Me and the keys singing some songs I wrote

Piano Songs

perception in the absence of judgment with a view to obtaining spiritual guidance and understanding.
"without providing for a time of healing and discernment, there will be no hope of living through this present moment without a shattering of our common life"

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=jzDYPFNdI0Y

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=_i78nrpfmZY

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=JbwBA4GwWnE

Discernment

Songs of faith and doubt, miracles and the mundane, seeking and finding.

Spiritual

Hello? 
Is there anybody out there.
All of a sudden I am out where
I really don't belong.

Why?
Remind me why I thought that leaving
Would set me loose from what I'm feeling
Not make the feeling grow.

God?
If you're there I sure could use you.
I still remember how I'd choose you
Every time I didn't now.

How?
Could I feel you all around me?
I'd wander off until you found me.
I've wandered off again.

Breathe in.
Breathe out.
Take it in.
Let it out.
Just like you taught me to.

Breathe in.
Breathe out.
Take it in.
Let it all fall out.
'Till you find the way to you.

Now?
Have I used up all my findings?
The magic spells of my unwindings?
I'm all wound up again.

Hello?
Is there anybody out there?
All of a sudden I am out where.
I really don't belong.

Breathe in.
Breathe out.
Take it in.
Let it out.
Just like you taught me to.

Breathe in.
Breathe out.
Take it in.
Let it all fall out.
'Till you find the way to you.


Words and music by Stefan Lanfer (c) 2021

The Way to You

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A Survivor of the Psychic War

Minlab - A Survivor of the Psychic War

Lyrics:

When the shadows kiss the treetops
And the daylight's in retreat
And the rumbling all around says,
"It's your maker. Shall we meet?"
I think about the thoughts and prayers
You sent me here from home
As I'm swallowed by the darkness
Far away and all alone

I know you wonder what the difference
You worry what to say
You wish that you could take it
Carry me away
And all the others go on living
As if I'm not even here
If they look, they look right through me
They're too high above to care.

So I choose you
For choosing me
Not because you know the right way to be
Or what to say
Or what to do
You chose me
So I choose you.

When all I feel is tired
But can't even sleep
And the pounding in my head
Is all the time that I can keep
When I can barely breathe
And all I want to be is numb
That's the only invitation 
That you need
To know
To come

I know you wonder what the difference
You worry what to say
You wish that you could take it
Carry me away
And all the others go on living
As if I'm not even here
If they look, they look right through me
They're too high above to care.

So I choose you
For choosing me
Not because you know the right way to be
Or what to say
Or what to do
You chose me
So I choose you.

The Only Invitation

I asked ChatGPT how to describe  and caption this one and talked it to:
“Whatever They Say” is a song about the kind of friendship that shows up — not with advice or judgment, but with presence, with help, with love in motion.

Born from personal moments of risk and failure, this track pushes back against the cultural script of rugged self-reliance — the one that says, “just pull yourself up.” Instead, it asks: What if the most powerful way through isn’t alone, but together?

“It’s not what they say.
It’s the things that you do.
You reach out your hand.
You don’t look away.”

This is a tribute to those who don’t look away. Who show up quietly, consistently — when it matters most. A reminder that friendship isn’t proven in words, but in actions. Especially when everything else has fallen apart.

Lyrics: 

They always say it's better
To have loved and lost
Than never to have loved at all
That's what they say.

You miss every shot
You never take,
Never shake it off
If you're too scared to fake it,
(you'll never make it).

And if you get knocked down,
just get back up again.
Aren't you the only thing that can keep you down?

That's what they say,
That's what they say,
That's what they always say.

But it's not what they say.
It's the things that you do.
You reach out your hand.
You don't look away.
And the look in your eyes
Is all that you say,
Whatever they say.

I thought I saw my shot.
Didn't hesitate to take.
But you read me like a book.
My shot became your break.
And everyone I risked for
Had every right to be pissed
At me for giving up
The wrong kind of assist.

That knocked me down.
Well, just get up again!
Aren't you the only thing
that can keep you down?

That's what they say
That's what they say
That's what they always say.

But it's not what they say.
It's the things that you do.

You reach out your hand.
You don't look away.
And the look in your eyes
Is all that you say,
Whatever they say.

I thought I saw my shot.
Didn't hesitate to take.
My words all tumbled out
About the life that we could make.
And I know that you said words.
I'm sure that they were wise.
But all that I could hear
Was the pity in your eyes.

That knocked me down.
Well, just get up again!
Aren't you the only thing
that can keep you down?
That's what they say
That's what they say
That's what they always say.

But it's not what they say.
It's the things that you do.

You reach out your hand.
You don't look away.
And the look in your eyes
Is all that you say,

Whatever they say.
Whatever they say.
Whatever they say.
Whatever they say.
Whatever they say.
Whatever they say.

