Tracks and Features

Sweat Equity is thrilled to present the debut single of Michigan-born, New York based musician, artist, DJ and meme admin Boyfriend.dick, the razor-sharp, club-ready “Community Guidelines.” Following up a string of performances, gallery shows, and ongoing digital projects, “Community Guidelines” sees him challenging the current censorship policies of social media platforms, particularly towards queer culture and identities. 

After graduating with a degree in Sociology, BFD moved to New York City to pursue a full-time practice, and quickly found fertile ground. He’s performed across New York and released several projects under the name Goon Soul, including Less Than a Year (2016), Holding (2018), and LIKABLE (with VIGILETTI, 2019). As a performance artist he has been featured in works including Young Boy Dancing Group (OCD Chinatown, 2019), Authority Figure (Knockdown Center, 2016), INNIE (Otion Front Residency, 2017), and most recently showcased a solo performance called BOYFRIEND.DICK’S ENDLESS SCROLL (Highland Park, 2020). He has also recently walked in fashion shows for Barragán Spring ’21, NHIL Men’s Fall ’20, and Willie Norris Fall ’19. He has also produced a range of editions works, most notably a limited edition Boyfriend.dick Tarot Deck, which is a modern take on the tradition of tarot which uses the visual language of memes to represent its archetypes

Under his debut single for the Boyfriend.dick project, this relentless creative drive finds new territory without losing any of the artist’s urgency and character. Over the past two years, he grew a personal finsta into a public meme platform with a following of 60k+, adapting a Discord page for queers from around the world to share memes, news, advice, hentai, nudes, and more, creating a vital community platform that found increasing importance during the isolation and emotional fallout of the Covid-19 outbreak. But that same vitality and growth became a target for Instagram’s Community Guidelines bots, and was shut down last year, separating the many followers who had found a space for connection and community. 

“Community Guidelines” responds in appropriately direct fashion, spinning a string of “censored” sexual allusions over a searing club rhythm, a percussive two minute workout that’s equal parts ribald and righteous, asserting a pride and coy subversion of censorship that never loses sight of keeping the bodies moving, 

The release drops March 4th.

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Boyfriend.dick - Community Guidelines

Demon Time feat. Boyfriend Dick

Ketamine Girl uses the hook of Aqua's 90's pop-hit, Barbie Girl, to tap into the ketamine culture of the queer rave scene in Brooklyn. This bedroom-club bop provokes a sonic k-hole through a combination of dance rhythms and tight pop vocals.

Art by Nino Cadeau: instagram.com/ninocadeau
Designed by Boyfriend Dick

Buy on Bandcamp:
https://boyfrienddick.bandcamp.com/track/ketamine-girl
Find on other platforms: 
https://songwhip.com/boyfrienddick/ketamine-girl

Lyrics:
Ketamine girl
In a cocaine world
Lifes a k-hole
But I'm an angel
Take another bump
And now I'm feeling up
Dissociation
Lifes a simulation

She's a doll, raver queen
Cover girl, finsta meme
She's a muse for the scene
Gets whatever she needs
She's a thot, she's a hoe
Self proclaimed, so it goes
She gets dick, she gets weed
She gets money
(She gets money, yea)

I see her grab her kundle
From her Telfar bag
(You know she bad)
She always check her phone
But never text you back
(Cos she stay she mad)
That tattoo on her neck
It doesn't mean one thing
(The fuck she gives)
She on her own dick
She got her own bag

Ketamine girl
In a cocaine world
Lifes a k-hole
But I'm an angel
Take another bump
And now I'm feeling up
Dissociation
Lifes a simulation

Ah ah ah yea
Oo oh oo

Laying down on the couch
With a wide open mouth
Did a bump then a line
In the bathroom
She is lost, lucid dream
Swimming out into sea
Jelly fish floating round
In the ocean
Under stars, under water
In between death and life
Sinking down into water
I am lost then i arrive

