You Can Sit Back or Be in Control

STOP: If you haven't watched "Overcoming Adversities & Getting on Track", please watch that episode first. This is Part 2 of our show with Sean.

Sean Jarvis is a retired sergeant major with the U.S. Army who served as a cavalry scout on multiple deployments and has had several assignments across his 26-year career, including the operations sergeant major for 1st Security Forces Assistant Brigade (1st SFAB). 

Sean talks about a night that leads to a driving while intoxicated (DWI) and the set back it took on his career and mental state. Losing a good friend and mentor in combat took an additional toll on him. He knew he needed to get himself straight and he shares how he overcame these initial challenges by taking the tough love former leaders gave him and using it to get back on track. He then goes into the time when he realized, through those who cared about him, that he can either stay stuck in a rut, or do something about it by taking control of his life and his success. 

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00:00 Intro
00:01 Backstory
00:17 Turning it around
00:50 Picked up for Sergeants Major Academy
00:58 SFAB (Security Force Assistance Brigade)

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EP-340 | Sean Jarvis | You Can Sit Back or Be in Control

Rich Ingram is a living testament to the power of resilience and perseverance. After losing his arm in an ambush while serving in Iraq in 2005, Rich became the first amputee to earn an officer’s commission, later deploying three more times as a combat engineer. Drawing on his military experience, Rich has since held leadership roles in a Fortune 500 company and has appeared on CBS News, FOX, and the Associated Press, sharing his journey of overcoming adversity.

Rich is also an accomplished endurance athlete, completing the grueling Leadville Trail 100 ultramarathon and competing in elite ultramarathon and mountain bike events across the U.S. His personal story of grit and determination inspires audiences to embrace challenges, overcome fear, and build the resilience necessary to bounce back from life’s toughest moments.

Whether you’re a veteran or someone searching for inspiration, Rich's story is a testament to the power of endurance, purpose, and the human spirit.

Rich's website: https://www.richingram.com

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EP-382 | From Combat to Purpose: Rich Ingram's Journey of Resilience

Join us on an incredible journey as we delve into the life of a U.S. Army special forces military veteran turned wildlife conservationist. Our guest shares his experiences from being a British-born soldier, serving in the U.S. Army, and participating in significant historical events like the invasion of Iraq, to retiring and becoming a professional wildlife ranger in Africa.

Explore the fascinating world of wildlife conservation, the challenges of protecting rhinos from poaching, and the thrill of living among Africa's big five. Discover how his military training and passion for nature blend in combating illegal wildlife trade.

You'll also hear about his adventures in Germany, Thailand, and back to South Africa, as well as insights into his work with wilderness mental health and therapy for veterans, including psychedelic therapy. This episode provides a captivating mix of military stories, wildlife encounters, and personal growth.

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EP-383 | Kevan Pip: From American Special Forces to African Safari Specialist

Join us as we dive into an insightful conversation with Mike Albaugh, the former Regimental Sergeant Major of the 75th Ranger Regiment. Having followed his distinguished career, we explore Mike's experiences and leadership lessons that resonate beyond the military context. From discussing his time serving with Colonel Matt Leclair to navigating the dynamics of the Ranger Regiment, Mike shares invaluable wisdom on leadership, perseverance, and the importance of never giving up.

Whether you're part of the military community, aspiring to join, or an enthusiast of leadership topics, this episode offers something for everyone. Discover the realities and challenges of military life, the nuances of transitioning to civilian life, and the strategies for successful leadership within and outside the army.
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EP-384: Mike Albaugh - An Extraordinary Special Operations Career

This episode dives into the recently released Secretary of Defense report addressing the need for new standards in identifying combat arms occupations within the military. The discussion highlights the challenges of distinguishing combat roles and establishing physical requirements, drawing comparisons to previous efforts in realigning combat support roles. Featuring insights from veterans and active-duty personnel, the episode examines the evolving demands of modern warfare, the importance of physical readiness, and the practicality of a unified standard across branches.

Join us as we explore the perspectives of military leaders and service members navigating these changes and discuss the implications of the new guidelines for both combat and non-combat roles. Whether tackling the complexities of physical fitness tests or envisioning the future fighting force, this conversation opens up a broader dialogue on the ongoing transformation of military standards and expectations.

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EP-385 | Secretary of Defense Directive: A New Physical Standard for the Military

Guest: William “Red” Redheffer, Former Army Ranger, National Guard Elite Special Operations Detachment, Philadelphia SWAT Officer

Summary:
In this gripping episode, hosts Robert Gowin and Sean Jarvis sit down with William “Red” Redheffer, a decorated former Army Ranger now serving in the National Guard’s elite special operations detachment and is a SWAT officer in the Philadelphia area. “Red” shares his extraordinary life story, including two near-death experiences that left him clinically dead—once during a head-on vehicle accident and again when a railroad stake impaled his head. With raw honesty, he recounts the surreal moments of "crossing over" and the profound insights that reshaped his worldview.

“Red” delves into his philosophy of resilience, forged through years of combat and high-pressure law enforcement work. He introduces his unique mantra: "Every day, kill your clone." This powerful metaphor urges listeners to shed yesterday’s limitations, habits, and fears to embrace each day as a fresh opportunity for growth and purpose. He explains how this mindset has guided him through trauma, loss, and the relentless demands of his dual roles in the military and police force.