Wanna know the backstory? Find it at The StefStack here:

https://stefanlanfer.substack.com/p/the-story-of-a-risk-and-fail-song

Whatever They Say

For the people in our lives we know too well and love too much to ever cancel - no matter how much they might seem to be begging for it.
Lyrics:

Gramma Jean keeps getting banned from TikTok.
The youngsters lose their minds with all her ways
Of being so, like, "What? Was that offensive?"
"Well, it never was in all of my born days!"

But you can't make me doubt her.
I know too much about her.
You can't make me doubt her in my soul.
You can't make me doubt her.
I know too much about her.
She's the yin.I'm the yang.
We're the whole.

Uncle Eddie has some fine ideas.
Has his favorite sources (same as you).
And certain topics that - don't take this wrong:
You may be right, but he'll mop the floor with you.

But you can't make me doubt him.
I know too much about him.
You can't make me doubt him in my soul.
You can't make me doubt him.
I know too much about him.
He's the yin.I'm the yang.
We're the whole.

My cousins from the coast - they sure are funny.
It only takes a look to condescend.
Whether or not they mean to is debatable.(Usually they do, but it depends.)

But you can't make me doubt them.
I know too much about them.
You can't make me doubt them in my soul.
You can't make me doubt them.I know too much about them.
They're the yin.
I'm the yang.
We're the whole.
You can't make me doubt them.
I know too much about them.
They're the yin.
I'm the yang.
We're the whole.

And the backstory on the StefStack: https://bit.ly/youcantmakemedoubt

You Can't Make Me Doubt

Singer-songwriter, piano, inspired by - When the kids say, "I've found the one!" Just ask questions - three.

Lyrics:

VERSE

Can’t you picture it - one day
Our kids, when they say,
“I’ve found the one, and what I feel -” 
“All I know is this is real.”

VERSE
of course we’ll never know
Where the winds of life will blow.
So, when they come to you and me 
Let’s just ask them questions - three: 

CHORUS
What do they help you see?			
Who do they help you be?
What’s the more  -           
through that door ? (What’s the more?)

VERSE
When our folks, with all their fears
And the wisdom of their years
Still played the odds on you and me 
All they asked were questions - three: 

CHORUS
What do they help you see?			
Who do they help you be?
What’s the more  
through that door ? (What’s the more?)

BRIDGE
Far beyond the ways		
you’re as wonderful as you are,
It’s all the more.                 
than all we were before.

CHORUS
It’s what you help me see.			
It’s who you help me be.
It’s the more -           
through that door (all the more).

What's the More?

(thanks ChatGPT for this description) “A Reason to Sing” by Stefan Lanfer is a modern folk-Christmas ballad that reimagines the nativity from the perspective of the innkeeper’s wife. With acoustic warmth and poetic lyrics, it explores hospitality, humility, and the quiet moments that reveal true glory.

Lyrics:

When every room is full of a guest, my husband says, 
“Gloria!” Aren’t we so blessed?”
But, though we don’t lack for a thing, that isn’t a reason I sing:

Glo ri	a.	Glo 	ri	a.	Glo 			ria.	

I’ve never cared about the money. 
I’m happy family always stays for free
With the cousins and the friends that they bring
But that’s still not  a reason I sing:

Glo ri	a.	Glo 	ri	a.	Glo 			ria.	

“You think too much,” my husband says. 
I wish he would think some more
As he turns away that desperate pair, 
“There’s no room,” he says, and shuts the door.
But I catch them at the gate. And I show them to the place - 
not exactly fit for a king.
And the look in their eyes that says, 
“glory to God” That is a reason to sing:

Glo 	ri	a.	Glo 	ri	a.	Glo 			ria.	
Glo 	ri	a.	Glo 	ri	a.	Glo ria.

A reason to sing (the innkeeper's wife, feat. Maya Lanfer)

A soulful, piano-driven modern meditation on Isaiah 30:21—“Whether you turn to the right or to the left, you will hear a voice behind you saying, ‘This is the way; walk in it.’”
 
“The Way” draws on scripture and evokes Robert Frost to plumb a deeper truth: that at life’s forks in the road, the voice of God whispering in our ears is not only concerned with discernment—helping us know which path to choose. It’s a reminder of who we are and whose we are and how we live because of it. Life is full of choices that don’t come with clear answers, and sometimes any choice will really do. No matter which road you take (or even if you take a break right there), a voice told you to “Walk this way.”

LYRICS:

VERSE
When the roads diverged there in the wood, 
And I took the one less traveled by,
That made all the difference. 
Sometimes people ask me why
I went the way I went
And di’n't the way I di’n't. 
That question always takes me back 
To what the Good Book meant

VERSE
When it said that I can turn myself 
To the left or to the right 
And you will hear a voice behind me say
“This is the way” - all right.
I always used to think “the way”
Was all about the where -
That if I chose the wrong direction
I’d be SOL right there.

