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Mistakes Made in Our Family Life Part 03 by Hamzah Abdur-Razzaq

[01/10/2022] How To Live A Happy Life - By Abu Khadeejah ‘Abdul Wahid حفظه الله. Markaz Us-Sunnah Conference | London.

- The different ways in which people seek happiness.
- Remembering death.
- The sad existence of constantly being in a state of anxiety.
- The reason people chase the dunyā and busy themselves with constant entertainment. 
- That which will bring us happiness and joy. 
- Goals that every one of us should actively seek. 
- The inevitable questioning in the grave.
- The three main affairs happiness and contentment of the heart are built upon. 
- Prioritising what is most important in our lives.
- A warning against vain, selfie culture and seeking validation from others. 
- Evil traits cultivated in modern society and the detrimental outcomes.
- The real men and women of courage and piety we should emulate.
- Means that lead a person to happiness and contentment of the soul.
- The attitude of the noble believer who is content and joyous at the bounty of Allāh.
- The root and foundation of happiness.
- The “happiness” of the disbeliever vs the happiness and contentment of the believer.
- The fruits of embracing īmān and following the Book and the Sunnah in times of affliction.
- Constantly supplicating to Allāh and having certainty that He will answer.
- The attitude of the believer in times of ease and calamity. 
- Encouragement to marry young. 
- Loving for Allāh.
- An encouragement to build families and migrate to the lands of the Muslims. 

Questions:

1. Is watching anime cartoons ḥarām, as they contain shirk and reading minds etc?
2. The ruling on saying Bismillāh in the toilet if you need to make wudū’.
3. Advice on marrying a non-Salafī sister if you think you can give her da’wah.
4. Can I pray ‘Ishā from 12 midnight to Fajr, and is there a time when ‘Ishā ends?
5. Can I work for a finance company as a sales broker? 
6. What do you do with money from something ḥarām after you find out it is ḥarām?
7. Is plucking your beard by hand a major sin? 
8. Are we allowed to wait outside for the khuṭbah at a non-Salafī masjid?
9.  Question regarding ‘Dawah Man’ and his new ‘club’.

Markaz Sunnah Conference

How To Live A Happy Life By Abu Khadeejah 01102022

10 Ways To Attain Blessings And Increase In Your Rizq  - By Shaykh 'Abdulilah Lahmami  حفظه الله

[02/02/2024] Avoid the Causes that Lead to Talaq (Divorce) - By Abu Khadeejah ‘Abdul Wahid حفظه الله. Khuṭbah at Masjid Salafi, Small Heath, Birmingham, UK.

Some points discussed during this Khuṭbah:

- The calamity of divorce becoming increasingly widespread in Muslim communities in these times.
- The reason Ahlus-Sunnah, especially the righteous, deal with discord better than the people of desires and sins.
- The importance of cautioning people from the dangers of divorce and its negative outcomes.
- Encouragement from the Book of Allāh for spouses to live in goodness and close the avenues of divorce.
- The Messenger’s ﷺ command for men to take care of their women in a goodly manner.
- The patience and tolerance of ‘Umar regarding how he dealt with his wife and advised his daughter (رضى الله عنهم).
- The inevitability of discord, and the course of action when it occurs.
- The terrible effect of divorce upon the children.
- Iblīs’ love for families to be destroyed. 
- Admonition for the women who mistreat their husbands and unjustly pursue divorce.
- Eight causes of discord that lead to divorce:
- 1. Not taking care in the first year of marriage. 
- Preventing future harm by asking the right questions before marriage, and examples of questions that should be asked.
- 2. Evil eye or magic.
- A sign that a marriage has been afflicted with evil eye or magic.
- Means of protecting oneself and one’s spouse from these evils.
- 3. Some husbands do not take the responsibility of the family and married life seriously. 
- The obligation for men to provide for, nurture and protect their families. 
- 4. They do not share the responsibility in nurturing and raising the children.
- The necessity of both parents working together to raise their children. 
- 5. The husband always being out of the home, even after work.
- Likewise the woman always being out of the home or wasting time on her phone.
- The importance of spending time together.
- 6. The constant interference of in-laws and relatives.
- Being on guard regarding irreligious and sinful relatives.  
- 7. The wife overburdens her husband beyond his ability.
- A warning against disobeying one’s husband due to being discontented, and encouragement to be patient, supportive and content.
- 8. The man takes custody of the wealth of his wife.
- Actions that are not acceptable from a man towards his wife.
- The Messenger’s ﷺ address to his camel driver Anjashah to be gentle when driving the camels that carry the fragile vessels (i.e. the women). 
- Advice to men to take care regarding how they interact with women.
- Qualities parents should be instilling in their daughters.
- Striving to make the relationship work when discord arises.
- Seeking marital advice and making du’ā for ourselves and our spouses.

