Today, I’m talking about something that hits close to home for so many of us: how to spark motivation on those days when you’re just not feeling it. Even though I’m ambitious by nature, there are days when motivation is tough to find. Whether it’s being stuck inside on a gorgeous summer day or just feeling bored with a routine that’s gotten stale, I know how hard it can be to get moving again. In this episode, I’m sharing my own experiences with these motivational slumps and the three things that have helped me get back on track. These are real, practical steps that can help you reignite that drive. If you’ve been struggling to find your groove, you’re in the right place. Show Highlights:  Seasonal triggers for low motivation and boredom. [00:49] Change your environment to jumpstart motivation. [03:08] How making shifts in physical space boosts creativity. [05:32] The power of decluttering to reorder energetics. [07:11] What’s in your intake of food, media, and company? [08:39] Set a back-to-basics reset plan for big results. [10:57] Change goals that have run their course. [13:53] Why letting go of dead goals should be guilt-free. [17:31] Find me on LinkedIn. [19:53]  Subscribe to the Brilliant Balance Weekly:  Follow Cherylanne on Instagram:  Join the Brilliant Balance Facebook Group:

How to Motivate Yourself When You're Just Not Feeling It

If you often catch yourself thinking, It’s just easier if I do it myself, this episode is for you. I’m sharing the truth behind why so many women try to do it all and how it’s holding us back from freedom and lasting happiness. I’ll share some of my own stories of control and explain how the drive to control often creates burnout and strained relationships….but guess what!&nbsp; We don’t have to stay stuck in that exhausting cycle. I’ll share the eye-opening concept of “locus of control” and what happens when our healthy sense of agency becomes overdeveloped and turns into hyper-control. I’m also giving you three practical steps you can start using today to relinquish some of that control and let trust and connection flourish in your life as it returns to balance. So, tune in and discover how redefining responsibility can create space for more brilliance and balance in your next chapter. Show Highlights:  Hyper-control and what it’s about. [01:08] Why do women universally conflate responsibility and control? [03:02] Discover the “locus of control” theory. [04:42] The downsides of an overdeveloped internal locus of control. [06:13] Who or what don’t you trust? [10:01] The transformative power of genuine trust. [12:17] Find others’ trustworthiness through micro-delegation. [13:59] Embrace the 80% rule for the joy of “done” over precision. [16:07] The power of the pause in sitting with discomfort. [17:10] An exercise to restore connection over perfection. [20:05]  Subscribe to the Brilliant Balance Weekly:  Follow Cherylanne on Instagram:  Join the Brilliant Balance Facebook Group:

The Surprising Truth About Why You Do It All

Today, I’m inviting you to shake up the routine of your daily life and revive the sparks of sheer delight, pleasure, and aliveness you may be missing lately. This week, I’m introducing the "Live a Little” challenge, a seven-day invitation to rediscover the small moments that make life truly worthwhile. From dancing in your kitchen to savoring a sunset or saying yes to that spontaneous treat, you’ll find practical ways to rekindle creativity, resilience and genuine joy. I’ll share science-backed insights on the power of positive emotions and challenge you to not just survive your days, but to truly feel good, right now. Follow along on Instagram (@cskolnicki) for inspiration, ideas, and a gentle push to live a little this summer—because your most brilliant life starts with the micro-moments you choose to savor. Show Highlights:  Find delight in simple spontaneity. [00:47] What if we rediscover everyday pleasures together this summer? [05:23] Positive affect and the science of feeling good. [08:07] Remembering that you are allowed to feel good. [09:41] Announcing the “Live a Little” challenge. [11:00] A list of simple ideas to spark delight. [12:59] The power of small stuff. [17:26] Spread the word. [19:12]  Subscribe to the Brilliant Balance Weekly:  Follow Cherylanne on Instagram:  Join the Brilliant Balance Facebook Group:

This summer, let's LIVE a little

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