Show Notes

A true trophy wife actually makes her husband feel well about himself, look well and has more of a sense of who he is and has more of a sense of greatness in his world.

Each person receiving from each other and contributing what they can.

The whole subject of trophy wife brings up a lot of judgment in people’s worlds- good or bad.

If you got to choose relationship, the contribution should be to make each other’s lives 10 times greater.

Trophy wife too is about the age difference, more than about the money.

Tool: Universe, what would it take to be surrounded by the most kind, conscious, happy, different, joyful, nurturing people on this planet? What will it take for them to show up? I asked for people who were really funny and interested in consciousness.

A trophy wife relationship  includes a kindness to facilitate somebody to have more of a self worth and more sense of themselves.

“Wanted to be a space for people to be everything they are.” - Dr. Anthony Mattis

“Got over my point of view about about the age difference after the third or fourth day, it then just became about the energy and the energetics of it. It just matched the future I was wanting to create.” - Dr. Anthony Mattis

“There were things that I have been made wrong for I have been made wrong for my entire life and there were things that I didn’t value about myself because I couldn’t see where it would fit in the entire world and you looked at it as me being a genius.” - Dr. Anthony Mattis

“You actually listened to the things I would say and actually acknowledge the depthness of it that I used to be teased for and I couldn’t see where it would fit in the world.” - Dr. Anthony Mattis

“When people get together I actually want everybody to thrive!”  - Dr. Anthony Mattis

“Are you truly being who you are? When people aren’t being who they are in the world, I can see what it does to their bodies too.”

Every relationship should be about all of us, creating a space to thrive and succeed and contribute to one another, gifting and receiving simultaneously. That Is a true trophy husband.

When you have a point of view about what it should look like, that’s when it gets twisted.

“You have taught me what it means to seek greatness, and what it means to care about others so much that you seek greatness for them.” - Julia Sotas Mattis.

When you try to coach a humanoid, motivate a humanoid, it doesn’t really work. They have to put up their walls and barriers and they have to separate from you.

My whole point of view as a child was “I just want to enjoy this life as best as possible and be the most I can fucking possibly be.”

Presumptive realities that if you chose it, others had to choose it with you.

Access Consciousness is the playground of possibilities.

Access Consciousness is an infrastructure, its like the central nervous system of me being able to be the space of being everything I am.

We’re all still work in progress but we were so much better and greater than we were.

Everything you always wanted to know about sex (but were afraid to ask) : movie to watch

If you have a relationship- How can I really contribute to this man all he can be?

If you’re single ask- Body who’s going to nurturing, what’s going to be nurturing? Thats the gift you be!

Episode 2 with Dr. Anthony Mattis

Julia Sotas is a Certified facilitator of the life changing modality, Access Consciousness®

www.juliasotas.com