I heard it cures depression
I heard a k-holes forever
I heard it's only for horses
I heard it's only for junkies
Do you know where i can cop some?
Can you give me the number
To your Bushwisk dealer
That would be so cool

Ketamine girl
In a cocaine world
Lifes a k-hole
But I'm an angel
Take another bump
And now I'm feeling up
Dissociation
Lifes a simulation

Ah ah ah yea
She's a ketamine girl
In a cocaine world
She's a ketamine girl
Oo oh oo
She's a ketamine girl
Ah ah ah yea
Oo oh oo
She's a ketamine girl
Ah ah ah yea
Oo oh oo

Ketamine Girl

@youmeusdey
@tttara
@venisonman

Buy To Hell on Bandcamp: https://youmeusdey.bandcamp.com/

DEY - Witch Of The Waste (Boyfriend Dick Remix)

palestine will be free

https://boyfrienddick.bandcamp.com/album/humble-brag-ep

Humble Brag EP

Praise Kink

Buy on Bandcamp: https://boyfrienddick.bandcamp.com/track/dick-from-a-friend
Listen on other streaming platforms: https://tr.ee/SxUPclOJD_

Stream

Dick From a Friend

Produced by Craig Barnes - @lieflets + @cbsteg
http://www.cb-sound.com/

For The Fuck Of It

Track Produced by Deniro Elliott
Vocals and Lyrics by Caleb Kruzel

Say You Mean It


blues, lose under my skin
blooming like a hue
a water color drip

rouge, lose under my skin 
spreading like a lake
oozing from the brim

oh, baby how’d you make me hurt?
you melted up the wax
and threw me to the earth 

lavender and dandelion
marking up my skin

truth, that’s a real good question
the lessons in the vessel
wrestling my temple

new, like Brooklyn on a Sunday
speeding up the side streets 
healing the rebel

lavender and dandelion
marking up my skin

bruise, fading into day time
hasta luego
no more divination

lavender & dandelion

Follow on Spotify: https://play.spotify.com/artist/127zduc01Bjj2qjewy9gMQ

Cover of 'Them Changes' by Thundercat + @brainfeeder

Produced by Craig Barnes, @cbsteg + @lieflets

MUSIC VIDEO: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=SVsqtNte1_g

Them Changes (Thundercat Cover)

I LOST IT

Good

Lavender

𝔣𝔲𝔱𝔲𝔯𝔢:

Bookings: theeboyfrienddick@gmail.com

Party thrower for WORKWEAR in NYC  / DANCE HARDER! in Detroit <3

𝔭𝔞𝔰𝔱:
[2024]
CHI 3/14 - Messy Boucoup
DET 12/28 - KRAMPUS NIGHT @ Eagle Detroit
NYC 12/20 - DIET COCK @ The Cock
NYC 12/13 - Dance Planet @ Paragon
NYC 11/30 - WORKWEAR @ Bossa
NYC 10/31 - Diabolique @ Deux Chat
NYC 10/26 - Intimia Halloween @ Market Hotel
URL 10/22 - w/ Nick Boyd @ The Lot Radio 
NYC 10/18 - Friday @ Beverly's 
NYC 10/11 - WORKWEAR @ RASH NYC
DET 09/05 - Digging Deep @ The Eagle
DET 08/09 - DANCE HARDER! @ Marble Bar
CHI 08/03 - Witch Finger @ TBA
NYC 07/18 - DonKEY @ Red Eye NYC
NYC 07/12 - WORKWEAR @ RASH NYC
NYC 07/06 - Fourth World @ Brooklyn Meadows
MPLS 06/29 - Pride @ Eagle MPLS 
DET 06/20 - Thursday @ Eagle Detroit
DET 06/08 - XOXR @ TV Lounge 
DET 06/08 - Village Pride @ Redhook Detroit
DET 05/04 - Afters @ The Eagle Detroit
DET 04/27 - Chaotic Neutral @ Olympus Theater
DET 04/20 - DANCE HARDER! @ Leland City Club
SF 04/07 - Swagger Like Us @ El Rio
LA 04/06 - Zine Party @ Silverlake Lounge
SEA 03/29 - Gaytrix @ Kremwerk
NYC 03/14 - Party Planner @ Nowadays
NYC 03/15 - BFD & Friends @ Happyfun Hideaway
NYC 02/16 - Papi Juice @ Elsewhere
NYC 02/17 - BFD & Friends @ Happyfun Hideaway
NYC 02/18 - STUDFINDER @ The Cock
DET 02/11 - Foggy Sundays @ Spkrbox
DET 02/10 - XOXR @ The High Dive

