What About the Men? Mansplaining Masculinity by Dave Pickering was performed in November 2015 at the Dogstar in Brixton.

Unbound have approached me about adapting it into a book and if you preorder/pledge your support you can help make the book happen: https://unbound.com/books/mansplaining-masculinity/

In 2015, I made a show about being a man called What About the Men? Mansplaining Masculinity. As research for the show, I surveyed 1000 anonymous men. In 2016, I wrote and performed an extension of the show called Liberating Men for BBC Radio 4's Four Thought. That episode was the Radio Times Pick of the Day.

For more on the show go here: http://www.mansplainingmasculinity.co.uk

I am on twitter here: http://twitter.com/goosefat101

Content Note: mental health issues, sexual assault, rape, violence, suicide

SUT Presents - What About The Men? Mansplaining Masculinity

In GBA 288 we get better acquainted with Peta Lily We talk about making performance from our personal lives, dark clowns and red nose clowns, creating solo shows, gender, identity, movement, memory, memoir, mime, physical theatre, bodies and lots more.

Content note: bereavement, breast cancer

She plugs:

Her workshops: http://www.petalily.com/
Her shows: https://www.facebook.com/Peta-Lily-Shows-301578776530474/
Look out for a development read through of Topless in May

We mention:

Devoted and Disgruntled: https://www.devotedanddisgruntled.com/
Camden Peoples Theatre: https://www.cptheatre.co.uk/
D & D: 
Making Work That Helps Liberate Men From Patriarchy/Masculinity WITHOUT Dominating Feminist Spaces https://www.devotedanddisgruntled.com/events/dd-gap/reports/making-work-that-helps-liberate-men-from-patriarch/
Wikipedia on Peta: https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Peta_Lily
bell hooks: https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Bell_hooks
Open Space Technology: https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Open_Space_Technology
#ManSurvey: http://www.mansplainingmasculinity.co.uk/
Mansplaining Masculinity: https://soundcloud.com/standuptragedy/sut-presents-what-about-the-men-mansplaining-maculinity
Sharon Burrell: http://www.to-the-moon.net/who-we-are.html
La Boite Repertory Theatre Brisbane: https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/La_Boite_Theatre_Company
Desmond Jones: http://www.desmondjones.co.uk/
Marcel Marceau: https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Marcel_Marceau
Edinburgh Fringe: https://www.edfringe.com/
London Mime Festival: http://mimelondon.com/
Gaulier: https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Philippe_Gaulier
Phelim McDermott: https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Phelim_McDermott
Complicite: https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Complicite
Total Theatre Magazine: http://totaltheatre.org.uk/
Release Technique: https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Release_technique
Lecoq: https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Jacques_Lecoq
Dark Clown: http://www.petalily.com/clown-dark-clown-theatre-practice-blog
The Pip SimmonsTheatre Group: https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Pip_Simmons_Theatre_Group
Stand Up Tragedy: http://www.standuptragedy.co.uk/
Théâtre du Mouvement: http://theatredumouvement.fr/en/
Etienne Decroux: https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/%C3%89tienne_Decroux
Claire Heggin: http://theatredumouvement.fr/?rub=1&docId=213161
Chakra: https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Chakra
Richard III: https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Richard_III_(play)
Martha Graham: https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Martha_Graham
Tales From Vienna Woods: https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Tales_from_the_Vienna_Woods
Arnold Mindell - The Flirts: https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Arnold_Mindell
Debrah Winger: https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Debra_Winger
Terms of Endearment: https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Terms_of_Endearment
Betty Blue: https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Betty_Blue
Ann Bancroft: https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Anne_Bancroft
The Graduate: https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/The_Graduate
84 Charing Cross Road: https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/84_Charing_Cross_Road_(film)
Hamlet: https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Hamlet
Mullholland Drive: https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Mulholland_Drive_(film)
Black Swan: https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Black_Swan_(film)
Vaudeville: https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Vaudeville
Gertrude: https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Gertrude_(Hamlet)
Anaïs Nin: https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Ana%C3%AFs_Nin
Girls: https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Girls_(TV_series)
Lena Dunham: https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Lena_Dunham
Eminem: https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Eminem
8 Mile: https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/8_Mile_(film)
Jean Jeunet: https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Jean_Genet
Hiroshima Mon Amour: https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Hiroshima_mon_amour
UCL: http://www.ucl.ac.uk/
Liberating Men: http://www.bbc.co.uk/programmes/b07x5vsh

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Getting Better Acquainted 

GBA 288 - Peta Lily

This is the first episode of a new strand of GBA called GBA Replayed which showcases some of the conversations recorded in the early years of Getting Better Acquainted.

