Ten Years of Game Tips

Playful negs. Another great track by Lovedrop.

[Track 07-01]

"Don’t make me come down there!"

Lovedrop explains the psychology of female shit tests.

"Being dominant and having a strong frame, having control of the frame, is sexually attractive to women. The truth is that people are constantly playing frame games with each other. Men and women. Men are constantly vying for dominance with each other. Women are constantly testing men.

It's kind of interesting, because from a woman's perspective, she wins either way. If she tries to frame control a guy and she wins -- hold my purse, go get me a drink -- of course it's not sexually attractive to her, but it's still good, it still gets her access to resources, it gets her a little orbiter running around doing her bidding. And so she's going to be happy either way. If you fail the test and she gains control of the frame, then she's gained another pawn, which is good for her. Whereas if you win the test and gain control of the frame and become dominant, then she's going to find it more sexually attractive. That's what she's testing for, she's testing for strength.

Think about it for a second. If you're not strong enough to stand up against her, how can you possibly be strong enough to stand up against the big bad world, to protect her while she's pregnant and to protect her and her offspring.

Women don't have to be conscience of this. She doesn't have to logically understand how it works. She may not even believe it. That's completely irrelevant. As long as her behavior matches up, that's all that matters."

[from disc 4 track 17]


Lovedrop explains shit tests

"At some point in the game, before you sleep with a girl, you definitely have to convey to her a willingness to walk off, as if it were no big deal whatsoever. If she feels that you're a little too clingy, your value drops through the floor and it's over." -Lovedrop 

[from disc 4 track 17]

The willingness to walk

Lovedrop on fake IOIs:

You have to be careful. Girls will fake interest. She’s testing for your response, to see how eager you are. Well if you're super eager, what does that tell her? Oh, low value guy, never gets laid.

If she sees that he’s NOT eager, and he’s sort of holding back, the fact that he’s not easy shows that he has a lot of choice. She’s going to think, oh he must have a lot of girls.


[from track 06-03]

If you are super eager, what does that tell her?

"The most crucial thing about teasing is that it creates this childlike atmosphere between you both. And you can’t get a better, you can't get a deeper rapport and a deeper connection than a childlike, in the moment vibe." -Yad 

Why is it so important to tease her?

"They want guys that are almost going to talk down to them. They don’t want guys that are kissing their ass."

Jon Matrix on Teasing & Challenging

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