In this episode of the Cultivate Calmness Podcast, Kaela explores the profound feeling of being "alone" during difficult times, even when surrounded by supportive people. Drawing on the classic poem "Footprints in the Sand," she reflects on how God’s presence remains with us, especially during the darkest moments of our lives. Kaela shares personal insights from her own journey of faith and experiences with clients, emphasizing that despite feeling isolated in our struggles, we are never truly alone—God walks with us through it all. This episode provides comfort for those wrestling with pain, grief, or trauma, offering a gentle reminder that we are seen, loved, and never abandoned.

Episode #80 - Feeling Alone: Finding God in the Darkest Moments

In this episode of the Cultivate Calmness Podcast, Kaela shares the joys of springtime in Ohio and the benefits of spending time outdoors for both physical and mental wellness. She discusses how gardening, grounding, and soaking up the sun can improve mood, boost immunity, and enhance overall well-being. Kaela also emphasizes the importance of taking breaks throughout the day, whether by walking outside during a work break or eating meals in the fresh air. She offers practical ideas for getting outside more and making the most of the sunny days ahead to nourish your body, mind, and spirit.

Episode #81 - Spring Into Health: Connecting with Nature for Wellness

In today’s episode of Cultivate Calmness, Kaela delves into the science of negative thought patterns, or "cognitive distortions," and offers practical tips for shifting those patterns. She discusses the connection between thoughts, feelings, and behaviors, introducing listeners to cognitive restructuring techniques that can help them reframe their negative thinking into a more positive and realistic outlook. Whether it's overcoming pessimism, catastrophizing, or black-and-white thinking, Kaela provides actionable insights and exercises for changing thought patterns to promote emotional healing and resilience. Join her as she explores how small shifts in perspective can lead to a more fulfilling, balanced life.


Episode #82 - Negative Thoughts: How to Rethink Your Perspective

In today’s episode, Kaela Vance shares her excitement as she prepares to attend the Seeking Whole Health Conference. As a holistic mental health counselor, Kaela is eager to learn more about a variety of topics, from food sensitivities and hormones, to herbalism and gut health. She reflects on how these new insights will help her not only in her personal life but also in supporting her clients and family. Tune in to hear Kaela’s journey of lifelong learning and how conferences like this one provide invaluable knowledge for holistic health practices.

Episode #83 - A Holistic Journey: The Seeking Whole Health Conference

In this episode, Kaela shares her key takeaways from the Seeking Whole Health, Christian Holistic Health Conference, where she gained a wealth of knowledge on holistic healing practices, including the importance of nourishing both the body and mind. From learning about the impact of our modern food systems to exploring the intersection of faith and wellness, Kaela discusses how these insights can improve not just our health, but our overall well-being. Whether it’s detoxing your body, addressing hormonal imbalances, or understanding the connection between farming and food quality, this episode offers a unique perspective on holistic healing that you won’t want to miss.

Episode #84 - Holistic Wellness: My Experience at the Conference

In this heartfelt episode of the Cultivate Calmness Podcast, Kaela shares her personal journey of navigating Mother's Day after the loss of her mother at a young age. Reflecting on how her relationship with Mother's Day has evolved over the years, Kaela opens up about her experience of growing up without a mother, finding comfort in non-traditional mother figures, and learning to heal from grief. She explores the complexity of celebrating motherhood while honoring the memory of her own mother, and how she now navigates motherhood with her own children. Whether you're celebrating, grieving, or somewhere in between, this episode offers valuable insights on healing, gratitude, and the importance of honoring the women who shape our lives.

Episode #85 - Mother's Day: Non-Traditional Motherhood

In this episode of the Cultivate Calmness podcast, Kaela Vance discusses the power of analogies in explaining and processing trauma. Kaela shares several effective analogies, such as the car accident, smoke detectors, and backpacks full of rocks, to help listeners understand the complexities of trauma and healing. Through these analogies, she demonstrates how simple comparisons can facilitate emotional understanding and healing for both clients and therapists. If you're looking for fresh ways to grasp and explain your own experiences or to better communicate with others about trauma, this episode offers insightful tools and practical advice.

Episode #86 - Analogies: Explaining Trauma in Relatable Ways

In this episode of The Cultivate Calmness Podcast, we dive into the topic of boundaries—why they are essential for our mental health, how they protect us, and how to set them in a way that fosters healthier relationships. Whether it's managing difficult family dynamics, handling emotional triggers, or learning how to say no, setting boundaries allows us to define what’s acceptable in our lives. This episode explores common misconceptions, practical examples, and the importance of following through with your limits to create the space for growth, peace, and self-respect. Tune in for insightful tips on strengthening your personal boundaries and cultivating emotional well-being.

Episode #87 - Boundaries: Learning to Say No Without Guilt

In this episode of the Cultivate Calmness Podcast, Kaela is joined by Jonathan Miller from Miller Counseling to discuss social anxiety, a disorder that often slips under the radar in therapy. Jonathan, with his 25 years of experience, sheds light on what social anxiety is, its subtle but powerful impact on daily life, and the role of exposure therapy in overcoming it. Together, they explore how social anxiety manifests, how it can sneak up on individuals, and the importance of addressing it with compassion and practical strategies. Jonathan also shares his personal experiences with social anxiety, offering insight into how it can affect self-esteem and social interactions. Tune in to learn how we can help clients face their fears, build confidence, and create lasting change.

Episode #88 - Social Anxiety: A Deep Dive with Jonathan Miller

In this heartfelt episode of the Cultivate Calmness Podcast, we take a deep dive into Father’s Day—a time to celebrate the fathers and father figures in our lives, but also a moment to acknowledge the grief that may accompany this special day. Whether you're grieving the loss of a father, experiencing a challenging relationship, or simply reflecting on the role fathers play in our lives, this episode offers insights and compassionate guidance for navigating the complexities of the day. From offering practical ways to show appreciation to fathers to suggestions for honoring those who are no longer with us, this episode emphasizes the importance of recognizing fathers in their many forms. Tune in for heartfelt reflections, support for grieving individuals, and tips for making Father’s Day meaningful in whatever way feels right for you.

Episode #89 - Father’s Day: A Special Father's Day Message

Welcome to the "Cultivate Calmness" channel, presented by Kaela Rae Vance LPCCS. Kaela is one of Central Ohio's few Holistic Clinical Counselors who specializes in advanced counseling techniques, real world strategies, & guidance around complex grief and trauma issues.