Pre-Chorus
But when the Good Lord said, 
“I am the way, the truth, the life”
Those aren’t Google Maps directions
(or a spell to spare you strife)

CHORUS
You can go left. Or you can go right
You can even take a break right there
The voice behind you always whispers
The same thing in your ear:

This is the way. This is the way. This is the way. You can walk this way.
This is the way. This is the way. You know you can walk this way.

Pre-Chorus 2
If the roads are really right or wrong, 
You can pray, “God, don’t let me stray!”
You might not know which way to turn
But you always know the way…that

CHORUS
You can go left. Or you can go right
You can even take a break right there
The voice behind you always whispers
The same thing in your ear:

This is the way. This is the way. This is the way. You can walk this way.
This is the way. This is the way. You know you can walk this way!

This is the way. This is the way. This is the way. You can walk this way.
This is the way. This is the way. You know you can walk this way!

The Way

“How Can This Be?” is an acoustic folk meditation drawn from one of the quieter corners of the Christmas story—when the angel Gabriel appears to Zechariah with news too wild to believe: he and his aging wife Elizabeth will have a son. And not just any son—John the Baptist.

This song imagines Zechariah’s stunned, very human reaction. Not rebellion. Not disbelief. Just… an honest question:

“How can this be?”

With intimate, personal lyrics, this track reflects on what it means to encounter something holy in the middle of an ordinary, well-settled life—and how grace still shows up even when we ask questions.

Inspired by Luke 1:5–25, 57–66, this is a story-song for skeptics, seekers, and the ones who don’t get it all right—but still get to be part of the miracle.

Lyrics:

VERSE:

Life can be so strange
It seems by now that I would learn
To expect the unexpected
To see around the turn

VERSE:

But when I get settled in
When I get in my groove
It seems like nothing in the world
No nothing can make me move

PRE-CHORUS:

Until it does
Until I do
Until I can’t
Keep coasting through

CHORUS:

How can this be?
Have you had a look at me?
I want to believe.
But how can this be?

VERSE:

Sometimes that is a question
On the tip of every tongue
It’s not just ‘cause I’m old
It was the same when I was young
And what also hasn’t changed
No matter what the task
If there’s something
Funny about it
You can count on me to ask
PRE-CHORUS:

That’s just it.
That’s the way I do.
I just can’t
Coasting through

CHORUS:

How can this be?
Have you had a look at me?
I want to believe.
But how can this be?

BRIDGE:

I’d say so if I could
I”ll just write the same
It’s not the choice I woulda gone with
But John’s his name.

PRE-CHORUS:

That’s just it.
It’s my choice!
And just like that
You can hear my voice.

CHORUS:

How can this be?
Have you had a look at me?
I want to believe.
But how can this be?

How can this be? (Zechariah)

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Lyrics:
If I can speak in the tongues of men
Or like an angel sing
If there's no love in what I say,
It doesn't mean a thing.
It's only noise, a lot of noise, it's only noise, it's not the way.

If I know what the future holds
How every mystery unfolds
And how to move the mountains in my way.
If there's no love in all I know, it doesn't matter where I go.
I'm just a fool, I'm such a fool,  I am a fool, who's lost their way.

If I give all I have away
Even lay down my own life today
And people of importance say a word.
If there's no love in all I give, it doesn't matter how long I live,
There's nothing I gain.
It's just a show, good people know, it's all a show, a stupid game.

Love is patient
Love is kind
Love won't leave anyone behind
Love is always glad to know that you are well.
Love walks humbly and with grace.
Love never gets up in your face.
Keeps no record of the things that you got wrong.
Love always trusts, 
always hopes,
always protects,
Love perseveres.
When all the hope seems lost, then love appears.

Love is patient
Love is kind
Love won't leave anyone behind
Love is always glad to know that you are well.
Love walks humbly and with grace.
Love never gets up in your face.
Keeps no record of the things that you get wrong.
Love always trusts, 
always hopes,
always protects,
Love never fails.
Darkness may endure a night, but love prevails.

Words and music by Stefan Lanfer (c) 2021

Lyrics adapted from 1 Corinthians 13:1-8

Love Is

Stefan Lanfer writes piano-centered indie folk songs with the soul of a storyteller and the heart of a seeker. These are raw, unpolished recordings—work tapes that capture the emotion and depth of songs still becoming. With a vibe somewhere between Ben Folds and Cat Stevens, his music blends lyrical introspection, spiritual resonance, and quiet power. For fans who want to feel something and collaborators looking for raw material ready for their magic.