After a brief hiatus, your favorite cousins Freshalina and Xtian Emiliano are here to check in and update your on their lives and share commentary of all things important them; mostly Miss Wanda from Love and Marriage Huntsville.

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They really tried to kill your favorite, famous bitch. Hi cousins, look who is back just time for the holiday season. We dissect the assassination attempt on the hottest female rapper, Saucy Santana, the latest updates in The State of Baby Mommas vs Future, and much more. 

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Hard To Kill

“Many drops of water does a mighty river make”. On this week’s episode of #TheFriendZone, we’re joined once again by the one and only, Tiffany “The Budgetnista” Aliche, to answer all of your financial questions and concerns. Visit JoinLRA.com for Tiffany’s discounted “Live Rich Academy” rate for our Friend Zone listeners.

Black Business of the Week:
Just Latasha’s “Inner Actions” - Black Sketch Comedy Series http://www.seedandspark.com/fund/inner-actions

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On Today’s Menu on Marsha’s Plate
We talk to about dating community predators, Lovecraft Country, and families failing their trans love ones that have passed away

Tea With Queen and J’s “Who do you love” Episode
https://soundcloud.com/tea-with-queen-and-j/262-who-do-you-love

QueerWOC: the Podcast Women of Color Queers Episode
https://soundcloud.com/queerwoc/ep91

Charlene Carruthers Book that talks about Malcolm London allegations in Chicago
https://amzn.to/32fEwqn

Support Black Trans Women 
https://Blacktranswomen.org/donate 



 
#marshasplate #girlslikeus #boyslikeus #transgender #podcast #podsincolor #podernfamily #transisbeautiful #houston #lgbt

 #transmen #transwomen #blackfeminism  #trans101 #trans #blacktranswomen #blacktransmen #houstonpride #indiepodcast #blacktranslivesmatter 

#lgbtqia #lgbtq #genderidentity #pride #blackgirlmagic #blackboyjoy  #podcast🎧 #podcaster #queer #transpodcasts 


Accountability is an ongoing process and allyship has to be renewed every day through actions and support
We run off of donations to keep this programming accessible so monetary donations are so helpful BUT 
Ways to support that don’t cost money is to share comment and subscribe 
#marshasplate #girlslikeus #boyslikeus #transgender #podcast #blacktranslivesmatter #podsincolor #podernfamily #transpodcast

Trans 101 from Havard
http://sitn.hms.harvard.edu/flash/2016/gender-lines-science-transgender-identity/

PODCAST PLATFORMS
iTunes
https://itunes.apple.com/us/podcast/marshas-plate-black-trans-podcast/id1293033444
TuneIn
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Stitcher
https://www.stitcher.com/podcast/diamondstylzgmailcom/marshas-plate
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#151 Swiping Right On Predators

Angela Rye sits down with Queen Afua to discuss holistic wellness. During this conversation, Angela opens up about her experience with the 21 Day Detox and the impact it has had on her life. Queen Afua also shares the importance of living a healthy lifestyle and reveals ways people can boost their immune system during the coronavirus pandemic.

Queen Afua Discusses Coronavirus, Grief, & 21 Day Detox

Queen & J. are two womanist race nerds talking liberation, politics, and pop-culture over tea. Drink up!


On this episode…white people call each other out and it don’t have sh*t to do with us, you love to see it! Also the impact of messaging in audio vs visual media, colorism as a global phenomenon, working while Black AND FREE! (can you do both?) And checking your straight privilege while dating. 

This week’s hotlist - Go to the doctor yo. Saturday Night Live isn’t our Jam, but Bill Burr made us laugh. White women’s accountability for their role in white supremacy. Y’all watching Real Housewives of Potomac? Revisiting Brown Skin Girl and Beyoncé’s video vs audio representation. Workplace advice in a free Black context (that’s what we be doing). Rethinking ‘I May Destroy You’, nuances and privilege in dating, is it deceitful not to disclose sexuality if you’re trying to avoid bigotry? aaaand mad other ish...
 

