You don’t have to choose between being the nice guy or the bad boy. In fact, the men women chase the hardest are kind and dangerous. In this video, I’ll show you how to develop both sides — the emotional intelligence that makes you trustworthy and the edge that makes you unforgettable.

We’ll break down:

Why being just the nice guy makes you invisible

Why being just the bad boy makes you unstable

How to create the perfect polarity that draws women in

Real-world examples you can model today


If you’ve ever struggled with women losing interest after a few dates, this video will show you why — and how to fix it by becoming the man she didn’t think existed.

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#459 - How to Be the Nice Guy AND the Bad Boy She Wants

In this video, I open up about a personal identity shift I've been going through — what it feels like, what it's revealing, and how it's reshaping the way I think, work, and create.

I also share my growing frustrations with mainstream content: the surface-level advice, the recycled trends, the lack of depth and truth. If you're someone who feels disconnected from the noise and wants something real, this might resonate.

Lastly, I speak honestly about where I’m at today — no filters, no fluff — just the truth of how I feel, what I’m questioning, and what I’m choosing to pursue next.

Whether you’re on your own journey of change or just feeling disillusioned with the world of content, I hope this gives you something to reflect on.

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#460 - Identity Shift, My Frustrations with Mainstream Content & My Truth of Today

You cross-train your fitness to become stronger, more flexible, and better overall — so why aren’t you doing the same in your dating life?

In this video, I break down exactly how to cross-train your dating skills step-by-step. From social confidence to emotional resilience, I walk you through practical strategies to develop every area of your dating life — just like you would if you were training for peak physical performance.

If you're only focusing on one aspect (like texting or looks), you're leaving massive results on the table. Real growth comes when you train across multiple areas: conversation, mindset, emotional control, flirting, presence, leadership, and more.

Watch now and start building a dating life that’s strong in every direction.

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#461 - Why You MUST Cross-train Your Dating Life...

Your dating life isn’t just shaped by what you say or do — it’s shaped by what you never questioned.
If you grew up believing emotional neglect, dismissal, or constant criticism was normal… it still runs your adult relationships.

In this video, I’ll break down:

How "normal" childhoods can quietly sabotage your ability to connect

Why unprocessed emotional experiences resurface in dating as neediness, fear, or avoidance

A practical way to revisit your past without getting stuck in it

How to reclaim emotional clarity, confidence, and self-respect


This is not about blame. It’s about seeing clearly — because until you do, your dating patterns will keep repeating.

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#462 - Your Childhood Was Not Normal & That’s Why You’re Still Stuck in Your Dating Life

In this video, I break down the truth about anxiety most people avoid: it thrives in stillness. When you feel anxious, overwhelmed, or stuck — the solution is not to overthink or wait for motivation. It’s to move. To do something. Anything.

I share simple, real-life intervention tools that work immediately — from pressing play on your favourite song to doing ten press-ups, or just reading one page of a book. These aren’t hacks. They’re interruptions — a way to break the mental loop and return to calm, grounded action.

If you’ve been feeling anxious and don’t know where to start, this video is your first step. Watch it now — and move.

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#463 - Feeling Anxious? Do Anything But This...

Daygame — meeting women during the day — can feel intimidating if you overcomplicate it. But it doesn’t have to be that way.

In this video, I break down a simple, step-by-step approach that works whether you're a complete beginner or someone looking to sharpen your skills.

You’ll learn:
• How to start a natural conversation without pressure
• The mindset that makes daytime approaches feel normal
• A structure you can follow today, even if you've never done this before
• Why this works in coffee shops, parks, bookstores, or just walking down the street

No gimmicks. No pickup lines. Just a real-world system you can use to confidently meet women in your everyday life.

If you’ve ever thought Day Game was only for confident guys — this will change your mind.


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#464 - A Simple Daygame Approach Anyone Can Use...

Is approaching women during the day creepy?

In this video, I tackle that question directly — and break down the behaviours that actually do come across as creepy, and how to avoid them.

You’ll learn:
• The difference between confident and creepy behaviour
• What women actually respond to during daygame
• How to approach in a calibrated, respectful way
• The common mistakes that make guys feel awkward or rejected

If you’ve ever felt unsure about talking to women in real life, this video will show you how to approach the right way — without fear, awkwardness, or weird energy.

Daygame isn’t creepy… unless you are. Here’s how to do it properly.

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#465 - Is Daygame Creepy?

If you constantly feel like you’re pushing against stress, this video will change your perspective.

In this episode, I break down why trying to beat stress only fuels it — and how the real answer lies in replacing your go-to stress habits with small acts of calm. From mindset shifts inspired by the myth of Sisyphus, to practical steps you can take in the moment — this is about learning how to stop resisting your emotions and start responding to them with power.

You’ll learn:

Why acceptance can be more effective than control

The quick interventions I use to break anxiety loops

How to build a calming routine without losing drive


Whether you're feeling stuck, tense, or burnt out, this is how to reset and return to your strongest self — without needing a perfect plan.

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#466 - How to Stop Fighting Stress & Finally Feel Calm...

In this video, I explain how to break women out of conversational autopilot — where they're nodding along but not truly engaged — and how to get them fully present and emotionally connected to you.

Most men don’t realise that when a woman says “yeah… cool,” she’s already mentally checked out. If you want her full attention, you need to speak in a way that’s relevant to her, not just rattle off your own stories or opinions.

I’ll walk you through exactly how to shift her state, add contrast to your conversation, and become the man she can’t help but pay attention to. Whether you’re a beginner or advanced in dating, this will help you create powerful, memorable interactions that lead somewhere real.

If you’ve ever felt like she’s there physically but not really listening — this video is for you.

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#467 - How to Make Her Snap Out of Autopilot & Pay Full Attention to You

Most men overcomplicate first dates — or worse, wing it without a plan. In this video, I break down the three elements that make a first date not just good, but unforgettable: intrigue, comfort, and logistics.

You’ll learn how to spark curiosity so she’s leaning in, create an atmosphere where she feels relaxed and drawn to you, and handle the practical details so the date flows naturally from start to finish.

Whether you’re new to dating or looking to sharpen your skills, these principles will help you date like a pro and dramatically increase your chances of getting a second date.

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#468 - 3 First-Date Mistakes Every Guy Makes..

My name is Gary Gunn, and in this podcast, I will save you thousands of hours of pain, frustration and isolation in your dating life.

I will give you tried and tested dating advice that will make you a more confident, more attractive and a more desired man. 

I will show you how to transform your dating life, one podcast episode at a time, and more importantly, have some fun on your journey.

#468 - 3 First-Date Mistakes Every Guy Makes..

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