Is it dating? Is it just a hookup? Or is it something in between? as long as she cums first, it doesn’t matter.

she cums first

part diary, part therapy session, part chaotic overshare. you’re welcome.


smother me with kisses and cuddles! casually dating! travel a lot, especially to NYC! working on my book and dating podcast, wanna be on it?

ig - notlydiag

I've been DJing off and on since the 80s, got serious during covid and started to record and post weekly sets. I've an odd format - I pick 16 new tracks each week, mostly from ZipDJ, and put them together to make a set, I don't pick tracks which go together, just what I really like. Making them flow is often a real challenge. I love sharing the music I love.

My set descriptions are often about my journey of healing.

Track lists give full credit to artists, remixers and labels. Never an ID!


Captivating the underground house scene, this DJ is a master at weaving together 16 fresh tracks of underground house each week, delivering a live set that's recorded and shared with the world on SoundCloud. 

A true aficionado of the genre, his mixes explore the depths of underground house, including progressive, deep, tech, and minimal styles. Their signature style can be described as a spacey, trippy, and flowing journey that effortlessly spans various subgenres, taking listeners on a sonic odyssey that transcends the mere concept of a setlist.

The roots of this sound are deep and nourishing, sprouting from a childhood home reverberating with the sounds of big band, jazz, showtunes, classical, and the pop and rock anthems of the 1960s. This diverse musical upbringing birthed an eclectic taste in the young DJ, who, as a teenager, was magnetically drawn to the burgeoning world of electronic music. The 1980s saw them at the heart of the scene, spinning tracks at house parties and crafting mixtapes that were the analog precursors to today's playlists.

A pivotal relocation to the UK in 2010 marked the discovery of a new realm of sound—underground house music. This discovery was not just a step but a leap into a world that resonated with their very being, influencing not just their music choices but also defining their identity as a DJ. From past to present, their biography isn't just a tale of beats and tunes, but a chronicle of an ever-evolving love affair with music that beats at the heart of the underground scene.

she cums first

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