On this episode… Single and “childless” (there’s gotta be a better term for that) - Why you shouldn’t (or should?) ask people about their parenting status. Then we get litigious about Black hair, and we finally talk about Dave Chappelle

Queen & J. are two womanist race nerds dismantling white supremacist patriarchal capitalism one episode at a time. Drink up!

This week’s hot list: talking reckless to Vivica A. Fox, sh!t people ask women with no kids, Medical drawings and white supremacy (for real), spa etiquette, wtf is a legacy exactly, can a triggering question be a good question, Jeffery Thorton and the CROWN act (them lawsuits hit different), a wellness check on Dave Chappelle and mad other ish 


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Affirmations: 19:32
The politics of being grown and “childless”: 20:28
Moment in Black Hair: 53:54
Dave Chappelle, the not so great Bokeem Woodbine: 1:07:58:00


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Listen to Marsha’s Plate episode #207 Selective Offenses And Selective Bans https://soundcloud.com/danella-xuc/207-selective-offenses-and-selective-bans


Moment In Black Hair: https://www.cnn.com/2021/12/04/us/black-job-applicant-hair-discrimination-lawsuit/index.html 

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Dave Chappelle just out here: https://www.vulture.com/2021/11/dave-chappelle-teen-critics-alma-mater-q-and-a.html 

This week’s closing clip features recent ancestor bell hooks https://twitter.com/donovanxramsey/status/1471185375334830080?s=21 

This episode was created, hosted, and produced by Naima Lewis Muhammad & Janicia Francis with editorial support from Candice Jones, social media & production support from Channél Jordan, and graphic design by Jo Caraballo

Libations to our friend’s Domingo, Tokunbo, and D. Sindayiganza who help keep this show running by paying and supporting Black women.

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This episode is dropping on Valentine's Day, so we’re gonna talk about love. Although I haven't finished the book "All About Love" by bell hooks yet, I had to share how this book is already changing and reinforcing many of my ideas about love. I share the three things that stood out the most for me this far. This is not a video about romantic love, it is a critique of how we have been taught love, and how breaking out of White Supremacist, patriarchal, capitalist ideas will make us all better people. </p?

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 Self Acceptance Is Where It’s A: 20:10 


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#20 All About Love

This week for our season finale we bring you an episode with Queen, from Tea with Queen and J and Ms. Vixen Magazine! We discuss radical self-care, community care, dismantling capitalism, and how we make fighting oppression sustainable! 

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Queen & J. are two womanist race nerds talking liberation, politics, and pop-culture over tea. Drink up!

On this episode…Fuck is happening in Iran and what does it have to do with Black Americans? If you’re not in Black love can you critique Black love, and when’s the last time a white person touched your hair. We know they’re not supposed to, but what do you do when they do it anyway, like in real life

This week’s hotlist - The Yt House is wilding, Kevin Hart docuseries on Netflix, leveraging Black feminism against Black women in the name of twitter, how we want to react to microaggressions vs how we actually react, negotiating dating and womanist politics, when not to center Black American oppression, who owns homophobia, shadow war, Black muslim erasure by other Black peole and mad other sh*t. 
 
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Listen to Ms.Vixen podcast “New Year, Who This”: https://soundcloud.com/user-570908584/75-new-year-who-this-122919-752-pmoutput
U.S. Strike in Iraq Kills Qassim Suleimani, Commander of Iranian Forces: https://www.nytimes.com/2020/01/02/world/middleeast/qassem-soleimani-iraq-iran-attack.html

This week’s closing clip features comedian Katt Williams talking about the way the US media dehumanizes victims of US military imperialism:  https://twitter.com/so_treu/status/1213133626092802048?s=21



This episode was created, hosted and produced by Naima & Janicia with editorial support from Sam Riddell

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#235 A Whole White Husband

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#20 All About Love

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