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EPISODE TIMESTAMPS 
Libations 3:27
Donation libations 15:57
Affirmations 20:13
SNL Bill Burr 22:00
Brown Skin Girl Revisited 48:04
Black and free at work 1:06:46
Sexuality, disclosure & privilege 1:15:15

Tweet us while you listen! #teawithqj @teawithqj and add #podin on twitter to help others discover Tea with Queen and J. podcast!



WEBSITE
www.TeaWithQueenAndJ.com


SOCIAL MEDIA
Twitter: twitter.com/teawithqj
Instagram: Instagram.com/teawithqj
Facebook: www.facebook.com/TeawithQueenandJ
Tumblr: teawithqueenandj.tumblr.com
EMAIL & SPONSOR INQUIRIES
teawithqueenandj@gmail.com


DONATE
www.paypal.me/teawithqj OR www.patreon.com/teawithqj

Where to Donate Your Money and Time to Help Protestors: https://nyulocal.com/where-to-donate-your-money-and-time-to-help-protesters-ef2727d7a9d2


Queen’s Amazon wishlist: https://www.amazon.com/hz/wishlist/ls/CXV9ZDWZ3PP9?ref_=wl_share

J.’s Amazon wishlist: https://www.amazon.com/hz/wishlist/ls/1NP09USMPJ0TB?ref=cm_sw_em_r_wl_ip_VEVWdvdDDemm


Send us snail mail:
Tea with Queen and J.
P.O. Box 1617
229 East 85th Street
New York, NY 10028

 
NOTES AND EXTRA TEA
Bill Burr SNL Clip https://twitter.com/etanthomas36/status/1315264855331528706?s=21
EP. 215 “Brown Skin Girl” - conversation starts at 34:04 - 58:00 https://soundcloud.com/tea-with-queen-and-j/215-brown-skin-girl

EP. 256 “You About to Lose Yo Job” https://soundcloud.com/tea-with-queen-and-j/256-you-about-to-lose-yo-job

EP. 265 “I May Destroy You” https://soundcloud.com/tea-with-queen-and-j/265-i-may-destroy-you
 
 
This week’s hashtag: #BlackLivesMatter
 
This week’s closing clip features Monica Roberts from her interview with Diamond Stylz of Marsha’s Plate podcast. May Monica Roberts rest peacefully. https://www.instagram.com/tv/CGIGsfLg_i5/?igshid=1gidlmbqflt5p  

This episode was created, hosted and produced by Naima Lewis Muhammad & Janicia Francis

Libations to our friend’s Domingo, Tokunbo, and D. Sindayiganza who help keep this show running by paying and supporting Black women.

Music

Opening song by Ohene Cornelius

Other music by Chad Milner

Tree Tenants by Revolution Void
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#267 Blood Money

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Money shares some alliterative strategies to prevent compassion fatigue, gives some suggestions of pods you might like if you love Nikeeta’s word, celebrates Ghanaian filmmaker Selasie Djameh as QueerWOC of the week and shares about her new favorite toy =P

Intro by TRUTH of Mother Nature. If you love the intro, listen to their new album Portalz here:
https://open.spotify.com/album/0KWoevXqscd4eMWNZpodAE?si=l67fMsjnQUOKuZ89QtCZzA

Where to find us:
IG & Twitter - @queerwocpod 
FB - https://www.facebook.com/QueerWOCpod/
Tumblr - www.QueerWOC.com
Listen to us on Soundcloud, Stitcher, Castbox, PocketCasts

Contribute to QueerWOC via CashApp: $QueerWOCPod
Become a Patron: https://www.patreon.com/queerwocpod
Love us out loud by doing The R’s: Rate, Review, Request, Repost, Retweet, and Reply!
Use the hashtag #QueerWOC to talk all things the podcast
Send us an email or submit your Curved Chronicles: QueerWOCpod@gmail.com

