking fantasies matter and how the "narratives" we make up for ourselves about spanking are important to making our kink or fetish part of a real-world satisfying sexual experience.

3. "Spankify Everything": Of course we would end up eventually talking about video game dudes. So many spankable butts in video games. So many!

Episode 5: What Is It About a Dude With a Paddle?

Another long episode! You know what that means: Stories involving actual real life dude-spanking-dude action! Including Scott's birthday spanking. It was a doozy. Scott is joined by Duke, who is new to the spanking scene, but has been involved in other types of BDSM play for years.

Real Dudes Spankin' Real Dudes: Spanking and the BDSM Scene. Scott talks to Duke about how an early bad experience pushed him away from spanking kink play, and how he's slowly worked his way back into the spanking scene. Scott helped! By beating Duke's ass. It was fun.

The Fantasy Life of Spanking: Begging for a Bullying. From the very first podcast episode, Scott was surprised to discover that a lot of dudes into spanking harbored fantasies involving bullies. Scott loves it as both a top and bottom. Duke loves it as a bottom. So the two of them talk about what the bully fantasy means and how (and whether) to translate it into real life play. And what that looks like with some stories of actual sessions.

Episode 9: Bully For You!

Scott has been asked repeatedly since starting the Dudes Spankin' Dudes podcast to discuss real world domestic discipline and Daddy/Boy fantasies. Unfortunately, these are areas in the spanking scene that Scott really doesn't participate in.

So our guest for this episode of the podcast is Jake of the blog "Cornertime Confidential." Jake is in a relationship that involves domestic discipline spankings for actual real world reasons, and he's also very much part of the Daddy/Boy relationship dynamic scene.

This podcast episode is all about the basics of both domestic discipline and Daddy/Boy roleplay. If you're interested in reading more, check out Jake's Cornertime Confidential blog:

www.cornertimeconfidential.blogspot.com
www.cornertimeconfidential.wordpress.com

Episode 11: Cornertime Confidant

Merry Christmas, Happy Hanukkah , and Happy Holidays in general. Scott is back after taking November off and joined by Big Daddy Vegas. Apologies for the break between episodes, but Scott had a good reason, which he explains. Also, if you're in the Pittsburgh area, we have info on a relatively new spanking party.

In our "Real Dudes Spankin' Real Dudes" section, the podcast has been kind of bottom heavy (Scott does like his dudes a little bottom heavy). So Big Daddy Vegas and Scott go over a bunch of "Tips for Tops" about the kinds of things tops, especially less experienced tops, should plan for when playing with a new dude.

In our "Fantasy Life of Spanking" section, December is the perfect time to look at the role Santa Claus plays in spanking fantasies. He's practically a celebrity among spankos and we explore why that is.

Episode 13

Episode 13: He Knows If You've Been Bad or Good …

We've got Big Daddy Vegas back for a third episode. And we've got info on a new spanking party in New York City appropriately called "Welts." (Check out the host's Tumblr page here: https://nycinfernoparty.tumblr.com/)

In our "Real Dudes Spankin' Real Dudes" segment, it's been a while since we've talked about particular implements. Daddy Vegas is a master at the belt and straps, so we spent some time talking about how to use them, and how they feel, and what to do when you're inexperienced with them (watch out for those balls!).

In the "Fantasy Life of Spanking" section, humiliation plays an important role in nearly every fantasy that involves spanking, so we decided to take some time to discuss why that is, how humiliation play allows for longer scenes, and how it allows for individual sessions to be more memorable and unique.

All this and a question from a newcomer struggling with online communication with tops about getting spankings.

Episode 16: Bring Daddy His Belt!

Scott's Guest for Episode 17 is Copper, an extremely well-known member of the American scene of dude-spankers. If you don't know him for his role in Man's Hand spanking videos, then you most certainly have seen his spanking artwork.