As mentioned in the intro, Sam did came back on for follow up conversation a couple of years later: https://soundcloud.com/gettingbetteracquainted/gba-128-sam-2
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In GBA 18 we get better acquainted with Sam.  She talks about having a premature baby, being a young mum, nearly marrying a man she met on holiday in the Dominican Republic when she was 16 and other stories of innocence and experience. 

It's a brave and frank discussion full of hope and warmth as well as sadness and her young baby provides a soundtrack and commentary for this intimate and moving conversation.

Sam plugs: Nothing.

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Getting Better Acquainted Replayed

GBA Replayed - GBA 18 - Sam

In GBA 290 we get better acquainted with Hamja Ahsan. He talks about his forthcoming book Shy Radicals, the zine festival DIY Cultures that he curates for, the successful campaign to free his brother Talha Ahsan, society as a teen movie, being bullied at school, mental health issues, male suicide, the history of state crimes, imprisonment, extradition and internment and so much more.

Content note: Mental Health Issues, Depression, Anxiety, Bipolar, Suicide, Mania, Bullying, Incarceration

Hamja plugs:

DIY Cultures - 14th May:
https://www.richmix.org.uk/events/exhibitions/diy-cultures-2017
https://www.facebook.com/events/259081314527166/
http://diycultures.tumblr.com/

DIY Knowledge - 3rd May - 2ndJune:
https://www.richmix.org.uk/events/exhibitions/diy-cultures-exhibition-diy-knowledge

Shy Radicals - published by bookworks and out any time now!
https://www.facebook.com/ShyRadicals/
http://shyradicals.tumblr.com/

I plug:

The Family Tree: http://thefamilytreepodcast.co.uk/

Voting for GBA or The Family Tree for the British Podcast Awards Listener's Choice Award: https://www.britishpodcastawards.com/vote/

We mention:

Talha Ahsan: https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Syed_Talha_Ahsan
Hamja Ahsan: https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Hamja_Ahsan
Liberty Award: https://www.liberty-human-rights.org.uk/news/press-releases/liberty-honours-human-rights-heroes-annual-awards-ceremony
Hillsborough Justice Campaign: http://www.contrast.org/hillsborough/
Sheila Coleman: https://www.theguardian.com/commentisfree/2012/sep/16/kevin-sampson-hillsborough
Guildford Four: https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Guildford_Four_and_Maguire_Seven
Birmingham Six: https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Birmingham_Six
Through The Wind and the Rain: http://www.contrast.org/hillsborough/issue17.shtm
Red All Over the Land: http://redallovertheland.com/
Riot Grrrl: https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Riot_grrrl
Hamja on Hillsborough Voices - Media Diversified: https://mediadiversified.org/2016/12/08/political-book-of-the-year-hillsborough-voices-the-real-story-told-by-the-people-themselves/
Black Panthers: https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Black_Panther_Party
Suffragettes: https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Suffragette
Tolpuddle Martyrs: https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Tolpuddle_Martyrs
ANC: https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/African_National_Congress
Malcolm X: https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Malcolm_X
George: https://soundcloud.com/gettingbetteracquainted/gba-6-george
https://soundcloud.com/gettingbetteracquainted/gba-106-jack-and-george
Orbital: https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Orbital_(band)
Kurt Cobain: https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Kurt_Cobain
Elliot Smith: https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Elliott_Smith
Mark Fisher: https://www.theguardian.com/commentisfree/2017/jan/18/mark-fisher-k-punk-blogs-did-48-politics
What About the Men? Mansplaining Masculinity: https://soundcloud.com/standuptragedy/sut-presents-what-about-the-men-mansplaining-maculinity
Mean Girls: https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Mean_Girls
Clement Attlee: https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Clement_Attlee
Moazzam Begg: https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Moazzam_Begg
Cage: https://cage.ngo/
Gareth Pierce: https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Gareth_Peirce
In the name of the father: https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/In_the_Name_of_the_Father_(film)
Susan Cain - Quiet: https://www.theguardian.com/books/2012/mar/22/quiet-power-introverts-susan-cain-review
Joe Moran - shrinking violets: https://www.theguardian.com/books/2016/sep/01/shrinking-violets-field-guide-shyness-joe-moran-review
Nina Power: https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Nina_Power
Political Prisoner Radio: http://www.blacktalkradionetwork.com/politicalprisonerradio/
Law and Disorder Radio: http://lawanddisorder.org/
Heathers: https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Heathers

