If someone says something to you from anger or is angry towards you, how do you handle it? How often is the response to do fear? To be small? To be less than? Where does that come from and what else is available?

Find out more about anger and other distractions in my bookclub for "Living Beyond Distraction" by Gary Douglas and Dr. Dain Heer here: https://www.john-wheeler.com/events/living-beyond-distraction-bookclub-revisited

Are you reacting to anger with fear?

Anger is one thing people use for control. When someone does anger with you don't make it personal. In relationships, especially parenting, know who is in control when and how it works. But do you have to do anger to be potent or powerful? And, does apology make you less?

Find out more about anger and other distractions in my bookclub for "Living Beyond Distraction" by Gary Douglas and Dr. Dain Heer here: https://www.john-wheeler.com/events/living-beyond-distraction-bookclub-revisited

How to Address Anger in Relationships

One of the greatest powers you have is being interesting point of view with everything going on in the world around. What gets us stuck is the avoidance and defense of those points of view. It's not about the point of view. So what are you avoiding and defending in your life?

Find out more about avoiding, defending, anger and other distractions in my bookclub for "Living Beyond Distraction" by Gary Douglas and Dr. Dain Heer here: https://www.john-wheeler.com/events/living-beyond-distraction-bookclub-revisited

Interesting Point of View with Anger

Everything that's in your life right now is something you've created. It can be a hard pill to swallow but if you acknowledge that it's true there is a hidden level of power. You get the awareness that you can create your life. So, what are you creating right now?

Find out more about choice, anger and other distractions in my bookclub for "Living Beyond Distraction" by Gary Douglas and Dr. Dain Heer here: https://www.john-wheeler.com/events/living-beyond-distraction-bookclub-revisited

Do you create your life?

"Energy pulls are the fertilizer that makes your garden grow." ~ Gary Douglas

What distracts you...
- from tending your garden?
- from creating the future you desire?
- from having the life you'd like to have?

Will you join me for a five experience of the energetics involved in getting anything you desire?

Register here: https://www.john-wheeler.com/events/out-of-distraction-into-action-a-five-day-energy-pull-experience

Out Of Distraction Into Action Energy Pull

Gaslighting a devenit un cuvânt la modă și toată lumea vorbește despre asta, dar cine știe cu adevărat ce este? Când vine vorba de a crea o viață care merită trăită pentru tine, acesta este unul dintre modurile în care ne permitem să fim sub efectul celuilalt și să creăm un sentiment de îndoială de sine.

1) Iluminarea cu gaz este o utilizare sistemică a manipulării care este adesea subtilă.
2) Se întâmplă atât de des și atât de subtil încât adesea nu știi că are loc.
3) Conceput pentru a vă face să vă reorientați viața în jurul acestei alte persoane și a adevărului ei.
4) Adesea devine o funcție de bază a relațiilor tale.
Iluminarea cu gaz poate apărea în toate relațiile, inclusiv relațiile romantice, la locul de muncă și instituțiile/organizațiile religioase.
5) Scopul principal este de a vă face să vă pierdeți simțul de sine.

Exercițiu:
Acordă-ți timp să reflectezi asupra diferitelor mesaje pe care le-ai primit de la alți oameni și de la tine. Te-au împuternicit și te-au invitat la ceva mai mult? Sau sunt concepute astfel încât să te facă să te îndoiești de tine și să facă acea persoană, proiect sau companie mai mare decât tine? Din nou, nu este vorba să lupți și să-l judeci, ci doar să recunoști cum a arătat de-a lungul vieții tale.

Vrei mai multe despre acest subiect? Alăturați-vă mie la un atelier de 2 zile despre „Opreşte Gazul din Gaslighting” pe 15 octombrie 2022. Pentru detalii complete, vă rugăm să vizitați www.john-wheeler.com/gaslighting

Gaslighting...ce este?

This album contains clips from the Sex is Not a Four Letter Word book club I facilitated in May 2025

Embodiment What Is It?

When the world seems so intense, violent, and out of control, how much peace will you allow in your Universe?


If you're anything like me, you're probably having a hard time watching the events taking place around the world. But what I've been discovering lately is all the places where the possibility of peace is hiding, if we could simply acknowledge them. 


Would you like to be an invitation to more peace in the world? Download the full 5 day series here: https://www.john-wheeler.com/product-page/pulls-for-peace-round-1

Day 1 Energy Pull - Pulls for Peace

In the first week of June, a group of us took a deep dive into peace. Now we're going for a second round!


When the world seems so intense, violent, and out of control, how much peace will you allow in your Universe?

If you're anything like me, you're probably having a hard time watching the events taking place around the world. But what I've been discovering lately is all the places where the possibility of peace is hiding, if we could simply acknowledge them. 


Join me for another 5 days and let's invite the possibilities of peace to the world.
https://www.john-wheeler.com/events/pulls-for-peace-round-2-5-day-pull-series

Day 4 - Pulls for Peace Round 2

Hello, I am John Wheeler! Certified empowerment coach, Access Consciousness® Certified Facilitator and licensed professional counselor.

I offer group and personal services designed to create a space for YOU to get clear on your limitations, determine what you desire in life and make a plan to begin creating the life you know is truly possible! 

Have you ever acknowledged how different you are? Do you know that there is something available for you that is far greater than anything you've chosen so far? 

I know from my many years of experience that there is nothing you cannot overcome so long as you do not give up! To work with me is to add someone to your life that will always have your back, be willing to contribute to anything you create and inviting even more awareness, possibility and choice into your life! How does it get any better than that?

Are you ready to find out?