For our "Real Dudes Spankin' Real Dudes" segment, Copper talks about his role in helping the Los Angeles spanking community get together and torment each other and the sorts of challenges he and the leaders of the Moonburn group have in keeping a party going for years.

In our "Fantasy Life of Spanking" section we delve into Copper's background in spanking art, the struggles of trying to find markets for fetish art in the era of the internet, and how to support fetish-friendly artists.

Episode 17: An Interview With Copper

A very special guest joins Scott for Episode 19: Hunky porn star (PornHub's 2018 Top Bear Performer), and rugby jock Colby Jansen. Scott has been spanked by Colby twice now (and apparently there' s more to come). 

In the "Real Dudes Spankin' Real Dudes" segment, Colby talks about how he got into the porn scene, how he discovered he was into spanking and BDSM, his escort work, and some etiquette if you're looking to find an escort to help you fulfill your spanking fantasies.

In the "Fantasy Life of Spanking," Colby and Scott talk about how we all can push the major porn studios like Kink.com to maybe show a bit more spanking in their videos and the right way to give them feedback.

Want to see more of Colby? Check out his fan site here: https://onlyfans.com/colbyjansenxxx

Also, in other news, Scott is going to be attending Bad Ass Weekend in October in Augusta, Georgia. Several other of his podcast regulars will also be in attendance. There's still time to register. Information on the event here: http://bawevent.com/

Episode 19: Porn Star Colby Jansen Spanks and Tells

Podcast co-creator Brian/Croup returns for an episode because he and Scott just came back from a whirlwind spanking good vacation in Augusta, Georgia, for Bad Ass Weekend #9. They get into details about spankings, both delivered and received (and that includes Scott) and how amazing the entire event was. Y'all should consider going next year! Details about Bad Ass Weekend here: www.bawevent.com.

In other news, Scott has decided to take a spin at self-publishing some of his spanking fiction. An anthology of his early chapters of "Aaron's Game" are now available as a Kindle ebook for the low-low price of $2.99. Check it out here: https://www.amazon.com/dp/B07JFJSFCS

Episode 20

Episode 20: Bad Ass Weekend!

For episode 25, Scott is joined by the long-awaited straight dude! Cutter the Sourpatch Kid, who is on the board of the L.A. BDSM society Threshold, joins Scott to talk about why he likes spanking other dudes, the right way to approach heterosexual guys if you’re interested in spanking play with them, a bunch of things you SHOULDN’T do when approaching hetero dudes, and what fantasies straight dudes do and do not have.

More about the Threshold Society here: https://threshold.org/

Episode 25

Episode 25: Straight Dudes Spankin' Other Dudes!

What better way to celebrate ringing in the new year with a discussion of Adult Baby/Diaper Lovers (Or ABDL) and their connections to the spanking scene? Scott is joined by regular and Whappz co-founder Jaden and his buddy Richard, a member of both the ABDL and the spanking scene. We discuss what the two communities have in common and the opportunities for daddies out there in the spanking scene to find some guys in some firm need for discipline.

In other news, Camp Red Tails is back on for July! And Jaden and Scott give the latest update on how things are going with Hot Seat Retreat in March.

For more on Hot Seat Retreat and to register, visit the site here: www.hotseatps.com/

Episode 27: Baby New Year Needs a Stern Daddy

Finally, the caning episode! With the assistance of British guest Harrison, we talk about the well-known, well-worn British love of caning this episode. 

The Real Dudes Spankin’ Real Dudes section discusses caning techniques, things to do and not do, and what a caning feels like. 

The Fantasy Life of Spanking section discusses the British schoolboy fantasy, some of the history of caning in schools, and most importantly, how to bring those fantasies to life.

Also, Scott memorializes another prominent members of the dudes spankin’s dudes community who passed away in December. And we take a question about what implements you can use if you can’t make a lot of sound.

If you want to reach out to Harrison or check out his spanking videos—
Twitter: https://twitter.com/hotspotharrison
Clip store: http://clips4sale.com/studio/160647

Episode 35: Six of the Best

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