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Getting Better Acquainted

GBA 290 - Hamja Ahsan

"Sometimes you want to make the dictionary sexy but it's just not a sexy thing," says Kory Stamper, lexicographer for the Merriam-Webster dictionaries. Sorry if this is disillusioning news for you. The dictionary is not a sexy thing, but as Kory explains, it is a fascinating, complicated, exacting thing. 

There's more about this episode at http://theallusionist.org/authority.

Stay in touch at http://twitter.com/allusionistshow and http://facebook.com/allusionistshow.

The Allusionist is a proud member of Radiotopia.fm for PRX.org. Join us for Radiotopia's live tour of west coast cities this May - http://radiotopia.fm/live.

The Allusionist

Allusionist 54: The Authority

In GBA 294 we get better acquainted with Charmian. She talks about finding your feet at unexpected moments, talking to your past selves, wanting to be a centaur, school reports as first reviews, complicated families, how bullies bring out her inner vigilante and so much more. 

Charmian plugs: 

Soixante Mirth: http://charmianhughes.co.uk/
at the Brighton Fringe 7,8,14,15 May 8.20pm Blue Man: https://www.brightonfringe.org/box-office/shows/view/charmian-hughes-soixante-mirth
at the Buxton Fringe 20th, 21st July  10.30pm
at the Edinburgh Fringe 2.25pm Stand 4 - August

I plug:

The Family Tree: http://thefamilytreepodcast.co.uk/

We mention:

Antony and Cleopatra: https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Antony_and_Cleopatra
Banshee Labyrinth: https://www.thebansheelabyrinth.com/
Stand Up Tragedy: http://www.standuptragedy.co.uk/
Raj Rage: http://www.chortle.co.uk/shows/edinburgh_fringe_2014/c/23073/charmian_hughes%3A_raj_rage%21
Royal Festival Hall: https://www.southbankcentre.co.uk/venues/royal-festival-hall
Philippe Gaulier: https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Philippe_Gaulier
Enterprise Allowance Scheme: https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Enterprise_Allowance_Scheme
joungellours
John Gordillo: https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/John_Gordillo
Four Days in A Room: https://soundcloud.com/fourdaysinaroom
Shelter: http://www.shelter.org.uk/
ADHD: https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/ADHD
The Artists Way: https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/The_Artist%27s_Way
Jerry Cottle: https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Gerry_Cottle
Seasick Steve: https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Seasick_Steve
My Dad: https://soundcloud.com/gettingbetteracquainted/sets/the-dad-episodes
Lulu: http://www.lulu.com/
BFI: http://www.bfi.org.uk/
WB Yeats: https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/W._B._Yeats


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GBA 294 - Charmian Hughes

On #KilljoyFM, Ray Filar is joined by Victoria Sin, Juno Mac and Travis Alabanza to discuss femme as radical politics, femininities, and whether femme threatens feminism. 

http://novaramedia.com/?p=6254

Novara Audio: Radio for a Different Politics

KilljoyFM: F.E.M.M.E

In part 1 of this two part GBA special we join my 93 year old dad on a two day trip to some of the places where he grew up. My dad had wanted to take this trip for a while and me and my little sister (technically my half sister) managed to arrange to take him in February 2017. My 12 year old niece is the last member of the team on this roadtrip adventure. In this episode we travel from London to my dad's childhood home in Sea Mills which is now a suburb of Bristol. Day 1 of the journey takes us through time, space, memory, lost branches of the family tree, dementia and old age and the ways places and people change.

Next week in part two of episode 299 of Getting Better Acquainted we travel into Bristol to the Bristol Museum and other places my dad visited as a child.

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Getting Better Acquainted Special

GBA 299 - GBA Special: Visiting My Dad's Childhood: Day 1

To celebrate the 300th episode of GBA I'm putting out a season of 3 special episodes, which continues with today's conversation. In many ways this feels like a regular GBA episode and is a good example for new listeners of what the show is usually like. It's also a conversation with someone who it's taken 299 episodes to persuade to come on as a guest.