QueerWOC of the Week 00:05:15
Selasie Djameh
selasiedjameh.com/about-me/
Ghanaian film director and cinematographer
Creator of “Baby Girl” - a short film The film tells the story of Jessica, a 19-year-old student who suffers an emotional breakdown following the discovery that she is intersex; but when she meets free-spirited Sally and Charles, she releases that she can be herself and still find acceptance.
Intersex awareness day October 26
https://interactadvocates.org/intersex-awareness-day-for-allies/?fbclid=IwAR3JYFfV06Eci5KyaNx-dRr3VVWms9fVo8NXDgDsXuK_QZP47vHH3K6bheg4


Community Contributors 00:12:40
New patrons: Jordany & Brittany
Cash App: Sami & Dominique
Review from Marimar 
Borders are fake shoutouts - Secaucus, NJ / Mcdonough, GA / Greenbelt, MD /  
Alexandra for always emailing us and for putting me on to the 5 sentence or less email & VanityCurvz & Charismatic_P for always holding us down on IG

Mental Moment with Money 00:18:11
C’s for Compassion. 
C - Check your capacity to respond
C - Clarify the request
C - Consider all elements of your wellness and where you will be giving from (7 dimensions of wellness Mental Moment from ep 58 https://soundcloud.com/queerwoc/wellandwack ) 
C - Create your own post-helping recovery

Word 00:36:36
Here are some pods you might like if you love Nikeeta’s Word
Red Nation https://soundcloud.com/therednationpod
The Dig https://www.thedigradio.com/
Delete Your Account https://deleteyouraccount.libsyn.com/

Topic 00:41:20
Money answers the Tumblr Cake Questions

Curved Chronicle 00:55:08
https://www.etsy.com/shop/WanderingBardToys?ref=simple-shop-header-name&listing_id=756273243
Link for Wandering Bard Toys. Tell them QueerWOC sent you :D

Ep 95: Compassion Fatigue & Cake Questions

*NOTE* Nikeeta’s computer is raggedy so unfortunately there’s a popping sound in her audio. Please forgive her! I tried to fix it but alas...

Nikeeta is solo on this episode...well, kinda. She gives an update about a campaign in upstate NY to provide justice for a Black trans woman, Chanel Hines who’s one of the QueerWOC’s of the week. The other queerwoc of the week is none other than Juju (@itsjujubae) from A Little Juju podcast. Money has a FANTASTIC interview/conversation with Juju that you absolutely do not want to miss! Nikeeta rounds out the show taking a turn at the Tumblr cake questions. It’s no surprise that her answers and Money’s answers are wildly different.


Intro by TRUTH of Mother Nature. If you love the intro, listen to their new album Portalz here:
https://open.spotify.com/album/0KWoevXqscd4eMWNZpodAE?si=l67fMsjnQUOKuZ89QtCZzA

Where to find us:
IG & Twitter - @queerwocpod 
FB - https://www.facebook.com/QueerWOCpod/
Tumblr - www.QueerWOC.com
Listen to us on Soundcloud, Stitcher, Castbox, PocketCasts


Contribute to QueerWOC via CashApp: $QueerWOCPod
Become a Patron: https://www.patreon.com/queerwocpod
Love us out loud by doing The R’s: Rate, Review, Request, Repost, Retweet, and Reply!
Use the hashtag #QueerWOC to talk all things the podcast
Send us an email or submit your Curved Chronicles: QueerWOCpod@gmail.com


QueerWOC of the Week 00:11:26
Support Chanel Hines a Black trans woman who’s fighting for her life here in upstate New York.
https://www.gofundme.com/f/legal-help-for-chanel-hines
draiser is organized by the Geneva Women's Assembly in conjunction with Chanel's family.

Juju
Juju’s website: https://www.itsjujubae.com/
Social Media accounts: Twitter and Instagram @itsjujubae & @alittlejujupodcast


Community Contributors 00:27:04
New patrons: Veornique, Kandace upped their pledge
Cash App: M. Martinez, Dan
Borders are fake shoutouts - Wautoma, WI / San Antonio, TX / Federal Way, WA / Hanoi Vietnam/ Port au Prince, Haiti
Aviva!