The episode also explores “Red’s” current mission to mentor young soldiers and officers, emphasizing mental toughness, adaptability, and the importance of living with intention. His advice is both practical and philosophical, offering listeners a roadmap to confront their own challenges with courage.

Key Moments:

Red’s vivid recounting of his first "death" from a head-on collision, including a moment of peace he can’t explain.
The chaotic SWAT raid where he helped a veteran struggling with PTSD and a heartfelt message to veterans and first responders struggling with PTSD.
A freak accident where a railroad spike impaled his head that led to his second brush with death and its lasting impact on him and his family.
Practical tips for "killing your clone," including daily rituals to reset and refocus.
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EP-386 | Twice Dead, Always Rising, William "Red" Redheffer: "Kill Your Clone"

In this episode, we dive into the pervasive impact of social media, phone apps, and digital devices on our daily lives, exploring how they consume hours that could be spent on more meaningful activities.

We discuss recent studies showing that the average person spends over 4 hours daily on their phone, with social media platforms like X, TikTok, and Instagram designed to keep users engaged through addictive algorithms. The hosts share personal anecdotes about missing out on family dinners or quality time with friends due to mindless scrolling. Experts have shared how notification overload and app-driven dopamine loops hijack our attention, reducing productivity and straining relationships. The episode also offers practical tips for setting boundaries, such as app time limits, digital detoxes, and prioritizing face-to-face interactions. Ultimately, the episode challenges listeners to reflect on their digital habits and reclaim time for what truly matters—connection, creativity, and personal growth.

Key Topics:

1. The addictive design of social media and apps

2. Impact on productivity and mental health

3. Strategies for balancing tech use with family and friend time

4. The value of intentional, offline moments

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EP-387 | Scrolling Away Our Lives: Reclaiming Time from Digital Distraction

In this episode, we sit down with Major Meg Tucker, a U.S. Army veteran who served for 15 years across several sectors of the military. Starting her career as a Kiowa helicopter pilot, Meg later transitioned into psychological operations (PSYOP), where she spent the majority of her time embedded in special operations units. Known for her exceptional physical fitness—scoring the equivalent of a 270 on the men's PT test—Meg brings firsthand insight into the evolving standards of military readiness.

We dive deep into the Army’s newly announced sex-neutral physical fitness test for special operations and combat arms, exploring its implications for the future of combat and the inclusion of women in these demanding roles. Meg Tucker shares candid thoughts on gender integration in the military, the challenges women face in elite units, and how her organization, The Valkyrie Project, is empowering the next generation of warrior women through mentorship, training, and advocacy.

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EP-388 | The Warrior Within: Major Meg Tucker and The Valkyrie Project

Join us on this captivating episode as we delve into the remarkable journey of Austin Berner. From his enduring aspiration to serve in the military since age five, through his unexpected path into the world of combat documentation, Austin's narrative is a unique blend of ambition, service, and creativity.

Listen in as Austin recounts his time documenting military operations in Afghanistan, the camaraderie with fellow soldiers, and the crucial role of combat cameramen in capturing history. Discover his candid insights into the filming battlefield dynamics and his contributions to missions ranging from humanitarian efforts in Central America to commemorative jumps on historic World War II sites.

Also, take a leap with Austin as he transitions from military service to soaring the skies with Delta Airlines, sharing stories from both the battlefield and the cabin. This episode is a tribute to resilience, dedication, and the enduring spirit of service across different arenas.

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EP-390 | Austin Berner: Through the Lens of Combat

This episode dives into the origins and impact of the Security Force Assistance Brigade (SFAB). We unravel the fascinating journey of SFAB from its controversial inception, battling perceptions of trying to imitate Special Forces, to becoming a respected advisory unit within the military.

Our conversation touches upon the early challenges SFAB faced, including initial resistance from conventional military units and the importance of its unique mission in contemporary warfare. We also explore the significance of SFAB as a career opportunity for soldiers seeking to redefine their roles and attain new skills within the Army.

Join us as we share anecdotes, uncover insights into the SFAB's place within the broader military landscape, and reflect on its evolving legacy and relevance today.

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EP-391 | Origins and Impact of the Security Force Assistance Brigade (SFAB)

Join us as we dive into the world of military movies, exploring how films like "The Green Berets," "Officer and a Gentleman," and "Top Gun" have shaped perceptions of the military experience. We discuss the realism in movies such as "Saving Private Ryan" and "Zero Dark Thirty," and how they impact those both inside and outside the armed forces. Whether it's the stringent realism or the fictional portrayals, these films continue to influence and inspire individuals considering military service, resonating with veterans and civilians alike.

In this episode, we riff on our favorite military films, analyze their authenticity, and share personal stories of how movies guided us into our military paths. From nostalgic favorites to the latest blockbusters, see which films stand up to scrutiny and which ones miss the mark. Hear our take on why accurate military representation in cinema matters, both for the armed forces' image and potential recruits. Tune in for a reflective discussion that blends humor and insight on the intersection of Hollywood and the military.

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EP-389 | Military Movies: From The Green Berets to Top Gun - Influences & Realism

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EP-340 | Sean Jarvis | You Can Sit Back or Be in Control

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