This mix began in the place in between. It is an ode to the value in being comfortable with uncertainty, dedicated to empowerment through letting go. To me, surrender to what is is something to celebrate, and acceptance is necessary for change, growth and connection. 

Every single moment I have the honor of turning myself into somebody new. It’s a choice and I choose it. It’s beautiful. 

So this fifth Love Letter to how we decorate time dances in that beauty; it’s flirty and twinkly and confident and revels from root to crown, just like me. 

Honoring that Sacred thread between us, I’m playing the music I love. 

Here’s some of the music I love…

Real Life Man (Original Mix) - Loukeman
Space Clash (Original Mix) - DJ Sneak, Tripmastaz, Rare Two Inc. 
Altiplano (Original Mix) - Jona
STR8 UP (Original Mix) - K-Lone, Wilfy D
Free Mind (Original Mix) - MARINA TRENCH
Corundrum (Original Mix) - Knopha
Games (Original Mix) - Gustavo Reinert
The Only One - LE BOOM (feat AMY MC)
You & I (Original Mix) - Christian Nielsen
Im Spinnin A Record (Extended Mix) - Lemonade Baby
Sail the Seven Seas  - 박혜진 Park Hye Jin
1000 Times - Dejector, Kilig

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softerPLEASE 05

Head Mixtrexx of Not That Serious. 

I play the music I like. Maybe you’ll like it too. 
It’s all therapy to someone, somewhere.

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UPCOMING 

07.13.25 // MESH x Not That Serious // The Sultan Room // Brooklyn, NY
08.16.25 // Not That Serious // Vagabond // Washington, DC
08.23.25 // NTS @ Flash Bar // Flash // Washinton, DC
08.25.25 // Kee and Tee TV, Marion The Jeep // Washington, DC
09.05.25 - 09.07.25 // Nomadic Rabbit Holes // Lake Como, PA

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DATES

06.28.25 // Pride or Die // Rubulad // Brooklyn, NY
06.14.25 // Not That Serious - Bar Takeover // FLASH // Washington, DC
05.31.25 // KK pres. Black & Light Ball // To Be Announced // Brooklyn, NY
05.10.25 // Not That Serious // Vagabond // Washington, DC
04.18.25 // Not That Serious - NY Launch // Jupiter Disco // Brooklyn, NY
03.28.25 - 03.30.25 // Nomadic Rabbit Hole (b2b Rommy) // Philadelphia, PA
03.08.25 // Not That Serious - DC Launch // Vagabond // Washington, DC
03.05.25 // Le Mont Royale (all vinyl) // Washington, DC
03.02.25 // Loft30 (b2b Rommy) // Brooklyn, NY
12.15.24 // Le Mont Royale (all vinyl b2b Rommy) // Washington, DC
11.09.24 // PUSH Durham // The Fruit // NC
11.02.24 // Le Mont Royale (all vinyl b2b Rommy) // Washington, DC
10.26.24 // Jimmy Valentine's Lonely Hearts Club // Washington, DC
06.29.24 // Pride and Gone to Heaven // Dead Letter no. 9 // Brooklyn, NY
06.01.24 // Farmer's Market // Jimmy Valentine's Lonely Hearts Club // Washington, DC
04.27.24 // Kostume Kult pres. Horned Ball // Brooklyn, NY
04.13.24 // PUSH Durham // The Fruit // NC
11.11.23 // PUSH Durham // The Fruit // NC
10.28.23 // Jimmy Valentine's Lonely Hearts Club // Washington, DC
10.27.23 // Hallowed // Hit Me Up! // NYC
09.23.23 // Hit Me Up: Tempo // Hit Me Up! // NYC
06.03.23 // Renegade Soundsystem // Eris // Brooklyn, NY

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As 1/2 whiteowljaguar:

07.21.17 Los Angeles, CA - Los Globos
05.26.17 - Los Angeles, CA - Exchange
05.07.17 Los Angeles, CA - Airliner
04.29.17 Silverado, CA - Boogaloo Festival
04.28.17 Brooklyn, NY - Talon&Claw Residents Launch
04.20.17 Los Angeles, CA - The Lash
02.19.17 Los Angeles, CA - The Lash
02.11.17 Brooklyn, NY - Bushwick AV
02.10.17 Brooklyn, NY - LUST
08.19.16 Brooklyn, NY - Mixmag Lab
07.28.16 Brooklyn, NY - Output's The Panther Room
04.29.16 Negril, Jamaica
04.15.16 Brooklyn, NY - House of Yes
04.08.16 Brooklyn, NY - Output's The Panther Room
03.26.16 New York, NY - Talon&Claw
03.22.16 Brooklyn, NY - TBA Brooklyn
01.30.16 New York, NY - Talon&Claw
01.22.16 Los Angeles, CA - Proper Channels
01.15.16 New York, NY - 303 w Oshana
11.07.15 New York, NY - Talon&Claw
10.22.15 New York, NY - Takeover @ 303
10.15.15 Washington, DC - U Street Music Hall
09.20.15 Austin, TX - Bas_Mrkt
08.31.15 Black Rock City, NV
08.22.15 Saint Louis, MO
08.16.15 Talon&Claw: X Marks the Lot
07.11.15 Talon&Claw
06.19.15 Playdate + Talon&Claw
06.11.15 Verboten
04.18.15 Down the Rabbit Hole
04.16.15 Verboten: Hannah Wants 
04.04.15 Kostume Kult @ Slake
04.03.15 Talon&Claw at Botanic Lab
03.07.15 Icarus & Thundergumbo fundraiser
02.21.15 Disorient Bioluminescence
02.01.15 Verboten
01.01.15 Verboten NY: Damian Lazarus | Hector | Marc Faenger | whiteowljaguar
12.13.14 Philadelphia Edition 01
12.07.14 Thank You 4 Being You
12.04.14 Santos Party House
11.29.14 Wonderland
11.22.14 Sixty LES
11.15.14 Verboten NY: Talon&Claw Brunch
11.14.14 Cirque De Plaisir
11.01.14 Sex On Fifth Avenue 
10.24.14 Verboten NY: Dusky | Tom Trago | whiteowljaguar