[2023]
NYC 12/29 - For LSDXOXO @ Market Hotel
NYC 12/17 - WORKWEAR @ Bossa Nova
NYC 11/24 -  w/ Sorry Records @ Lot Radio
NYC 11/17 -  DietCock @ The Cock
NYC 10/22 - B2b Sevyn0000 @ Bossa Nova 
NYC 8/25 - BFD & Friends @ Happyfun
NYC 8/03 - Taco Fantasy @ The Breakers
NYC 7/23 - WORKWEAR @ Bossa Nova 
NYC 7/12 - Smooth Brained @ Bossa Nova
SF 6/23 - Swagger @ 1015 Folsom
SF 6/25 - Pride Happy Hour @ Arcana SF
SF 6/22 - Provocateur @ Audio Night Club
LA 4/22 - HELIXXX @ Grand Star Jazz Club
SF 4/02 - Swagger Like Us @ El Rio
OAK 4/01 - Rave @ Machine Works
PDX 3/25 - Fake & Gay @ No Requests
SF 3/24 - Fake & Gay @ Great Northern
LA 3/18 - BLUSH @ Ace Hotel DTLA
NYC 3/11 - Meat Market @ Market Hotel 
DET 2/14 - WORKWEAR @ Leeland City Club
NYC 2/04 - w/ BEARCAT + MRCT@ Paragon 
NYC 2/02 - Devs Bday @ Parkside Lounge
NYC 1/27 - WORKWEAR @ Happyfun

[2022]
CHI 12/3 - w/ Ariel Zetina @ Podlasie Club
DET 12/10 - XOXR @ High Dive
PGH 11/19 - ETLT @ Cobra
NYC 10/14 - Escape @ Paragon 
NYC 10/1 - Hot & Ready @ Bossa Nova Civic Club
NYC 9/30 - Bushwick Famous @ Happyfun
NYC 7/17 - Siren @ Rooftop Presents
NYC 6/30 - Rooftop @ Honey's
NYC 6/25 - Pride @ Paragon
MTL 6/17 - Unikorn @ Mural Festival
MTL 6/17 - Spiral @ Union Française de Montréal
NYC 6/10 - Spilled Milk @ Club Musica
URL 6/1 - Sweat Equity Pride @ The Lot Radio
NYC 5/21 - Sksksks @ h0l0
NYC 5/18 - High & Tight @ The Cock
NYC 5/6 - ESCAPE @ Paragon
NYC 4/23 - Boyfriend.dick @ Happyfun Hideaway
NYC 4/20 - For Julio Torres @ 3 Dollar Bill
NYC 4/08 - For Macy Rodman @ C'mon Everybody
LA 3/14 - WERKWEAR @ Akbar 
LA 3/15 - Chardogay @ El Prado 
SF 3/05 - Bimboz @ Powerhaus 
SF 3/04 - Fake&Gay / Squish @ Monument
NYC 2/02 - WERKWEAR @ Happyfun Hideaway
NYC 1/15 - Boyfriend.dick @ Happyfun Hideaway

[2021]
NYC 12/11 - w/ Morenxxx @ Happyfun Hideaway
NYC 11/29 - Hot&Ready @ Bossa Nova Civic Club
NYC 11/6 - Boyfriend.dick @ Happyfun Hideaway