Part of the motivation for that is encourage people to donate to Refuaid which you can do here:
http://stories.co.uk/
https://mydonate.bt.com/fundraisers/sparkrefuaid

In GBA 300 we get better acquainted with Matt. We talk about forming a theatre company together as students, 16 years of friendship, the different collaborations we have had over the years, who is actually the hardest working person in UK podcasting, the different interests and experiences that have led to him becoming a major force in British podcasting and how experiencing and healing from a spinal injury caused by a carcrash has influenced his outlook on the world. This episode also features a cameo from previous guest (and Matt's wife) Louise and contains the moment I met their child for the first time!

He doesn't plug anything but you can find out about all the things he does via his website: https://rethinkaudio.wordpress.com/

I plug:

Donating to GBA: http://bit.ly/2szNgUN
The Family Tree: http://thefamilytreepodcast.co.uk/
Freelance Stuff: http://www.davepickeringstoryteller.co.uk
Mansplaining masculinit: http://www.mansplainingmasculinity.co.uk/

We mention:

Lancaster University: http://www.lancaster.ac.uk/
Jen: https://soundcloud.com/gettingbetteracquainted/sets/the-jen-episodes
Zoe: https://soundcloud.com/gettingbetteracquainted/sets/the-zoe-and-gay-episodes
Richard: https://soundcloud.com/gettingbetteracquainted/sets/the-richard-episodes
Pink Floyd: https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Pink_Floyd
Iraq War: https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Iraq_War
Agitprop: https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Agitprop
Proscenium Arch: https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Proscenium_arch
Ged: https://soundcloud.com/gettingbetteracquainted/gba-31-ged
Ringworm: https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Ringworm
Helen Zaltzman: https://soundcloud.com/gettingbetteracquainted/gba-live-9-helen-zaltzman
http://helenzaltzman.com/
Matt's true story at Spark London: http://stories.co.uk/podcasts/anatomy-of-a-road-traffic-accident-matt-hill-2/
Rethink Daily: http://archive.rethinkdaily.co.uk/
New York Times Daily: https://www.nytimes.com/podcasts/the-daily
Radio 4: http://www.bbc.co.uk/radio4
Kerrie: https://soundcloud.com/gettingbetteracquainted/gba-14-kerrie
Four Thought: Liberating Men: http://www.bbc.co.uk/programmes/b07x5vsh
Louise: https://soundcloud.com/gettingbetteracquainted/sets/the-louise-episodes-1/
South Park: https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/South_Park
Cbeebies: http://www.bbc.co.uk/cbeebies
Ministry of Stories: http://ministryofstories.org/
Private Eye Podcast: http://www.private-eye.co.uk/eyeplayer/podcast
BAFTA: http://guru.bafta.org/series/the-guru-podcast
Sachsgate: https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/The_Russell_Brand_Show_prank_telephone_calls_row
British Podcast Awards: https://www.britishpodcastawards.com/
Sony Radio Awards: https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Radio_Academy_Awards
Pete Price: http://ppmtelevision.com/
Crystal Maze: https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/The_Crystal_Maze
Knightmare: https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Knightmare
Micheal Fenton Stevens: https://soundcloud.com/gettingbetteracquainted/sets/the-michael-fenton-stevens
Hackney Hear: http://www.hackneyhear.com/
Soho Stories: https://www.theguardian.com/culture/2015/may/17/london-soho-stories-sex-drugs-rock-and-roll
Adam Curtis: https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Adam_Curtis
Spark London: http://stories.co.uk/

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GBA 300 Season

GBA 300 Matt

A night where people get up on stage and do some tragedy: part cabaret, part variety show. Come and let some great performers make you sad, make you think and make you smile. Sometimes they’ll be putting a new twist on what they do with brand new material tailored towards the theme. Expect music, comedy, true stories and more, all playing up to the tragic form but not taking it too seriously. The night will end, not with a whimper, not with a bang, but with a cathartic sing-a-long.

Brought to you by Sony Radio Award nominated writer, musician and performer Dave Pickering, this monthly show will be recorded and released as a free weekly podcast at www.standuptragedy.co.uk and through iTunes.

SUT Presents - What About The Men? Mansplaining Masculinity

StandUpTragedy