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Avoid the Causes that Lead to Divorce - By Abu Khadeejah

10 Reasons That Prevent a Person From Implementing Their Knowledge— Uways At-Ṭaweel 

- A warning against not acting in accordance to one’s knowledge.  
- Statements from al-Khaṭīb al-Baghdādī, Sahl at-Tustarī and Fuḍayl b. ‘Iyāḍ (رحمهم الله) on acting upon one’s knowledge. 
- Ten barriers in implementing the knowledge Allāh has blessed us with:
- 1. Not knowing that knowledge is for the betterment of the individual and is a delight and happiness.
- The great reward for those who implemented their knowledge. 
- Statements from Sahl b. ‘Abdillāh, an-Naḍr b. Shumayl, Abūl-Qāsim al-Junayd and Aḥmad b. ‘Aṭā’ ar-Rūdhabārī (رحمهم الله) regarding the fruits and essence of knowledge. 
- 2. The heart does not deserve to have it.
- The home of knowledge.
- Examples from the Qur’ān regarding the heart that does not accept or implement knowledge. 
- The three types of hearts. 
- The two avenues to the heart. 
- As-Sa’dī (رحمه الله) on the meaning of ‘fiqh’.
- Ibn Kathīr (رحمه الله) on the verse, “…They have hearts with which they do not understand, they have eyes with which they do not see, and they have ears with which they do not hear…” [Sūrah al-A’rāf 7:179] 
- Ḥasan al-Baṣrī (رحمه الله) on the four signs of sorrow. 
- Imām Mālik (رحمه الله) on the punishment of having a hard heart. 
- 3. Destructive envy and arrogance.
- How arrogance and envy lead Iblīs to sins, the Yahūd to reject the Messenger ﷺ, and prevented ‘Abdullāh b. Ubayy and Abū Jahl from embracing Islām. 
- 4. [Fear of jeopardising one’s] position and status.
- The example of Hiraql and Fir’awn in this regard. 
- Abūl-Wafā’ ‘Alī b. ‘Aqīl al-Ḥanbalī (رحمه الله) on harmful distractions that lead to a person’s downfall. 
- 5. Desires and wealth.
- Al-Ḥāfiẓ Ibn Rajab’s (رحمه الله) definition of desires.  
- Abūl-Mudhaffar as-Sam’ānī (رحمه الله) on those who gave precedence to their desires over the revelation. 
- The example of the poet al-A’shā and how he died upon disbelief due to giving precedence to his desires. 
- The four pillars of all despicable characteristics.  
- Ibn Taymiyyah (رحمه الله) on how following desires diverts a person from the primary objective. 
- 6. Excessive love for your family, relatives and tribes.
- The obligation of giving precedence to love of the Messenger ﷺ. 
- 7. Loving your country and homeland. 
- A warning against giving precedence to one’s tribe or homeland over fleeing to Allāh and obeying the Messenger ﷺ. 
- 8. The doubt that following Islām is disparagement and disrespect directed at your parents and forefathers.
- How this caused Abū Ṭālib to die upon disbelief despite knowing the Messenger ﷺ was upon the truth. 
- Lines of poetry composed by Abū Ṭālib expressing what prevented him from following the Messenger ﷺ. 
- 9. Your enemy is a follower of the Messenger of Allāh ﷺ. 
- Why loving and hating has to be for the sake of Allāh (عز وجل).
- The Jews’ refusal to accept Islām due to their enmity for the Anṣār. 
- 10. Familiarity, habit and upbringing.
- A warning against allowing our upbringing to overwhelm our knowledge and prevent us from acting upon it. 
- Striving to be from those who yearn to acquire knowledge of the revelation and act upon it.  
- Summary of the reasons for rejecting the truth and not acting in accordance to it. 
- The obligation upon every Muslim to seek knowledge. 


10 Reasons That Prevent a Person From Implementing Their Knowledge By Uways at-Taweel

Khutbah: Seeing Allah in the Afterlife

Adwa 'Al-Bayan Fi Idah Al- Quran Bil-Quran Lesson 4

A Continuation of the On-going Tafseer Ibn Katheer Lesson

Tafseer Ibn Katheer - Suratul An'aam Ay 112-113

The Three Signs of Happiness - Explanation by Imam 'Abdul 'Azeez bin Baz رحمه الله - Read by By Shaykh 'Abdulilah Lahmami حفظه الله

A continuation of our on-going Tafseer Ibn Katheer Lesson

Tafseer Ibn Katheer Suratul An'aam Ay 136-137

Very beneficial lesson refuting the false ideology of atheism

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Atheism – Causes and Cures

Atheism : Causes and Cures - Part 1

Points of Benefits: 

Mentioning the conditions of the prayer

1. Islam and its opposite is kufr 

2. Sanity and its opposite is insanity

3. Age of distinction and its opposite is childhood

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