Mental Moment with Money 00:31:01
No Mental Moment w/ Money this week but check out last episode’s moment on ‘Compassion Fatigue’

Word 00:31:45
No word this week but Nikeeta has a question for listeners about a topic she wants to do for next episode.

Topic 00:34:20
Money’s Interview with Juju!

Nov. 19 7pm - 9pm Hoodoo 101 Registration link https://www.eventbrite.com/e/hoodoo-101-w-juju-bae-tickets-124687376299

Support Juju on Patreon
https://www.patreon.com/jujubae

Juju’s Booklist that Money mentions: https://www.itsjujubae.com/book-list

Topic II 01:43:49
It’s Nikeeta’s turn to take a stab at the Tumblr Cake questions. How on earth does she manage to work Luther Vandross into these damn questions?

Ep. 96 Ain't Gone Move Without Spirit ft. @itsjujubae

On Today’s Menu on Marsha’s Plate
We talk to Janicia Francis about hookup culture, colorism, and being demisexual. 

J. Social Media 
https://www.instagram.com/janiciaf/
https://twitter.com/janiciaf
http://www.teawithqueenandj.com/


Support Black Trans Women 
https://Blacktranswomen.org/donate 

We have merch as well if you wanna support Marsha’s Plate
https://teespring.com/stores/marshasplate

https://linktr.ee/MarshasPlate


 
#marshasplate #girlslikeus #boyslikeus #transgender #podcast #podsincolor #podernfamily #transisbeautiful #houston #lgbt

 #transmen #transwomen #blackfeminism  #trans101 #trans #blacktranswomen #blacktransmen #houstonpride #indiepodcast #blacktranslivesmatter 

#lgbtqia #lgbtq #genderidentity #pride #blackgirlmagic #blackboyjoy  #podcast🎧 #podcaster #queer #transpodcasts 


Accountability is an ongoing process and allyship has to be renewed every day through actions and support
We run off of donations to keep this programming accessible so monetary donations are so helpful BUT 
Ways to support that don’t cost money is to share comment and subscribe 
#marshasplate #girlslikeus #boyslikeus #transgender #podcast #blacktranslivesmatter #podsincolor #podernfamily #transpodcast


Trans 101 from Havard
http://sitn.hms.harvard.edu/flash/2016/gender-lines-science-transgender-identity/

PODCAST PLATFORMS
iTunes
https://itunes.apple.com/us/podcast/marshas-plate-black-trans-podcast/id1293033444
TuneIn
http://tun.in/piRlF
Stitcher
https://www.stitcher.com/podcast/diamondstylzgmailcom/marshas-plate
Soundcloud
https://soundcloud.com/danella-xuc
Spotify
https://open.spotify.com/show/4Iv5ymzrIouiCGHsOBNB47

DONATE HERE
https://www.patreon.com/MarshasPlate
https://cash.me/$DiamondStylz
https://www.paypal.me/DiamondStylz
https://donorbox.org/btwi_2020-executive-director-fund
OTHER SOCIAL MEDIA i
https://www.youtube.com/c/DiamondStylz
https://www.facebook.com/MarshasPlate/
https://www.Instagram.com/MarshasPlate/
https://www.twitter.com/MarshasPlate/
https://linktr.ee/MarshasPlate 
https://Blacktranswomen.org/donate

#161 Hooking the Ups feat J. (@janiciaf)

Have you asked Draya Michele any tough Twitter questions yet? This week, Kid Fury and Crissle are reading deadbeat parents and destroying the fuckboys. Also, which Real Housewife is pregnant again and what's up Kanye's butt?

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The Read: Say No To F**k Boys

Description: Have you had a taste of Paula Deen's racism lately? Come get a bite along with lots of shade for Kaidence Donda West and Chad Johnson. Plus, Crissle reads where it hurts...for Fury. 

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